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I am new to the scene and looking to learn, am interested in finding a female sub as well as people to help me learn.
I have a particular interest in humilation and the psychological side of things, although I certainly enjoy inflicting a bit of pain too! Also looking for friends.
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The main thing that helped me realise that the way I felt was OK was reading about the non-sexual side of BDSM, particularly the D/s side. The idea of acting as carer, nurturer and protector for a woman is very appealing to me, and I can't deny that the flip side - the control aspects - are also very intriguing.
The sexual side was what got me initially thinking about all this of course, but I definitely want more than just a bedroom BDSM relationship. The idea of being the right sort of Dom for a submissive woman is something I truly desire, and hope it is not too long before I find the right person.
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Thought it might be a good idea to start using this to track my progress as a newbie Dom... both for my information and in case anyone else is interested. So far I've done a whole lot of reading, joined several sites and had some interesting chats. Going to my first much a week saturday hopefully - I'm nervously excited.
Realising it was not only OK to want to dominate (whatever my liberal sensibilities might say) a willing partner, but that there was a whole community of people with similar feelings was definitely a huge moment for me. I'll talk more about it in further updates, don't want this to be too long, but I'm excited to finally be a part of all this.
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| Age: 52 |
| St. Louis,
Missouri |
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