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About blueisis
Hello,
I am so new to all of this, I figured that I would let you all know just a bit about me. You can get all the basics from the posted information,but I want you to know what I am like as a woman. I care about people,and how I affect them no matter what type of relationship it may be. I am not looking for someone that is interested in some form of kinky sex,so if that is you,no thanks. I am the type of person who will try most things atleast a few times to see if I like it.I mean how can you say that you don't like something, if you've never ventured in that direction? I also don't like to limit myself to only being attracted to one type of person,because in my book,who you are on the inside, is more cherished then what your physical image presents.I am very laid back.I know how to kick back with my jeans,however I also know how to dress to impress(which I love to do) when appropiate. I love to pamper people,and make them feel appreciated with whatever I can do. Whether it's a massage,or helping you out in a pinch, I am usually pretty reliable.I also don't mind listening. I like to hear how others think. I am very analytical, as a logical thinker, that asks a lot of questions,so if that annoys you,beware! Some people really have a problem with that. So that is just a bit about me in general. If you want to know more or see who you are chatting with,drop me a line in my box! I look forward to talking with you. |
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I wish Spring would just come on and show up already! I am getting really tired of this friggin weather! I am finding that I need to get out more, meet more people in general. Ohio is such a conservative little state. It's such a shame that you have to go all over just to find props, discipline tools! What a pain, oh well. If anyone knows of some stores( otherwise the cleveland ones, and the Chamber) that I can go to to start to build up my discipline tool collection, please let me know. I don't have much, but I am starting to get the things that I will want to be used on me. I don't mind internet shopping, but I like to visit the stores locally( or atleast not to far away) to see what they have in stock, or on sale. The search continues...... |
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Happy New Year all. I guess I just have some questions for thoes of you who care to share your opinons. Why do some people take themselves to seriously, or is it just me? I mean, I can understand someone being in the lifestyle,however how can one really take what they are practicing as something so dead serious, when they really don't incorporate it into their daily lives. Hence, being a different person during the day, then they are at night?I understand that there are some "social norms",but really, if one doesn't carry over the BDSM into ALL areas of their lives incorporating it into all that they do, how can they expect people to take them seriously? I guess that I am just miffed a bit.Here's the deal. I was talking to someone on messenger system,and within the first five minuets, they wanted to see how "devoted" I would be to them. Here I am thinking to myself, I don't even know you, and what makes you think that I would be "devoted" like that when we just said hello to each other?1st red flag. Then to talk the second time, and for me to referr to a BDSM session as "playtime" for them to get aggitated? First and foremost, I do enjoy BDSM sessions for a variety of reasons. I do find the structure, elegance of ropes/chains,and the mental as well as other stimuli included to be intriguing and (dare I say it) fun! I don't think that there is a thing wrong with BDSM being referred to as fun.It should be enjoyable(and uncomfortable at times*smile*)where learing and growth is welcomed and encouraged.So..... mabye as usual I am reading to much into this,but that just kinda took me for a loop. I will have to say that would be the other person's loss, which is too bad.I would hate to think that I would have "arrived" (whatever that means)when I lost my childlike sense of wonder and amazement and awe of something so beautifully erotic,painful,spiritual and wonderful that that means I have accomplished some personal feat. To me, that isn't what this journey represents at all. I feel bad for people who would use the thought that everything has to be serious and dead,with lack of excitement and arousal/awakening of the senses as a measuring tool for supposed success. This I feel is a unique journey for each one of us, that will unfold at it's own pace,and within it's own times,and one SHOULD NOT measure another's "success" or "stunted growth" on their "rating system",but rather cherish and enjoy watching them blossom into a more respectful,loving human being.Just my thoughts.Now that I am off of my soap box, goodnight! |
