I love that people come on these sites and talk about how HONESTY is important, they won't stand for the game players or bullsh**ters......  Word of advice.... JUST BE ABOUT IT.  Be honest and open this way you have no stories or unfamiliar details to remember.  Lies always come to the surface no matter how good you think you are at it.  Besides unless you are just here to play around and mess with someones emotions isn't it  just a big WASTE OF TIME?   Just a thought.............

You were here for a while.  Enticing me, getting me to say all the things you wanted to hear me say to you.  Talked about "when we do this" "when we do that"...  how its going to be and what is expected of each party.  Yet one day you just disappeared, not answering your phone, don't even sign online....... never return an email or a text message, as if you never existed to begin with........  Why do people do this kind of thing?  What thrill is in it for them?  It always fasinates me how the human mind and heart (perhaps lack thereof) work.  To be totally into something just to turn around and leave without a word or a simple good bye.  I just find it to be not very nice of someone to be like that........ you don't have to have a confrontation, a little note or voicemail will suffice.  "SIGHS..............."

Its hard not to lose faith in people, to keep having HOPE and move forward when there are those out there hellbent on holding you back or stopping you in your tracks when you are on the right path.  To those that do that to others I say " KARMA IS A BITCH"  Karma will do my bidding and although I may never know the outcome I can be sure that because I entered something with good intentions and a clean heart it will come to pass. 

There are times in our lives that we are open for all kinds of experiences, new adventures and new kinds of people.  We will open the door for those that say they want to enter, hoping that they come in with respect and good intentions.  Unfortunately not everyone sees the gift in openness.. the care free feeling of honesty........ Sure they will enter under false pretenses..... even convince you (if need be) of their good intentions.  But there is always one thing you must be aware of during these times....... ITS YOUR INTUTION.  If you follow that one simple thing that nags at your gut telling you this is Just Too Good........ or No Way Is This For Real........  chances are that your inner being is telling you something... Take a second, STOP and listen to yourself.  It is the best advice and your most powerful weapon against the evil doers in the world.... 

‎You don’t do Surrender, it happens when it’s ripe at it’s own speed. Entering into the world of Surrender is entering into a world where everything is okay." - Krishna Das, Nov 2011

If you say you are a teacher than isn't it important for you to visit the classroom?

I have searched and searched, even taken periods out of my life to stop in my quest of finding the "right" man to call my Dom... as my friend would tell me .... You will kiss a lot of frogs before your Prince comes along. Frogs, there were plenty. But I can't discount the learning lessons that I have gained from these experiences. Its never easy to have a clear picture of what you want, because although you may think you want a certain character trait in your Dom or when the heart is involved everything is negotiable. However, I have learned what I don't want in my life. For that I am thanking all the frogs that have come and gone. Because of them showing me what I will not or can not tolerate I will be enlightened enough to recognize HIM when he comes along. His beauty, physical and mental. A true gift...... :)