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About Carcaohtar
I'm a true sub into pup play. Always have been for as long as I can remember. Yes, I am OWNED. I cannot make this any more clear. If you message me asking if I'm owned, I will assume you are illiterate, which is the only valid explanation for not reading my profile.
I have an AWESOME DOM who I have been with for TWO YEARS and no, I am not interested in serving you or being trained, collared, or owned by you. I highly doubt I would want to be a sub to someone whose first words to me were "r u taken?"
Just because I'm a sub does NOT mean I'm a slut. I respect true Doms, but I will not service anyone who is not a Master to me. When I decide someone is a Master, it's a lifelong commitment, meaning that regardless of whether or not we part ways, I remain loyal and obedient. Because of the weight of this commitment, I do not declare Masters easily, and I'm not keen at the moment at having any more Masters. I'm young, but I take this commitment extremely seriously. If sex is the only thing on your mind, you might as well stop reading here.
I don't know why I'm here or what I'm looking for yet. If you're interested in chatting, getting to know me, or shooting the breeze, I'd love to talk. Maybe you can help me find what I'm looking for. (Note how I said "chatting," not "cybering" or "camming" or "listening to your inane, grammatically cringe-worthy fantasies about me." Please don't bother messaging me if that's all you've got on your mind.)
SLRN # 514-557-752
(And yes, that's a hedgehog in my profile picture.)
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Having a lousy time of it on my end!? Currently in the midst of a family feud with my (conservative Irish Catholic) parents, who absolutely hate my Dom with the fiery passion of a thousand burning suns.
I'd like to disown them, but doing so would be losing all financial aid from them, which I'm currently in desperate need of.
Not sure what to do, as my Dom's waffling a lot on the subject.? I'll probably end up saying to hell with it and walking out on my family to be with my Dom, even if, in the long run, this is a questionably wise decision.
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Today a guy sent me a message that simply said "Hello miss would you mind spanking me until i cant sit down"
I wrote back: "Hello mister i would love to but i dont have any arms"
Most would recognize the sarcasm here, but instead, he replied with, "huh you dont"
"no," I informed him. "im typing this with my face. i photoshopped arms into my profile pic. its really hard to photoshop with no arms."
Happily, he got the joke and told me I was cracking him up.? I thought about being fake mad ("dont laugh at my disability!") but instead decided to let it go.
I love this site. It's rich with lulz.
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I should probably let everyone know right now that, although I have yahoo, I do not have a cam.? I'm too poor for that.? Why everyone assumes I have one is beyond me.
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Just a quick question:
Why do people introduce themselves on their profiles?? I know they're being polite and all, but I can read their username right there on their profile.? So why the unnecessary "My name is LadyeTorture" or "You may call me SuperSub8?"? Your name is NOT LadyeTorture, your name is Kate Blumberger.? Your user tag is LadyeTorture.? Sorry, Kate.
(Note: If there actually is a LadyeTorture, SuperSub8, or AndrogenousDestroyerOfSouls on this site, I apologize.? I just made these names up.)
Most of the people who introduce themselves have weird/cool names like
CyrusBlanchett or AndroneousDestroyerOfSouls, so I'm assuming their
weird fantasy name probably means something.? Therefore, I think a beter introduction would be "My name means X" or "I chose this name because..."
Just my random thought of the day.
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Today I got my first "angry" message. In entirity:
"Why would these guys message you when you are an obvious ball buster? Pathological assholes like you who make fun of the weak (minded) give this server a bad name."
Absolutely correct. Pathological assholes are people who respond negatively to rude, inappropriate material. However, sending lewd material to complete strangers (who have stated clearly on their profile that they are taken and do not want to receive such material) is not considered pathological.
Sounds like a case of Butthurt Dom Syndrome. Butthurt Dom Syndrome, or BDS, is a condition that arises when a sub acts in a way that implies they have some self-respect. Since all subs are expected to be retarded, with low-esteem and even lower standards, subs who stand up for themselves trigger severe cases of BDS. Doms who have contracted BDS should get lots of bedrest, and try messaging some weaker, more pathetic subs.
BDS is often confused with DUYOS (Doesn't Understand You're Owned Syndrome) and SAVS (Still a Virgin Syndrome). These conditions have much of the same symptoms (angry messages to strangers, feelings of embarrassment, lack of basic respect for others, etc.), but arises when the Dom annoys the sub, who clearly states they're owned and don't want to partake in the Dom's unrealistic fantasy world. Suggested treatment includes flame wars, and crying and masturbating with the tears.
Oh, and PS: if you're weak-minded, you are not a true Dom, and therefore I don't have to respect you.
Hilariously enough, I look at Angry Letter Sender's profile, and he's 62.? Dude.? You're telling me that at your age, you have nothing better to do that insult college kids who defend themselves against creepy weirdos online?? Time for a good life re-evaluation, methinks!
In closing, I would like to point out the irony in the fact that I just busted the Angry Letter Sender's balls.? :)
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I'm running very late this morning.? I need to go by the bank, walk the dog, pay the rent, and get some studying done before work.? Waiting for Master to get out of the shower.? I've been browsing profiles.? The vast majority are "seeking."? Out of about 70, I saw one with good grammar, written by an actual human being, that appealed to me.? The rest were:
"RL femom seeks 23-64 yr.ol tv 4 ltr or bbq so if u like wat u see & want all ur dreems come true massage mi kthxbai."
I've made a few friends on here, but I think it would be really cool to meet a friend in real life close by.? I met one guy in the area and he's so sweet.? We want to get a group together to just hang out.? This is probably going to be harder than I thought.? (That's what she said!)
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Finally, the rush is slowing down and I have time to reply to messages.
Yesterday some guy messaged me saying that my profile was interesting and he was sure I was getting a lot of boring mail.? (He was right.)
He then proceeded to type about a page or two of this goofy little scenario with me.? I'll keep it PG here, but suffice to say it included handcuffs, barstools, and a miniskirt.? (Yes, a miniskirt.? He's a creative one, huh?)? I think he was trying to turn me on, but he failed in the most epic sense of the word.?
I politely wrote him back, informing him that, as stated in my profile, I have two Doms and require no more, and while I appreciated the fact that he was able to get himself off, I would prefer if he didn'd do it in messages to me, as my inbox has limited space.? (Again, I'm keeping it PG here.? My real reply with fairly nasty.)
My Dom and I had a good laugh about it.? He didn't reply back.? Probably too busy playing with himself.? :)?
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So for some reason, Yahoo appears to be the big messenger system people use around here. I use AIM, and i hate opening new accounts, since I'm not really that great with computers and find all the redtape to be very dull. Fortunately, one of my buddies gave me one of his obsolete accounts! (I don't know of you have to pay for Yahoo accounts or not, but if so, it looks like he's paying for me. :D What a sweetheart.)
Now I can finally talk to everyone who messages me, which is great, because I'm so overwhelmed with messages I don't have the time to reply to all of them as well as I want to.
EDIT: My tag is NOT carcaohtar!? As I already mentioned, the account was previously owned by a friend, so I didn't actually chose the tag!? If you want to talk to me, send me a message.? I probably wouldn't want to talk to a complete stranger anyway, so an introduction would be nice.
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This site is certainly a hopping place! In only my first two hours, I received an average of one message per 16 seconds. It's slowed a bit now and I'm getting messages at a rate of about two per hour. Insanity!
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