I have always been the way that I am.......from my first sexual experience at 15 when I told a hometown neighborhood girl in Bergen County, N.J.... EXACTLY what it was she would do both TOO, and FOR me. My degree in Biology has consistently been an aid in understanding the natural dynamic that exists between a submissive female and an Alpha male in it's purest form (watch Bambi's father in the movie.... or John Wayne in the Irish favorite "The Quiet Man"). It is nature's way, and D/s relationships have been with mankind, and the animal kingdom, forever. Tho our roles are equally important, we are symbiotes...and only One leads. I am tall, 6'3", 240, fit at 62, former college athlete, and stay as active as possible. I am not looking for a "soulmate"(don't like the term)nor a "bride", nor the answer "no" to what I want from a woman. I prefer spontaneous and friendly encounters, that would lead to something long term. For those of you with a checklist, that does NOT make me a "player", as I am looking for a life partner. I am not shy, and consider intimate activity to be appropriate for "grown up" people to be friendly. It is natural, and a gift given to us alone by the Creator to enjoy. If attracted to you, I would no doubt make a move on you quickly. I am, after all, not looking for a "prom date". I have always been aware of the personality possessed by a submissive female...and flourish in the role of meeting those needs in such a relationship. I am not "Sir"(unless calling me that makes you moist)...and frankly, if you reply will not care what case you type in. You may spell my name backwards if you like. I need no self adorned title to evidence who and what I am. You will feel it in my touch, hear it in my voice, and see it in my eyes. It is natural...and an attitude I have possessed always. It has allowed me to handle myself well in a bar fight...or the boardroom. In Colorado, where I was educated...they would call me a "Good Hand"...some people call me a DOM....though I don't insist on it. I don't attend BDSM events, "munches", conventions...nor has anyone ever "trained" me (I always chuckle at that question)and it isn't that I shun nor frown on the "lifestyle", I just don't feel I need to be a "card carrying member", and after all........males were bending over females long before there was a "castle" or a "realm". My formal education in the life sciences allows me a unique perspective regarding the physiology of endorphin release during pain and pleasure, as well as the obvious understanding of anatomy and human sexuality. I am not a sadist; but am better described as a "purveyor of needs satisfied", so am familiar with the role......and your needs I will ferret out and identify. What I do too, and for a woman, is personal, therefore valued, and an outward expression of a desire to author, to control, and to please. I am more than adequate.

I've been in Florida now for 32 years, living from Tampa to Ft. Myers, and always working in the Real Estate/Construction field. My sons are raised, and I am a proud grampa. I consider myself to be more than well rounded, and am degreed in Biology/Chemistry, former teacher and coach, although I've made my living designing and building homes and working as a general contractor. I was a collegiate athlete, and raised my boys to be the same, as I coached youth sports along the way. The outdoors and nature have always held an interest for me, and I am well versed in both, somewhat of a "naturalist". Fishing, camping, the water, and golf are all pastimes for myself and family members and I am very much aware of the "hidden Florida", be it High Springs or Bahia Honda. My values are family oriented, and I am protective of those who mean much to me. I am aggressive yet controlled, strong yet gentle, complicated yet an easy read when you know me. I have interest in and function best in what would be described in vanilla terms as a classic and old fashioned D/s relationship........one without all the "lifestyle" crap, and where a woman enjoys the celebration of the differences between the sexes.........while understanding that equality is essential in a partnership arrangement.......and that roles may be, and according to nature are..........distinctly different. If you can understand what the term "submissive" means, and do so without losing sight of "self"......then you could be the feminine side of what this man needs......which is a lovely, attractive, vibrant and self confident and sexually self actualized female partner, who stands "beside".......and not "behind", all the while "allowing" her needs to be not simply met......but cultivated and molded to the liking of her partner.

I especially like redheaded or fair, milky skinned women, tho all submissive females are beautiful in their own right. A touch of the "Irish" is appreciated! If you are into sophisticated cosmetics, and finely appointed nails, I will no doubt be attracted to you. I believe that alone says a lot about how a woman "knows and treats" the rest of her body. Other enhancements are appreciated, and if your scent is Opium...we have common ground already. Shave....you came into the world that way....better yet; let me shave you. Freckles count, and are delightful...however; you need not be a runway model. It is a submissive mindset that I seek in order that I enjoy the freedom of expression, and leeway to illustrate my abilities. You should be curious, and experienced, and like myself, quite possibly seeking a reward for having met the task of rearing a family. You should consider this time of your life yours, and intimacy with a giving partner both natural and something you are entitled to and deserving of........often. You should be orgasmic of your own accord, and knowing of what it is you like, having been uniquely "aware"(masturbate) of your body since puberty...when you first realized that you were different from girlfriends. What they avoided...you in turn found exciting.... exhilarating.... and yet, you are still curious and willing to be "explored". You understand that there is nothing "wrong" between a man and a woman in a loving relationship. In fact; society’s taboos excite you. These curiosities have always taken you to the point where you wonder just what it is like to be taken to your own personal "edge".... repeatedly.... and you long for a powerful, masculine man to do so.....believing genitalia should be exercised daily. If you have a "policy" regarding first encounters, or a "protocol" of rules requiring "hoops" to jump through; re-evaluate whether you are submissive....... you have lost my interest already. I will not embark on a potential D/s relationship by following your "instructions". Spontaneity is the adrenaline I look for in an equal partner. You should look for the same. If you are more interested in "not being hurt again" than you are in "being happy now" then your cup is half-empty.....mine is half full. What it is that you have to offer is most stimulating to you when it is "taken" in an atmosphere of caring trust and love, and in that you find yourself feeling the most vulnerable and feminine. You are leery of men like myself...but live the paradox knowing that you can't be happy without one. You are rational, and in the workplace complete as a person...yet incomplete as a woman unless under the strong hand of a masculine man. You either know, or suspect, or are just now figuring out that...you are a submissive female; a "slut for you own man" as would sometimes be defined by others and the vanilla world...and understand that it is the only way for you to live, yet; you also are aware that men such as I will cherish you for that quality. You don't need to read "Cosmo" to find out what to give your man...for you give of what He desires, both willingly and naturally. It is a fiber of your genetic make-up to submit; yet you are no doormat. You stand beside...and behind only when you need to retreat for your safety and you know and understand the difference. Paramount in your mind is your wish to grow and develop sexually, emotionally, and mentally as a woman, at the hands of a masculine and aggressive physically powerful Dominant man.