Bobtop46

Is there a double standard?  I find it interesting in profiles where subs/slaves request that you read their profile, send more than a one liner, have a full profile, and pictures (non crotch) prior to sending them a message.  Once a suitable profile has been found and read, I write a personal email to them that is not cut and pasted, asks questions about them and tell them a little about me.  I hate to repeat the basics that are available in my profile or attach the same pictures that are there.  Here is where the double standard comes in.  I receive a polite “not interested” note back without the person reading my profile.  I realize that there are ways to preview a profile without clicking the “view profile” button.  Please extend me the same respect that I extended to you and read my profile, send back more than a two words.  A short reason why you are not interested would save a lot of time.  I will not debate the reason for your non interest, but thank you for your time.  Unfortunately there are Doms out there that don’t take rejection well and give the rest of us a bad name.  I look at it as one more candidate eliminated in my search for the right one.  Each one gets me closer to finding her.

I am making changes in my life.  I have decided to live life to the fullest and to make the most of everyday.  Working for nothing is a waste of life and my time.  I am going to see this wonderful country of ours and have as much fun along the way.  I would like to meet a woman who wants to do the same thing.  You should be free of job, house, and children, responsibilities.  An empty nester or retired military woman would be ideal.  A bad day at the beach is better then the best day at work.  Contact me if you are interested in the details and getting to know me better.

I do notice changes.  Some can be subtle or even very obvious changes.  What does this me to you?  It means that I will notice when something changes with you.  I will notice when you need to be held and I will notice when you need time alone and hopefully recognize the difference. 

I'm not very big on pet peeves on this site, but lately I have been noticing a trend I don't like.  I check out a few "female" profiles that I find interesting and instantly get males checking out mine.  Do a lot of males on hear have fake female profiles.  The profiles I view don't usually say anything about already being collared.  I can see that happening once in awhile, but this is getting bad.

Just returned from Leather Retreat.  Had a very good time.  I think a good time was had by all.  So many collars in plain site.  I loved it.  To many great scenes to discribe in the dungeon and by the pool!

So many over look the responsibility of ownership.  It is not to be taken lightly by either party.   Owning a slave is like owning anything else.  What you are talking about is the level of pride in ownership.  Some owners never wash their car or maintain it.  The result is that car doesn’t last long.  Slaves that are not properly maintained end up the same.  Slaves looking for a Master are looking for one that will properly maintain them.  It is not that easy, of course.  Cars don’t have emotions and like it or not slaves come with them.  The Master (owner) must consider behavior, training, attire, appearance, emotional, sexual, health, nutrition, and safety needs of a slave.  Other equally important considerations are financial; will the slave be required to be employed?  It is totally incumbent upon the Master to provide the slave with the basic necessities of life such as food and shelter.  Other things that are a good idea are health insurance, disposition of a potential slave’s possessions, and relocation expenses. 
  A Master must have a firm grasp of all these aspects in His/Her own life.  Any one of these aspects that is out of control in a Master’s life will be also for the slave.  In this context I believe that most slaves here want to connect with their Master on an emotional level and not be owned like a piece of furniture

I need an artistic slave to draw me an edited version of the classic Charlie Brown comic strip. I am sick and tired of lucy pulling the football out from in front of Charlie Brown.  lucy needs to be put in her place. In the first panel of the strip lucy is on her shins (side view) with Charlie Brown behind her binding her hands tightly behind her back.  lucy says "i promise i won't pull the football out from in front of you." Charlie Brown says "you bet your ass you won't!"  The second panel shows Charlie Brown running up to kick the ball. This one could even be cut and pasted from the original. The third panel shows lucy bound bent over holding the ball with her nose. In this one lucy would fill the panel (side view) as nothing is said and she is the only one in the panel.  The last panel would be of Charlie Brown kicking the football from under lucy's nose.  The first panel as discribed could be broken into two if needed.

Are there any slaves out there that could help me with this one!  I was having trouble sleeping and then this thought came to mind.  I was very satisfied and rolled over and went back to sleep.

I see a lot of slaves on here talking about being disappointed by a fake.  Ask yourself and them what is the plan for your 24/7?  I have guidelines/rules that cover not only the fetishes/sexuality, but things like money, family, work, clothing, hygiene, medical, eating etc. Whatever needs to be known before someone travels 1000 miles to move in for a trial period.  You can't even lease an apartment without an agreement that is 2 pages long. So imagine being handed a cocktail napkin that says "Do what I say?" and hoping that it all works out for everyone?