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Male Submissive, 37, Munich
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Male Dominant, 42, Lewisville, Texas
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Male Submissive, 22, Huddersfield
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About BondingSub
I am successful, intelligent, wealthy (self made), attractive and well educated.
I am not hard core. I'm not sure there are many who truly are, outside of limited settings. I simply find that I naturally become submissive to a woman as I pair bond and I am looking for a woman that will cherish this fact. I am not submissive to others.
"Submissive" in this context means I look at the world through her eyes - her needs, her desires, her goals. I am still an individual and have my own thoughts and feelings, but they are secondary to hers. My happiness derives from her happiness. I am not weak when in this state nor am I a wimp; my goals simply become her goals. If she wants something, I want it too - in life, or in kink. If she doesn't, I don't either.
I have default kink. I like the various things listed on the side of this page. Many of them are intertwined with the pair bonding emotion set. Some are not. As said above, all of them are filtered by the likes and dislikes of the woman I bond with.
None of my kink is required for me to be happy in a relationship. As long as you are happy, I am happy.
I am not interested in Pro Dommes, not because I am opposed to their existence or don't have the money, but because Pro Dommes are in essence submitting to me by accepting my money. There is nothing wrong with this transaction, I simply don't find value in it. If I wanted a sub I would go get one and train her to do things I like. That is simply not the relationship I seek.
I am not looking to be with someone for a little fun on the side. I am looking for a lifetime of fun. Exploration, learning, exciting activities - there are thousands of things to see and do in this world, and I want to do them all with you. I have the time and means to do it now. There is no need to wait for limited excursions when old and grey.
While intellectually I understand polyamory, emotionally it isn't for me.
While I am not particularly materialistic or focused on the acquisition of money (despite success), I realize that others feel differently. I find it necessary to point out that I am not in any way interested in financial domination. Even marriage will have a pre-nup. I am giving my submission voluntarily up front to the right woman. It is not a license to steal or harm.
As I said above, I am only submissive to a woman I choose to be, or a woman I have pair bonded with. I am not submissive to just anyone. The barrier for entry into this relationship, particularly the pair bonding phase, is necessarily high, because I find the power transfer at deeper stages to be quite complete. Combined with an innate desire to please is the involuntary sensation of pain when my partner is displeased or unhappy, which can be used to train me to do or act in any way the woman pleases. This is not the sort of power that just any woman is equipped to handle.
If you are the right woman, I urge you to contact me.
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