bratinsubmission

But I'll give it the old college try and talk a little about myself. ?I'm 31, primarily submissive although I enjoy topping at times. ?

I don't have a list of do's and don'ts as far as kinks go, a lot of it will depend on my partner, how we work together. But I'm intelligent, and find it a primary attractor. I'm also creative, have a great sense of humor, and tend to be something of a challenge at times.

I chose the moniker brat in submission for a reason, I think that a D/s dynamic is a complicated thing, submission is not always blind obedience. Sometimes submission is knowing when your dominant needs a challenge and providing it for him. It's also knowing when to back off, when to be gentle, when he or she wants their favorite cup of coffee and a snuggle or when they just want to be left alone.

I will never be comfortable in a relationship that desires passive submission. I'm very active in this, often trying to anticipate needs(and?occasionally?getting them very wrong but that's part of the learning process).

I first got involved in the public community in 1996, in college, and haven't looked back since and one thing I'm just not, is vanilla. ?Ultimately I desire a partnership, not of equals but of complimentary personalities. Call it TPE, 24/7, IE, or anything else you want to, in the end, it's a relationship and that's the important part.