Slavery is not a real thing some say. They obviously have never heard of Fet, CS, or BDSM. LOL
~ Black Socks
10 things a man should never say to a woman
1. I'm stalking you. 2. I want to rape you. 3. I want to kidnap you. 4. Why haven't you replied to my message? It's been an hour. LOL 5. You're nothing but a whore or slut. 6. I'm a dominant and you WILL obey me. 7. I can be your Daddy, or what would you do to me as your slave? 8. I've been practicing D/s for 7 days and would love to teach you. 9. I'm single and have no kids, when they have a wife and kids. 10. Let's meet after the first message.
~ Black Socks
What's the difference between a man and an animal pet?
A man pet has a bigger penis you can play with and fuck, 10 lbs less fur, and can actually understand what you're saying and speak back, with permission. LOL
~ Black Socks
Things I say to scammers
Me: Do you pizza? Scammer: What do you mean by that? Me: Do you like to eat pizza? Scammer: Oh, yes I eat pizza. Me: Great, so order us a large cheese pizza. A slave's gotta eat. Scammer: How? Me: Call the pizza place, give them both of our addresses, and have them send me my half of the pie and you the other half. Scammer: They can do that? Me: Sure, they do it all the time. They can even deliver it by e-mail for an extra fee. Scammer: I called Domino's, told them what you told me, and they laughed at me. Me: That's because you didn't give them the pizza password. Scammer: What is it? Me: I-A-M-A-P-I-Z-Z-A-S-H-I-T. Scammer: Okay, hold on. They're still laughing at me. Me: Say it again as loudly as you can. They probably didn't hear you. Scammer: I-A-M-A-P-I-Z-Z-A-S-H-I-T!!!
~ Black Socks
My childhood best friend
My childhood best friend, Don Wilburn, was black. He was the best friend you could ask for. Don was adopted by a white family. I remember he had a blue police car I wanted, so I asked him if I could have it. I was expecting him to say no, or at least ask me to trade him something of equal value, but no, he said you can have it. I insisted he should pick something I owned as an even exchange, but he refused. One day after school, I rode my bike to his house about a mile away, like I did almost every day. But one day, when I knocked on his door, his step mom told me he was adopted by another family and didn't know where he was. I was so sad. I cried all the way home. I was never going to see my best friend again. It took me a long time to get over it. No other kid could match him as a friend.
~ Black Socks
My relationship process
Our relationship will start online but finish in person with us getting to know each other through Fet messages, e-mails, webcam sessions, IM chats, texts, and phone conversations. I prefer webcam or phone because they're much more personable, as they capture facial expressions, physical mannerisms, and voice, allowing us to have a clear picture of who we really are and how we behave in day-to-day life.
I would prefer daily communication, but every couple days is fine, too. Just show an effort, or it's over. I am monogamous and that will never change. I will be loyal to you at all times and you will to me. Remember, you get what you give.
After we get to know each other super well, either you will visit me, or I will visit you at one of our homes. By this time, complete trust should be established and the need to meet in a public place can safely be waived. There may or may not be kink and/or sex during our first meeting. It just depends how we vibe and if we want to go there. We will each pay 50 percent of the trip because we are both equally invested in the relationship. I see no issue with that as a tribute to each other, and this same payment plan will continue for each future trip unless we agree otherwise.
I will add you to my CS friends list if I feel we're getting along and there's potential. You must make an effort to stay there through great communication, reading my journal entries, loving my photos, leaving me photo comments, a wall comment, and just being a good friend. Expect the same. If 3 months pass and I don't hear from you, I will remove you.
We must have mental, physical, emotional, spiritual, and sexual chemistry IN PERSON. I am a sapiosexual and demisexual, which means I require an intellectual and emotional connection to a person in order to have any kind of relationship or sex. Our relationship will be romantic AND kinky. There will be plenty of vanilla moments, too. We are perverts, but we are also fully functioning people.
~ Black Socks
What I've learned in my 33 years
Trust very few people. Great friends are hard to find and great lovers are even harder to find. Don't believe everything you hear. Don't assume anything. Most people suck. Don't feed the trolls. Think before you speak. Liberty and justice is questionable. Never use absolutes, like everybody and anything. The more brilliant you are, the more likely you are to be single. Most things aren't what they seem. Commonsense isn't common. Most people are stupid. Spend your money wisely. Only a fool does drugs: cigarettes, weed, crack, alcohol, etc. Give a helping hand when you can. Always be prepared. Love one person with everything you have. Take nothing for granted. People usually get what they deserve. Never judge a book by its cover. Always speak your mind. Never take shit from anybody. Fight for what you believe in. Be brutally honest. Never worry about what other people think of you. Never be afraid to say sorry. Wanting somebody is not showing weakness. Always be who you are. It's never too late to change. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Respect is earned. Always show gratitude. Learning is a life-long journey. Political correctness is political corruption. Never do something for the money. Time is precious. Treat everybody with respect and kindness that deserves it. We all have our good days and bad days. Listen more than you talk. We all make mistakes, just don't repeat them. Family can be the enemy. Why be jealous when you can be amazing? Women are just as bad as men. Always do what you say when you say. Haters are people in pain. If you don't love yourself, you can't love anybody else. Being educated and intelligent are two different things. You can't please them all.
Most people would make you believe that life is about being stupid, lonely and miserable. Don't be one of them.
Never give up. Be a doer, not a dreamer. We all have problems. It's how we deal with them that matters. Positivity is productivity. What you say and do affects others.
~ Black Socks
Jonathan, the man with the 22-inch penis LOL
I usually don't write about all the hilarious phone sex calls I eavesdrop on, but this morning's call takes the cake, so I thought I should. I almost died from laughter. A man named Jonathan supposedly has been taking penis-enlargement pills for three years, and his cock has grown to 22 inches! That would be twice as long as the other supposed largest penis in the world. According to Jonathan, his cock weighs 10 lbs when it's hard. He continues to take blue pills. Either he's lying, or he doesn't have long. Get it, long? LOL He's probably handicapped and bedridden. Would a woman actually want a pathetic man like this, who has a supposed 22-inch penis attached between his legs? Would you fuck Jonathan if you were a woman just to say you fucked the biggest penis in the world? LOL
~ Black Socks
BDSM is about making each other better people
BDSM is not just about having lots of kinky sex and fantastic orgasms. It's about teaching, learning, growing, benefiting, and suffering together through vanilla life, and having lots of kinky sex and fantastic orgasms. In order to have a successful D/s relationship, all partners have to be mentally sharp and have non-sexual things to offer on the table. You need to get to know the vanilla side of a person before you even consider the kinky side.
~ Black Socks
I can switch. I just don't like to.
While I am a slave, I can switch. I just don't like to. :^P Ladies have told me for years, I would make the most amazing Daddy Dom. I know that's true because I'm EXTREMELY dominant by nature in daily life and the boardroom. I'm on top of things like nobody's business and I don't miss a beat. I'm a natural born leader. But when I come home, I'm exhausted and don't want to be dominant. I need a break and want to relinquish all control to my beautiful Mistress. Women are the sex rulers. Their beautiful bodies exude pure sexuality. I do what she says in sex. However, I understand submissive and switch women share my feelings and want a superior man like myself to manhandle them and show them male authority, and I can do that for a woman I love and care about, especially if my Mistress orders me to, once or twice a week or something. As a slave, I love to act pathetic for my Domme and please and spoil her. As a Dom, I love to educate, improve, nurture, protect, care for, and guide my babygirl to greatness, and treat her like a cock whore in the bedroom and a queen outside of it.
~ Black Socks
Brilliant people have the hardest time finding a relationship
My Mistress friend told me that she read that brilliant people have the hardest time finding a relationship earlier tonight on the phone, and she's exactly right. This describes me and my love life perfectly. Because I'm brilliant, I have not been able to find a keeper. I've been called intimidating and pushy. According to her, people view people like me as thinking we're better than everybody and nobody is good enough, when really that's just some mental block in their mind. What I'm really thinking is just be intelligent and a good woman.
~ Black Socks
If you want a message from a guy like me...
Women always complain about all the lame messages they receive from loser guys, so here's how to get messages from a guy like me:
Try hard and search. If you actually believe that love will just come to you, you're going to be lonely for life. I have searched well over 250,000 female profiles. I search a little a day. It's the only way to find them. Just because you're a female, doesn't mean you just get to sit back and relax. You know what that brings.
Have at least one full-face pic. The reason I don't show my face here is because 9/10 women don't. It's fucking irritating. It's a handsome face, and I'm happy to show it to you. Show me yours, and I'll show you mine. They crop their head out or pixelate it. If I can't see your face and know I'm physically attracted to you, I will just leave your profile without reading it, unless something else catches my eye, like a mask photo, which may create an interest and make me read it. Being a professional and maintaining your privacy is the weakest argument I have ever heard. We are all kinky here. If you're afraid or ashamed to be here, leave. I do not care about seeing 500 funny or inspirational regurgitated Internet pics. It's annoying as fuck having to scroll through them all, and I just don't have time. I want to see YOU. No more than 100 pics per profile, please. Got it? I will not message a mystery woman and then in 6 months come to find out I'm not physically attracted to her, wasting tons of my time. Just stupid. I need to know from the start, as most of my submission comes from a woman's physical beauty. I don't care how dominant you are. If you're unattractive, I will cringe and be ashamed to serve you.
Make sure your profile is not one or two lines of bad grammar. It's pathetic and lazy. You need to tell me who you are and give me a reason to message you. Captivate my mind. You want one or two paragraphs. No more than that. Do not write a book like some women, especially when it's rife with spelling and grammar mistakes. Yes, you are being judged, so don't look like a dunce. Proofread your work and give me an amazing lasting impression.
Make sure all your info is included on your profile, especially your orientation, role(s), and relationship and D/s relationship status(es). If your info is missing, incomplete, or incorrect, the right people can't find you.
I can't stand seeing profiles here as old as 8 years that are taking up server space for nothing. All inactive profiles longer than 1 year should be auto deleted. If your profile says last activity was 3 months ago, I will pass. You need to check your CS at least once a week. Otherwise, a guy like me will think you're not serious.
Do not include business or personal website URLs in your profile. I do not care about your lame run-of-the-mill sex business or kinky Tumblr, and will not visit your page outside of CS. Show me your pics and get my attention, here.
Do not have 1,000+ friends. No you don't. Friend collectors are either a business trying to attract clientele, or troll that's trying hard to look cool. You know, the type that just sits behind a computer harassing you women that's never even had a girlfriend. I have no friends on CS, and that number used to be higher, but due to a lack of communication or betrayal, I deleted them. To be added to my friends list, you need to be an amazing person and a great communicator. You may make my friends list, but if I don't hear from you for 3 months or you screw up, you will be removed. I'm all about quality over quantity.
~ Black Socks
15 things I love in a woman
1. She's dominant, intelligent, and beautiful. 2. She's goth or wears black all the time. 3. She's bossy, possessive, and controlling. 4. She loves foot worship and masks. 5. She's monogamous. 6. She's brilliant, egotistical, and equally caring. 7. She tells me I am all hers forever. 8. She always speaks her mind and doesn't give a fuck what anybody thinks. 9. She's a woman of her word. 10. She loves the vanilla and kinky me, and wants both. 11. She tells me my brilliant mind makes her horny. 12. She's an overachiever and a boss in business. 13. She gives 100% percent to me always, just like I do her. 14. She knows I'm her God and she's my Goddess, and this kink stuff is just play. 15. She loves when I serve and spoil her.
~ Black Socks
15 things I hate in a woman
1. Tries to educate me on something I already know; probably better than her.
2. Makes false assumptions without a shred of proof, or generalizations that don't apply to me.
3. Gets angry at me because I ask a simple question, like "Could you be monogamous?" Yes or no is all I need.
4. Tells me how amazing I am, she wants to be my Mistress, but 2 days later flakes out and changes her mind. Make a decision and stick to it.
5. Tries to outsmart me, learns she can't, and faces the consequences.
6. Takes out her male frustration on me and tries to make me pay for losers' mistakes. I'm not a loser. Don't treat me like it.
7. Doesn't call when she says. My time is very valuable. When you don't call, you're disrespecting me.
8. Acts like a two-faced bitch, calling me sweet to my face but egotistical behind my back.
9. Accuses me of topping from the bottom when we're not in a relationship. When I'm getting to know you and not your slave, I am supposed to talk to you like the alpha-male I am by nature.
10. Shows no intelligence or makes no effort to develop a relationship. This includes giving me a "tough girl" attitude, reciting random wise person quotes to try and sound smart, demanding I purchase expensive sex toys, or legally change my birth name after knowing her for a fucking day, playing mind games and wasting both of our time, hanging up on me because my dark mind makes her feel uncomfortable when she told me she would have no problem with it, wanting only the vanilla me, and lots of other shit.
11. Exhibiting poor written English grammar when you are an American. It's a sign of a careless fool that can't be trusted.
12. Saying stupid things like "everybody does this," "I'll try anything twice," "I don't judge," etc.
13. Tries to always get the last word in by rejecting me and saying some tired ass line she doesn't even mean, like "I wish you the best of luck." Baby, I don't need luck. Black Socks got more game than Parker Brothers.
14. Jumping to false conclusions without even having all the facts and getting offensive. For example, accusing me of not reading a woman's profile, when I read her entire profile, or asking a sub woman if she could switch, simply because she's not smart enough to understand the reason I contacted her and asked her the question. I am the ultimate opportunist. It's a big reason why I'm so incredibly successful. I know EXACTLY what I'm doing. While most people will give up on somebody within 3 seconds and possibly miss the very one they're trying to find, I will make damn sure this person and I are not going to work before saying goodbye. It's called effort. Get some.
15. Nitpicking the most incidental things about a guy, like he has a landline phone, so he must be a caveman. Or maybe he's a business pro who pays $90 a month for his phone and Internet, doesn't want to pay more than he needs to, and wants a phone where the battery doesn't die, the signal doesn't get dropped, or the call cuts out and I can't hear what you said. Really wish people would think before they speak.
~ Black Socks
My hard limits
By no means is this a complete list, but here's my current list of hard limits. These acts are either harmful to health or just disgusting. Always play safe, sane, and consensually. Kink and/or sex should always be fun and worry free.
FinDommes. I get no pleasure from giving a female stranger money online or in person unless she is my girlfriend or wife.
Having nonconsensual sex. It's against the law. Being with a criminal or sex abuser. I do not have a criminal record. Blood. It makes me squeamish. Eating fecal matter or drinking urine. It's bodily waste! Having poor personal hygiene.
Having sex with children. It's shameful and disgusting to take a mentally- underdeveloped child and brainwash them into thinking having sex with adults is acceptable.
Using a loaded gun or real knife. Always use an unloaded real gun or fake gun, or a plastic knife when playing because you could accidentally injure or kill someone.
Kicking or punching me, especially in the balls (ball busting). It's just plain stupid and can lead to serious injury, including losing the ability to make children.
Extreme pain, including canes, crops, whips, needles, strangling, scratching, bruises, pinching, cutting, or scars. I hate permanent marks.
Spitting. Vomiting. Food play. Farting. Taking hard drugs. Only a fool does drugs and destroys their health. Pessimists that do not trust anybody and are always miserable. Jealousy. I have no place for it in my life. Be happy for me, or be gone.
Drama queens with crazy ex-boyfriends or husbands, or other issues I want nothing to do with. I have no drama in my life, and I expect the same from my partner.
Buying a cheap $10 ball-gag that's made with toxic plastic! Be prepared to pay at least $30 for a high-quality, medical-grade silicon ball-gag.
Inhaling poisonous cigarette smoke or ingesting cigarette ashes. Smoking causes lung cancer and eating ashes will damage your internal organs.
Drinking alcohol where you're drunk all the time, disrupting everybody's life, and putting yourself at high risk for liver, colon, and brain cancer.
Poly people who have sex with new partners without even requiring them to share their STD and STI test results, which can cause them and any other partners to contract HIV or AIDS.
Licking a person's asshole. No matter how well you wash your asshole, it will always be contaminated. If you enjoy anal sex, always use a dental dam, which is a piece of latex. Place it over the asshole and lick through it. The dental dam acts as a barrier between your mouth and a person's ass, protecting your health.
Using the same strap-on in a person's mouth and ass. Always have one strap-on that's easily distinguishable (different size) from the second one to use on a person's mouth and ass.
