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Enigma Webster says it's a person. or thing that is mysterious, puzzling,or difficult to understand. I believe Webster to be wrong. I think that Enigma's are of the Female gender. Men adapt to their surroundings, or tend to as much as possible, so we really don't stand out. Enigma's are rarities. In my life I've only encountered two. I think in their own special way they each had love for me in their hearts. Each one of them exploded into my life here on this website. I like to think that it felt much like Slim Pickens riding the Nuke in Dr Strangelove.  At 1900 hours on the 26 Aug 2017 the Gates of Hell blew open as hinge's scattered around the room, and Shelley walked into my life. Millions of emotions slammed against my overwhelmed brain. I've ridden this train one other time in my life ,and I knew what lay ahead. An Enigma is a blue print of the perfect woman, you can love her,but you can't have her. She is an energy you can't touch, nor see, but it overwhelm's you. She has no worldly goods to worry about, nor does she want them. She doesn't subscribe to the typical  female theory of life. She is ruled by a logic that most men can't define. She creates movement, never letting her surroundings, nor the people in it stagnate. Sadness will not be tolerated in her presence. Other than the people she draws into her circle, sex is the most important part of her life. She never gravitates toward her sister's due to the emotional air that surrounds them, makes her ill. She will surprise you at every turn, bursting into the room giggling. "I just fucked five guys today.....Okay it was only four, I gave one a BlowJob." If not I,who is going to right the wrong's my sisters have created" she said, loudly growling one of her favorite lines, "Oh I have to get know you first" spitting on the ground, and grumbling, "what the hell are their partner's supposed to do while the prissy's make up their minds." As quickly as it started, she's giggling and rushing out the door looking for another injustice,  Beware all who think himself strong, No matter how close she draws you, she will never be corralled nor owned. She has a love that can't be equaled, nor humanly contained.   She is my enigma.

As a Marine Vietnam veteran I wanted to leave my story about my time in country for the Marine Corp Birthday, but I was a bit late finishing it. I walk among Hero's I stand in this field before me an older man with temples of grey white crosses as far as one can see they stand as if in formation   as the men who lie here, did on an earlier day  I walk among hero's, but I am not they  I was called by my country come join us lad, come and stand proud the Marine Corp needs you you'll stand out in a crowd I answered that calling on that fateful day I walk among hero's, but I am not they  I will teach you how to kill, the DI would scream I know it will be a thrill to shoot the enemy down and make his blood spill you'll learn the riflemans creed  one shot, one kill, is all you'll need I walk among hero's but I am not they I was taught to fly a grand instrument of death the time was so exciting it always took my breath working hard and learning my trade well little did I know I would soon fly in hell showers could never remove the smell I walk among hero's but I am not they Off to a distant land we sailed  with our colors flying so true a democracy we are here to build  a nation we must set free how many dead was it, you say I walk among hero's but I am not they I flew missions on dark and terrifying nights rolling in on an enemy from a position on high cannons would roar and rockets would fly why would anyone want to be down there  don't they know they will die  I walk among hero's but I am not they A bird of prey fell from the sky a gunners aim true and straight  was this to be the end of me did I somehow see my fate I reached for my friend, my action to late I walk among hero's but I am not they  times are still I fight this war on dark and lonely night  the screams of the dying  the taste of blood, the smell of death these things I must always fight I walk among hero's, but I am not they as I stand in this field before me in footprints that cannot be filled an awe of greatness settles over me my fears for now are stilled tears stream down my face as I snap to and salute I walk among hero's, But never shall I be they RCF Happy 241st Birthday Marine Corp  Semper Fi Brothers...

I was communicating with a female sub this morning and she was very open with her, needs, wants, demands and limits. She said she would not take cum in any hole. Being a curious individual I ask her why she wouldn't let her D cum in her mouth. She said she hated the taste and their was always to much produced. I ask her if she would consider a Dom that wouldn't go down on her. She said without hesitation NO. I ask her what if the Dom told her she could not get wet or cum while he was eating her. She said that I was being ridiculous because no woman could control whether they got wet and orgasmed or not. She said that no one could be certain that cum didn't contain some sort of dangerous disease. She had indicated while we were chatting that she was a BBW (5'3" and 250lbs) and the result of her weight she had diabetes and severe high blood pressure. I questioned why she would worry about someones cum giving her a disease when she actually had a disease that was definitely killing her but she was doing nothing about it even though it was easy to correct. She said that it didn't take any effort on her part to stop someone from cumming in her. I realized this conversation was going nowhere and bid her a good day. Theirs no wonder why female logic just leaves men shaking their head.    '

I met someone and we have been communicating for about a week and I've enjoyed our conversations. I'd never used skype before as I have always believed that getting to know someone on the internet was a fools game because you're pretty much only getting to know your computer screen and what the individual on the other screen is typing. When we were sending messages I did a couple of times read statements she made that threw up red flags. She turned me on to skype and I installed it and we set up a video chat. I have to say that it's the best tool to use on a site like this. In one hour of talking we found out that we're not even remotely compatible, we did have a nice chat and we departed on a positive note. I really don't understand why everyone on here doesn't have this loaded onto their computer. It's fast and within 30 minutes one will know (unless you're a complete idiot) whether two of you are remotely compatible or not.

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