Home
Home
Browse Profiles
Browse
Collarspace Video
Live
Join Collarspace
Join
Collarspace
Dating
Dating
Collarspace News
News
Collarspace Glossary
Glossary
Collarspace Mobile
Mobile
Alt
Alt
Safety
Safety
Extreme Restraints
Toys
Friends
Live BDSM
Resources
Resources
Welcome to Collarspace
Welcome
Login
Login
Vertical Line
Crown

BlondieDom

Male Submissive, 30, Calgary
Female Submissive, 41
Male Submissive, 36, Knoxville, Tennessee
More Dominant Women in New York
Back
Back
Kinky People Meet
KPM
Collarspace Directory
Directory
Interests
 Interests

About BlondieDom

I understand the urge and desire to surrender and submit is intoxicating, but it is important that you are doing so with the right person. The give and take of power within a relationship is something that once you have... vanilla will hardly do.

I am a tall, attractive, confident, intelligent, successful and caring woman. If you do not meet the below specifications DO NOT BOTHER ME.

First of all be single and sane...

Would the married and unhinged of NYC please STOP contacting me.

You should be attractive, intelligent, social or able to manage various social situations, looking for a relationship and caring. You should have a successful career and by that I do not necessarily mean financially – you should have direction and goals. You MUST live in NYC and are older than 35 and younger than 50.

I am not concerned with your level of experience… you are on CM so you clearly have some amount of self-awareness, but you must be masculine and although you want to submit you must have a very healthy sex drive and have vanilla sexual proclivities. Not at all interested in sub males who desire feminization or someone who really has a particular fetish more than a need for Ds.

The manifestation of dominance and submission are individual to the relationship – so while I might have preferences or specific things that excite me sexually, it is really about the shared experience that defines what will happen in a relationship. I don’t feel my dominance is something that needs to be proven – I am just naturally dominant, so I am not precious on the specifics by which it comes to fruition.

The last thing to understand is that in no way is this anything beyond a private part of my sexuality. I have no interest in the public aspects of this ‘scene’ or frankly any interest in the types of people who do.

Well my last two tries at dating someone from here were not successful... one was geographically not viable - although sweet and lovely in all other ways.  So that one was my fault for even trying at that.. the other one was the typical wanna-be or a liar who is married or clueless or both.  This one was a total wanna-be - I'm not a pro-domme (no judgement) so don't treat me like one.   TOTAL DICKHEAD. 

 

So there are no normal, intelligent, sane and submissive men in NYC?  I am really pretty amazing and I can not believe I can not find someone... I'm going to cave and start dating vanilla again... this is getting ridiculous.  

OK I'm about to give up on this whole finding a normal guy thing on CM...  where are all the sane men who just happen to be submissive:P  The last few dates I have been on have been disasters.  Maybe what I am looking for in terms of masculinity and submissiveness just doesn't exist.  I am feminine and dominant - so where is my counterpart?

 

I know the layer of anonymity on CM can be a catalyst for fantasies and dreams. I wish the integrity people have in real life translated onto here. Some people are actually here to find a partner not to play a role in your virtual fantasies. I'm so tired of the men I encounter here being so far from the type of man I'd ever be with in real life. It's beginning to be a waste of time.
bloodandsugar
Switch Couple, 25, Salt Lake City, Utah
Female Submissive, 50
Male Submissive, 32, near boston, Massachusetts
Male Dominant, 32, near boston, Massachusetts
BloodyRoar
Male Dominant, 30, Nova scotia
BloodDancer
Male Switch, 22, Southbury, Connecticut
Male Dominant, 28, Albuquerque, New Mexico
bloodpsycho
Female Switch, 21, Little Canada, Minnesota
Male Switch, 40, wilmington, North Carolina
Female Submissive, 18, BC
Male Dominant, 48, Hinsdale, Illinois
Bloom
Transgender Submissive, 28, Dayton, Ohio