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	Please, read my ENTIRE PROFILE before sending me a message. Alright, time for an update. (4/16/12) I am NOT interested in being dominant to anyone. Period. I do not switch nor do I have any inclination to do so. I am a fairly shy person, but I have been interested in BDSM for a quite a few years. I have been looking up things, talking to others for some time, and I have also been to several munches and a few play parties. I have been in a several short term situations in real life, and I have watched some as well. I like to keep an open mind, and I may be willing to try a few things that seem like something I don't think I'd like. I am also a bigger girl, so, if you don't like that, then don't message me and act all surprised when you realize that I am. I am polyamorous (no, that does not mean that I am a swinger and have sex with random people) I am not looking to move a great distance either. I've opened up and been experiencing more things. I have found out more about what I like and don't. I am still very curious about pretty much everything which makes it a bit easier to jump into new things. I may kind of pull back, but I do want to have more experiences. Honesty is VERY important to me. I can't read minds nor do I pretend to. I need to know what you think and feel. I like gentleness and I like roughness in the right contexts. I am looking for a patient, kind, gentle, dominant person. I am a bit nervous entering into new things, and having someone patient with me is very important. I want to learn and want to find someone who is willing to show me. I am a willing and eager student in spite of my fears. I do also want to chat with other submissives and switches. Talking to both sides gives me a bigger array of ideas and thoughts. I wouldn't mind playing with other subs either, I play well with others. smiles I think I need to add a bit more to this. Yes, I am submissive, however, that does not mean Dominant persons have the right to be rude, belligerant, or boss me around after sending one message or speaking one time. Also, I am not looking to be a slave at this time. I am just getting comfortable in the submissive role and I am not looking to complete servitude to someone 24/7. Don't assume that because I talk to you ONCE that I am going to completely and totally submit to you no questions asked. I don't operate that way and I don't think anyone should. Trust is EXTREMELY important to me. When we talk, talk to me like an adult, not your doormat. I only submit when I know someone and I trust them.

1/1/2011 8:25:39 PM

Another year, and yet another year with no exploring at all. I haven't been to a munch all year either. Things have had this impeccable way of happening that made it close to impossible to make it. It's kind of sad how nothing has quite worked out.

I am also a bit tired of the arrogant so-called Doms who like to tell me that I am not a "true" sub because I won't fall all over myself to submit to words on a screen. Relationships take trust, and BDSM relationships take more. Take the time. I'm in no hurry and you shouldn't be either.

5/6/2010 12:48:18 PM

Okay, I'm going to say this again... I AM NOT A DOMINANT. I AM NOT A SWITCH. I AM A SUBMISSIVE. I DO NOT WANT TO JUST "GIVE IT A TRY" NOR DO I THINK I SHOULD JUST DO IT. IF YOU WANT A DOM/DOMME, GO FIND ONE. I HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE DOMINANT.

3/8/2008 9:52:35 PM

So, I've had this profile for sometime. Haven't had much success, but have talked to some interesting people. I would really love to talk more with people who have had experience. I want to talk with more Dominant men and women, I would really like to experience more as well.

9/27/2006 10:35:14 PM

I'm kind of tired of defending my body shape/weight. If you don't like big women, you know not to reply to me, hmm?

9/14/2006 5:22:20 PM

Well, apparently we will not be going to Washington this year. But that's okay. No hurry I suppose. *smiles*

5/25/2006 9:46:45 AM

well, i think the plan to move to Washington is pretty much on go. my girlfriend really wants to go to school and i support her fully. i'm not too worried because Washington isn't that far away from Montana and i think i'll still be able to see my family pretty often.

she was toying with the idea of going to the area of the FBI crime lab which is somewhere on the east side of the US. yikes!! i haven't been past Michigan.

so, i am ok with Washington. i've never been there but i am hoping that i will like it.