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*8/18: changed my mind - taking a break from looking*
Hi. I'm seeking a LTR with a Dom 28-45 who is within 1 hour of St. Pete, FL. Of course, I'd prefer closer but it takes forever to get anywhere from St. Pete, so I am being realistic here. lol
I'm not a stick figure but am healthy, attractive and lead an active life.
I'm new to this lifestyle but am serious about pursuing it. I have a need to give up control to a Dom (but it cannot interfere with my career - which is why there is no pic posted on this site: discretion is required).
I am trustworthy, loyal, caring, generous and fun and I, when I have one, put my partner first. I realize that just saying I am these things does not make it so. Therefore, if we end up talking I expect you'll find out for yourself that these are true statements.
As for BDSM activities ... I enjoy spanking, flogging, and bondage but am curious about many other activities and willing to explore more with the Dom I trust.
I'm seeking LTR and a Dom who is my best friend and does not judge me (punishment is, of course, expected if deserved). Because I seek LTR and not just a play partner, some of my 'vanilla' interests include country music & dancing, kayaking, hiking, bicycling, bowling, movies, reading, dining out, cooking and, of course, cuddling. I want to be able to do things together and have fun outside of sexual activities.
Please do not expect me to give up all or even the majority of control after one meeting. I'm a bit skittish and am too pragmatic to give up control over me to someone I barely know. I've found this lifestyle (for me) is a gradual process ... a building of trust and relationship. I also cannot promise never to question you or get sarcastic (although generally sarcasm only shows up once I'm relaxed).
I do not mind changing for you ... but I think the only way this will work is if you first like me for me.
One more thing ... I eventually want to have children as a natural outcome of the LTR. If this is not a goal of yours ... please don't waste your time.
To sum it up: I'm seeking a LTR with a Dom who is caring, controlling, moderately sadistic, discreet, trustworthy, and willing to allow this to progress at a reasonable pace.
I know ... this was a very long profile. But thanks for reading!
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