BlueCable69

I am who I am.

Maybe not too original, (I’m not Popeye) but it does fit. There are no voids in my life that need to be filled, and if there are any in yours, I suggest to you, that it is not for others to fill your voids…..Well, maybe in the physical sense, but if you don’t know what I mean, we probably don’t match anyway.

I am looking to develop friendships with like (open) minded people to share and explore kinks in a safe and caring manner.

As far as finding a special one, I am open to the possibility, but my free time is much too precious to invest in those who don't have their own life together and don't know how to live in reality.

I want what I want, and I can be demanding, and even cruel, but only once I know your acceptable limits. For me, dominance and submission is not about being abusive, I'll leave that to the abundance of A-holes that seem to be available. For me it is about caring enough to share a higher level of intimacy, and knowing it is to achieve mutual fulfillment. If both sides of the equation are not having fun, then it is not working, and will never reach the level where both sides can reach ecstasy.

If you’re for real and can be a little realistic in making things work, then by all means, say hello.