"Cling to self, and you cling to sorrow, relinquish self, and you enter into peace.
To seek selfishly is not only to lose happiness but even that which we believe to be the souce of happiness.
Abiding in happiness will come to you when, ceasing to selfishly cling, you are willing to give up. When you are willing to lose, unreservedly, that impermanent thing which is so dear to you, and which, whether you cling to it or not, will one day be snatched away from you, then you will find that which seemed to you like a painful loss, turns out to be a supreme gain."
Please note that if you are truly exceptional and sincere, under very rare circumstances, I will introduce you to the lifestyle in a party type gathering.
This is a true exception. My intent is to find my next prized slut/submissive.
If you are interested in a negotiated relationship, then I am probably not the Man you seek. I treat My property with great care, and it is a relationship, albeit not the norm. But I expect you are not here and not reading because you are looking for the norm.
TPE, total power exchange is what I seek. And total means total. It means every aspect of your life. I am not a micro-manager, but you must have the mindset that I make all final decisions. This is not a role. It should be who you are at the very core of your being.
A slave must receive satisfaction and fulfillment from serving the Man she adores.
I have a full and busy life, and it is the role of My slaves to make that life easier. If you think you may have what it takes, please read My entire profile and then contact Me. Don't just look at the photos and then send me a one liner.
Submissive girls (with the heart of and desire to be a slave), and submissives may apply.
I do not chat, either here on collarme, or off site with another instant messenger service. Chat requests will be ignored, and improper letters of petition for consideration will also be ignored. I am not rude, and I often try to give a second chance. If you want My attention, pay attention to My wants.
Slave = Owned Property or Chattel. If you are interested in a negotiated or more equal relationship, then I am probably not the Man you seek. I treat My property with great care, and it is a relationship, albeit not the norm. But I expect you are not here and not reading because you are looking for the norm.
TPE, total power exchange is what I seek. And total means total. It means every aspect of your life. I am not a micro-manager, but you must have the mindset that I make all final decisions. This is not a role. It should be who you are at the very core of your being.
If you need marriage or exclusivity, please do not petition. Unless you understand a Polyamory lifestyle.
If you are married or in any other obligatory relationship, please do not petition.
If you live in a foreign country, please do not petition.
If you are unable to relocate to California, please do not petition.
If you require instant messaging chat, please do not petition.
If you refuse to send Me a G-rated photo, please do not petition.
If you are not in a position to meet Me face to face (even if this requires you to travel to Me) within a reasonably short period of time, please do not petition.
If you are looking for play only, I wish you well, and I am sure you will find it.
If you smell, cigarette smoke, please do not petition.
Local girls, if you are interested in meeting on a more relaxed level, please contact Me for information regarding the next time I will be meeting with lifestylers at a Dom oriented local munch. We only do this once a month or so, but if you are patient, you can meet Me in this manner also.
All slaves are expected to hold an outside vanilla job, with the exception of those who are self employed and can work from home, or those who are retired. Self-employed or retired is actually preferred. You should be able to hold a lively conversation, have good hygiene, be courteous, express yourself well, and be ready to adjust your life so that your primary focus is a relationship with your FemDom. You will not be cut off from family and friends, but this time will be monitored and negotiated. If you desire to be a slave, you must be prepared to follow that through. I am not unreasonable, but this is not a part time role. It is your life. And I will own it.
Although I dislike negativity, and this is not meant to project as negative. I am just trying to save everybody time. I do have a few guidelines regarding contact. This is to make it easier for a girl to make the proper approach. And it doesn't hurt that it helps to quickly weed out the less serious.
Step One: Letter of Introduction/Petition
Your letter of introduction is your first impression. Make it count. I do not browse profiles, and I will not be finding you. I will flip to your profile if I receive an email from you. It is much more impressive if there is something of reason written there. I see blank profiles all the time, with nothing but the vital stats and a checklist of interests. That is easy. If that is all you can be bothered to do, I will view that as laziness and have to assume that you will also be lazy and cut corners in a relationship with Me. If you cannot, for some reason, fill out a profile, then make sure you include a reason and additonal information in your letter of introduction. You should address your letter to Dear Master, or Dear Sir. I am not asking you for submission. I am asking for the respect you would (I hope) accord to any Man you hope to impress with your courtliness. I return the same to you. I do not consider a girl with a submissive personality who wishes to serve as slave to be less than. I feel you are worthy people with an awareness of what you need to fulfill yourself. Include in your letter of introduction a paragraph regarding what submission means to you, a paragraph regarding how you would view a day in the life of a 24/7 slave, and a paragraph regarding why you choose Me for an exploration of a possible relationship.
If you have been a live-in before, please let Me know why you are no longer living-in. If you have lived out and served a Man part-time, let Me know why you feel you are ready to make the transition to full-time live-in. If you are new to this lifestyle, then you must include an explanation of why you feel that you are aware, educated and assured with your decison to make this sort of change in your life. It is also helpful if you include information regarding your special skills, i.e. massage therapy, auto mechanic, plumber, electrician, cooking, cleaning, secretarial skills, etc. I hope you noticed that I have not referred to the "oral for hours" skills that so many feel will turn a Dom's head. I am not looking for a flowery dissertation. That will get thrown out just as quickly as "am ready to relocate and serve in any way you desire" letters. Be intelligent and clear.
No chatspeak please, and show a little pride by using a spell checker and some punctuation.
I am not here to be tried on for size. If you are local, or willing to become local, you may be considered for regular live-out service and training.
Step 2: Telephone conversation (you will call Me)
Step 3: Face to Face Meeting
I am strict, but I am also loving, caring, nurturing and fair. I do not consider Myself a sadist. I am a purist where this lifestyle is concerned, and I want the Power. You will though be dressed up pretty to what I demand.
