Many operate from the misconception that there is an inequality in terms of strength.  Power exchange is exactly what it states: an exchange of power which results in an inequality among the participants in an interaction (or relationship).  The fact that power resides heavily or exclusively with one person does not directly reflect anything about strength.  Strength is something that should reside within each person.  Sadly, too often, it is not.

I can remember a time in my youth when after receiving high praise for an accomplishment I would respond in the negative and perhaps speak about all the things I could have done  better, or flat out turn down the compliment and push it back in the presenter's face (at least this is how it felt to them).

It took me awhile to learn how to correct this behavior.

 It took me years to understand how negative I was actually being and how much this turned people off and made them regret ever talking to me in the first place. 

I had to learn to get over myself, learn not to be so self defeating, learn that a compliment many times is simply that,.......a compliment, and not some existential insight into my internal universe of me versus I.

In short It took me too long to learn how healthy having good manners is for me.

It took me too long to learn how to return kindness with the simple and accurate response of, THANK YOU.

 Most of the women I have met on collarme seem like real healthy potential possibilities. But of course sometimes you meet that one who is so twisted up in their own head that they fail to grasp the simplicity of any honest attempt to make a real connection.

I claim not to be a Nobel Peace Prize potential or a well learned individual. 

What I am here for is to seek out a woman that I may perhaps make a mutually beneficial connection with, and build a long term relationship with.

But but their are a few on collarme who to their worst credit are self defeating.

Instead of putting forth the effort to have an engaging conversation about each other they choose to twists and turn through passive aggressive attacks of ones character and the negative dissection of every syllable of ones words.

Can we please agree to start our first few conversations without trying to disrespect, increase personal status, or use of severe sarcasm toward each other.

The old saying "words will never hurt me" was definitely a FALSE-TRUTH, if it wasn't , then why do we get so defensive towards each other, even in online chatting.

Take Care Of Yourselves And Each Other People.

I want conversation that leads to meeting up and getting to know each other on a deeper level. My social life does not revolve around the internet and yours shouldn't either.

Please Do not waist my time if you do not live close to me, or have no intention of meeting even If Just for a drink or two there are plenty of wide open places with lots of people so we may both feel safe. When You Message Me Please Be Straightforward  We Are All Adults With Imperfections, That's Part Of The Beauty Of Being Human.

Even on a website that promotes openness to deviant behaviour people still seem highly antisocial.

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