Sticking your dirty fingers into someone's mouth. Make sure your hands are clean first.
Using dirty sex toys. Always thoroughly disinfect your toys before you use them with mild dish detergent and warm water; never sex toy cleaners because they may contain ingredients unsafe for humans.
Placing Duct tape directly over a person's mouth or eyes. Always place a cloth or something similar over the lips or eyes and then apply the Duct tape to the cloth, as Duct tape, while supposedly completely non-toxic since 2008, may use a harmful ingredient that could injure the person or make them ill. The glue on the backside will also stick to the eyes or lips and is painful to remove, so the cloth makes it painless to remove.
Eating off or licking contaminated surfaces, such as a toilet seat, shoe or shoe soles, or the floor.
Sucking the dirt off the heels on your high heels or boots. I'm not trying to get a disease.
Eating animal food or any other foreign object or substance, such as finger or toenails. Putting dirty things in your mouth, such as a knife, pen, rope, crop, etc.
Branding, such as a piercing or tattoo. There's no guarantees you will be with that person for life.
Using chloroform, especially repeated applications of it. Just place a clean rag over the victim's mouth and have them pretend to pass out.
Diapers. I am a grown man. Dilation. This is where you open up the vagina, anus, or cervix. Fire play. I'm not getting burned. Electric play. I'm not getting electrocuted. Vacuum stimulation. Sounding. You will never insert anything into the slit of my penis. Enemas. Cleaning your insides out is not healthy for you. Penis pumping. I'm not having my cock turn purple. Nose torture using hooks. Fisting. You're not stuffing your whole hand up my ass like a turkey. Trampling, especially my head. I'm not trying to get crushed or brain damage. Catheterization. Figging. You're not stuffing a burning ginger root up my ass.
Using a permanent marker on skin. They're not really non-toxic on skin according to Sharpie. I will use only skin-safe body markers, like the marathon runners wear.
Real-life cuckolding or pimping. I enjoy verbal fantasy cuckolding, though. However, I would never be a real cuckold because me and my partner could contract an STD or STI, and it's completely disrespectful to our relationship and what we mean to each other.
Giving and receiving tattoos or piercings. I will never have a tattoo or piercing, and I would only get one from a professional tattoo artist who is licensed, not my friend who has tattoo tools, to avoid skin cancer or infection.
Eating out. Restaurants have all kinds of health violations. Having sex with dead people. LOL Castration. Unless you want to bleed profusely and die. Snuff. Death.
~ Black Socks
Thirsty fuck boys
Guys, women do not like thirsty fuck boys that are desperate for sex, harass them for sex, and show no interest in them as a person. If you're desperate, at least try to hide it.
~ Black Socks
Being kinky is not an excuse to have poor personal hygiene
I have excellent personal hygiene, and that goes double when I have a partner. Being kinky is not an excuse to have poor personal hygiene. You need to brush your teeth or eat mints before kissing; wash your body well, especially your genitals; and always wash your hands well before, during, and after using the bathroom or touching food.
~ Black Socks
Monogamous and polyamorous?
If you view my profile, you will notice I am listed as monogamous. However, I will not commit myself to any woman until we meet in person and know what we have is genuine and long term. Once dedication and chemistry is established, I am 100% loyal and monogamous to my partner for the life of our relationship. Until that time, I am poly, meaning I will talk to and build relationships with other women. I will have sex with a woman only after we exchange STD and STI test results to ensure we're both clean and our sex is risk free. I'm poly until I'm mono, and I love to be mono.
~ Black Socks
Don't be so quick to say no
I view a lot of profiles, and I mean a lot. LOL I've noticed some don't even specify what the person is looking for, or are missing the proper role(s) or relationship status(es). Then as I read -- yes, I actually read profiles -- they may mention what they're seeking, but probably not. People need to make sure their profiles are completely accurate. Otherwise, you could let the person you're looking for slip through the cracks because you left the wrong impression! That's why Fet has such exhaustive profile options: so you can be completely accurate about you and what you want, so use them well to maximize your chance of success. A short profile with stock photos, which are technically not allowed, and poor grammar is the best way to failure. No effort, no kink or sex. You will be judged.
You should also not be so quick to say no to a person. I can't tell you how many times a woman has said in her profile she wasn't looking for a guy like me, or replied and told me she was not interested. But then a message later, they sometimes change their mind and tell me they would love to get to know me. ;^) This is why I never listen to a profile, because most people don't even know what they want, or do a poor job of communicating it. Damned if I know if you don't know.
Some women say they're not interested in a guy like me on their profile, but they secretly are and I'm the exception to the rule. I'm no fucking mind reader. The reason these women say that is to try, and it rarely works, and keep the undesirables from messaging them, as most guys just harass women and don't even bother reading their profiles or sending them a thoughtful message. Pathetic.
So am I wrong for messaging these women to be sure they don't want me, or right because it turned out they really wanted to hear from me? Well, it's a risk, and with some people it works and others it doesn't, because they mean what they say. So if I wrote you and you're one of those women, know I wrote you not because I didn't read your profile or to disrespect you, but to be sure you're really not interested. I really wish people would stop and think before they snap.
~ Black Socks
Minor misunderstandings
Over the last couple days, two Dommes whom I have developed very strong relationships with blocked me for minor misunderstandings. The first was a non-binary person because I asked about their body parts. I had to contact them using an alternative account to apologize. They are the first non-binary person I have ever interacted with, so it's a learning process. This person seems incredible and we have so many things in and out of kink in common. We spent, like 6 or 7 hours speaking on the phone last night and had an amazing conversation. The second was a Domme I had a lot in common with. I invested a lot of time into getting to know her, including leaving her a bunch of photo comments. She usually loves my hilarious comments, but tonight a couple offended her and she blocked me. I've sent her a letter of explanation asking her to unblock me and am awaiting her response.
The problem is I have never met either of these lovely beings in person, so I do not know these people or what they find funny or offensive. Each person is a learning process and things are always subjective. The point I'm trying to make is, while they felt blocking me was the right decision at the time, they may regret their decision, so people should be much more careful about when they use the block button, because you could remove somebody from your life you really want in it, due to a minor misunderstanding that's easily and genuinely explainable.
~ Black Socks
Let's talk about tributes
Because of the influx of fake time-wasting subs/slaves, some Dommes require a tribute before they will allow you to serve them to try and vet the fakes from the real subs/slaves. Some will not even respond to your initial message without a monetary tribute. Some require weekly tributes. And some abuse tributes and that's all they want. Some Dommes will accept any sub/slave, and others will only select a chosen few; be careful about the former type that just want your money. The problem with this rule is it's not fair to the real subs/slaves, especially the dream ones like me, for a variety of reasons:
The initial required tribute amount is never something reasonable, like $5, but usually $50 and up, with no money-back guarantee. This is why you should never send a stranger a penny before meeting them in person and verifying what you have is genuine. And you should especially never share your banking info with anybody until you have met them in person and known them for a long time, where you completely trust them in an agreed arrangement. It's not fair to expect anybody to pay you when they don't even know you! For all this person knows is they pay you and then you disappear or neglect your responsibility as a dominant to them, and they feel cheated and robbed.
There's just as many fake FinDommes out there as fake subs/slaves, who use the lifestyle as a crutch to make easy money. While they all don't contact finsubs and finslaves to seek them out, what they're doing is a disgrace to the lifestyle: using BDSM as an excuse to cash in. The only exemption is if a sub/slave truly enjoys giving their Domme money. But only the stupid finsubs and finslaves that give their money away are the ones to blame, because if nobody ever gave these scammers money, they'd stop demanding it.
A dominant needs a submissive just as much as a submissive needs a dominant, so it's not fair that a dominant asks for money if their sub/slave is working their hardest to please their Domme. That should be payment enough.
If a slave has verifiable referrals, such as myself, the initial and possibly ongoing tribute requirement should be waived and a trial of service should be offered at a minimum.
A sub/slave should tribute their Domme just because they want to, and a tribute can be other things than money, not because she pests me for one.
~ Black Socks
Warning signs of a psychotic Domme
Here's a list of warning signs you're dealing with a psychotic Domme whom you have only known for a few hours:
They demand you legally change your first name!
They demand you send them a dozen roses when you don't even know if you love this person.
They demand you buy specific expensive sex toys.
They demand you sell everything inside your house and the house.
They expect you to make more money working less hours.
They fall in love with your personality, but then suddenly you're too dominant for them.
They are so strict and stupid, they accuse you of topping from the bottom when you give them a simple answer or suggest good advice to prevent them from making a poor decision or harming their health. For example, the Domme has painters over and she's staying in the house inhaling the toxic paint fumes! So I advise her to at least open up all the windows to air out the house. She then complains I'm too pushy, argues with me that newer paints do not contain lead or any harmful ingredients that could give you cancer or another illness, but gets lightheaded minutes later and tells me I'm right and she is going to get a room at a hotel for the night.
They are so fickle, they agree to order something you asked them to, but then cancel the order a few minutes later, or they purposely pick a different item or color, when you agreed on a particular item or color.
They tell you not to call them again when they don't mean it, or call them in weird time intervals, like 12 minutes or 17 minutes, instead of 10 or 15 minutes.
They get to a point where you don't know when they're serious or joking, and when, if ever, you can be a normal person and when you must speak like a slave.
They are constantly changing the relationship dynamic. For example, monogamous puppy gimp slave one minute, and cuckold gimp slave the next.
They ask you to relocate to them!
They are never willing to help you, including financially.
They constantly speak in famous quotes and lose all commonsense and logic.
~ Black Socks
How to manage vanilla and kink in a healthy way
Many people are addicted to kink/sex. This is why so many people try to have a job dealing with sex. They start as vanilla people with a good job and love what they do, but then kink/sex start to consume them and they can't focus on anything normal anymore and their whole life starts to fall apart because the sex/kink controls their every thought and move. This is reckless behavior, and if not managed properly, can lead to all sorts of problems, from health to employment. A person must be able to separate vanilla from kink and understand there is a time and place for each. When in vanilla land, do not think about sex or kink and focus on what you're doing so you do a good job.
~ Black Socks
Intense orgasms only
Most guys want to cum every day, multiple times a day. That's boring and then you start taking masturbation and sex for granted, and it loses all its glory. Not me. I love to please and spoil my Domme to the extreme until she just grabs me, gives me the most passionate kisses, forces me to sniff her stinky black socks or nylons, and rapes my ass and cock for hours as we share multiple magical intense orgasms until we're both exhausted and she leaves me there until she's ready to use me again.
~ Black Socks
I'm domestic Batman
The best way I can describe my vanilla life is I'm domestic Batman, living in my high-tech geeky cave of solitude waiting for the alarm to sound so I can rush to the scene and save the day. Sure would be nice to have Catwoman kidnap and enslave me. ;^)
~ Black Socks
The woman who never took off her ski mask
There once was a dominant woman who kidnapped a submissive man. She always wore a black ski mask and forced him to wear one, too. She ordered him to address her as Mistress Ski Mask. He would often ask her, "May I please see your face, Mistress Ski Mask?" She just flashed a sadistic smile and stuffed a gag into his mouth. There were times when she would slip a black blindfold over his blue eyes and tease his determination to see her face by saying such things as, "It feels so good to remove this black ski mask." This game of facial anonymity went on for the rest of their lives. Then one day when they were both wrinkly, the male captive asked his female kidnapper the same question: May I please see your face, Mistress Ski Mask? She said, "No, because we love each other for who we are, not what we look like." He smiled and said, "I won't ask the question again, Mistress Ski Mask." She just smiled and kissed him until he came.
~ Black Socks
Not all men are crusty cum
I have met my fair share of women, and they all tell me the same troubling thing: I am damaged from an ex or exes and have issues. Ladies, I'm a dream guy, just ask any woman who has the pleasure of knowing me. I don't say that to be braggadocios. I say it because it's a proud fact. And I'm here to tell you not all men stalk, hit, gaslight, or hurt women and are crusty cum. I am so sorry for what you have had to experience. Nobody deserves to be treated like trash, unless that's what you want. I only want to be a happy and positive presence in the very lucky lady's life I may one day enter. But you cannot try to punish me for the pain other guys have put you through, or we both lose. And I do not lose. I am not your enemy. I am your answer to everything you've ever wanted in a man, and I do mean that. These guys are cowards with deep insecurities that fear men and pick on women. If you're one of these losers, STOP. You're never going to get what you want this way. To the guys considering becoming one of these losers, let me be an example to you on how to be a real man.
~ Black Socks
My funny jokes
I have so many awesome jokes. I usually forget them, but here's a few I did remember. Enjoy.
I saw a chick wearing a T-shirt that read "Single as Fuck." I told her, "Sorry, honey. I only fuck chicks that have multiple orgasms."
Why do some women love their ugly dogs, but they won't date ugly guys? Aren't all men dogs?
Me: You wouldn't like me. I smell like onions and dick cheese. Girl: So you're a sandwich? Me: No, a manwich Girl: Let's fuck!
~ Black Socks
Superman becomes super slave
I have amazing willpower. I can resist all temptations--drugs, alcohol, gambling, smoking, drinking--but I can't resist beautiful, dominant, intelligent women. I'm like Superman, standing tall and proud, but then I see her, my kryptonite, and crumble to my knees. I start to crawl 20 feet to her. It takes every last drop of energy I have. Those 20 feet seem like 20,000. She stands in the distance like Harley Quinn or Catwoman with a big pretty smirk on her face, dangling my slave collar on her pretty painted finger yelling, "Come to me, super pussy or super clown. Obey me." Once I arrive at her feet, she grabs my hair, lifts me up, and locks the slave collar around my neck. I try to remove it with my superhuman strength, but she just laughs. Feeling humiliated, she attaches my leash and walks me back to her evil lair.
~ Black Socks
This is me
"I am who I am. I do what I do. It's never gonna change. Love me or hate me. To myself I shall always be true."
~ Black Socks
Mark Cuban is a political idiot
I love Mark Cuban as an investor on "Shark Tank." He's a business genius that helps so many entrepreneurs have a better life by getting their products to market to improve the world. But he's a political idiot that voted for Hillary Clinton, a 30-something-year career criminal, and swore Donald Trump (who I said would be our next president the same day he announced he was running) would never be our next president. So you'd think the guy would've learned to keep his stupid mouth shut about Trump, but instead now he's saying Trump's management style is poor. Yes, Mark, Donald owns an incredibly successful real-estate company and employs thousands of people who love how he does business, but he has a poor management style. sarcasm
~ Black Socks
The sweetest thing anybody's ever said to me
When I was 17 while singing a song, one of my fans said, "May I just touch you?" At first this comment creeped me out. What could she mean? Was she joking? I asked, "Why?" She said, "I think you're an angel and I just want to touch you." I said, "I don't know about all that, but I'd be happy to give you an autograph and a hug." She smiled. That was the sweetest thing anybody's ever said to me.
~ Black Socks
Most people and things are not who or what you think
"Most people and things are not who or what you think. They usually contain lies, half-truths, and catches."
~ Black Socks
Donald Trump, the Saving Father of America
For the first time in 23 years, I am proud to be an American citizen again. Donald Trump is awesome. I have said the same things he has for those last 23 years. Donald Trump is the chosen one to make America great again.
The minute I heard Trump was running for president, I said he would be our next president, and on January 20, 2017, like usual, I was proved correct. I just knew he would overcome all adversity and be our next leader because enough people were sick and tired of the incompetent crooks in Washington, and this time they wanted real positive change. And now we officially have it. :^)
To any American who did not vote for Trump, you should be deported and ashamed of yourself. Protesting will do absolutely nothing but get you jailed, killed, or destroy public property. Donald is our president for the next 4 years, so instead of being part of the problem, start being part of the solution and supporting the greatest US president since Reagan. When he wins, we win. If he loses, we all lose. Support him, not slander him. Donald is such a complete president. He's a business genius that knows how to make America safe and rich, and he's funny. He's a business-centric president, which means he's all about creating as many jobs as he can, and we can never have enough jobs.
Trump is all about uniting, not dividing, America. However, some people just don't get it. They are peaceful wimps with no commonsense. America is under the greatest risk to security than ever with terrorism, and we MUST take drastic actions, including extreme vetting of immigrants and building a large boarder wall, to show these spawns of satan we mean business and no longer will they be easily able to enter our great country and kill innocent Americans. Yes, some Muslims and such are good people, and we are sorry that these decisions negatively effect their lives, but they are necessary and stand. And we always want good-hearted, brilliant people to come to America, legally.
