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About BobSwitch
My name is Bob and I'm a submissive leaning male. There is some switch in me, but I don't necessarily need to top the same person I'm bottoming to. I prefer when someone else takes the initiative in regards to play, but I find I typically have to make things happen if I want to play. I have an extensive amount of experience in local bdsm communities.
I consider myself primarily a Restraint and Confinement Enthusiast, enjoying scenes where the top's main interest is in keeping someone captive and subjecting them to their fetish proclivities and/or service needs. Of course, the top's other fetish interests should overlap a considerable extent with mine, but I find that I can derive a lot of enjoyment in simply being a fetish doll, made to endure whatever the top's devious mind can think up (provided each of our limits are respected).
I also have a skirt/dress/costume fetish that manifests itself in a desire for cross-dressing, but also in the types of outfits I most find attractive on women. My favorite scenes blend roleplay with some aspect of both restraint/confinement and feminine costume fetishes, but each can be explored independently.
As for limits, I am not into any activities that could cause bodily harm, and never really developed a liking for classic S&M type play. I've also had a difficult time enjoying any type of anal play, though I've tolerated it in the past. My best responses can be elicited from a combination of molestation roleplay, psychological manipulation touching on embarrassment and humiliation, and simply being made to endure unusual fetish play that I haven't considered before but the top is totally into.
I encourage other ideas, but here a list of things that would make good scenes if there is shared interest: tickling, cum control, sensory deprivation, long term sessions, water torture, medical/asylum play, sissy/lolita/costume roleplay. I'm also a photographer and enjoy doing photo and video sessions.
Finally, I enjoy resistance and escape attempts and enjoy incorporating realistic struggles and pleas into the scene.
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Overall, Fetish Flea was a blast. I went with a few friends from The Space. ? So many vendors and people.? I picked up a new gag, a collar, and some frilly panties.? Saturday I wore my black fishnet shirt/hose with a black bra and plaid skirt outfit.? It was comfy for the day and looked decent.? I spent the 1st couple hours vendor hopping and chatting with folks I knew. ? I attended Midori's Millitary/Interrogation workshop which was pretty cool, then got a makeover at glamour boutique. I was ambivilent over the results even though everyone said it looked good.? The only reason I got it and spent $35 was because we were going to do pics later on that eve. More on this below.
We left soon after that to pick up some food and relax a bit.? After dinner we stayed in the suite. We took some pics of my day outfit, then I changed into my French Maid outfit.? Then it was playtime and that lasted a good portion of the night.? Then we left around midnite to meet up with another FoF for drinks but the bar was closed, so we ended up hanging in his room for several hours.?
After a couple hours of sleep, i managed to shave again and wore my sailor lolita outfit.? I wanted to get a white collar to match it, so I concentrated on that when i first got back to Flea. The Vendor who sold it to me helped me put it on which was nice of her.? I then relaxed and talked with people and people-watched.? The outfit was a big hit, and I got lots of compliments. ? At 1:15 I attended Bridget's self-bondage workshop.? I was a bit disappointed in that since she spent most of time talking and we only had about 20 minutes to go over a couple basic knots.? oh well.
After that, the lack of sleep began catching up to me.? So I changed back into regular clothes and got on the road back to CT.? Of course, just as I did, it started raining, and it downpoured the whole way.? A Redbull helped keep me alert.
After getting home I was anxious to see a couple of the pics I took with my camera of my saturday outfit.? I am completely unhappy with the way the makeup came out.? There is a certain look that many CD's end up having when makeup is applied that, to me, always seems over the top and garrish.?? I've never been a big fan of a lot of makeup on women so it's not something I pursue much for myself.? I told the woman all this and she ended up making me look rediculous. My fem persona is sweet and girlish and the makeup did not bring that out one bit.? So unfortanately all my pics of that outfit are a waste. I even tried to de-makeup myself in photoshop, and it still looked horrible.?
I didn't take any pics of my sailor outfit.? My friend took some while I was tied up in my maid outfit, but i was blindfolded and hooded for much of that, so i'm not sure what condition the rest of me was in, and if they will be suitable for public viewing.? I'll see when he send them.
Despite the makeup ruining my pics, I still had a great time and so glad i went.? I love immersive experiences, and the whole weekend felt like one big long scene.
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I'll be heading to Fetish Flea this weekend in MA.? Should be fun.? I'm going to wear my PVC circle skirt fetish outfit during day. Not sure what my evening plans are. Probably just take it as it comes and bring a few different outfits.? I'm sure they'll be some photos taken as well.?
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Last weekend at The Space was fun. A friend of friend was visiting from out of town. As part of that, I dressed up in my schoolgirl outfit and got hogtied and thrown in the cage.? I got out pretty quickly though. I can't take those hard positions anymore.? It's fun for pics, but I prefer confinement I can stay in for a while. ?
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