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Male Switch, 28, irvine, California
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Male Dominant, 34, belleville, Illinois
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Dominant Couple, 25, Bellaire, Ohio
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About bluwolf0
Please give me enough respect to read the entire profile before mailing me.
I am a bit of a geeky girl. I enjoy Online MMORPG's such as Lord of the Rings Online and WoW (recovering addict). I have some interest and knowledge of computers, and even designed my desktop that I use now (she's my baby). When I learn new information, my first instinct is to research more instead of just accepting that small tidbit. I am slowly getting back into reading fantasy novels (four years of being forced to read whatever the professors told you to is starting to wear off), and enjoy such authors as Anne McCaffrey, Robert Jordan, Alan Dean Foster, and far too many others to casually mention. I also love horror movies, and have all of the Saw series, working on the Hellraiser series. Anything with blood and gore and a decent plot line gives me tons of giggles and squeals of excitement. If you ever seek a horror movie to rent, I WILL have a recommendation for you.
I have a very open and fun personality (and just a lot of it!) in my opinion. I love having both in depth conversations about fun topics (this can be anything from genetics, human nature, history), or just silly things like geeking out about a particular TV series. Above all, I enjoy a person who's excited to do the most random of things like driving to the Farmer's Market in Houston, or finding a rock gym to go and climb, or even just staying at home, cooking dinner together and cuddling. I'm fiercely loving, viciously loyal, and tenaciously supportive in either the Domme or sub position of things. I have a well of fiery passion for everything in life.
On the other side of this coin, I am unashamed of the fact that I am stubborn. I will not back down when I have an idea in my head, and once a decision is made, it is almost always final. I'm also indulgent. I enjoy the flavors of foods, the throes of pleasure, every moment in beautiful spectrum be it anguish or joy.
I wish to find someone out there that I can laugh with, love, adore, protect, offer all of myself to. I cannot deny myself any longer that I am only exclusively a submissive when it is so blatant that my personality is too strong for such limitations. I will submit to those who deserve it, who I believe to have the personality, strength of mind and body that I deem worthy of my unending devotion. I will Dominate those who prove themselves to be capable of understanding that I am a multi-faceted being, and who are still willing to give me all that they are. I am not one or the other, but a combination of both.
What I am not seeking: Couples or poly households, online romance, long distance, or anyone over the age of 40. Whilst I generally will answer EVERY mail sent my way out of consideration for how it FEELS to not even be given a response when you put yourself out on a limb, I WILL delete any mails that are from these people. If you have read my profile, you will already know why I did not respond. I've tried couples, I've tried poly, I've tried online romances, and they have all left a bitter flavor on my tongue. I'm not interested in making an exception, so don't try to: bully, guilt, argue, whine, bitch, nag, or rage at me. I'm not a pathetic mindless person that has to believe what you do. Until you own me of course. ;)
I am generally a Domme to women. A woman who is mine is my ward, whom I would love to protect and share, and learn from. Just as a man would be expected to give me the same respect. Switches are common, but the benefit is that they have the knowledge and ability to associate with both, and see both sides of the relationship with incredible clarity of mind.
To me, D/s is a play of relationships. Relationships are not created out of thin air, but built upon a solid foundation of truth and commonality, followed by the sharing of how we came to be, who we hope to be, and who we are now. The pure Dom balances the pure sub. Since I am not a pure Dom, nor a pure sub, I need to find someone who also can be a mixture of both.
No I'm not here just to find some fake Dom or sub to fuck. I'm looking for a true relationship. So, please. I'm not some horny person so desperate for attention that I'll sub or Dom just anyone for no reason. Geez, people. Do not get me wrong, I am a very sensual person. I delight in teasing, in building my partner to a fever pitch, and for them to do the same. There is nothing more mind-numbing than being caught up in the moments of passion that pass between two people. But, it doesn't mean that I can have or will share that passion with just anyone who bats an eyelash my way.
