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Male Submissive, 47, Newcastle
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Male Dominant, 39, Gainesville, Florida
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Female Submissive, 38
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About BoundtoMD
Who am I?
A successful, stable guy with a respected career. Currently living modestly but financially stable with guaranteed future financial stability and growth (Nobody admits it, but it matters!). Knows how to be strict and disciplined (professionally, as a doctor) but knows when to permit impulsivity (in my personal life).
Who are you?
As for you, you must be beautiful and intelligent. Only you can judge that within yourself.
Second, you must know what you want in life.
These are qualities that I admire in women. In exchange for subservience is a willingness on my part to help you achieve your goals if I deem them worthy. However, I am a newbie. Perhaps you could teach me, or if you are just as inexperienced we could discover more about this together.
What is a D/s relationship to me?
I'm a guy who just realized that he definitely has an inclination to the D/s relationship. I am unsure of when I developed these ambitions, but I feel like they were developed at an early age (13 years old). The strange thing is that I was raised in a stable, happy household. At first, I thought I was just strange, but after several unsatisfying vanilla relationships, I have identified the void in my life. To me there is something intrinsically appealing about relationships where power is exchanged. To love someone for me, is an asymmetrical exchange of power. Not only do you protect, guide, and provide for, the one you love should obey, respect, and sacrifice for your wishes.
The very idea of a loving relationship between two people who desire to equal control in each others lives seems dysfunctional. Human nature is hierarchical - power is given in exchange for security and guidance. From the classical Greek model of the mentor-mentee bond to modern professional relationships such as attorney-client or even physician-patient, an imbalance of power is ubiquitously present. Even in the lower life-forms, power is exchanged subconsciously. There is no second alpha in a pack of dogs. The intimacy of one submitting in private to another who then justly distributes affection, care, and occasional discipline is simply appealing.
This willing imbalance of power was that which was missing in my previous relationships. Likewise, I don't believe that true D/s can be practiced just in the bedroom. It has to be a lifestyle thing - one that does not need to be publicly obvious, but acknowledged between the parties in private. The intent in love is never to publicly humiliate and dominate. The intimacy of one submitting in private to another who then justly distributes affection, care, and occasional discipline is just so appealing.
What next?
Add me to your friends! I would always love to chat with you online and depending on how we connect see how it goes from there! |
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