Donald Trump is proving to be great, making good on 4 campaign promises already in just one week on the job, putting 3 more in progress, signing all kinds of executive orders to start building the boarder wall, extreme vetting immigrants, and much more. I love this man and agree with 95% of everything he's done or wants to do. I've said these things for the last 23 years! Terminating Bill Clinton's Trans-Pacific Partnership was another win, as it's almost as bad as the Iraq War, which I vehemently opposed from the minute George Bush announced it. President Trump even hung up paintings of all our Founding Fathers in his Oval Office to remind him of what it means to be a real US president. Madonna and all these protesters are pathetic hating on Trump. He's the only chance our country has at a comeback, because he's the only one with the brains and balls to keep America safe and rich. The Women's March is completely stupid. The election is over and Trump is officially our 45th president, and no amount of complaining is going to change that. And if you're going to light somebody's car on fire, make sure you light the right one on fire. The protesters just cost a Muslim man a million dollars for a new limo. LOL The next 4 years are going to be full of controversy, and the lying media is going to try to make a fool out of Trump and his administration, trying to discredit them every chance they get, but in the end, America will be great again. So sorry, CNN and New York Times, but your Democrat-lead superpacks and donors are dead, so you might as well accept defeat and play nicely with Trump. The lying media never give Trump credit for anything. He does the impossible, and they make excuses and lies as to why he was able to accomplish this or that. I will tell you why: because he's a very smart, hard-working, and capable man. They twist his words, spin the truth, and doctor photos, all to try and make him look like a fool. Two ways they tried to do this was by showing an empty field at his inauguration and falsely accusing him of stealing a Martin Luther King Jr statue from the Oval Office. The reporter later said he made a "mistake" and corrected the story. No, he didn't make a mistake. Nobody makes that kind of mistake. He was intentionally trying to make Donald look like this horrible racist thief, which he is not.
Hillary Clinton and the Democrats, your money-laundering crimes are over. You have been completely exposed and damaged the Democratic party for an awful long time. Hillary, your plans to start a talk show to brainwash people to vote for you as president in 2020 will fail, just like you did the American people. We all know who you and your husband really are: traitors, sellouts, and career criminals. You will NEVER be president of the United States.
Here's just some things I've wished for the last 23 years that Trump has done or plans to do:
This was all Trump's idea, but I totally agree. We must build a large, impenetrable wall along the US-Mexico boarder to prevent Mexican drugs and criminals from entering our country that has a big door in the middle and allows valid immigrants to come to America. However, Trump promised that Mexico would pay for the wall, but the Mexican president has made it crystal clear Mexico will not pay for the wall, meaning we the American people will pay for it up front, but we will be reimbursed by Mexico later in some way. The wall will cost about 15 billion dollars, but it's money well spent. To me, that sounds weak and is not what Trump promised. I love when he said that. It's exactly the kind of America-first thinking we sorely need, but it's weak if we have to compromise and a prime example of why Trump needs to watch what he says, because if he can't deliver, he will be seen as a liar.
Returning all our troops from the Iraq War and keeping them home until we actually need them to fight a worthy cause, saving millions of lives and billions of dollars.
Terminating Bill Clinton's Trans-Pacific Partnership, which removes our boarders, gives all benefits to major corporations, and forces the consumers to pay for it all. That means you go poor and no more America. Donald Trump removed us from this retarded bill.
Having good relations with China, Russia, and as many other countries as we can.
Joining forces with all our allies to take ISIS out once and for all.
Removing America from paying for made-up climate change nonsense that doesn't exist and is nothing but a scam so the rest of the world can steal America's money.
Holding quarterly boardroom meetings with all the top CEOs of manufacturing, tech, and every other important sector to make sure we all are on the same page.
Making sure all foreign nations pay their fair share for US security and trade. No more "America pays for everything" stupidity.
Creating more jobs in America than ever before and making the Made in USA logo mean something again.
Supporting no abortions with few exceptions that require approval.
Rebuilding our crumbling airports, bridges, and infrastructures.
Beefing up our military and providing them with the weapons, tools, and vehicles they need to kick ass.
Bringing back waterboarding and other forms of torture because they work and make the enemy usually talk.
Limiting Internet access in Islam and any other countries that are dangerous to America so they can't create campaigns on Facebook and YouTube and try to recruit gullible Americans and brainwash them to join these devils.
And many more.
Now, I do have a few major concerns about Trump:
Donald has no filter on his mouth and will say stupid things every couple days. He always speaks his mind, which is great. The problem is he never thinks about the consequences of his words. Donald is not a violent man and he would never want to start WWIII, but I do have a fear he could piss off our enemies more than ever and could send us to war. Making an impersonation of a retarded reporter is not cool and neither is saying army soldiers with PTSD are weak. It's cowardly and false.
If Donald doesn't make good on his promise of having Bill and Hillary Clinton prosecuted and sentenced to life behind bars, where they belong, he will be seen as a coward. Justice cannot be served until the Clintons get what they deserve.
He's a TV star that is all about self-branding. He loves to make up exaggerated claims just to get the win, but then after the contest, he will water down or cancel his promises, making him lose credibility and voters question their choice.
Chelsea Manning was right to be a whistle-blower and share that video of our soldiers shooting down innocent people for fun and laughing about it, thinking nobody is watching. It's gross and undermines the maturity of our proud military. Trump is right Chelsea is an ungrateful traitor, but Obama was right for freeing her from prison because she did the right thing, and according to sources, never put our national security at risk by sharing the 700 classified documents with the public.
Donald is obsessed with Twitter, but why is it okay for most of you people to be obsessed with social media, but not him? I think it's great he's so communicative with the public and never afraid to say how he feels as president.
However, Donald is a very generous man who cares deeply about making America great again. I would say it is his life's mission. His intentions and heart are true, and I wish him nothing but success for 8 years. It will be key for the Republicans to maintain control of the House, Congress, and Senate so the corrupt Democrats cannot try to resume their plans to work with our foreign foes and destroy America, or delay our plans to prevent it.
I have known about all this for the last 23 years, but most of America is just now waking up to it. The plan was devilishly clever and confirms Agenda 21 is real: corrupt American politicians work with foreign leaders for large personal sums of money to push foreign agenda through and destroy America, making everybody else suffer and future generations pick up the pieces. The Clintons caught the citizens sleeping and took full advantage of them for 30 years. However, now that most of America is aware of what can happen, I do not see the politicians trying this again for a very long time.
Donald Trump looks like a great US president, sounds like one much of the time, and I'm confident will act like one.
~ Black Socks
Positive living
I would say I'm happy and positive 99.8% of the time. I try to always be that way for myself and everybody else in my life. I'm a leader and people need me to be strong so I can take care of them and be a blessing in their lives. When you're happy and positive, good things happen and you have high energy. I always try to do the right thing and keep my promises. Unfortunately, most people suck and are hypocritical, self-centered, liars, unreliable, miserable, stupid, and negative. I never want anybody like that in my life. When you're happy and positive, you live longer, get sick much less, and get more done.
~ Black Socks
Grow, don't destroy, each other
"Grow each other; don't destroy each other."
~ Black Socks
Time
"Time is our most precious commodity, so don't waste it."
~ Black Socks
So, just how hard is it to find a kinky partner?
I've put so many clicks on my mouse's left button within the last year trying to find a quality Domme on Fet and CS, it's finally starting to flake out. I've owned this mouse for 7 years, and if it wasn't for Fet not having a search feature, she'd still be running smooth as silk. LOL I love this mouse. I can probably fix her, but I'm too lazy to play DIYer right now, so I just attached a new mouse to the computer and will use the flaky one to search Fet and CS, and then try to repair her when I shut down my PC for cleaning.
~ Black Socks
Snickerdoodle, the rapper
One of my good female "friends" finds my wack raps hilarious, so I decided to give myself the rapper name Snickerdoodle and share them with you LOL:
I'll be like yo, yo, yola Got me this bitch on my Motorola She's all up in my grill, but we ain't got no burgers, just boobs She fucks me so much, we all outta lubes Yo, we be eating turkey, while her ex is beef jerky We'll call him Clarence, he's on the clearance rack Tried to stab her straight in the back He thought she was a cheater because she gave dude a back massage and flipped like it was a corsage Now Clarence wanna act like the NSA, video tape her house, and bug her phone But she's gonna catch him on tape so he goes to prison and gets butt r*ped by Butch, where he'll be crying all alone ROFLMAO
Aww, shit. Snickerdoodle is back with a new rhyme. Bitch was getting impatient. Like it's about time.
So you wanna piece of Snickerdoodle? Suck my candy bar, it's sweet like pastry strudel And Clarence, he's a creepy-ass wet noodle I'm dog intolerant, get rid of the poodle Choose? Bitch, please, I take the whole kit and caboodle ROFLMAO
Bitch really gone and done it now Gonna take this mic and give her a verbal pow Yo, been talkin' to this chick named Punky Bruiser "Full House" was great, but she's more of a Punky Brewster Girl got chubby cheeks like a chipmunk Wanna act all hard like a street punk This is Snickerdoodle, bitch, knock on wood Before I blessed your life, you never had it so good *Throws mic down like I own the joint.* ROFLMAO
~ Black Socks
My amazing predictions
A true visionary with gut feelings that are right 9/10 times. The things you are about to read are truly astonishing and 100% accurate. I've been asked to write a book on my incredible life and told I should run for president.
MARTIN BRODEUR At just 9 years old after coming in from playing street hockey one evening, I turned on the TV and the first thing that came on was an NHL hockey game between the New Jersey Devils and Boston Bruins. I started watching this game and the announcer said the name Marty Brodeur. I never seen or heard of this guy before. Shortly after, Marty Brodeur, a rookie goalie, comes out to the blue line and misplays the puck, turning it over to a Bruin, who tried to flip the puck really high over Marty's head so it would softly land and glide into the goal. Most goalies would've given up right there, but not Marty. He skated frantically back to his net, made an amazing diving save, and it was at this moment I said, "Someday Marty Brodeur will be the greatest goalie in NHL history." Many years later after his retirement, Martin Brodeur is officially the greatest goalie in NHL history and holds practically every NHL goalie record. It gives me chills when I hold his signed rookie cards or book, knowing that I called it as just a 9-year-old boy.
MICROSOFT AND BILL GATES Once I heard Bill Gates was stepping down at Microsoft in mid-2006 to pursue his philanthropy activities, I was pissed because I know he's irreplaceable like Steve Jobs from Apple. I knew Microsoft was doomed. I told all my fellow geeks do not install Vista and stick with XP because Vista will have all kinds of bugs and data corruption issues. I even had a funny joke about Vista where I used to say "Hasta la Vista, baby" from Arnold Schwarzenegger. LOL So what did most of these geeks do? Install Vista and learn the hard way. They were begging to come back to XP, but most couldn't find another copy and were stuck. I told them to wait until the next Microsoft OS after Vista before upgrading from XP, which was Windows 7. And I said that after Windows 8, Microsoft desperately needs Bill Gates back in full force, or Microsoft will be extinct in another 15 years, and you're starting to see that prediction take truth with Windows 10. If Microsoft doesn't stop with all the forced Windows 10 upgrades, the people are going to do a Trump on them and go with Apple or Linux.
I used to sports bet and made a fortune doing it, calling the last 21/22 Stanley Cup champions and 23/27 Super Bowl champions:
NHL STANLEY CUP CHAMPIONS 1994 - New York Rangers: 1995 - New Jersey Devils 1996 - Colorado Avalanche 1997 - Detroit Red Wings 1998 - Detroit Red Wings 1999 - Dallas Stars 2000 - New Jersey Devils 2001 - Colorado Avalanche 2002 - Detroit Red Wings 2003 - New Jersey Devils 2004 - Tampa Bay Lightning 2005 - NHL Lockout; no season 2006 - Carolina Hurricanes 2007 - Anaheim Ducks 2008 - Detroit Red Wings 2009 - Pittsburgh Penguins 2010 - Chicago Blackhawks 2011 - Boston Bruins (Called before the season even started.) 2012 - Wrong 2013 - Chicago Blackhawks 2014 - Los Angeles Kings 2015 - Chicago Blackhawks 2016 - Pittsburgh Penguins
NFL SUPER BOWL CHAMPIONS 1990 - San Francisco 49ers 1991 - Wrong 1992 - Washington Redskins 1993 - Dallas Cowboys 1994 - Dallas Cowboys 1995 - San Francisco 49ers 1996 - Dallas Cowboys 1997 - Green Bay Packers 1998 - Denver Broncos 1999- Denver Broncos 2000 - St Louis. Rams 2001- Baltimore Ravens 2002 - New England Patriots 2003 - Tampa Bay Buccaneers 2004 - New England Patriots 2005 - New England Patriots 2006 - Pittsburgh Steelers 2007 - Indianapolis Colts 2008 - Wrong 2009 - Pittsburgh Steelers 2010 - New Orleans Saints (Called before the season even started.) 2011 - Green Bay Packers 2012 - Wrong 2013 - Baltimore Ravens 2014 - Wrong 2015 - New England Patriots 2016 - Denver Broncos 2017 - New England Patriots
DONALD TRUMP'S PRESIDENCY Donald Trump said on June 16, 2015: So, ladies and gentlemen, I am officially running for president of the United States, and we are going to make our country great again. Sadly the American dream is dead. But if I get elected president, I will bring it back bigger and better and stronger than ever before. That's the kind of thinking our country needs. I will be the greatest jobs president that God ever created. I've watched the politicians. I've dealt with them all my life. They will never make America great again. They don't even have a chance. The last thing we need is another Bush.
"Donald Trump will be our next president." - Me on June 16, 2015
Donald Trump officially becomes the 45th President of the United States on January 20, 2017.
So when I hear the mainstream media say nobody could've ever predicted Donald Trump would be our next president, or especially how he'd do it, I laugh, because they have clearly never met me. I predicted the entire timeline to his presidency before the primaries even started!
Almost everybody is going to treat Donald like a clown from the start, but after he becomes our 45th president, the joke will be on them.
Donald will win the Republican primaries.
Hillary will win the Democratic primaries by cheating on Bernie Sanders, the only decent Democrat running.
Donald will start a historic political movement.
Hillary and her cronies will pump billions into her campaign, while Trump's will spend a fraction of that, she will have mainstream media on her side, and she will still fail miserably.
Donald is going to take us on an emotional rollercoaster of crazy things he'll say, but the American people will forgive him. That's what makes Donald so special: most people think he's crazy, when really he's a genius.
Donald will blow the lid off the corruption in Washington, the trust in government and justice will be completely gone, and I don't even want to think what will happen after Trump's legacy.
This will be the most controversial, crazy, but important political election of our time.
Hillary will not take Donald seriously until the general election, where she will try so hard to rig the election, but too many people will be watching her and her cronies, and she'll have no choice but to play and lose fair and square.
Hillary will lie on Trump, try so hard to dig up dirt from his past and only have straws to grasp at, she will stage things, and pay people to make him look bad. All lies.
Donald will tell a few little lies, but nothing compared to Hillary and her 30-some years of public deceit and financial robbery.
Donald will win on great honesty and a sincere belief to make America great again.
Julian Assange will be a true patriot, hero, and directly responsible for Trump winning the presidency because his Wikileaks will kill Hillary's credibility. Julian will put his life at risk to do the right thing. They won't indict her, but they will prevent her from becoming president, and Trump may put her in jail once he's in the White House. Please do it.
The mainstream media will do everything it can to suppress the Wikileaks and Donald's truths. The only time the New York Times, CNN, and all the rest will show Trump is when it's negative.
Donald will pick a great vice president who's humble and has loads of political experience. And he will hire the most brilliant minds, like Carl Icahn and Jeff Sessions, to lead his administration to success.
Many Dems and Repubs will be against Donald; a few Repubs will become Trump supporters after they are eliminated from the race; and some Repubs will backstab Donald, only to change their tune after he becomes president and then kiss his ass to keep their job.
Donald will face Hillary for the presidency and win in a landslide. The polls you see are fake in an attempt to make voters think Hillary has it in the bag and they shouldn't vote for Trump. Don't believe it. That 90% to 10% nonsense you see is really in favor of Trump.
