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About Cagerofslaves
Polymorphously perverse. Queer not gay so open to all non-heteronormative activities.
Usually in Berlin, Germany.
I may pursue a leather uniform look but I am not bound by it. Leather, rubber, uniform, jocks, drag, skinheads... I like any evidence of sexual non-conformity. Too many men hide behind their 'costumes'. I use mine to signify some of the things I am into but I want to strip off, metaphorically if not literally ;) Rubber guys tend to be faster in terms of letting go. Rubber releases the mind more than leather I think - too much posing in the leather world. Yet it remains pretty central for me - go figure.
No time for casual thrill seekers - interested in guys who feel their sexual difference strongly where it is not fashion but a need.
More and more I am into dad/son with a kink element. I like to educate and pass on my kink knowledge! In a dad/son relationship I can dispense with all fetish gear. I like that anyway - no props, no costumes - just minds interacting.
I like slaves but... what a complex notion that is! I have had 'slaves' who have said, ''I will never wear that,' when confronted with a suspender belt or stockings. Slave???!!!
I have found that a useful test. So, do not come to me with a list of your 'slave' desires. I will teach wannabe slaves if they convince me they are genuine. I will develop genuine slaves. I simply have no time for 'slaves' with their own personal agenda. This is different from their needs. I am not someone who exists to realise your sexual fantasies. So ... take a look at yourself and think, 'How serious am I'. This is the question you must ask yourself. If you jerk off to the idea of being a slave but actually can't do it... sorry, been there; the 'slaves' who want to be let out of the cage in the middle of the night because they can't sleep; the 'slaves' who work their hands free to punch holes in a plastic bag during a breath control session...
I am into CONTROL in all its aspects.
Having said that, I am not a monster. I play safe - super safe - always. I avoid being the Master of porn videos. I have my own style which tends to be laid back, easy going; where my domination and your slavery is natural. I don't act. All I do comes from me, instinctively. No plans, no scenarios. I approach each slave differently. I 'read' that slave - and see what is appropriate both for me and for him. I always seek connection. In fact, this is what it is about; I see your reactions, I go with that; nothing pre-planned. Zombie slaves who lie there and take all my energy into themselves, for their own, unique satisfaction, are anathema to me.
I DO NOT need to be addressed as GOD! My ego is not that insecure...
Remember that I look for slaves, not subs; and slaves who make some effort to stay in shape.
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