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BonniePotomac

Transgender Submissive, 35, paris
Male Submissive, 75
Female Submissive, 18, bethlehem, Pennsylvania
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About BonniePotomac

RECENTLY REVISED TO HOPEFULLY ANSWER AT LEAST A FEW QUESTIONS AND PROBLEMS AS THE CRITICS SEE MY WRITING.

Very new to the on line version of what is really real. To be clear, I speak of on-line newness, not newness to Ds. � My lover [to answer a recent gentleman's question: yes he was my Dom as well] has moved on for business reasons and my husband is not one who understands pleasure and passion and lust and kink [with me]. My husband does participate in Ds but we do not do so together. For those who say 'oh, i'm in the same boat', I'm not sure that you are. Think about it.

I'm here to first learn new ropes & entanglements and in time, slowly and very analytically jump in or allow myself to be pulled in.� I'm not sure if I wish to re-start softly with a woman or harder with a man [or vice versa, I suppose].� Time will tell, I suppose.

Thank you for understanding that with a new profile comes many kind notes.� It shall take some considerable time to respond to each honest & thoughtful set of comments that I get.�

A most wonderful Mistress suggested that my profile is perhaps a bit too negative toward some people. She provided some pointers as to my considered changes. I appreciate her and her wisdom and will do what I can to comply with her suggestions this next few days. Thank you Mistress (though not my Mistress)
PLEASE IGNORE THE FOLLOWING POST HERE AS I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT IT IS DISRESPECTFUL AND NOT IN KEEPING WITH THE IMAGE I PRESENT AND NOT CONSISTENT WITH THE GIRL I HOPE TO BE. SirStrictNC Be careful of an inability to speak honest truths. Slick tongues do not equate to honor in some people. Be forwarned. See bait and switch, for this is the poster child.

off to coffee with an old friend who is trying to set me up on a date.  yes he is a dom and yes he knows what i need and want.  not sure that being set up is the way I want to continue my exploration of my carnal mindset and proclivities.  at least he’s paying for the latte and is great company.  hmmmm.

PLEASE IGNORE THE FOLLOWING POST HERE AS I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT IT IS DISRESPECTFUL AND NOT IN KEEPING WITH THE IMAGE I PRESENT AND NOT CONSISTENT WITH THE GIRL I HOPE TO BE.

FloggerMiester

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Fucking little putz asks a question and then decides to block so that no answer can be provided. ?Don't waste your time asking or my time in preparing a response if you are going to run off and play with yourself.

I was told to add an item of clarity here, so I am doing so, even though I thought my profile was clear enough.  It is not my practice to provide photographs to people who ask me for them here.  I’ve shared pictures with those I know personally and who have been in a position to take their own of me, not just after a chat or two here or with YIM.  I have good reasons, as we all do. Please respect that.  Bonnie

Enjoyable chatting this morning to be sure.  My Giants are on the national feed via Fox.  While i admit that i rue the day that the NFL gave the NFC to Fox instead of CBS, I'm off to watch them.

 

No, I should not get started here on the politics of anything Fox (or many things Disney for that matter).  I will be a good girl here and just say, i hope you all enjoy a gorgeous Sunday afternoon.

 

Bonnie

thank you to the gentleman this morning that pointed out that i am not as clear as i might be on the topic of real time vs cyber lives here.  to be clear, for me the only reality is real time and i am not interested in adopted by some poor schnook in alberta or alabama, zanesville or zambia.  again, thank you sir

PLEASE IGNORE THE FOLLOWING POST HERE AS I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT IT IS DISRESPECTFUL AND NOT IN KEEPING WITH THE IMAGE I PRESENT AND NOT CONSISTENT WITH THE GIRL I HOPE TO BE.

I do not normally call out ass-holes here. ?Everyone has his own opinion about other people and about the world of kink in any form. ?Today I had enough!

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If you wish to speak with a mean, abusive, angry man (I think), go and say hello to?? FirstRomance4U ???in the New York City suburbs. ?Without provocation, without a conversation, without introduction, he chastised for not having a job, being a 'skank' and being less than communicative with my husband. ?Sounds like a typical Tea Party member to me. ?