Donald wants unity and peace, not division and hate. Even though certain people will betray him, Donald will still extend an offer for them to join him and be part of the solution, not the problem. Donald wants every American to win. I wouldn't even be surprised to see him make up with Paul Ryan and Obama because he needs their experience and knowledge because he's doing on-the-job training.
~ Black Socks
My role models
Martin Brodeur Joe Montana Bill Gates Bryan Abrams Donald Trump
~ Black Socks
Haters
Haters are those bitter people with nothing better to do but bully or put other people down to try and feel better about themselves and their depressing existence. They troll the Internet, hide behind their computers, and wouldn't dare say what they do online to your face. They criticize everything, but can't do it any better. They tell people to get a life, yet don't have a life of their own. They're negative forces that should simply be ignored. They think they're funny, but usually the joke's on them.
~ Black Socks
Thank you, America, for voting Trump as our next president
Thank you to all of my fellow Trump voters for making Donald Trump our next president. For the last 23 years, our government has been sold down the river by greedy, corrupt, incompetent politicians colluding with our foreign foes to destroy our great nation. Well, that shit stops for at least the next 4 years because of you and me.
~ Black Socks
Why I love the color black
Why I love the color black:
Sexy. Primary color of BDSM and D/s.
Gives me deeply dark desires of dominance and submission, including power, loss of power, control, being controlled, greed, generosity, righteousness, and corruption.
Elegant. Basic. Never looks dirty. Goes with everything. Makes the statement you don't care what others think of you because you're so sexy.
~ Black Socks
Nobody knows everything
Nobody knows everything. I know an awful lot, but I don't know everything and never claimed to.
~ Black Socks
If my woman needs male dominance
I have 2 modes of operation:
1. Slave mode 2. Dom mode
While I enjoy being a woman's domestic and sex slave the most, being a slave, I understand women have the same submissive desires I do. I am extremely dominant in life and work, so if my woman needs male dominance to feed her inner whore sometimes, I can easily provide that as long as it's understood she's the primary dominant in the relationship.
Most women want to be taken by a man--even Dommes--and the more intelligent, handsome, funny, and successful he is, the more they want to be brutally fucked and claimed by him.
~ Black Socks
Women make me want to do things I don't want to do
For years now I have had lava-hot cuckolding fantasies, and I planned to keep these just as fantasies that make me cum SO GOOD for the rest of my life. But ever since I've shared my cuckolding fantasies with women, they usually tell me it's so fucking hot and would love it for real. As a submissive man, I always want to please my Domme, so I am now considering sucking cock, kissing men, and sniffing men's stinky black socks, all for her pleasure. My brain and cock are in a tug of war match now over doing these acts or not. LOL Some thoughts and questions that constantly run through my fucked up head:
You're too amazing of a guy to be a cuckold. You could have so many beautiful women all to yourself. Don't do it.
You're a slave that lives to please beautiful women. If she wants you to suck a cock for her, kiss him, or sniff his stinky black socks, you need to do it.
Does this guy have any STIs or STDs?
You're too dominant of a guy and would rip his fucking head off if he touched your woman, especially if he tried to steal her from you.
They're just silly fantasies that make me cum so good. I would never do them in real life, or would I?
You are monogamous and want that special 1-on-1 bond.
~ Black Socks
To be in this lifestyle...
To be in this lifestyle, means you must be easily able to express your true emotions and feelings, be comfortable in your own skin at all times, be able to show your true character, and not be easily embarrassed.
~ Black Socks
How to have a fair, first, in-person meeting with a long-distance play partner
You both pay 50% of the total cost of each visit. You stay at their house for a few days, or they stay at yours, not a hotel. If possible give them a city tour, or make them feel welcomed and special. If one person needs a ride, the other person pays for their gas.
You both need to make a valiant effort and show each other you're serious about being a success. If one person doesn't agree to this, you know they don't really care, are lazy, and just want you to do all the work, and that's no relationship.
~ Black Socks
Never assume you know what a person is thinking or feeling
Never assume you know what a person is thinking or feeling.
~ Black Socks
Everyone is different
What's beautiful to one person is ugly to another. What's intelligent to one person is incompetent to another. What's funny to one person is unfunny to another. What's sexy to one person is unsexy to another. What's normal to one person is abnormal to another. What's said is acceptable to one person but unacceptable to another. What's polite to one person is rude to another. What's amazing to one person is awful to another. What's rich to one person is poor to another. What's success to one person is failure to another. What's confident to one person is egotistical to another. What's conceited to one person is humble to another. What's love to one person is hate to another. What's happiness to one person is misery to another. What's strong to one person is weak to another. What's commonsense to one person is uncommon sense to another. What's wise to one person is foolish to another. What's important to one person is unimportant to another. What's talented to one person is untalented to another. What's passionate to one person is dispassionate to another. What's good to one person is evil to another. What's easy to one person is hard to another. What's life to one person is death to another. What's progression to one person is regression to another. What's hello to one person is goodbye to another. What's hot to one person is cold to another. What's delicious to one person is gross to another. What's courage to one person is cowardly to another. What's healthy to one person is unhealthy to another. What's honest to one person is dishonest to another. What's loyal to one person is disloyal to another. What's trustworthy to one person is untrustworthy to another. What's respectful to one person is disrespectful to another. What's fair to one person is unfair to another. What's nice to one person is mean to another. What's soft to one person is hard to another. What's smooth to one person is rough to another. What's bright to one person is dark to another. What's loud to one person is quiet to another. What's peaceful to one person is chaotic to another. What's comfortable to one person is uncomfortable to another. What's light to one person is heavy to another. What's pleasant smelling to one person is unpleasant smelling to another. What's caring to one person is uncaring to another. What's romantic to one person is unromantic to another. What's affectionate to one person is unaffectionate to another. What's scary to one person is unscary to another. What's kinky to one person is vanilla to another. What's big to one person is small to another. What's pleasure to one person is pain to another. What's reliable to one person is unreliable to another. What's punctual to one person is unpunctual to another. What's short to one person is long to another. What's patient to one person is inpatient to another. What's tall to one person is short to another. What's lots to one person is little to another.
Everyone is different.
~ Black Socks
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
~ Black Socks
Take a negative and turn it into a positive
Take a negative and turn it into a positive.
~ Black Socks
Open letter: You need to vote for Donald Trump
For the last 23 years, our country has been run into a ditch by the most incompetent, crooked leaders and negotiators. We face a 22-trillion-dollar debt and our credit score has been reduced from AAA to AA. In other words, we owe a ton of money and other countries are more reluctant to do business with us. America can't keep borrowing money. Only Donald Trump and Mike Pence can save the country and make America great again. I have nothing to gain by encouraging you to vote for Donald Trump except a better America. I endorse Donald Trump because I have shared all his ideas for the last 23 years with exception to the wall, which I did not think of but love. Let's compare both candidates so I can show you exactly why you need to vote for Donald Trump in November 2016.
Donald Trump PROS: Wealthy business and real-estate genius. Non-politician. Has a sense-of-humor. Knows how to make lots of money and create jobs very well. Self-funded most of his campaign. Has many of the right ideas to make America great again. Blew the lid off the corruption in Washington. Very generous to charity.
Wants to build a long and tall wall to protect our boarder, which was one of the most innovative ideas from a president in a long time.
Used tax laws brilliantly to pay as little in taxes as possible without breaking any laws.
CONS: Very unpresidential. Has very poor temperament. Does not listen to good advice. Very egotistical.
Speaks his mind without any regard for consequences and says some incredibly stupid things, like making an impersonation of a retarded person or saying veterans are weak that have PTSD.
Is a hypocrite for calling other people stupid and weak, when he is just the same.
Claims to have a higher networth than he probably does and keeps lying about how he can't show his taxes because he's under audit by the IRS.
Lied and said the Mexican president agreed to pay for the wall, when he said Mexico will not pay for the fucking wall a few times. LOL
HIS PLAN: Give big businesses tax breaks and decreased regulations so they have more money to employ many people. Bring our jobs back from other countries and keep them here to stay. Build an impenetrable wall to protect our boarder from illegal immigrants, due to elevated terrorism. Invest big bucks into our military to collaborate with our allies and destroy ISIS. Improve education through local, not state, services. Lower taxes for all. Increase minimum wage on a state-by-state basis. Improve quality of life for veterans so they have jobs when they come home and access to all mental-health services they need to deal with the psychological horrors of war. Protect our Second Amendment rights. Make all trade laws fair for America so other countries have to pay their fair share. Abolish the awful Obamacare and not force people to purchase health insurance they may not want or can't afford. Please visit Donald Trump's website for complete details on all his positions. Donald was working for himself and his family, but now he wants to work for you.
Hillary Clinton PROS: None.
CONS: She and Bill are the Bonnie and Clyde of politics. She and Bill hate law enforcement (FBI, CIA, police) and call cops "pigs." She and Bill have threatened and even murdered people to keep them quiet. She had the DNC rigged so Bernie Sanders would lose the Democratic election. Sold weapons to ISIS. Two boxes of Hillary's e-mails just went mysteriously "missing" at the FBI. She admitted being far removed from the struggles of the middle class. She wants to cut Social Security and increase taxes.
Hillary is a long-time completely corrupt politician that along with her husband, Bill, have used their positions of power to defraud the public and self-profit.
Hillary and Bill are two-faced liars that tell the gullible public what they want to hear, while doing something behind closed doors to deceive them. She just admitted to having a public and private opinion on every matter. In other words, she is telling you not to believe a word she says.
She and Bill use their Clinton Foundation as a funnel to store large amounts of money from shady business deals with our foreign enemies that are paid to the Clintons for bogus speeches that cost $250,000 to $700,000 per speech in exchange for favors, such as sharing our top-secret, nuclear-weapons design documents with the Chinese generals.
Hillary used a private e-mail server in her basement with highly classified and sensitive data about our country's dealings that could've been hacked, putting our national security at major risk. She then deleted those 33,000 e-mails when she was feeling the heat that would've implicated her and all her criminal activities.
She just threatened to kill Wikileaks' founder, Julian Assange, if he leaked any of her 33,000 e-mails. She was quoted as saying, "Can't we just drone this guy?" She also is probably responsible for the death of Julian's lawyer a few days ago. I predict that Julian will release all 33,000 e-mails before November 8 that will get Hillary indicted and thrown behind bars, where she belongs.
She wants open boarders and no trade laws so big business doesn't have to pay taxes and all the people would pay more for goods and services, turning us into a communist nation and a world without anymore countries, so the mega corporations would pay her lots of money as a thank you.
The FBI covered up her e-mail server scandal because Bill had an impromptu meeting with FBI Director James Comey's boss, Loretta Lynch, where he intimidated her on a plane just days before James Comey was to go on trial. Loretta probably threatened his job if he prosecuted her.
Hillary's legal team had the government give immunity to 5 key suspects, all of which took the 5th and know something about the laundry list of crimes she's committed.
Hillary used an earpiece with the moderator, Lester Holt, and used hand signals to cheat to a win in the second presidential debate, which is grounds for immediate disqualification from the race.
Only 1 or 2 percent of funds actually goes to The Clinton Foundation, while the Clintons keep all the rest.
The Clintons make deals but only deliver a quarter of each. For example, they agreed to build 65,000 new homes in Haiti, but actually only had 5,000 built and stole the rest of the money.
She had her team pay women to make up stories that Donald groped them, when he never even met them as a way to smear his name and sabotage his chances to become president.
HER PLAN: She has no plan. To say and do whatever it takes to keep stealing your money and putting our country under.
The only people who vote for Hillary are her family, have money to make, have 3 brain cells, or simply do not have a clue about who she really is. Hillary is a career criminal, traitor, and sellout. She and Bill should be spending the rest of their lives in prison. It is a disgrace to the United States of America that Hillary Clinton is even allowed to run for the highest position in the land. To learn even more of my thoughts on this circus act of a presidential election, please keep reading...
Donald Trump could be the next Ronald Reagan
Ever since Donald Trump started to run for president, I have supported him and been saying he will be our next president. Ever since the presidential election started, I have said it's going to be a battle between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton. What makes me even more confident Donald will win this thing is Hillary Hospitalized Clinton's LMAO fall down. Just like Bernie, Hillary is weak, and we could never allow either of them to be our Commander in Chief. It's a sign of weakness to the enemy. Donald is a business genius and family man who always speaks his mind. He's a leader and visionary with deep passion. He's also funny, and that's something we need in a president that never happens. And best of all, he's not a politician or even a Republican. He's just sick and tired of America always losing. His idea to build a wall to protect our boarder is the most original and intelligent one from a president I know of. Donald has blown the lid off the corruption in Washington. He's awesome and has the potential to be the next Hollywood-like Ronald Reagan, who was one of the greatest US presidents like Abraham Lincoln. He will be the greatest jobs-creation president ever. He has all the right ideas, including creating and keeping jobs in America to building up our military so our troops have all modern equipment. Just review his policies on his website and see for yourself.
Donald is great except for two big things: 1. He's a hypocrite with no filter and poor temperament: He always talks about how stupid our leaders and negotiators are, which is true, but then he does something stupid himself every other day, like make an impersonation of a retarded reporter, or arrange a meeting with the President of Mexico and then lie and say he didn't mention the wall during their time together, when the Mexican president has said numerous times it was discussed and Mexico will not pay for that fucking wall. LOL And if Mexico does not pay for that fucking wall, Donald's presidency will be a total failure. Donald is a shrewd negotiator, and I don't doubt he will make Mexico pay for the wall. I love when he talks tough and says things like if our major corporations wanna move to Mexico, we will charge them a tax of 35% per unit to sell it across the boarder. LOL I love it. America is looking better already. LOL
2. He doesn't stick to his guns and changes course whenever he feels he has to please more people to win. Fuck that shit. Say what you mean and do what you say. Ignore the fools.
I don't think his networth is what he says, I think he's a great marketer, and I think that he has things to hide, like his tax returns; but no matter what he has said or done, he's 1000% better than Hillary, and that's why I vote for Donald Trump as our next president and Mike Pence as our next vice president, and you should, too. Mike Pence, his VP, is the best man for the job. He's the exact opposite of Donald. He's honest and humble with plenty of political experience. He's the perfect VP pick. He did an incredible job as Governor of Indiana, and I know he'll do the same thing for America.
I can't believe even 10 people could be stupid enough to vote for Hillary. Bernie Bedtime Sanders LMAO is an old man ready for a retirement home, not presidential material. The rest of the candidates were and are nobodies and complete jokes. And who the fuck cares about the Green Tea Party's Jill Stein, who has a warrant out for her arrest for graffitiing a pipeline in North Dakota, or the Libertarian Party's Gary Johnson, who didn't even know what Aleppo was when asked during the interview. LOL Why are these losers even running? The choice for our next president should be a no-brainer: Donald Trump.
This will be the simplest but most controversial election. Johnny Depp said that this will be the last presidential election. I don't know about that, but it's an interesting thought. I guess what he meant by that statement was Donald will be such a great president, the country will never trust anybody after his leadership, and that's how I feel. Hillary Crooked Clinton and her husband, Bill, are the most corrupt politicians in Washington's history. If you don't know, they use their positions of power and abuse them. They have had many people murdered and use their Clinton Foundation as a funnel to send billions of dollars to their personal bank accounts, while only giving 1% to their charity. They are two-faced and not to be trusted. They tell the gullible fools what they want to hear, all while doing the opposite behind their backs. They do favors for our foreign enemies for big payoffs and say they were paid for speeches. Hillary has also put our national security at great risk by running a personal server in her basement that stored multiple thousands of private e-mails and contained sensitive data that was hacked. She since deleted 30,000-plus of those e-mails to destroy the evidence that she's committing crimes against this country. And the FBI just turns a blind eye with all this indisputable evidence against her. Absolutely pathetic. I have been ashamed to be an American for 26 years. There is no justice or intelligence in politics. It's nothing but a bunch of boring, stupid, old people that are called Congress and the Senate that incessantly argue and get nothing accomplished. Both her and her husband should be spending the rest of their lives in prison wearing black and white stripes, and it's an embarrassment to our Founding Fathers that Hillary is even allowed to run for President of the United States. This election will be rigged by Clinton and her cronies. They never play by the rules. Bernie should've been the Democratic nominee, but the DNC rigged the polls and was caught and exposed for it.
