butterfly54

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Funny how some people are i.e. Messages from a so called Dom He says....show me how you grovel me.......why should i He says.....to please me me.......your profile does not interest me He says........Ok your loss Then before I can reply I am blocked. Now either he is a bully or a little boy who throws his toys out of the pram in which case not the type I would want to converse with. His profile was taken from a book and he more than likely does not think a sub reads books so he would get away with it

We have all heard it before............ my wife knows what I am doing or my husband has given me permission well if that is what you say to me I will want to meet your wife face to face and ask for her blessing ROFL

We have all been there even if you are Dom but I see that mostly it is the Doms that complain. You know the scene when you have been talking to someone for a while and then nothing, it is something that happens if we rely on this site but do we have the right to say they are fakes that is hard to say. It is something we should learn from and hope we do better next time and shrug it off as a learning curve.

The men on here are getting more pathetic than ever and there age seems to be getting older, man up to the fact if you are going to send a message that the reply may not be what you want or you are just plain rude and ignorant then block someone is worse than pathetic

People who are trying to get someone's attention should really put in a bit more effort than a 'hello' \it does not take much in a line but one word does not give me the impression that my time is worthy of a reply

Well that was a funny message then tried to reply and I have been blocked and not by a Dom some silly stoppy bitch who does not like what I say in a journal. I suppose you have to have all sorts on this site even if they don't comprehend the lifestyle. I also think that if you can only be negative or you have something stuck up your arse then I suggest you go and swivel on it.....................it may be your butt plug you lost

TRUST.................. This is not something you can demand of someone..........it is earned in both the sub and the Dom. Many make the mistake that because you exchange messages you automatically give it, no no no that is a mistake. Trust and respect are 2 different things. Also if you ask what I am into I will reply but don't ask me stupid question about what was the wildest thing you have done. That would be private between the person I was with and myself.

This is something I read on another site............................. A young new male sub came across a Domme he had met her once  and then the second time he got in her care for a short drive. She ordered him to strip naked and stand outside of her car, he was not sure why she asked him to do this as he was not an  exhibitionist but he did as she wanted and then took photos of him. He was upset as he found she had broke 2 of his limits in a short time. From the story he had told she had broken every limit in a short while. In my opinion she was far from being Domme she was a bully as in my view it is not only men who are bullies. He made many mistakes but when you are new there are not many who will take the time to find out how things should be and some even think they know everything, but that is how you get hurt. Be safe and dpnt be shy to ask questions that is the way it happens and if a Dom cannot wait then he is not worth having

The amount of people who think they can judge someone in the first message is not just disrespectful but has no place in this lifestyle. Unfortunately for some as I have been on this site before I may even know you so you have been warned. If I feel you are being a jerk I will respond in kind respect is no about being commanded but being earned, you may get away with that with some newbie and if so then crack on. You would get further in life if you approach people in a nicer manner

Don't you just laugh at some of the people on here. I see a Dom as being in control of himself in many ways yet you get the jumped up little jerks who lose control even while send a message. Well that is not a person I would trust with a teddy bear let alone a sub you know who you are so grow up and lick you own boots arsehole

Didn't realise how spiteful some Doms can be, I thought as grown ups we left all that in the school playground. If all you can do is to judge people then surely you are not a Dom just a spiteful bully which is not what is expected in this lifestyle

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