I'm not in the know. Can someone tell me about British Lucky Paul's parties, please. I've heard lots of good things but I'm not in that realm just yet. Thank you. [UPDATE: THANK YOU KIND SOULS FOR THE MANY WHO HAVE NOW EDUCATED ME ON THIS TOPIC.  I AM ALL SET AND NEED NO FURTHER INSTRUCTION ON THIS TOPIC.]]

Poor Greenie, getting screwed over by those Canucks.
Happy Thanksgiving. Out for a while with family but I want to catch up on my correspondence. I am sorry for not doing so timely. Bonnie
WILL ANY OF YOU GENTLEMEN BE AT THE CRUCIBLE FOR PLAY NIGHT THIS FRIDAY [YES, IN ONE DAY]? I HAVE A FRIEND AND SHE NEEDS TO LEARN HOW IT FEELS TO EXPERIENCE THE IMPACT OF A WELL USED FLOGGER. A GOOD HAND ON HER WOULD BE MOST APPRECIATED BY ME. LET ME KNOW PLEASE. THANK YOU.
Earlier today a kind gentleman approached me here to tell me that my little adventure at The Fairmont recently inspired him to post to his own journal. With his permission, I am pasting a copy of that post here, for all to enjoy, as I did. Thank you, kind sir. Bonnie Journal Entries: 8/5/2009 3:41:47 PM [Report Entry] You call him the minute you exit the subway station, standing aside to let the other passengers pass. "Walk past the bus stop and past the benches. There are some Forsythia bushes that block the view from the sidewalk. Call me when you are there." You walk the hundred yards and push the redial button on your cell phone. "Is there anyone sitting on the bench?" You answer affirmatively. "Let him see you walk behind the bushes and then take off your panties. Give them to him." You swallow hard. "Then what?" Your words are barely audible, even to you. "Go to work." The line goes dead. You slip behind the bushes and lay your bag in the grass, and step out of the new thong panties he ordered you to wear this morning. You stop directly in front of the man seated on the bench, and watch his head rock to the rhythm from his white earbuds. He slowly looks up from his newspaper and you hand him the dainty black lace panties, searching for some hint of foreknowledge. His face screws up in confusion and alarm. You turn and cross the busy street as blood rushes to your face and burns your cheeks. As you round the corner to your building, you realize how incredibly wet and turned on you are.
Certainly unusual for me, I will admit.  You might know that I've been back on line here more steadily than in the past.  I'm not sure why but I have been.  Bombarded with notes and chats, but that is all good.

This morning I attended a seminar on industry technical advances.  It was boring but required as I see it.  At the coffee break a French man started talking to me and before I knew it, the session restarted and we were in the lobby still talking.  He led me to the restaurant to sit and drink and talk, missing the end of the session.

How did he convince me to find the dark corners of the hotel lobby to smother my face with his lips?  How did he bring me to the edge of a wonderful orgasm there in public?  How did he get me to allow him to take my panties with him and just leave me, in need, in want, in lust, in desire?

He left and that is good.  He left and I kept my desire and craving.  He left and allowed me to retain a portion of my propriety.  He left me to dream today as to how powerful the right stranger could be.

And now, I have to work?  Shit!

i was recently asked, maybe told, to join dot com as a new access point for me to find what i'm looking for and how to get where he wanted me to be, i suppose.  i did not know i was looking, but what the heck.  i've not yet sauntered over there.  can anyone give me some understanding of that place?  thank you.  bonnie

I have been away for the better part of the late summer and I am sorry if I have not been responsive, communicative or witty.  I am back in town now and hope to reflect upon such nice souls as I am meeting here and find the power to taste of the juices that are virile, vital and tantalizing here. 

I smile a coy smile and promise to get my body moving.

Bonnie
It is so very strange to me that men {and boys} in distant places think that they know what a lady might need, what she is 'missing' in her life and more to the point, how to fix all that might ail them.? Do they really believe that they are so very smart or that women here are so very lame??

And NO, I am not interested in traveling to Dallas for a 'time of my life' you dumb ass cowboy!

Bonnie
Thank you for the chat requests.  I am compliant when I can - when there is time and particularly when I have a bit more privacy and especially if you might be close at hand.  I do apologize for not having the time that some others might.  Bonnie

Why would anyone think that a 'proper lady' would give out her telephone number & be willing to meet someone the first time that that honor you with an invitation into a chat room?  Am I the only one to think that this is less than correct?

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