I am a fairly attractive heterosexual caucasion crossdresser/transvestite of 47, friends say I appear younger? I am in good health and I am quite sexual. I recently graduated with my second degree, a B.S. in Psychology.

I like to be quite domesticated, and have a variety of interests. I am open minded, empathetic, and communicative. While I am confident, humorous and enjoy meeting other people, I do look for that loving dominant lady who would compliment the best in me as I hope to do for her. I do enjoy crossdressing - possibly forced fem - lesbian wife discipline games/lifestyle, and I have a modest collection of vintage lingerie, custom corsets and feminine attire.

I do feel there is place for, or a need for submissive reinforcement, and effeminate compliance through bondage and discipline, role playing, and other long term eroticism. A lady who feels in-kind would be pretty nice.

A feminizing woman who has appreciation for wit, personality, and strengths is obviously a confidant woman, and is my kind of leader.

I hope to converse/correspond with ladies who enjoy femming in a domineering type of way, as between two girlfriends.

But please, I am not a slave, and many types of humiliation are a downer; chiding and teasing in a playful way is healthier for me.

I guess I identify myself being much more of a submissive wife into kinky games as a lifestyle, and who would like to find a girlfriend who desires an effeminate frame on her submissive. A lady who has an interest in ballet stretching, and toning exercizes would be a plus.


I am really not into chains, whips, canes, tawse and the like, but rope, paddles, floggers, slappers and such are much more tender on my slender frame; permanent marks are a huge turn off.

Cages and cucking are hard limits; for me, I need appreciation, not degradation!

Toys are nice...and I hope to become very skilled at using them too. I guess what I am saying is that I would try very hard at pleasing!

I also like to please by being very attentatively domesticated through traditional female responsibilities.

In addition I hope to be a submissive who is required to fulfill many types of pleasurable services. For instance foot and full-body massages, chamber maid type tasks, dressing you and helping you with your make-up and your hair.

My only request is that I am valued, considered indespensable, and honored, as I hope to do and feel for you.

I would like to be pleasingly helpful in our relationship, and thus I could be helpful in say...a home business, for instance. I have a few cute blouses and skirts to fit the secretarial role, and I also love the maid role - maybe in a nice dress with a fitted bodice and a gored A-Line skirt.

I really like to cook, to garden, and I am an excellent cleaner. I am also quite handy with a large selection of tools. I am attentive and do enjoy pampering and such.

I am slender - smaller boned - athletic and well shaped. I try to get some form of regular exercize in during the week. I am a little over 5' 11", and I weigh 165 pounds; I am open minded on this subject.

Ethically, I am sensitive to others feelings as I am to my own, and would never lead someone on. I loathe infidelity (but I am not uptight in a jealous way either), lyers are uncool, pushy manipulatives and ingrates too, and "indian givers" what's up with them? Overall I suspect people who behave in that fashion rarely do they stay satisfied and are hard to reason and communicate with; and their memory tends to be poor because they are not good listeners. Basically the wrong kind of drama, and unfullfilment instead of fun and excitement.

Ending on a positive note:
ultimately, I hope to be a friend, a confidant, a supporter, a submissive, a toy, and a lover, who I can fulfill her needs to be adored and appreciated.

My Ideal Person:
I hope to find a playful, imaginative female for a kind and loving long-term monogamous relationship. I desire a passionate, tactful lady who is honest, who is in the habit of communicating, before presuming, whose demeanor is smart.

Behind closed doors I would be hers to kinkily shape and play with for many lasting moments. I guess ideally I hope to find a firm nurturing matriarch who looks forward to enjoying the fruits of her conditioning, and finds herself excited at the prospect of dominating a submissive crossdresser 24/7. It would be nice to be kept to a standard and to receive some enthusiastic guidance in appearence, makeup techniques, and other effeminate trainings.

I am open minded to a flexible window of personalities: a demanding and detail oriented disciplining lady to a more traditional husband and wife give and take relationship, a very sexually active lady to one who prefers a great deal of chastity, or a dominant woman who likes to vary between these traits.

Together in our mutual and complimenting lifestyle we could share cultural arts, drives, antiqueing, fine dinning, and traveling to wherever...I can be very much the home-body too - kept woman.

I have no STDs and I politely require the same.
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