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About boutloveandtrust
What's important for a relationship? To appreciate some traits of character of the s.o. and to share some interests. The more you love, the more you change.
I found out, many people here are pretty much into the whole thing. I still believe than man and woman are equal. On the other hand I am sick of girls exaggerating equality. You can have carefree fun and still embrace without feeling guilty next morning. Anyway, some things generally are compatible with equality and some aren't. Immobilization and light spankings are, real pain and threatening can diminish the feeling of love.
Some more about me: I am afraid of girls getting attached too quickly and too much. So I wouldn't want to have someone from Africa, America or even Denmark moving in with me after two weeks of chatting. And since I have currently have the job I was aching for, I won't move in the near future. If you want to meet me one day, you better live within "weekend distance" of western Germany. And you better speak English, French or German fluently because learning another language is not my to priority right now.
I talked about sharing some interests. I'm into most sports (except scuba diving, running and skydiving) and I especially love climbing, dancing, swimming, skiing and long distance trekking. If you are afraid you face colouring might suffer you're probably not the one. Beauty comes from within and can't be painted on.
Furthermore I like to see new places and to try new things. Although my "list of things to do before I die" is getting shorter, I've still got many years to go. Did I mention I like cooking? Oh, and I've got the general attitude: if you don't like something, get off your lazy ass and change it. In terms of music I discover new styles every week. Anyway I prefer those with a dominant rhythm (i.e. those you can dance jive to).
Ok, that was a lot. I'm shy and if you're, too, you'd better write me anyway. I don't bite (hard).
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Well, I know I said: message me anyway, I might just like you.
Well, I dont't like the posh, bitchy type. So if you prefer indoor activities every day 'cause you don't risk breaking off you nails, sorry, then you're not the one.
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Some days I feel my character is changing. I like becoming more mature (no, not fat - I mean wiser). But mounting responsibility is accompanied by a drain in carefreeness. On the other hand, I get into "holiday mode" much quicker nowadays. Guess there's a good side to every change.
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Why is it so many women have a problem with their body? Some are really fat but have gotten used to it, some are all about average but sport an unhealthy feeling of obesity. I like girls that like their body - in most cases I like it too ;-) if you've got an ounce of fat on your stomach - who cares?
I always say: do as much sport so that you feel comfortable. It is no secret we don't get as much exercise in white-collar (no, not _that_ collar) jobs than we are designed to. Anyway, ladies, sport equals fun!
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It's been some time. Getting a picture of other personalities is refreshing each time.
I always thought, I was the only one who is afraid of getting attached and leading an uneventful life from that day on. Turns out a friend of mine thinks just like me. No more adventurous holidays, no more evenings playing cards with your buddies. Is it always men who who have that fear or are some ladies out there thinking alike? Who still have dreams and plans where to go and what to see in your life - enough for years to come?
When I look back at people I know, family members, friends, I outrun most in my desire to see new places in the world, to try out new things. And I feel sorry for many of them because they don't. Many just leave their home town on holiday - beach holiday (which can also be relaxing from time to time). I wouldn't want not to have experienced living in different countries.
I look forward to meeting the one - yes, I still dream at my age - and I fear she might not be willing to move where I live or she might want to move more often than I. And the worst part is: I don't have the right argument why she should move to where I live and move with me when I have to.
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I happen to find out, most of you ladies seem to be rather hard-core. I won't pay anyone, I won't get involved with any gal lacking proper self-respect and self-confidence and I have some of the mentioned myself.
Also I won't support any woman in exchange for .. you know what. I am not to romantic but that is on a low level even for my standard.
Oh, and please put in a real photo. There are so many pics out there that look familiar and trust me, it isn't because we've met.
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I happened to look into it again and guess what I found out.
I had a look at the photo gallery of women. Looks is the initial way to find out if you're interested in someone, isn't it. I had a discussion with a (female) friend over this and her opinion was it'd be rather superficial to judge someone based on the looks. Though I agree, when you make contact with anyone you don't interact with, it's the only means. That leaves open if it's really acceptable to initiate contact with anyone you wouldn't interact with normally. Frankly just because you think by the looks the other person could be a nice lay.
In my case I can say from experience: it's the better way to find a girlfriend. You have a greater variety from which to choose and you tend to be more open because, frankly, even if you reveal some weird habits (like wanting to spank your gf) she's at least not gonna tell your friends (because she doesn't know them.). Seems I should get over my inhibitions soon (I'm quite shy) cause it can make the difference between a lay and a nice lay.
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OK, this wasn't really the right place for me. Most girls here like it a lot heavier than me and are far less active as well. And since I am more than busy right now I might drop in from time to time, but I won't check regularly. Guess it's back to the old way of meeting people.
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Sorry girls, I don't use any messenger. No yahoo, no AIM and nothing else.
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I had to update my profile already. Guess that's what happens to everybody at the beginning.
Sorry to say I have little time at the moment as I am about to start a new (and very interesting) job. If I don't answer right away it doesn't mean I don't like you. So please be patient with me. I know it's not very nice to keep women waiting, but what are you gonna do?
So long
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