This mess all started 23 years ago with Bill Clinton and Al Gore. In addition to all the corruption the Clintons caused, Bill and Al sold us out for personal gain. They even shared our top-secret nuclear weapons blueprints with the Chinese generals for lots of money, eliminating our edge in war. They are traders and a disgrace to our country. George H. W. Bush and his son were absolute disasters. They are fully responsible for our 22-trillion-dollar debt and reduced AA credit score. I was the first one to oppose the Iraq War as soon as George Bush announced it. I knew what would happen: millions of soldiers' lives lost and trillions of dollars wasted on fighting camel humpers who eat rice out of a rusty bowl. I voted for Obama because I knew while he would be a mediocre president, he was much better than McCain or Romney. Our country is on the path to becoming the new South Africa. We can't afford another corrupt politician that steals our money, lies to us, and asks for our support. Make America great again and vote for Donald Trump this November. I wonder if there's any correlation between Agenda 21 and the death of America for the last 23 years.
~ Black Socks
False marketing and advertising
False marketing and advertising should be crimes punishable by jail time. Either something looks like or does what it claims, or it doesn't. No TV magic, enhanced photos, cherry-picked exceptions, special setups, or lies. Great products and services just sell themselves with great honest marketing. The product or service is great for every user that uses it as intended.
~ Black Socks
Dating sites are a mirage
Dating sites are a mirage. You see millions of members and think, "This is great. I'll find them in no time." Only to come to the realization that the majority of people are losers that are a complete waste of time and energy. You'd be lucky to find 1 amazing person.
~ Black Socks
We want what we can't have, or don't want what we have
We always want what we can't have, or don't want what we have.
~ Black Socks
Shrinking food and drink packages
You may have noticed that food and drink packages have gotten smaller, but the price has remained the same or increased. Ice cream used to be a half gallon, but now it's just 1.5 quarts. This is because manufacturer's know most people are stupid and won't even notice or care to do anything. They do this in obvious and not-so-obvious ways. The obvious ways are decreasing the net weight or ounces from, say, 64 to 59, or filling only half the bag. The not-so-obvious way is decreasing the height, width, and depth of the product packaging. If you compared a box of cereal from the '90s to one from today, you would instantly see the difference. How do you fight back? You don't buy that product.
~ Black Socks
Cost to manufacture vs MSRP
Cost to manufacture is how much it costs a manufacture to make a product. MSRP (manufacturer's suggested retail price) is the price a company expects a retail store to sell their product for. The mark up is the increase you pay between the cost to manufacture and the manufacturer's greed. No product or service should ever cost more than 3 times what it costs to make it. Usually, you're paying for the name brand, not better quality, but there are name brand products that wipe the floor with economy ones, especially food. If a box of pasta only costs 10 cents to manufacture but the MSRP is $1.30, to an uninformed shopper that sounds reasonable, but to me that sounds like a 13 times mark up that's excessively greedy.
~ Black Socks
Counterfeit goods from China and the dangers
Most things from China are junk, counterfeit, or worst case dangerous. I will never understand or respect anybody who rips off IP, tries to counterfeit it, and turns a profit. The motivation is money, but wouldn't it be better to create a product that's amazing, genuine, and legal, and do business right? I can live with counterfeit CDs and hats, but I can't accept counterfeit food, drugs, and things like power-protection devices that kill innocent people. The problem is these counterfeit goods are sometimes so well cloned to the genuine article that only a trained eye can spot the fake. And that's why they do it. Did you know some counterfeit drugs made it passed inspection and into our major retail pharmacies, like CVS and Rite Aid, and killed innocent people?
~ Black Socks
It's always okay to ask for help
It's always okay to ask for help. We all do it. It is not a sign of weakness or stupidity. It's a sign of strength and intelligence. If you don't ask, you can never know. And if you can never know, you can never do.
~ Black Socks
Humiliation is a very good thing
Some Dommes don't want to humiliate me because they think it actually upsets me and makes them a bad person. You should know I have snake-thick skin and nothing you say to me will ever hurt me. I laugh at it all because I know none of it is true. How can something I request that brings me so much happiness ever be a bad thing? It's all in your head. What we think in vanilla land usually does not apply in kink land. You just need to train your brain to understand that verbally and physically humiliating me is a very good thing if you're a woman.
~ Black Socks
I hate fear-mongers
A fear-monger is a crazy person who loves to instill fear into the minds and hearts of people by twisting the truth and making them fear something. The biggest fear-monger is Alex Jones. He's an overweight news reporter from Texas that is hyper-paranoid that everyone is out to kill him and everything in the world is evil. Never be like Alex Jones, and when you need a laugh, watch one of his videos where he blows up. There's nothing funnier.
~ Black Socks
We all make mistakes
We all make mistakes. It's part of being human. Nobody is right all the time. Second chances are largely acceptable.
~ Black Socks
Imperfectly perfect
Life isn't about being perfect. It's about being imperfectly perfect to somebody.
~ Black Socks
People that fuck up and then get mad at you when you retaliate
I can't stand these fuckfaces. These are the people that do something to upset another person, yet have the ignorance to get mad at you when you verbally or physically retaliate, trying to make you feel bad for doing what you did. You got what you fucking deserved.
~ Black Socks
It's a lack of knowledge until it becomes a lack of respect
It's a lack of knowledge until it becomes a lack of respect. For example, you hate cigarettes because you know they cause lung cancer and can irritate and make your throat sore. You've told your family numerous times to please smoke outside, but they won't always do it. This is a lack of knowledge to start that has grown into a lack of respect. They are also putting your health at risk because they don't care about you. You need to remove these people from your life asap.
~ Black Socks
When it stops becoming fun, you're breaking the law
Many subs, including myself, enjoy being play kidnapped, stalked, and blackmailed. The operative word there was PLAY. However, when it stops becoming fun, you're breaking the law. I am all about consensual-nonconsent, and make this clear before entrusting my life to a woman, or asking her to entrust me with hers.
~ Black Socks
Don't worry about the things you can't control
No matter how frustrating or upsetting something is don't worry about the things you can't control. Focus your time and energy on the things you can control.
~ Black Socks
Most Dommes want the same thing as almost all women: true love
Most Dommes want the same thing as almost all women: true love with a great man. They're just more bossy and controlling about it.
~ Black Socks
All lives matter
I'm so sick and tired of hearing black people complain about race crimes against them. Are there racist white cops? Yes. Do they shoot to kill? Yes. But, sometimes race has absolutely nothing to do with it. Sometimes the officer is simply scared, freezes, panics, and shoots, and it has nothing to do with skin color. All lives matter. Black people need to stop seeking preferential treatment and holding us good white people responsible for slavery and race crimes just because of our skin color. We had nothing to do with it and we're sorry for your losses.
~ Black Socks
Corner-store crazy
I visited the corner store this evening to buy a small 32 oz bottle of Tropicana Orange Juice. It cost $3 for this little bottle. (Corner stores always charge more.) I should've wore my black ski mask, left the cashier $2, and ran. LOL As I walk into the store, this pathetic Mexican or Spanish dude--we will call him Loco The Drunk--I met before outside the store the last time I was there asks me if he can borrow some money to pay for the can of beer he was drinking on the counter in front of the cashier. I told him I had just enough to buy the juice and you're supposed to pay for the beer BEFORE you drink it. LOL He told me if he didn't pay for the beer, the cashier was going to call the police and lock his funky ass up. I threw $3 down on the counter to pay for the juice, when Loco The Drunk gets fresh with me and says, "It's disrespectful to throw money at someone." He then tells me the cashier is his friend and he's just playing, but I asked the cashier if he was his friend and he shook his head no. LOL The cashier is a little oriental man that looked completely nervous. Loco The Drunk tells me he's his friend and gets his food for him all the time, but when I asked the cashier if that was true, he said, "No, you're only a customer." LOL He then pulls out a few dollars, pays for the beer, tells me he's just joking, and wants to shake my hand. I shook his hand because I didn't want to cause a scene, but I washed my hands as soon as I got home. LOL I told Loco The Drunk that lying to people and trying to take their money, and telling people somebody who is not your friend is your friend is what's really disrespectful. I owned his ass. I walked out the store and went on my way.
~ Black Socks
Giving Mistress the boot: poor communication
Great two-way communication is critical to any Mistress-slave relationship, but because my beautiful Mistress did not understand that, today, October 3, I kicked her sorry ass to the curb. I felt ignored and unappreciated, so I left her. I am an impeccable slave, and if you don't deserve me, you won't own me.
Everything was going great for the first few days. I only served her half a month, but we felt like we knew each other our whole lives. We agreed on 99% of everything. We talked all day and night on Fet, Skype, and the phone. She said I was the best slave she's ever had, my performance was outstanding, that she loved and missed me very much, and she loved how loyal and dedicated I was. She was sick with strep throat and Skyped me to tell me she's feeling better and that she'd call me tomorrow after work. (She loved to call me late at night after work so my sexy sweet bitch voice was the last thing she heard before bed. LOL) But she never called, her Skype was offline, and it took her 9 days to contact me. I was very concerned, but I will not commit to somebody I have yet to meet in person if I get a bad feeling. I will be completely loyal to that point, but I will also keep my options open, and it turned out to be the right move in her case.
I finally heard from her on September 30 at 1:20 PM after Skyping her. She explained that her unexpected and extended absence was due to her phone becoming damaged and her mom being sent to the ER for not taking her blood pressure pills. I sympathized, but she still could've and should've called, e-mailed, or Skyped me very quickly to tell me she's okay, we're good, I need a new phone, and I need to deal with a family emergency. I will contact you asap. That's all I would've needed, and I would've given her all the time she needed. I was very disappointed in her communication. I was worried sick about her, confused, and pissed. You don't treat people you care about that way. I held my tongue. I wanted to give her a serious verbal lashing, but I also did not want to be too hard on her since it was just 9 days. We talked on Skype after that and she told me she was very busy with school and work. She promised she would take a nap when she got home from work so she had the energy to call me for a long and much-needed talk. She never called. So, today, I blasted her and then gave her her walking papers. I sent her this nasty Skype message:
I don't love you anymore and am no longer your slave. You are a terrible Mistress.
We argued for 10 minutes and that was the end of it. I told her to always remember she lost me, not the other way around.
~ Black Socks
Being a Mistress is a job
Being a Mistress is a job, just like any other. You fail to perform, and I will kick your ass to the curb and have you replaced.
~ Black Socks
Women who don't send the first message
Women who don't send the first message are only cheating themselves. No risk, no reward.
~ Black Socks
Learning to be a little more patient and understanding
I don't have many weaknesses, but beautiful dominant women are my first. My second is patience. I do everything so quickly and exceptionally well, and when other people don't do things how I would, I get disappointed and pissed. I'm learning I need to be a little more patient and understanding. I need to take just a little longer to make certain decisions before I blast somebody or delete that journal entry.
~ Black Socks
I don't play the guessing game
I don't play the guessing game. I'm a facts and figures guy, so when I ask you your age, do not tell me, "I'm older than you." LOL I want an exact number, because, yes, age does matter.
~ Black Socks
Timing is everything
I love how so many beautiful ladies think just because they're physically beautiful, they hold all the power. I'm an extraordinary gentleman, and that shit does not fly here. So when I send you a message and you don't reply to me for a year, don't expect me to still be single. I am hardly ever single, and when I am, it's not for long. It's insulting that so many beautiful women think they hold all the power. I'm handsome and much more than just good looks, but I don't take a year to reply to somebody, either. Maybe 24 hours. LOL I respect people more than that. I know women get a lot more messages, but if it takes you any longer than a month to reply, just don't bother. And if you take a month to reply to my replies, I'm not interested. It's even funnier when a chick takes a year to reply and gets mad at me when she learns I'm no longer single. LOL
~ Black Socks
Nitpicking a lover or play partner
Do not nitpick and be difficult when choosing a partner. Do not settle, but don't be an ass about it, either, like these ladies. Here's a few examples of women with issues:
I don't like your e-mail address, so e-mail me from another one. I don't like lists. Please draw your kinks and fetishes for me. LOL Why are you sharing your kinks and fetishes with me when I have not asked you to? You didn't say PLAY rape in your message.
It's an e-mail address. Get over it. They're supposed to be strange unless they're for work.
Who cares if I present myself in well-organized and detailed lists. Maybe you'd like bullet points, too? You're fucking lucky I'm even sending you a message.
Hmm, I don't know... Maybe TO TELL YOU WHAT I LIKE IN HOPES YOU'LL ALSO LIKE IT.
What's next? Don't e-mail me because you're a man, and I'm looking for one of those. LOL And they wonder why they're single.
I said FANTASY, which is the same difference. Do you want me to hold your hand and help you cross the street? LOL
~ Black Socks
Mission to Muslim Mistress's foot slave
I have a deep, dark fantasy to become a Muslim foot slave that's forced to wear a ball-gag, cock cage, and burqa in public, and satisfy all my Domme's domestic and sexual needs in private. I will sometimes wear a black ski mask, latex mask, or some other black mask/hood at home.
