bondagegirrl

well.. i thought i'd give the old chat rooms a try..

..can't say i enjoy it too much for the mere fact..

not even a second after you enter... you are bombarded with private chat requests...

..i'm starting to feel there isn't many that are seriously into bdsm on this site...or knows what it means..

..it appears as in any site...a bunch of kids..bored women....and horny old men have once again taken over a site and made it into another cyber sex hangout..

..what a shame..

..we've been asked to fill out a profile...

..are they even READ..?..

..i doubt that very much as well.. for if they were... i don't feel i would be contacted by as many as i have.. nor would i have the expieriences that i have in the chatrooms..

..let me make something VERY CLEAR HERE..

..I am NOT.. here to cyber play..
..I am NOT.. here to entertain you on webcam..
..I am NOT.. here to role play thru mail tag..
..I am NOT.. here to  tell you all my secret sexual secrets so you can beat off..
..I am NOT.. here to watch you masturbate..
..I am NOT.. here to add you to my yahoo..msn or the like..
..I am NOT.. here to stand up ..twirl around.. do the hokey pokey..or anything..

I AM HERE BECAUSE I AM INTO BDSM...and if you cannot RESPECT or UNDERSTAND that some people take this LIFESTYLE VERY SERIOUSLY...then keep it moving..

..you are WASTING my TIME...and i would think you'd be smart enough to figure out... that you are wasting your own..

well here we go again... after spending some time away from this site... i get more ignorance...from a so called...LIFESTYLER in my city... i have REPORTED  this person... and i am warning others should they come across this ignorant man... as a person such as THIS...should NOT BE IN THIS LIFESTYLE...

From....feckless ... Dated.... 10/9/07 7:48 PM .... move to africa,where hiv is rampant.

...ALL BECAUSE... this girL has a PREFERENCE for BLACK DOMINANTS...

..i am appalled at the ignorance of some...not only on this site...but many others...as well as in this world...

..i would like to know... how One...that calls himself a Dominant... could send me such an email...in my own personal opinion... these type of people have no room in the lifestyle....and i feel others should be warned..

..as to what their views are on others... so they are aware... of such FAKES.

..with that being said... this is what i got from One calling himself a Dominant on this site...

From:  
curtkurtin 

    Dated: 
 9/7/06 1:05 PM 
 
ewwwww my God--In america we call that a wigger--some on girl get with it 

...and this... all because my personal preference is for a Black Dominant...

..i do not have to put up with anyone that displays this type of behavior...nor should anyone else..

i have not been on this site for some time...until a few days ago i decided to come back...i have talked to a Couple of Dom/mes in the begining...which as left be discouraged of sorts...

..i need to know..

..why is it...those to claim they are Dom/mes...ask you for your yahoo messenger without wanting to get to know you a bit before doing so..

..why is it... that once they get you on yahoo... they do not have webcams...and yet they wish to see yours..?..

..why is it.. that when you are on webcam...they ask to see your whole body...sometimes without saying another word...sometimes even after having an intelligent conversation for awhile...

..why is it... that when you do not comply...they suddenly attack you as a submissive...saying you clearly cannot be one if you do not listen to them... or they simply log off...

...what does having to stand up have to do with getting to any anyone...first and foremost...as a person...before delving into their minds regarding their submissive side..

..to me... these are mere HNG's ..( Horny Net Geeks )..

..this type of behaviour in my world does not exist in TRUE DOM/MES..

..just because i will not submit to just Anyone...does not mean i am not a submissive..

..i do NOT HAVE to submit to anyone i do not want too..

..that is my right...