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bowingdown

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About bowingdown

I am a single, submissive male seeking a domme for a long-term FLR.

I am not new to this life (lifestyle), but I did step away for a bit. I have been in the lifestyle for about ten years on and off. The time when I was "off" are the years when I tried to make vanilla relationships work. They just did not work for me. It is not that I want to live the life 24/7, but I need to feel owned 24/7. That might not make sense to everyone, but if it does to someone.

I need someone who can own me, own my heart, and own my soul. I need a relationship in which a simple look will put me in my place and keep me in line. This should be as simple and painless as possible for my domme, since I think this lifestyle should free her of burdens as much as possible. If I am difficult to keep in line, then I am not doing my job.

I am in need of someone who truly wants to dominate me. She should be somewhat overbearing and domineering. There may be times when I will need my training to be physically reinforced. There is nothing quite like the feel of a hand across my face or ass, unless it is the feel of a belt, whip, or crop. I am not really a masochist, but I love so much to please a sadistic Domme...there is a glow they get in their eyes as they administer pain that is delicious to see. I am not a brat and will not act out just to receive punishment. I truly do love to please and be in "my place."

The right domme for me is someone who is attractive, takes care of herself physically (since I do), and is passionate about this life. She must need a mans man to submit to her, since I am pretty alpha-male professionally. She must want to try new things, repeat things that have been tried and be willing to really grow with her submissive. Someone who enjoys going to the museum during the day with her man, then stripping her man of all his manliness at the door of the house (or maybe the backyard or somewhere else). It is not all about sex, and that is something far too few people understand. It is about the mental need to be owned and the mental desire to mold a sub to be Yours.

So, what I am looking for is a domme who can be my friend but remind me that we are far from equals. Someone who can talk with, laugh with, and slap her sub around in the conversation. It can be the most wonderful relationship anyone has ever known. With the right domme I am sure we can forge that relationship.

I have pictures and am willing to prove my identity once contact has been made.

I thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
I have recently returned to this site, and I'm in the process of updating my profile. I made some slight modifications this morning after being advised by someone that it had the wrong tone to it. She was right, and it did not reflect the right humility that I should and do possess. i'll continue to edit it until I get it to reflect who I am and where I am in my life and needs right now. 
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