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Male Submissive, 45, london
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Female Submissive, 42, Nags HEad, North Carolina
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Male Submissive, 26, Nevermind.
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About blimey69
I now know what I want. Who I am. The person that showed me this will always be in my heart if not in my life. My love and thanks to her always.
I am going to take a break for a bit. Be lucky
I can sometimes appear confusing, but that is becuase I am confused. I can sometimes look like I know nothing. I dont and I openly admit that. I am for the first time in my life applying patience and accepting advice. I am learning where I failed in the past, it has been a bitter pill to take and keep down. This will help me and be of benefit to future partners in either this lifestyle or any other. I am learning, I have been told well.
My music stops me from going mad. I have very varied tastes. from Rammestein and Slipknot to more inane stuff like gangstagrass and crud to classical.
I do work in IT but I am not your average geek. Love my sci fi, love new tech, dont sit down in front of the tv, would rather be on my pc. errrr actually I dont act like your average geek when I am at work doing my geek thing, may be a better description.
I have a dog, so out walking her quite a lot. Sitting down for more than 5 minutes can be difficult for me. I prefer to be active. Which is lucky really as there is always a domestic chore to be carried out in a big house. I smoke. I love to drink red wine or, if I'm flush, Jagermeister straight from the freezer to the glass.
Understanding the terminology for a few things I have done, and how I have been in the past has given me a better indication for kinks I like. Not realising it, I was quite actively Poly in the past. That gradually changed into wanting a steady commitment.
Other kinks I have enjoyed and want to explore more are below
Feet and legs in 20 den or less nylon. Had this since puberty a big part of what I like most. More the feet in face or mouth while having sex. No idea why it has such an effect, but it does.
Oral sex. I feel it is the most personal way to please and be pleased.
Deepthroat. Watching
Cunnilingus. Giving
I enjoy to lick and play my tongue around from ass to clit. Having my partnerdesperately grab the back of my head and pull me into her crotch until she comes when she cant wait any longer.
I really enjoy it when a woman use toys or vibrators on herself while I watch.
Anal - Enjoy giving anal. Or using anal beads on partner. Have enjoyed ass play on me from partner in past. Sometimes I have enjoyed making them give themselves anal with a vibrator while having sex. Giving them anal while they use toys has also been fun.
Spanking. Although never really allowed to explore it as much as I have wanted to in the past. I get a really big buzz out of it. I always want to, and generally get told off for spanking unexpectedly, with anything to hand, or just my hand. I love the sound and the reaction. Good or bad. The best reaction being that slight turn of the head, looking at me from the corner of their eye with a slight smile, and look of pleasure. Makes me want to do it more.
Bondage and restraints. Again not much experience but have really enjoyed what I have been allowed to do. That feeling of complete trust when that power is given over to me. Not knowing how to do this properly in the past made me think I might do something wrong, and never get it again.
Love asking a woman what her fantasies are, then helping her fulfil them.
Group sex. Tried ffm twice, and fmm once with a slave and Master a few years back.
Fisting (giving). Tried but not sure whether my hands are too large, or I just didnt do it right. Enjoy giving it tho.
Watersports/Squirting. Very little experience with this. I have really enjoyed the squirting aspect in the past. Wouldnt be repulsed if I was asked to explore the watersports side further in the future.
consensual non-consensuality. This is going to sound odd if I have got the understanding of this kink wrong. I have always been advised by previous partners that when they have asked me to tie them up, I can do whatever I want. I never really did anything that I wanted to do though. However the buzz I got from just being offered this meant I had to use self control not to. I would like to explore this in more detail as I had no idea what I was doing or should be doing to ensure safety.
Hard Limits
Not had much experience, so not entirely sure what my hard limits are. I have put a few things below that I have not enjoyed in the past.
Scat (its the smell, makes me puke)
Extreme pain (receiving, Ever)
orgasm denial (receiving Ever..lol)
Mental torture (receiving. At all)
CBT (No, No, and thrice no) |
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