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	About ButtdrumminMan With life being so short, there is no time to settle for less than what you truly desire. That is why I am here. If you are an honest person, unafraid of living in your own skin, write me. The beauty of this website is that there is no risk in communicating with someone. You have complete control in deciding whether another person is worth meeting or not. Choice... My choice and desire is to meet real women, who have real desires, and are looking to make a real friend. Whether we click in a D/s capacity or not is not as important to me as developing a relationship that is based on honesty, laughter and passion for all of life's magic. D/s is only one part of life, not all of it. I am a drummer … a student of world percussion. Over time I have learned that everything has a rhythm unique to it. It is only by taking the time necessary to get to know someone's rhythm that the fruits of friendship and passion can be realized. I challenge any woman who wishes to know me to answer a simple question: "What are you willing to let go of in order to get what you want?" Do you have the heart and the spirit to find out for yourself?

BAGGAGE>>>
There's a theme that keeps popping up, when I'm reading other ladies profiles. It's not alway overt, but most often lies just under the surface. It's called baggage.

After a very intense conversation with my brother this morning on the baggage he carries and chooses to do nothing about, it once again has hit home to me that a true test of a person's character is how they handle their own baggage. We all have baggage and unfortunately some baggage is heavier than others. We can either allow that baggage to define who we are or we can use that baggage to help us redefine and shape ourselves into who we choose to be. Unfortunately, his choices are very limiting and he continues to wallow in his own muck. I choose a different way.

I get up every morning and choose to create. I choose to take an active role in the world around me. Some days I am better at it than others, but I don't let anything stop me from trying. It's the journey that counts and not where I might end up. I am an invested stakeholder in my future. I will not allow "shoulds" and "coulds" to define who I am. Rather, I am responsible for what I choose to do. The key word here is DO. The "shoulds" and "coulds" can keep their own company, for I have not place for them. If it is not about creating and actively participating in life, then I am not interested.

Time to go start my day. I've got drums to play and children to teach.

God---Yes or No?

Today I have some questions about God, being that from Fri through Sunday is suppose to be his time according to Islam, Judaism and Christianity.

When reading the Ten Commandments, it begins with:

"And God spoke all these words, saying: 'I am the LORD your God? "

and continues with...

ONE: 'You shall have no other gods before Me.'

TWO: 'You shall not make for yourself a carved image--any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.'

THREE: 'You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain.'

Now, I am confused, if these are actually the words of God, how does one square such words that could be interpreted as being jealous, arrogant, and envious? According to 1 Cornthians 13:

?"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

The line about not having carved images... what about the statues of saints and the crosses with Jesus, are they not carved images? Do people not pray to them as fervently as they do to God?

I think Mark Twain got it right, when he write "Letters from Earth". If you are not familiar with amazing work, I highly recommend it as a powerful testament to the possibilities of spirituality, without having to be dragged into organized religions that are not always loving and that often times appears jealous, arrogant and envious.

I believe is goodness and joy, love and respect, I believe that all people have a right to dignity, family and peace, without be forced to conform to other's belief systems. That does not mean that those who do believe in God are completely wrong, but that they are also not completely right.

Some rambling thoughts today...
In Zimbabwe yesterday, an independent agency stated that the opposition candidate actually won the election. So today, the ruling party had this agency's office raided and people arrested. The pictures show soldiers enforcing the raid. Do they not know that once Mugabe is dead, those who survive are going to remember who enforced the illegal raids and who made the false arrests?

Follow the money...

With gas prices skyrocketing, I wonder if we are going to see the big oil companies posting more huge profits for their management teams and claim that they are not doing anything wrong, nor that they hold no responsibility for escalating food costs or so-called food shortages.

Follow the money...

It is now costing approximately 700 million dollars a day to run the war. Who is getting all of that money? Surely not our soldiers, who are doing all of the fighting and dying.

Follow the money...

Good, ole' King George sits on his throne in Washington DC and now says that, yes the economy is not doing as well as he'd hoped. No more is he saying things are alright. Weeks ago he proclaimed that the rebate checks, that are suppose to going out from the IRS soon, will provide a needed boost to our economy. Today he is quoted as saying that he now hopes that the rebates will help, but that he is not sure that it will be enough to make that big of a difference. Now< I know he didn't say exactly that, but between the lines that is what he means.

Follow the money...

Are therse various people so blinded by money and power not to see that if things do not change for the better soon, change will be forced upon them by powers that they will have little control of stopping unless the world de-evolves into a police state. When that happens, those who have will rule and those who don't will suffer. It's happened time and again throughout history. Ultimately though, when that happens, a time will come when the people will rise up and take back what has been stolen from them and they will follow the money and punish those who took advantage of difficult times or who were actually responsible for opening chaos' door and allowing the weak to suffer just so that they can get fat and rich off of the efforts of others.

Follow the money...

Close your eyes...
Imagine our world without colonialism. Imagine what our world would have been like if no 1st World country ever tried to create a 3rd World country in their image. What would today look like.

The human race has accomplished much. But in doing so, we have also given up much, as well.

At what price? For everything has a price. It might not be measured in dollars, euros or yen,? but it still has a value.

Just a small thought to engage your imagination.

The holidays are upon us and there is no snow on the ground. I actually can't remember the last time there was snow on the ground when I was celebrating the holidays. Strange, the things we yearn for from our youth. Me, it's a white season's greetings, complete with that special feeling that I got from being in my grand parents home. The sights, sounds and aromas.

I know you can never go back, but I do miss the magic of those times. Now, I seek the magic of new times and create new memories, with new friends and family.

Best wishes to anyone reading this entry. My this holiday season be filled with love, health and laughter.

I Miss Your?

I miss your touch.

I miss your lips.

I miss your nibbles.

I miss your tits.

I miss your laugh.

I miss your eyes.

I miss your shoulders.

I miss your thighs.

I miss the time when we are we.

I miss your cummings.

I miss your please.

I miss the simple.

I miss the rhyme.

I miss your rhythm, when wrapped with mine.

I miss the knots that hold you safe.

I miss the way you say?my name.?

I miss the sleeping.

I miss dreams.

I miss the you, who's missing me.

Mantra in ?B?

The absence of touch does not negate my spirit from seeking your fragrance.

The pain I feel,
let's me know that I am alive.

Surreal answers to a host of questions,
opens a breath of choices limitless and sublime.

Be at peace in your skin.
Know that being alone can be a state of grace.

The knowing is not the doing,
while the doing is not the knowing.

Confusion is only compounded
when the same is still the same.

Yet, when I wake up next to you,
I surrender all doubts to the depths of your eyes.

Our rising respiration leads to a fluid explosion.
My soul wants more.

Scratching, biting, licking, sucking?
Breathing joy into the day.

No more weeping for whats or whens,
Clasping virtues of passion?s fauna.

Virile blood gorged erect,
Intoxicated beyond the myth of she.

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