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bluesdancer7

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bluesdancer7 - Male Dominant, London | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About bluesdancer7

Just moved to London, and thought I'd fire this up again...


I'm a fit, attractive professional in search of an naughty, fun, interesting girl. If you enjoy a dominant, masculine guy who can be manly and gentlemanly, yet still rough and authoritative, please write and say hello. (Submissive doesn't have to mean you're passive, after all... and you get to bypass your inbox full of pushy weirdos ;) ) I have experience with both submissive and slave dynamics (D/s and M/s) and am happy to help you experiment and learn what you prefer, if you're somewhat new to all this.


For my part, what turns me on is watching a girl enjoy things she "shouldn't". This makes me quite flexible with regards to things I enjoy, and I really love that I'm not attached to any one thing; it keeps this interesting. I'm smart and creative, so I prefer to get to know someone, and then have a ton of fun figuring out new things they'd enjoy, even when "enjoyment" might be masquerading as pain or humiliation.


Because of this, (in addition to being good looking and not a jerk) I have had quite a bit of diverse experience, playing everything from a caring, Daddy-Dom to doing harder, consentual-non-consent forced play, impact play, threesomes/groups, humiliation, watersports, etc. and have fun at both ends of the spectrum. I have no problem doing anything I know someone wants (I'm non judgemental), and I'm fit and very physically capable. You'll find I have no trouble tossing you around, restraining you physically, and generally making you feel as controlled, loved, humiliated, pampered, owned, or filled as the moment requires.


The picture is of me.


Thanks for reading!



-- A few points on logistics...


I play safe, and even so, get tested regularly, and am clean (will update this if that every changes). I am also negative for both HSV 1 and 2 (herpes).


-- Addendum 9/12/2012


A combination of browsing profiles, and talking with a real life (female) friend of mine who is on this site makes me feel compelled to add a few words.


It seems there are a lot of males under the illusion that being willing to be rude to strangers over the internet somehow classifies them as "dominant". The correct term is "cowardly", and sometimes "abusive", and "pathetic".


I don't walk around thinking of myself as a "Dom". I'm just a Man, in every sense, and I have no ridiculous insecurities to work out by trying to overcompensate in some adolescent manner on the internet.


I'm also a feminist. I strongly believe in women's rights, and in equality, and don't think this is the least bit contradictory with me feeling it's a girl's right to choose to serve, or be "owned", or feel degraded and used in ways that turn her on. But this doesn't come from a need I have to try to make my partners feel like they are less, but rather a desire to let them enjoy themselves as much as possible, and find relaxation and comfort in the taboo. I have the utmost respect for the girls I have been with.


Ok, ok, rant over. It's likely very few guys will read this anyway, but I had to get it off my chest.

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