btm4use2004

I am looking for a local, 30 miles or so, Dom/Top for regular play sessions. i am cautious and as such start out slow with the play and access and want to let it build as sessions and time progress. i prefer to chat some first and share photos and ideas then meet.

while i do seek the actual experiences, i am wanting the "play" side of these experiences and not interested in "living" as a submissive/slave full time. i seek a Dom/Top which also seeks to fulfill many fantasy role-playing situations for Himself and me in this area. i am married and do not plan to change that.

i am not new to BDSM but fairly new to being a submissive to men. I have a great many desires and would love to find a Top/Dom in order to play out some of them.

I do not like to give way to full bondage or sex at first meeting or two but prefer to have some generic playtime consisting of maybe an inspection of my body, some light spanking and such. Of course giving a nice hand-job is always included. This sort of activity early helps me get comfortable with you and time to decide for each of us if we continue forward.

i am looking for a regular partner in play and like to know that it is only me they are playing with, other than ones we decide to add in our play. I am not interested in a Top/Dom that is going to be having sex with many others while having full access to me.

Many are put off by this and want to get right to full access and sex. If that is you then i am not the one you are looking for.

I have pics and many ideas i would love to exchange in chat here or on yahoo of my same name in order to get the ball rolling.