blyeeyedslve

Mixing bdsm with the vanilla world for The Dominant women that wants to be able to turn it on and off living both lifestyles as You seem fit. In my past relationships this would have solved all disputes.

You boyfriend has irritated You in some way,  this could have been anything from winning an argument, forgetting something or just being too loud or in Your space.

using bdsm in vanilla situations:

It is a Sunday afternoon an You are feeling irritable. Things seem to be getting on Your nerves and You just want some peace as well as the whole house to Yourself.  You think to Yourself I need a break but don't want to discuss it or create any tension over this I just want to be alone.  You stroll into the living room and without a word place a fully charged shock collar around my neck.  You show me the remote control in Your hand and demand i drop to my knees and kiss Your feet.  satisfied with Your control You order me to the dungeon located under the master suite of the house. 

Hanging on the concrete wall are a nice set of heavy locking shackles. There are 4 shackles attached by chains perfectly spaced to limit mobility but also able to be worn around the clock if need be. You lock them on my wrist and ankles so my wrist are behind my back attached to my feet by a chain short enough to prevent standing but able to hobble about if need be.  You are happy that this whole process takes about 30 seconds of Your time and the shackles are inescapable.  In the center of the room is a small mattress  and a heavy chain dangling from the ceiling to the floor with a steel collar attached to it.  You make me hobble to it and proceed to ock that collar around my neck with a big smile knowing I am imprisoned.

With a grin You hold the remote control out for me to see and say ? I dare You to make a sound until I return."  You cinch a ball gag tightly around my mouth saying this will help You stay nice and quiet!  With Your foot holding my face down You tell me "you are my prisoner now and I am going to leave You here to think of nothing but me and the chance to kiss these feet of mine if I decide to come back down at all. "

You go upstairs toss the remote control on the dresser and grin from ear to ear.  Not only did You get Your space, but You made Your boyfriend worship You the entire time from afar.  You have the whole day to relax.
When You want company again You can go down stairs remove the ball gag and ask if I would like to put on my maids dress and cook us a wonderful dinner or would I prefer some more time in solitary.  Judging by how eagerly and passionately Your feet are being kissed You can tell You are very appreciated and loved. 

Life is going well this summer. 
i spent last weekend 4 wheeling in northern maine had a blast going too fast through the woods.  the only thing missing was someone to tie me to a tree out there and... well You fill in the blanks....

my house is coming together fast now and the dungeon will be ready to fill with my life long collection fun toys in the fall.
 
i have recently met some very nice Acquaintances here , and i am very long overdue for taking that bike ride i promised *wink*