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Male Dominant, 31, Brooklyn, New York
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Male Submissive, 35, Liverpool
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About Bonobo
For the most part, I don't take collarspace all that seriously. But, you never know. I look at the pictures, read the profiles, and sometimes make comments. Pretty harmless really. The lesbians usually post the best pictures but they're often unfriendly. Pictures notwithstanding, some of the profiles are very well written. It's interesting to see what people say about themselves.
Not much to say about the age. I'm 63. I've been around a lot. There are a number of women who will not be attracted to a man of my age. I don't blame them. But if there's one or two who are then writing the profile was worth the trouble.
Feel free to browse the pictures. Obviously, they're not me--I didn't even draw them. The pictures posted at the moment are all public domain prints of the 19th century Hungarian artist Mihály Zichy. I like 'em. |
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OK, I just took a stab at writing a profile the other day. I'll be more specific in journal entries and I'll start with orientation. Not many people have led a more hedonistic life than I have but I still can't tell you with any certainty if I'm Dom, Sub or Switch. For one thing, most people don't have monochromatic personalities and I don't either. So I call myself a switch. Most people wouldn't call me assertive until they've known me for a while. Maybe that tells you something. Some people who don't know me well might think I'm submissive but only because I've learned the value of listening.
I've met very few truly dominant women but I've met countless hateful women who see themselves as dominant. The few genuinely dominant women I've met have taught me the pleasures of cooperation.
On the other hand, beware of "subs". Some of 'em will play ya like a piano...
So, the labels are available and people will use them whether I like it or not. We categorize everything these days because we think we don't have time to think things through. Try not to jump to conclusions...
By the way, I'm real. Who would write a fake profile and claim to be 63 years old ? |
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