I am currently writing the ure for my action plan to make my fantasy a reality. It covers every micro detail of my weird new world. I want to merge Western culture with Islamic. My action plan even defines the differences between both and explains why everything is the way it is. If you're interested, I'd love to tell you more. I'm a very funny man and I love to incorporate humor into BDSM. My Muslim mission is full of hilarious contradictions. Here's a few of my favorites:
1. Only Muslim women wear a black full-body cloak called a burqa or niqab in public, but I'm a man who will fool the world into thinking that I'm the female Muslim housekeeper of a White, Muslim, or Hispanic woman as I follow her around carrying her bags. LOL
2. Muslim women wear a black full-body cloak called a burqa or niqab in public, but no black socks, and my name being Black Socks means I have a big black sock fetish, so of course I'm going to wear black toe-socks with flip-flops. LOL
3. When I am allowed to cum, I must say "as-salamu alayCUM" 3 times before I shoot my slave spunk. ROFLAO
4. I dress like an ISIS member when I have sex, and what better way to make fun of those demonic camel humpers than to fuck dressed as one and get immense pleasure while doing it. They HATE happiness. LOL
~ Black Socks
Why I use LOL, even if I'm not
LOL is a common acronym for laughing out loud, and I use it because many people know what it means. So even if I'm not actually laughing out loud, I'm still telling the person something is funny--and it should be understood that I may not be, and probably am not--laughing out loud. I could get really geeky with it and say LHI (laughing hard internally) instead, but who the fuck is going to understand me? Then I'd have to explain my clever new accurate acronym to everybody I converse with, and I don't feel like it. LOL
~ Black Socks
The most hilarious batch of comments
Here's the most hilarious batch of my comments. Each item includes the title, writing, and of course, my hilarious comments. Guaranteed to make you laugh or nothing. You get not a fucking thing. :^) This guy and I could be Penn and Teller without the magic. LOL Now, if banana boy could just make his titles and content agree and learn good grammar, we'd be in business. I am not editing all his fucking grammar. LOL
COLORFUL SHINY DREAM WOWSERS! I heard that we can dream in color. I waited for nearly a lifetime to remember one clearly like that where i was interacting with lots of people and it looked so real folks My comment: I wonder if the people from the 1940s had dreams in black and white? LOL
WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS SIGN US UP FOR JUNK MAIL? Mine My comment: Those aren't friends. LOL
SWIMMING POOL TURNING GREEN? Don't worry about it My comment: You need to clean it. LOL
HELP!.....I DON'T WANNA WATCH PORN What is wrong with me? My comment: The same thing that's wrong with all of us. LOL
SOMETIMES I GET THE WRONG END OF THE STICK I want someone to get the wrong end of my stick My comment: Just tell them to pull their pants down and touch their ankles. LOL
I HAVEN'T DROPPED A LOAD IN OVER A MONTH ..........where's it gonna go? My comment: To waste LOL
KINK MULTIPLIED BY INFINITY Might be a bit too kinky..... My comment: To kink infinity and beyond! LOL
I NEED SOMETHING NICE UP MY ARSE..... Some cream to stop this itching should suffice My comment: Use your finger, but make sure you wash it well when you're done. LOL
PESKY WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING! What do we do with them folks? My comment: We rip them off and call them pussies. LOL
Ben Dover ! Wish i had a real name like this My comments: You don't need a real name. Just bend over. LOL
WOW THERE ARE LOTS OF TALENTED PEOPLE ON HERE! Well done people! My comment: Thank you, banana boy
FUCKIN NEWS EVERY FUCKIN WHERE EVERY FUCKIN* HOUR ON THE HOUR ! What good does it really do? My comment: Not much. The only people who watch the news are old or boring. I got NEWS for them... They need a fucking life. LOL
DIRTY SEXY WHORE BUNNIES! Until recently i never knew these animals existed..... My comment: They're called women and they've been around since the beginning of time. LOL
MY ASS CHEEKS ARE SORE ! I don't know how you guys manage they ain't even been battered, all i been doing is sitting on them..... My comment: Then get off your lazy ass and do something to make them feel better. LOL
PSYCHIC ? Hello how do you see my future love life please ? My comment: Not good. You're on Fetlife. LOL
HEY LADIES, RUNNING OUT OF IDEAS TO TEASE MEN? All you need is a powerful shower (no not to hot!) Just direct it from below up towards his meat and two veg. Jiggle it about a bit (the jets of water!) He won't know if it feels nice or tickles too much..... My comment: Or have him bend over in the shower, direct the stream of warm water right in his ass crack, and watch him cum. LOL Banana boy: Putting that on my to do list My comment: Good and while you're doing that, I'm going to check one off my to-dodo list. runs to bathroom LOL
IF BOYS CAN ACCEPT THAT GIRLS SOMETIMES THINK DIFFERENTLY Are girls able to do the same for boys? My comment: If they couldn't, we wouldn't have marriage. LOL
OH MY GOSH IT MIGHT TAKE ONE HUNDRED YEARS TO UNDERSTAND MYSELF! And it might take me another hundred years to begin to understand you! My comment: Then you'll never understand because you'll be lucky to see 75 at the rate you're going. LOL
YOU SUCK! Wishful Thinking..... My comment: Only when she forces me to. LOL
HEY STRANGER WE MIGHT BE RELATED Adam&Eve baby..... My comment: You're my long-lost freak. LOL
I WOKE UP WITH A BONER! Don't worry girls i can handle it..... My comment: Sure you can. Just place your right hand around it and tug. LOL
GIRLS DO YOU REALLY REALLY LOVE US GUYS ? Hello if you really love us why can some of you be so cold and nasty with us in a relationship? My comment: You have clearly never heard of femdom or intense orgasms. LOL
WHAT THE FUCK Why does my phone vibrate and the messages don't show on my page folks? My comment: You're too slippery. LOL
DEATH OF A SOUL-MATE OR ANY CLOSE BOND How can we begin to fill that void? My comment: You get a blow-up doll. LOL
MOST OF US DON'T REALISE HOW LUCKY WE ARE FOR EVERY SECOND..... We don't really do we? My comments: No, but do you realize how lucky you are that I leave you all these ridiculously funny comments and you probably have the coolest Fet, ever? Banana boy: yeah and i'm blushing already My comment: I'm straight...usually. LOL
HELLO DEAR READER IS IT A BOY OR GIRL SEAGULL? I am a nature lover and have noticed how vicious these birds can be with each other and some of them get frightened.....bullies everywhere in the pecking order unfortunately! My comment: A "seagull" is a synonym for "bully." Says to bully: Ya big seagull! LOL
WOULD YOU LIKE TO MAKE LOVE? Ladies is this a good question from a guy? tell me what you think i won't chase because you are probably too far away for my lazy ass! My comment: No, a better question would be, "Is it time to rape me again?" LOL
I JUST WEIGHED MY TESTICLES They have put weight on..... My comment: Then don't send them through UPS, or you'll get overcharged for something they call balloon weight. LOL Woman's comment: I think you have too much time on your hands :) My comment: And too much weight on his balls. LOL
IF YOU ARE HUMAN TRY AND GIVE OUT MORE LOVE AND KINDNESS TO EVERY LIVING THING It's later than you think nearly everything has a shelf life..... My comment: It's true. You should see all the maggots eating this dead body. I didn't do it. LOL
I WANT TO TYPE UNTYPEABLE THINGS JUST TO YOU ! Hi folks does anyone know how to send private messages please? My comment: You just lay back and imagine what you wanna say. LOL
HEY, GOD LOVES ME MORE THAN YOU! lol xxx My comment: God doesn't love you. He tolerates you. LOL
HEY, I AM BETTER THAN YOU. lol xxx My comment: You are the best damn lonely person, ever. LOL
I WANT TO MAKE LOVE EXPERTLY Hi everyone is so far away I can't reach..... My comment: Reach out and miss. LOL
THE WEATHER HERE SUCKS! It either looks like rain or it is raining plus we have thunder as a bonus. Let's hide in the bedroom..... My comment: Quick, hide in here! locks trunk LOL
PEOPLE OF FLORIDA/AMERICA I am so sorry for your loss of people in the prime of their lives. They were just enjoying themselves and their sexuality. I wish that these terrible weapons had not been invented by people who think that they are clever and that people would have more love for people and all the wonderful natural things made by our creator. My comment: Guns were the worst thing ever invented after nuclear weapons. This is probably my only serious comment on all your writings.
I LOVE MYSELF Try it..... My comment: That's it? I'm obsessed with myself, and so are 50,000 women. LOL
SOMETIMES I AM WEIRD AND PROUD OF IT ! Who are these people who judge and think they are "normal"? Is it normal to not give a shit about the feelings of another fellow human being? My comment: Just sometimes? Somebody needs to cum. LOL
SICK OF BEING CALLED A WEIRDO I can be on the loose being a good boy,minding my own business and sometimes I hear girls calling me a weirdo.If I had a gun I would probably shoot their ass! Any other ideas people? My comment: You just need to find a weirdo with a pussy, and this coming from the nature-loving, gun-hating banana boy? LOL
MONEY IS THE ROOT OF EVIL Remember folks,whoever has the most money when they die wins! My comment: Wins what? They can't spend it. Sounds like a loss to me. And tell that to the $20,000 super computer I just bought and built. It's not evil. It's fucking incredible. LOL Banana boy: wow does it make fractals? Tell me about it My comment: It makes fractals and is housed in a Fractal Design case. :^)
IT'S NOT EASY BEING YOU. Spare a little prayer and some kind thoughts for all the creatures that get eaten after making love..... My comment: No, it's never easy being stalked, kidnapped, and raped repeatedly by the most beautiful women. LOL
LITTLE POISON I want to spend quality time with females who do not constantly depend on substances that are not good for us My comment: Then don't ever date my mom. LOL
ME I'm willing to explore most things with a kind woman in a safe peaceful setting My comment: You need a chaperon. LOL
Banana boy: He must be bigger nowadays? My comment: Yes, he's around 4, though because he was an orphan, I don't know his actual age. But the vet said he was six months old when I brought him to her, so we'll just say he's about 4 in human years, or 24 in cat years. And I just say his birthday is on Halloween because I don't know when it really is. LOL
Banana boy: Pussy can be dangerous My comment: Especially if it's not clean. LOL
Banana boy: He looks like a real character and Halloween is a great idea for a fishy party for him My comment: I don't know... I'm thinking about changing his birthday to Black Cat Appreciation Day. LOL
~ Black Socks
I love exhibitionism and voyeurism
I love exhibitionism and voyeurism. I love women who watch me fuck and love me watching them get fucked good.
~ Black Socks
I have a fantasy to be a lesbian foot cuckold
I have a fantasy to be a lesbian foot cuckold in a monogamous triad and love and serve 2 beautiful women and their feet, while they double dominate me. That's 4 stinky black toe-socks to sniff at once. :^)
~ Black Socks
I'm the kinky cuddler
I love to snuggle and cuddle. I am the kinky cuddler. My black ski mask and I will keep you safe and warm. LOL
~ Black Socks
British and Australian women's accents are sexy
British and Australian women's accents are sexy. They speak with such eloquence. Most British and Australian women find my American accent sexy as well. This is because we're not used to hearing each other's accent and it's refreshing and sexually attractive. We also find the way each other pronounces certain words cute and sexy.
~ Black Socks
The nick (dick) name for my cock is Mr Twinkie
The nick (dick) name LOL for my cock is Mr Twinkie because it's the creamy white filling all the girls go for. LOL It's pretty pink, circumcised, and 2 inches in length x 3 inches in girth when limp, and 3 1/2 inches in length x 4 inches in girth when hard. Small penis humiliation, ladies? LOL
~ Black Socks
She cock
Stick your she cock up my ass and in my mouth like the man-whore I am. Force me to deep throat it like your foot.
~ Black Socks
On your knees, bitch!
As a submissive on my bitch-ass knees all the time, I don't know why I need feet. LOL
~ Black Socks
Submissive positions
Attention Wait Wall At Your Service Inspection Kneel Nadu Ready to Please Collar Me Sex Doll Humble Table Floor Stool
~ Black Socks
Blunette
A "blunette" is my clever term for a man or woman with brown or black hair and blue eyes. I am The Blunette King. Are you my Queen?
~ Black Socks
Human vs animal breasts
Did you know human breasts stop growing at age 17 or 18, while animal breasts keep growing for life?
~ Black Socks
I love black sock or nylon jobs
I love when a woman gives me a black sock or nylon job. My cock is sensitive to the cotton or spandex and it drives me wild. I also love when a woman takes a black sock or nylon and touches my cock with it like a feather. LOL
~ Black Socks
My favorite candy is Mr Goodbar
My favorite candy is Mr Goodbar. Goobers are second. If you want to make me happy, just buy me a king size Mr Goodbar for a king slave. ;^)
~ Black Socks
The secret to success
"The secret to success is making other people happy."
~ Black Socks
I'm a geeky gimp
I'm a geeky gimp. I fuck a woman with my cock but make her orgasm with my mind. And yes, I know practically everything about computers. And no, I won't bore you with it. LOL
~ Black Socks
I'm a dirty panty sniffer
I'm a dirty panty sniffer. When I can't find a girl's stinky black sock or nylon to sniff, I ball up a pair of her panties and sniff them until she comes back. LOL
~ Black Socks
My thoughts on phone and cyber sex and erotic literature
I love phone sex the most and can cum to that, even if it takes 6 hours. LOL It's not as good as the real thing, but it's damn close. LOL I can get hard from reading cyber sex and erotic literature, but I can't cum. They're great tools for a Domme to torture my mangina. LOL
~ Black Socks
How I deal with people I love and hate, alive or dead
If they're alive and loved, I love the stuffing out of them. If they're alive but hated, they're dead to me. If they're dead but loved, I always miss and remember them in my head and heart. If they're dead but hated, I throw a party at the same time as the funereal. LOL
~ Black Socks
I have the most beautiful steel-blue eyes and sexiest, softest, kissable lips :^)
I have the most beautiful steel-blue eyes and sexiest, softest, kissable lips. Staring into my eyes or kissing my lips may cause uncontrollable seizures and kids. LOL
~ Black Socks
The Hitachi Magic Wand is really a massager, not vibrator
The Hitachi Magic Wand is an electrical, vibrating massager manufactured for relieving tension and relaxing sore muscles. It was never intended to be used as a sex vibrator, ladies. LOL
~ Black Socks
Fancy words for my fetishes
agonophile: Sexual arousal from real or fantasy fighting and possibly ending in sexual intercourse with dominant and submissive roles determined by the outcome of the fight.
aspophilia: Sexual attraction to geeks.
biastophilia: Also known as paraphilic rape, is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal is dependent on, or responsive to, the act of assaulting (raping) an unconsenting person, especially a stranger.
nyctophile: A person who loves the night or darkness.
psycholagny: A sexual term that refers to the ability to reach or achieve orgasm without any physical stimulation of the genitalia, usually achieved through mental stimulation or fantasy alone. Also referred to as a "psychic orgasm."
~ Black Socks
How to properly behave in public
You want to respect your partner but be yourself. Unless this is a BDSM event, you want to act as vanilla as possible so as to not offend or embarrass anybody. What is respectful and expected is for the dominant and submissive to decide, but this needs to be clear, as the dominant should never need to remind their sub of their place in public. Otherwise, this will confuse the submissive on how and when to act vanilla or not.
~ Black Socks
What's an FLR?
An FLR (female-led relationship) is one where a woman leads the relationship and her male partner follows her lead. She makes the rules and he obeys them. It can just be in the bedroom, or it can include every aspect of life.
~ Black Socks
Miserable and ultra-paranoid people
Miserable and ultra-paranoid people are the type that are never happy, difficult to deal with, and think everybody is out to get them, from their neighbors to their government. These people are sad and missing out on the beauty of life. Most people don't have that kind of time. They're too busy with their own shit to sabotage your life.
~ Black Socks
People are not disposable like toilet paper
People are not disposable like toilet paper. You shit on toilet paper and flush it down the potty. You shit on people, and they'll flush you down the potty. People have feelings, and if you can't respect them, then don't enter their life.
~ Black Socks
Protocol
Some people are loose with protocol, while others are very strict with it. They're called low and high protocol. I prefer high protocol as much as possible, which includes uniforms, rules, and a routine. I love things to be efficient, organized, and clean.
~ Black Socks
Making the dick with the pirate patch walk the plank
A few days ago, I viewed a woman's profile pic of a screenshot of some dick wearing a pirate patch harassing this woman. Just now, I was viewing the Everyone's Writing section of Fet and saw his avatar and latest journal entry entitled On Your Mental Illnesses and laughed. I then commented on it and said:
You made a mistake in the title of your writing. It should be On MY Mental Illnesses. Stop harassing women. You're not Solid Snake. You're Liquid Slug. LMAO
~ Black Socks
3 of my hilarious prank calls
When I'm bored, sometimes I call phone chatlines and screw around with people. Here's 3 of my hilarious prank calls.
Agent 69 I pretend to be a well-respected hitman for hire. I have an answering machine that says, "Hello, this is Agent 69. I am out of the office "cleaning up" or on vacation. Please leave me a detailed message after the gun shots, including your victim's name, address, phone number, and any other pertinent details to the job. Thank you. I look forward to working for you soon. gun shots
Biker Saint Some crazy guy who loved to have other guys beat him up LOL thought I was the leader of a biker gang in New Orleans and helped lead the effort to rebuild the city after Hurricane Katrina. We spoke twice. He told me he'd say the word "biker" in his greeting every time he called the chatline again. True to his word, he did and I laughed so hard when I heard his greeting say "biker." LOL
Cancer Cowboy I called the Marlboro cigarette company as a dying old cowboy and 45-year hardcore smoker of Marlboros. I told the sweet lady that I had lung, throat, colon, and brain cancer, my new horse was a wheelchair, and I lost my voice from the cancer so I had to speak to her using a voice changer. I thanked her and Marlboro for their wonderful product. LOL
~ Black Socks
The most annoying thing a person can do to me...
Ask the same fucking basic question over and over, when I already answered it 10 times! If my answer changes, I'll let you know. So I have invented the 1-1-1 rule: 1 question, 1 answer, 1 time. LOL
~ Black Socks
A submissive can never ask too many questions
A scammer who has something to hide will usually tell a submissive to stop asking questions, because they don't want them to find out they're a con. Any real dominant knows a submissive can never ask too many questions.
~ Black Socks
Separating fantasy from reality
Most kinky people don't understand the consequences of their actions and always think with their dick or pussy. One of the most important traits a kinkster should have is the ability to separate fantasy from reality so they don't hurt or kill themselves or another. For example, you may have a fantasy of being castrated, inhaling cigarette smoke, cuckolding, gangbangs, or drinking from the toilet; but if you actually were to do these fucktard things, you would probably get an infection, sickness, a disease, die, or get lung cancer. Sound fun? No, it sounds stupid.
~ Black Socks
Kink shaming
It's great how millions of people can come together and discuss very private issues with such little judgement. I don't kink shame anybody except two types of people: pee drinkers and poop eaters. I get the mentality of them: they are most degrading and make a submissive feel as low as can be. But they're also a great way to get an infection, sick, or die.
~ Black Socks
I hate extreme pain, blood and bruises
I hate extreme pain, blood and bruises. It's gross. I will never bloody or bruise a female submissive. Women are beautiful treasures. I take the best care of my things. I will never possess anything battered and broken down. I love mild pain and pink ass cheeks and tits.
~ Black Socks
Is punishment really pleasure?
When a submissive is bad and their dominant wants to punish them, make sure the punishment is actually suffering and not pleasurable punishment. For example, Mistress likes to punish me by forcing me to sniff her stinky white socks, not black. LOL
~ Black Socks
Good boys, get yourself a bad girl
I'm a good boy that's always been attracted to bad girls, and they've always been attracted to me. Opposites attract. Good boys, get yourself a bad girl. Good girls, get yourself a bad boy.