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Well happy hollidays all! I had a very quiet Christmas, and I am looking forward to all that this new year will hold for me. I am putting myself out there seriously to find a new job, and so far so good! A nationwide company is looking to hopefully bring me on staff. I am really excited about that! Keep your fingers crossed on that one! I have not been to active with my bdsm side, otherwise with reading some books. This first semester of school has really required my undivided attention to stay ahead of the game.I do enjoy that type of discipline,although it's been tough adjusting.My journey has brought me to meet some wonderful folks,and taken through some life changing experiences and I do have to say that I am glad that I took some of thoes chances.Some didn't end up as I had wanted them to, but I guess that there is a season for all things. When it passes,atleast you are left with the sweetest of memories to cherish.The favorites of all that I have gotten to know by far is a couple in the country with a lovely deck,and lovely *trees*. I am still learning. One thing that I must learn is how to treat people. I am a selfish person, and that has GOT to change. I also tend to be a people person at times, which I feel as if that is something that I will grow out of.Overall, I must say that this year has breezed by me, and left me with the essence of many life long memories that I will hold dear to my heart. Until next time, I hope you all have a wonderful new year, and do something that makes you truely feel joyous, no matter what anybody else may say!Just don't do it to often. Too much of a good thing can have an opposite effect.All things in moderation! *Boy, do I need to really heed my own advice!* |
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Well here it is, almost my birthday! I am so excited because I am finally embarking on a path to which I really want to be on. I am a nursing student, and I am just taking the time to enjoy being young and carefree. Life is way to short to be angry or depressed as many I know who'd rather put on a facade that everything is just peachy instead of really living. This new year that is quickly approaching, holds so much new life for me, and that "rebirth" is so exciting!This past year for me has been one of enlightenment,exploration,mixed with the sad, and unforgettable. I have to say that it's been a journey that I will never forget! I like that. To me I can't enjoy the best of life's highs without going through the lows as well. They go hand in hand. If you try to shut off one you inadvertantly shut off the other. As simple as that is, I am just now coming around to really know that as truth. I have learned some of what I like and want as well as what I don't.Through it all, I am still learning, and growing through my mistakes,and I can see that growth. I do have a long way to go, but I am 24 with my whole life still ahead of me. Hopefully I will continue to learn from all of my "wrong turns" to constantly move in the direction of the woman that I want to be. All, have a wonderful Thanksgiving, and Christmas if I don't get back to updating! |
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Well hello all! I have been to another meeting! This one was a murder mystery! It was wonderful too! I was a part of it, which was also exciting for many reasons. One of which, I was in a demonstration for the play. I was spanked in a way that I haven't been spanked before. It was focused more on the erotic, rather then pain centered, with only the hand being used as the instrument. I don't believe that I have experienced that before. It was a pleasant surprise. Plus it was also in front of a room full of people. That was definitely a turn on! Haven't been down that road in a while either. This meeting was in a different city,so I did meet a few more people that remind me that it's okay to be me,and not to be ashamed. That's always a good feeling. As far as the lesson that I spoke of the last time? This analytical mind and tender trusting heart need to meet in the middle somewhere! I have some common sense( to which I am finding out isn't very common in others,lol!)I just need to resign myself to the fact that a lepard doesn't change it's spots,no matter what is being offered,presented to it. As far as learning more within the culture? I have gotten a bit lazy,and have briefly put down a book on submission, to read some fictional rubbish, which is completely seductive! We all need an escape sometimes!lol! For some it's food,other it's TV, for me,books! Nothing is better than my own racey fantasies,fulfilled through the literary truthes of one of my favorite black writers(Eric Jerome Dickey). I don't read these sort of books often,but he is good. Just the way he writes,the language,the phrasing,woah! Can we say EXTASY! Anyway,we'll talk again later. Until next time........ |
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Well hello all,
I just wanted to pop in and drop a line on what's been going on with me lately. I went to a local BDSM meeting last month. It was absolutely fantastic! I learned a lot,and the demonstration was wonderful! I also met a lot of nice people,where I can learn from their words,and not feel dumb!As far as my progress,well I am constantly learning. Right now,my learning is a life lesson that is mentally and emotionally draining. But hey,what damages us,makes us stronger once we move through it. I am also learning not to be so nieve. Not all people on the site,who claim that they are genuine,and want to give verbal advice,are what they portray. I guess that is all a part of "growing up" in general. I am not bitter or angry though,which is a big step for me. I don't like to be that way,and I am seeing this whole experience as an opportunity for growth! Well I will update you all after I have gone to the next BDSM meeting! I also changed my hair,and I am LOVING that freedom! Until next time........ |
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Hello all,
I must say that I am impressed with the quality of the people who use this site. I haven't really had a negotive experience with it thus far. I look forward to experiencing all that my bright future brings! |
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