Still interested? Well, let me know by sending me a message with the words "Boo Boo Kitty Fuck" in the body to show me you've actually bothered reading (and a little bonus goes to those who know what that's from). I'm so very tired of being polite about it. |
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Just watched Human Centipede. Sickest movie ever in so many ways. I'd say not because of gore or anything like that but because of the psychological effects the movie has. I wretched several times during the movie, and I actually was interested to see how it would turn out for the 'centipede'. Would I watch the sequel? Hell no I'm not an idiot. Was it a good movie? As far as it being suspenseful, yes. Horrifying, no. Gross- factor, yes. I would still have to say it was a pretty bad movie. I will say to the positive that they took an absolutely ridiculous idea and made it just ridiculous without the absolutely. |
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To all you 40 and up gents!
WHY?! Why am I being viewed exclusively by old men who think, "oh, the desperate fat blue eyed blonde chick will make an exception for me if I message her!". They actually bother to read my profile most of the time and READ the giant BOLD LETTERS that say 'this is what I'm not looking for. Don't bother trying or you will be ignored'. These same old men have the audacity then to message me because they believe 'no' means 'maybe'. It doesn't. What's worse, I've actually had several of the people on my 'no list' argue with me when I politely replied with 'not interested'.
This will be clarified here and now. I'm not attracted sexually to older men. If Sean Connery himself came up to me with a collar and a leash I'd say the same thing, NO! I'm not into D/s because I have 'daddy issues' and I don't want to talk to 40 and ups that can remember things from before I was born. It's just not interesting to me.
Let's look at this from a long term standpoint. I'm in the prime of my youth. I'm hyper, I'm smart, and I think I'm reasonably attractive enough to start my life with another person. I want to start it WITH another person. I don't want to jump into the middle of their life that's already halfway completed! It's like hopping into someone's save game on FF7 where they already have Yuffie and Vincent and they're just dicking around trying to kill the weapons and getting all the rest of the secret cool stuff. You've already missed half the fucking STORYLINE, the part that makes the game EPIC! I want to start the fucking game with whoever I end up with, and see it to the end, together. (if you don't get that reference, YOU'RE TOO OLD! or not a geek.)
Edit: For said 40 and up gents: It's like starting to read a great book 200 pages in. Even if you finish the book, you won't get the same feeling of excitement about the conclusion as if you'd read from the beginning. Or starting to watch a TV series three seasons in. You'd more than likely go 'who are these characters and why do I care?' where as if you'd started watching it sequentially from the beginning, you'd be able to see the main characters develop and therefore be more invested in seeing what will happen next.
I respect older people trying to maintain spice in their life, looking for new love or a new flame to kick their existence into gear, I do. But do it with someone your age or someone who likes that stuff. Don't go barking up my tree guys, please. I hate being rude and I hate having to turn people down. Every time I have to, it gets just a little bit easier to be mean, and I don't want to feel that way. I want to remain nice, and gentle, and caring to any and all I meet. I don't want to have to get jaded on your asses. Please. I'm begging. Leave me alone.
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As a note, I've never Dommed a man before in my life. I'm sure that I could given the right mentality, but I've never even tried. I think I find it a bit...strange to think of putting a man in the lower position in my head. I respect Dom men because they are strong, and choose to temper that strength, control it to prevent from causing harm to me. In this same respect, after recent events, I do not see women as weak, but I see myself as a strong woman, both mentally and physically, so I deem myself capable of Domming other women.
I've been given a lot of offers and emails by submissive men, and even in the video chat, that seems to be the type of man I attract because I do tend to exude an aura of strength I suppose. Women whilst I was in college admitted that they were intimidated by me, and men (eventually) admitted much the same. I find this ironic because I really am incredibly gentle, loving, caring, and fiercely loyal and protective of my friends. They seemed to hone in on something I didn't even know about myself until recently.
While I love to submit, to give control to another, when it comes down to it, I face my problems head on and with a laugh. I charge into difficulties without hesitation, and command them. Although I enjoy the support and persistence of a partner, I don't need it. In a NON D/s relationship, I push my partner to be the best that they can, to make them set higher standards for themselves, and learn to live up to them. I expect a lot from myself as well. In any pursuit I might have, I strive to be the best, the fastest, the most accurate. This could be a job, my artwork, my relationships. I've concluded that for that reason, my personality is indeed Dominant, whether I like that or not. I am a leader, not a follower. Even the other day, when meeting up with a Dom man, I noticed that I went in the door to the coffee shop first. I got my coffee first, and didn't expect him or even LOOK at him to pay. Do not mistake this as I am definitely a Domme, but these are characteristics people should be aware of.
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