~ Black Socks
You owe me 2 cums
Mistress has owed me a cum for half a month for exceptionally good behavior. I told her I deserve two cums after the shit she just put me through. She said, "Probably more than 2, hun. I can't wait to hear you moan for me." What she doesn't know is I'm a quiet cummer. LOL
~ Black Socks
Submissives need rewards
When a submissive does something wonderful or has been good for a long time, they should always be rewarded. It doesn't have to be big. It's the thought that counts, but really, the more impressive something is, the bigger the reward should be. Many dominants don't know when to reward their submissive. I don't mean being rewarded for buying groceries, but something that pleases the dominant beyond belief that they never ordered. That's true submission and love. And if a dominant doesn't know when or how much to reward me, I will not want to serve them. I love to cum in those special moments and share that magic with my Domme.
~ Black Socks
People that say forever, anybody, everybody, all... are stupid and annoying
Nothing lasts forever and not everybody or anybody does it. When people say things like this, it makes them sound stupid and annoying.
~ Black Socks
People who accept anybody kinky that wants to fuck
Many people in the lifestyle just find anybody they can and just accept everything about them just so they can get kinky and fuck. This is asking for disaster. Does this person have an STD? Are they sensual or painful? Do they enjoy your kinks? Do they have any medical conditions that could interfere with play and sex? And hundreds of other important questions that need answers.
~ Black Socks
A submissive getting to know a dominant is not "topping from the bottom"
Some dominants consider a submissive getting to know them "topping from the bottom" if you share your kinks with them or ask them about theirs. You can't "top from the bottom" if you're not in a relationship. If I don't ask, how am I supposed to know?
~ Black Socks
The "dangers" of processed foods
Health nuts love to scare people. They read something from an uncreditable source, they believe it, and start spreading fear. There are no dangers to eating processed foods unless you're a fat ass and eat 20 a day or something. Yes, they have additives and preservatives. No, they are not poison. Just ask your 70-year-old grandpa who's probably been eating frozen fried chicken TV dinners since he was a boy. And no, they're not the healthiest thing for you and nowhere near as healthy as all natural foods, but as long as you eat a balanced diet, exercise, and don't have a medical condition, don't worry about this nonsense. The goals of processed foods are inexpensive, good taste, good nutrition, and convenience. Busy professionals like me do not have time to make 3 gourmet meals a day or tend to a garden every day.
~ Black Socks
Submissives have personality
I'm submissive and have a larger-than-life personality. My submission does not define my character. It's a role I play in kink and sex to make me and dominant women happy.
~ Black Socks
Be happy with whom you have
Stop chasing after more people and killing yourself every day to find new ones. You don't need them. I know Fet is huge and the mind is always curious, but be happy with whom you have because they can be gone like that. And what you'll usually find is those others are fruitless ventures.
~ Black Socks
How to make beautiful Dommes hot
My style obviously doesn't work with every hot Domme, but enough. ;^) Here's some random messages from one I used to chat with on CS.
Could you imagine a guy in a black ski mask breaking into the house of a guy whose sleeping in a black ski mask? Mindblown'. LOL
I'll be the super pretty one wearing black toe-socks just for you.
Anything is a possibility. I'll be sure to have you face deep in those socks right after a long run or crossfit with my hand wrapped around a clump of your hair, shoving the back of your bitch head.
I am as smart as I am pretty, you pathetic worm. Watch yourself with me. You are charming, sure, but I am not easily charmed. Your place is where I say it is. You will earn your place. You will be rewarded when and if I choose to. It makes the reward that much more intense.
Awwww! How adorable are you? Your alpha streak of confidence. It's amusing, for sure. :^P I can see you making a woman switch, not this one, though. You have supreme confidence. It's adorable. It makes me want to have you clean up the cum of a real man off my adorable feet.
Yes, you did tell me about her. Poor girl LOL got sucked into the web spun by none other than the sock whore himself.
Hello, my new favorite!
There's always room for you, sweetheart.
LOL I would be waiting for you, for sure, in a black ski mask and stinky black toe-socks.
Yep, she wants me. LOL
~ Black Socks
I should be a black toe-socks and black ski mask salesman
Over the last two years, I have convinced at least 8 women to buy and love black toe-socks. (I swear I better get a free pair of black toe-socks from all these referrals). LOL And now 2 women this year to buy and love black ski masks just for me. LOL That has got to be the funniest combo, ever.
~ Black Socks
Thank you to all my readers
I have now written over 300 AAA educational, thought provoking, and hilarious pieces. Thank you, readers, for listening and sharing all your wonderful insights through comments. I actually have responded, and will continue to respond, to every one. Remember, I have over 300 writings--and always growing--so I encourage you to check them all out over time and hope that my words have enriched the lives of every pair of eyes that saw them.
~ Black Socks
Female fan mail: 9 real messages from a few of my many female admirers
This message is for the few women out there who doubt many women are crazy for me. It is not to be braggadocios. Here are 9 real messages from my female admirers I have received here and on CS over the years. I have received many more, but usually delete them, as while it's always nice to be admired, I do not need women to boost my ego. I know who I am, women or no women. I have only edited each message for proper spelling and grammar and omitted parts that aren't relevant to me.
1. I understood what you were referring to. Your contradictions are the alpha male vs the slave (obviously). You are definitely a control freak (nothing wrong with that). I'm in control, just not at that level. You are an intense person, yet you can manage to be submissive. It's crazy how you are submissive, yet you micromanage every single detail in your life, and you want to tell the Domme what to do while remaining submissive. With your intelligence it's all fascinating. There's so much, and not just about your submissiveness. And yes you are very right: you sound like someone I would desire. I don't see a problem with you not being a switch, though. It has nothing to do with your decision making abilities. It's just the qualities that you possess are polar opposites. Your profile describes you pretty well. The way you perceive and approach things is pretty incredible.
2. You certainly would be a catch. There is such passion in your words, I'm sure the energy you radiate is just as intense. My happy place, that is exactly what my true connections are. They are where I want to be when life is full of stress and heartache. Few have the ability to take me to that special place, but the connection I have with those that can is best explained as a true journey through the most wonderful realms of this lifestyle.
To have you stand before me and walk about you...my hands softly discovering every inch of you...fingers dancing on your flesh making you weak...making you want more...making you mine...yes mine...as I reach down and grasp those balls in my hand...look into those eyes (those sexy eyes)...and say it out loud...MINE! For they...you...will melt to my touch. Kiss.
3. Why on EARTH are you on CollarMe (old name for CollarSpace)? I hope you find an astonishing, black-opaque-toe-sock wearing CEO that rocks your fabulous world! x
4. I love getting messages from you, Black Socks. I would love a link! I do not think I would have a problem with your uniform. I guess I would have to see it fully to be able to make that kind of a decision. With winter coming in, though, and my love of wearing skirts, I do not think that wearing mid-calves/knee highs would be a problem at all! Great way to stay warm. Then I could mail them to you. :) Well, time to wash my face, get dressed, and get to work. I hope to be able to see you then!
~ R
5. Hello, Mr. Black Socks,
I loved your profile. I'm older than your specifications, have grown children, and smoke weed, so I'm not the woman you seek. That being said, you sure are the man I want. Take care and good luck in your journey.
A.
6. You are a bastard! You know I want you. Been searching for the right one for longer than I haven't searched. I won't settle, so get your midget loving head out of your ass and realize an older woman is the right one to love you. XOXOXO Ack-ack! Bye, for now.
7. I'm actually quite fascinated by you. If you're real it'd be a privilege to converse with you, so let's do that. I am interested in service - looking to be adored, spoiled and worshiped.
8. Thank you so much for contacting me. This is the best message I have ever received here or anywhere else.
9. I have had one, but it didn't work out. If I have information still online somewhere about being in a relationship, well, (1) I'm not on these sites very often and (2) It is, I'll confess, very recent, so I might have overlooked a status update. My reasoning here is that, despite the fact that I'm newly single, submissives like you are rare, so I want to catch you while I can, and it seems like a nice idea to just email or chat and get to know each other. It's not like dating or jumping into a relationship, because you live so far from Me.
And yes, I am a Pro Domme but also want a personal Mistress-slave relationship, for life, with the right man. I'm writing this very tired but wanted to get back to you.
- Penelope Silke
Love is all about sacrifice, compromise, and negotiation
Love is all about sacrifice, compromise, and negotiation. If I love somebody, I don't see it as sacrifice.
~ Black Socks
Love is the most complex thing
You need to be physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually attracted to somebody to make a life together. Assuming you're lucky enough to make all that work, then you have to make sure you can live together. One of you likes meat and the other is a vegan. One likes summer and the other winter. One wants a house and the other wants an apartment. One person still loves the other, but the other stops loving them. You think everything is great, but they want out. Love is the most complex thing.
~ Black Socks
Unexpected love
"We find love when, where, and in whom we least expect it."
~ Black Socks
You can't force love
No matter how much you want somebody, if they don't want you back, you must let them go. Love is mutual, not forced.
~ Black Socks
We are who we are
"We are who we are and we have done what we did. Proud or shame, this is who we are."
~ Black Socks
When dominating becomes bullying
Dominating becomes bullying when the submissive stops having fun and they really don't want to do it; they're forced to.
~ Black Socks
Overly dominant
A dominant needs to know when to give their sub space so as not to micromanage their life to the point where they can't think or act for themselves. That's the worst thing you could do to a person: prevent their mental and emotional growth, and creative expression.
~ Black Socks
What creates dominance?
The mind and how you make a submissive obsess about yours.
~ Black Socks
Dominants who don't care about submissive's needs or kinks
Dominants who don't care about submissive's needs or kinks only care about themselves. If you don't care about me, why should I care about you?
~ Black Socks
Don't put the end in friend
"Good friends are hard to find. When you find them, don't do anything stupid to put an end to being their friend."
~ Black Socks
20 things in the world that make no sense
1. Store prices like $1.35 and $1.76. Stupid. It's either $1.00 or $1.50. (It saves the consumer money sometimes that they need to buy more groceries or just cover what they have.)
2. Telling people something is free if they have to PAY shipping and handling.
3. UPS charging their customers $10.75 to pick up a small package at your home with THEIR PREPAID LABEL ON IT.
4. Easy-open tabs that are hard to open. (Der.) 5. Food bags that are 50% air. (Just make the bag and/or box smaller.)
6. Selling hamburger patties in sixes but the rolls in eights. (The meat and bun makers need to agree on a number.)
7. Microsoft removing native CD and DVD playback and writing support, a frequently used feature that's been there since Windows 95! (Microsoft has been dying slowly since Windows 8.)
8. Everybody doesn't speak English and it's not the only universal language. 9. The entry key to a computer BIOS is usually F1, Alt, or Del, but not B.
10. Making the selling of cigarettes, which kill people, legal but making dealing drugs illegal. THEY'RE BOTH DEADLY DRUGS.
11. Companies that place a customer on hold for hours, instead of asking them if they'd like a callback because they have better things to do than listen to lame corporate music or take a nap.
12. Wondering why lots of people don't vote, when if they do, they have to attend jury duty, whether they like it or not.
13. Allowing Hillary Clinton, the biggest female political crook in history, to be allowed to run for President of the United States. (Our government is the stupidest bunch of people, ever.)
14. Selling a product that requires batteries THAT DOESN'T INCLUDE BATTERIES.
15. Idiots that make things that are supposed to be simple so complicated or awful.
16. Music CDs with preludes or interludes as a whole track. (I don't want to hear a sample of a beat I heard from another track. I want a different song.)
17. Instruction manuals that are so poorly written with bad grammar and only contain half the info the user needs to operate or maintenance the product.
18. Any warranty one year or shorter. (The product is shit and don't buy it.) 19. Having a do-not call list when telemarketers keep calling!
20. Banks that charge a monthly-minimum maintenance fee that's absurd for an individual, such as $1,500 a month. (It's my fucking money and I'll keep as much or as little as I want in my account.)
~ Black Socks
There's no such thing as female supremacy
There's no such thing as female supremacy, but there is equality. I do, however, fully believe in female sexual supremacy. ;^)
~ Black Socks
Don't make sexual comments to women until you know them
CS is a kinky site, so we guys should always message and comment women with sexual comments and they'll totally love them, right? Wrong. Most of them are offensive if you don't know a woman. It tells her you just think she's a sexual object. Most women want sexual comments only from men they are hot for, and to get most women hot, you need to sex her mind.
~ Black Socks
My man feet are so sexy and smell like footie popcorn LOL
I have very sexy male feet. I could be a male foot model. They are soft and smooth like a woman's feet. When my feet stink, they smell like a sexually pleasant footie popcorn. LOL This is for the few female foot slaves that love sexy man feet.
~ Black Socks
The 2 most evil things you could say to someone
1. I wish you or your family member died. 2. I wish you or your family member got cancer.
Sometimes I read YouTube comments and I am horrified by the lack of respect for people and human life. I don't care how mad you are at someone. You never say these two things, ever.
When a person dies, they're gone. They don't get to keep doing the things they love and their family and friends miss them terribly so. Cancer is a tragic disease in which cells become retarded and the body can no longer function properly that takes too many lives. Very few people get cured and die within 6 months. Imagine if the person you're wishing it on actually has cancer or has a friend or family member that has cancer? You cannot understand the extreme emotional pain those people are suffering. There are little children that are going to die from cancer, and they and their families are going to be devastated. These people don't have a choice. They will die soon, and you're making jokes or insults about death or disease? I've heard a lot of mean things, but these two make me the most infuriated. There's nothing funny about death or cancer. They're evil and scary things I wish nobody had to experience. If you have ever said either or both of these things, you should apologize and never say it again.
~ Black Socks
Women are cock zombies
Most women are cock zombies. They walk around with little cocks in their eyes and say, "Must suck cock." LOL
~ Black Socks
Safe, sane, and consensual (SSC)
I play 100% safe, sane, and consensual (SSC). That means using safe words, safe objects, taking an STD test with me, practicing excellent sex-toy hygiene, understanding aftercare, and never violating or attempting to push anybody's hard limits. And finally, that means having intelligent hard limits and never losing perception with reality.
~ Black Socks
Fooling the world one vanilla at a time :^P
I wear my all-black slave uniform in public except my gloves and ski mask. I don't want anybody thinking I'm robbing the place. LOL In the winter, I do wear my ski mask in stores and get an extra laugh, but it's too funny just wearing 90% of my uniform and shopping fooling all the vanillas, having them think they're just black clothes. :^P
~ Black Socks
Your secret is safe with me
I will never tell a soul about your kinks. I will take them to my grave. And you best do the same, or I'll make you wish you never came.
~ Black Socks
Every dominant and submissive is different
Every dominant and submissive is different. Just because you're dominant and I'm submissive, does not mean we're right for each other. There's much more to it than that.
~ Black Socks
It's good to have experience on both sides of the slash
Dominants and submissives should have experience on both sides of the slash so they understand each other's mindset. Also, some dominants and submissives swear they're 100% dominant or submissive, when really they're both dominant and submissive.
~ Black Socks
What's consensual-nonconsent?
Consensual-nonconsent is when you really want somebody to do something to you, but you both pretend like you're forcing it.
~ Black Socks
I love light impact play
I love light impact play, including spankings, floggings, and paddlings. I love to be spanked until my ass cheeks are bright pink. No broken blood vessels, cuts, or black and blue marks.
~ Black Socks
I love black blindfolds
I love wearing a black blindfold and feeling the anxiety from not seeing what's going to happen to me next.
~ Black Socks
I sleep in my black ski mask
I sleep in my all-black slave uniform and ski mask. They're my kinky pajamas. LOL
~ Black Socks
I love encasement
I love to be put in a black Zentai suit, bodyhose, or sleepsack and gagged for hours.
~ Black Socks
I love to be bound and gagged
I love to be bound, black blindfolded, and black cleave gagged on the floor hogtied, to the bed spread-eagle, in the closet, in a cage, in the basement, or in a vehicle. I also enjoy tying up, black blindfolding, and black cleave gagging a naked woman and watching her squirm.
~ Black Socks
What's subspace and sub-drop?
Subspace is the psychological state and happy place of a submissive or slave and their mind and body that's experiencing domination.
