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I keep finding many women here are not that submissive. My definition of submissive being someone who wishes to serve a Master obediently. Many of the women here claim orientation as submissive...but when I talk to them I quickly see they are looking for a live-in man who DOES EVERYTHING FOR THEM. Sorry but that is just not submission....that is FEMALE DOMINATION...and something I do not care for. I do like the term "pillow princesses" - for these women, vanilla or bdsm, who think that the man should do everything for them--clean house, work 2 jobs, raise family, take them out, even do their laundry. There seems to be more and more women who just want the man to DO everything for them while they do nothing but sit on their bums, sleep, shop, and perhaps drink wine in the tub and sit back and enjoy it. Again this is not submission, it is domination to demand the guy does all the work while you do nothing in the relationship.

As a Dom, I'd never make MY submissives do all the work while I sat on my bum, even if I was broke and out of work I'd be out looking for a job.
Male Dominant, 48, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
brd2k
Male Switch, 34, pavia
Male Submissive, 42, dallas, Texas
Male Dominant, 46, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
brdking
Male Switch, 31, tulsa, Oklahoma
Male Dominant, 35, indianapolis, Indiana
Male Dominant, 27, Anaheim, California
Male Dominant, 42, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
BRDMYSUB
Female Submissive, 32
Male Dominant, 51, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
brd123
Male Dominant, 46, Bay Area, California
Brdhousewife
Female Switch, 44, Near Port Huron, Michigan