Sub-drop is the emotional and physical affects of the release and drop of endorphins in the body after a play session, such as fatigue, sadness, aches, pains, and recovery from marks. Each sub is different and so is their recovery time and process. Great aftercare by a dominant is critical immediately after a session. This can be getting the sub a pillow, a cup of water, kissing them, or giving them a body massage. This prevents injury or depression.
~ Black Socks
I love women who wear black gloves
I love women who wear black gloves, whether they're cotton, spandex, wool, leather, or latex. I love when a woman puts her black-gloved hands over my mouth and the feel of the texture of cotton or spandex gloves when she jerks my cock. They also don't leave any fingerprints when she kidnaps me.
~ Black Socks
Government
Government. The only thing they're governing is how to pass nonsensical bills that steal your money. Politicians are the stupidest people with notable exceptions. That's why America's been dying slowly for the last 23 years.
~ Black Socks
BDSM is a lifestyle, not casual fun
BDSM for me is a lifestyle. That doesn't mean I dress like a gimp 24/7, but that does mean it's much more to me than weekend fun.
~ Black Socks
Talking and having experience are not the same
Talking about having experience in BDSM is not the same as actually having experience in BDSM. One should never lie about their experience. There's no shame in being inexperienced. We all were at one time. Also, when you're dishonest about your experience, you can get yourself hurt taking on things you thought you could but really can't or aren't ready for.
~ Black Socks
What is BDSM?
BDSM stands for bondage, domination, submission, and sadomasochism. It can be one or more of these things, and it's different for every person or couple.
~ Black Socks
Why I don't like kids
I love kids, just not with kink. Their brains are too little to understand what their eyes are seeing. Being kinky kids interfere with adult playtime. If I really love a woman and she has kids, we'll work around them. If we make kids, I'll be a responsible dad and take the best care of them.
~ Black Socks
I'm a sensual sub who serves sensual Dommes
I am a sensual submissive who only serves sensual Dommes. I am not a pain slut. Blood and black-and-blue marks are gross. I like mild discomfort, not pain.
~ Black Socks
Hard limits
Never violate or attempt to push my hard limits. That is why they are called "hard" limits. It's not cause they make my cock hard as a rock. LOL
~ Black Socks
This is your cock
"This is your cock. I just carry it."
~ Black Socks
Equal rights for women
I believe women should always be treated the same as men and be paid the same amount for the same job. Since when does being beautiful, intelligent, and resourceful result in lower pay?
~ Black Socks
Acquaintances are not friends
"Acquaintances are not friends. They are people you associate with. Friends are people you can count on."
~ Black Socks
Life must be lived
"Life must be lived, not read about in books, watched on TV, listened to on the radio, or learned about on the computer."
~ Black Socks
BDSM is life-long learning
BDSM, like life, is life-long learning. There's always some new term or technique coming out. Nobody knows it all. I know a hell of a lot, but I don't know it all and never claim to. And anybody who does is a moron. BDSM and life aren't about knowing everything. They're about knowing things other people don't so you can share info and we can all become better human beings.
~ Black Socks
A profile is not a tell-all
A profile should only be used as a guide to learn if you're compatible with somebody, not a tell-all. Many people omit their kinks and fetishes, and so this is why you should always message somebody regardless of what their profile states. Sometimes people are also willing to make exceptions. You just never know what will happen based from a profile.
~ Black Socks
Dominants are not as dominant as you think
Most dominants are not as dominant as you think. They're very flexible, understanding, and will make changes for the right submissive. They're not as mean and cold as many people think.
~ Black Socks
I don't top from the bottom...
I don't top from the bottom. I bottom from the top.
~ Black Socks
Always ask questions
If a dominant tells you to not ask questions, they're not a real dominant and you should be asking yourself, "Why would I want to serve somebody who doesn't want me to have the info I need to better please them?"
~ Black Socks
Good slave vs great slave
A good slave satisfies all their dominant's needs, but a great slave knows how to anticipate them.
~ Black Socks
Maintain your sanity with vanilla time
Vanilla time and normal conversations are critical to evolve as a person and maintain your sanity. They show a person they're more than just sex.
~ Black Socks
I don't meet expectations...
I don't meet expectations. I exceed them.
~ Black Socks
Listen with your mind
"A wiseman listens with his mind. A fool listens with his ears."
~ Black Socks
How can I improve as a submissive?
When I'm bound, gagged, and blindfolded, I am not fantasizing. I am constantly thinking of ways to improve as a submissive for my Domme. So play time is not only for my benefit, but also my Domme's.
~ Black Socks
Just another cock or pussy
Many people in the lifestyle just want a cock or pussy to play with and fuck. They don't care who it's attached to. They use people for sex and then throw them away like toilet paper when they get bored of them or someone better comes along.
~ Black Socks
Quality over quantity
Put me in a room of 1,000 women and I'll leave it with just one.
~ Black Socks
Age is an issue
Some women believe age is a non-issue, and that can be true until you're middle aged. Another thing you need to realize is a younger and older person are going to be at different chapters in their lives. Age is a big issue after 50. If a woman is 50 and her husband is 70, he's probably going to pass away before her and she'll be left to mourn his loss. I would say a couple should be no younger or older than 12 years apart.
~ Black Socks
How I know I won't change my mind
Women ask me how do I know I really want this type of relationship and I won't change my mind? I know myself and I hate change.
~ Black Socks
Forever faithful
I have never cheated and I never will. I am 100% monogamous and always will be. I only have cock for you.
~ Black Socks
My definition of a cuckold
A woman who holds another man and his small penis hostage while she humiliates him and fucks another man with a large penis in front of him. LOL
~ Black Socks
Surface thinkers vs deep thinkers
A surface thinker is my term for a person who does basic thinking, while a deep thinker is one who is incredibly analytical, perceptive, detail-oriented, and analyzes someone or something from every possible angle, and thinks how can they improve it. I'm a deep thinker. Are you?
~ Black Socks
Dozen-Domme rule (12-friend rule)
My style is one amazing monogamous Mistress and 11 amazing female friends to discuss the lifestyle with. I have 6 slots available. ;^)
~ Black Socks
My top 20 pet-peeves
1. Stupid people. 2. People who repeatedly annoy me to do things. 3. False advertising. 4. People who do stupid shit and then blame me for it. 5. Hypocrites. 6. Politics. 7. Liars. 8. Lazy people. 9. Miserable people. 10. Women who play games. 11. Inefficiency. 12. Wasting food or money. 13. People who don't take care of their stuff or others' stuff. 14. People who take 20 years to do the simplest tasks. 15. People who avoid innocent questions. 16. Greedy and selfish people. 17. Cigarettes and drugs. 18. People who are cocky but have no reason to be. 19. People that say one thing but mean another. 20. Scammers (salesman that try to upsell you).
~ Black Socks
The risks of being kinky
Some low life outs you to your family or employer because they think it's hilarious. It is fucking hilarious, but that's one thing you just never do. And if that's the case, your family should support your kinks as long as they're not something incredibly stupid, like eating shit. Also, no employer should even consider firing somebody because they're kinky on personal time. What are they going to do? Fire a great CEO because he loves to sniff women's stinky feet on his time? That would just be so stupid.
~ Black Socks
Do, don't dream
"Do something about it. Don't dream about it."
~ Black Socks
Follow your passion
"Follow your passion, not the money. Your passion will always lead you to the money."
~ Black Socks
Not everybody on the Internet is a fake or flake
Not everybody on the Internet is a fake or flake. Most are on dating or social sites, but not all.
~ Black Socks
What are actions?
"Actions are words come to life."
~ Black Socks
How to respect women
1. Always read her profile to show you actually care. 2. Write her a great message. 3. Do not use pet names. 4. Do not send her a message every 30 minutes asking her why she hasn't replied. 5. Do not threaten or be vulgar to her. 6. Leave lots of Loves and great comments on her writings and photos. 7. Do not ask for her personal contact information too soon. 8. Send her links to things she loves. 9. Always be open and honest with her. 10. Make her smile.
~ Black Socks
Friends before Master or Mistress and slave
Sometimes you need to be friends first before being Master or Mistress and slave.
~ Black Socks
There's nothing wrong with copied and pasted messages
I usually send an initial friendly copied-and-pasted-but-genuine message to a woman. Why? Because most women don't even check their mail or bother to respond. I'm not going to waste my time spending hours writing her the best damn message she's ever received unless she's worth it. If she replies, all my subsequent messages will be original. To the women who blocked me for that, you lost out BIG time. It obviously never occurred to you that a message can be canned AND genuine. Not every one is spam. If a woman asks me if my message is copied and pasted, I always tell her yes and explain why. This is to show her I'm interested and encourage her to read my profile and reply. I've also tried sending an initial original message to some women. The response rate was about the same.
~ Black Socks
Do not commit to someone until you meet in person
People will say and do anything. They can act one way on the phone and computer--a person who you want badly--but be a completely different person in person. Maybe they're completely confident and cocky on the phone and computer, but completely insecure and shy in person. If you two were to ever meet, the chemistry would be killed. So while I will always be honest and honor any Domme I serve, if I sense foul play, I will explore other options. No matter how strongly I feel for a woman, I won't make that potential mistake until we have met and I know what we have is genuine. Do not commit yourself to people you can't touch and feel, because they may be a complete waste of time. The most valuable thing we have.
~ Black Socks
Kink is like a carnival
Kink is like a carnival. You play games hoping to win but never expect to actually win a prize. I've had Dommes that seemed perfect on paper for me but were not interested. I've turned some female subs into switches and baby Dommes. I've had women fall in love with my beautiful blue eyes, sexy sweet voice, and brilliant mind on the first phone call. I've had other women who played hard to get and then totally fell for me. And I've had women who told me how hot they were for me, never to speak to me again. You just never know what you're going to get at the kinky carnival.
~ Black Socks
Realistic slavery
I read the crazy thoughts of people here all the time. Many of them have a ridiculously unrealistic fantasy version of slavery. A Dom will say, "I will kidnap you and keep you chained in the basement naked. And you will be lucky if I remember to come down and feed you a moldy old piece of bread." LOL Or a female slave will say, "I want you to kidnap me, use my body for months, place duct tape over my mouth, tie me to your bed, whip me, and then send me home with Team Viewer on my computer. I want you to have total control of my life." LOL
These are just two of many hilarious fantasies. The problem is they're not realistic. You can't keep somebody chained up 24/7, control every aspect of one's life, or only feed them a moldy old piece of bread every so often. They would get sick and die. A person needs exercise, too. They need at least 3 balanced meals a day. They need love and care. They need somebody to pay any medical bills. They need alone time to think and do things for themselves. I don't believe slavery should include cruel suffering. I am a spoiled slave and so is my woman. We're not really whores. We're highly intelligent classy people who are only each other's whores for sex. We eat whatever we wish and how much we wish. We have friends and go out. But we never forget that we belong to each other and are each other's real slaves. We enforce humiliation and domination, not to really be cruel, but because we both love it.
~ Black Socks
Philadelphia sugary-beverage tax
The Philadelphia sugary-beverage tax is the stupidest tax ever created by Mayor dumbass Jim Kenney. This was a tax that originally was supposed to make every sugary-beverage cost 3 cents per ounce! That means your grocery bill would go way up. Well, once the people gave City Council hell, they lowered it to 1.5 cents per ounce, but despite 60% of us Philadelphians vetoing it, the retarded tax still was approved and is supposed to go into effect in January 2017. The American Beverage Association has filed a lawsuit and has their best lawyers taking Kenney and his cronies to court. The tax isn't just idiotic, it's illegal. It's unconstitutional and against state law. We should easily win this case. The only other city dumb enough to pass this bill was Berkeley, California, in 2014.
Kenney claims the money will go towards pre-kindergarten education and build parks and recreational centers. But the truth is, as we learned in the final hour leading up to the passing of the bill, the money would be used to pay for the city's fraud and government mismanagement, while the political crooks pocket the rest. That's political for they pocket 90% of the money and 10% goes to lower city debt. Not only is this the most ridiculously stupid bill ever created, but investing in pre-kindergarten education would be a complete waste of money, as children are so young at that age, they can barely walk. They're not there to think. Also, the bill hurts the very people it's supposed to help: the poor people. LMAO
~ Black Socks
I love the cold
I love cold weather. Winter is my favorite season. I'm warm blooded. I hate to sweat and the heat sucks all my energy out of my body. Summer is the worst for me. I hate all the bugs of summer. Winter is wonderful. No sweat or bugs, plenty of energy, big bushy beard, cuddles, hot cocoa, toe-socks, playing in the snow, and Christmas and my birthday.
~ Black Socks
Femdom kidnapping: The Surprise Adoption
The Surprise Adoption is the fictitious story about three beautiful, dominant female predators and kidnappers who were Mistress sisters named Jenny, Danielle, and Mona that discovered Black Socks, fell intrinsically in love with his sexy mind, and captured him in a romantic-kinky D/s life. It's based off his extensive real-life experiences in fantasy kidnap and rape.
CAST OF CHARACTERS: Jenny, 28, a beautiful blond with blue eyes. She was a former pro Domme. Danielle, 34, a beautiful raven with blue eyes. She was a career cat-burglar. Mona, 38, a beautiful brunette with green eyes. She was a black belt in ninjitsu karate. Black Socks, 32, a handsome, brilliant, incredibly successful, sensational male slave. The ultimate ladies' score.
All three girls were bank robbers and cat-burglars at night, but worked day jobs. They had all been sexually active from a young age. They never had trouble finding boys. They always got everything they wanted. As they got older, they discovered BDSM and fell in love with it. They were sex nymphs and female predators.
The time was 8 PM on Saturday. It was girls' night, a time for girly stuff. The girls decided to check to check their Think Kink messages. Disappointed as usual, they decided to check journal writings. They noticed one from a user named Black Socks. It said, "Fuck the mind, and the body will follow." All the girls gasped and said that is beautiful and so true. Let's check out his profile. OMG, look at those beautiful blue eyes. They're like high beams for your eyes. LOL He sure does look cute under that black mask. Let's read his profile. OMG, he's incredible AND submissive, too. Girls, are you thinking what I'm thinking? Kidnap! They laughed, but they were not joking. But seriously, we can't kidnap him. It's against the law. It's only against the law if you get caught. We're not going to tell and we'll make sure he won't tell. Besides, even if he did tell, what's he gonna say, "Oh, please police. You have to help me. I've been kidnapped and enslaved by 3 hot as hell women. They'd laugh him right out of the station. It's the perfect excuse. And it's not like we're going to hurt him. Well, okay, a little if he doesn't listen, but we want to love him as our pet, right? Right. Okay, so then are we agreed that we will kidnap him? Yes, all three girls said. Good, then just like any other job, we plan and execute to perfection. We bag this boy.
Over the next 2 months the girls studied everything about Black Socks professionally and personally and learned everything about him: his favorite food, his employer, his kinks, his home address, his phone number. They knew everything about him. And they couldn't believe that he was real. They sent him a teaser message saying, "You're going to be kidnapped soon. You won't know when, where, who, or why." Black Socks read the message and took it as a joke. Then 3 days later, the girls called from a private number and said, "Have you ever wanted to be a sex slave and forced to worship pretty women?" He laughed and said, "What man wouldn't want that?" The girls laughed. He said, "Alright, I need to go." Three more days later, the girls mailed him a letter made with text from magazines that said, "Your freedom is almost over." Once again, he laughed it off. The girls said I can't wait to see the look on his face when he sees three black ski masked kidnappers tying him up, gagging him, and escorting him to his new home. Three more nights passed, "Well, girls, the night of truth is finally here." We better start getting dressed. The girls did their nails, applied their eyeshadow, and lipstick, and finished getting dressed. All three wore black thongs, toe-socks, yoga pants, turtlenecks, black leather gloves, and ski masks. They hopped into their black van. One driving, one in the passenger seat, and the other in the back. They drove to Black Socks' house after dark at 2 AM. They parked. "Alright, girls this is it. Time to collect our prize. They cocked their hand guns, pulled their ski masks over their faces, and got out of the van.
Black Socks was sound asleep in his room. His bedroom was on the second floor. So the girls had to pick the lock on the front door. They did and tip toed up the stairs. They approached his bed and just stood there for a minute looking over their piece of man meat. Then one of the girls put her black gloved hand over his mouth and said "I told you you were going to be kidnapped." The other two girls quickly tied his hands behind his back, put shackles on his feet, stuffed a pair of black socks in his mouth and tied them in tightly with a black stocking, and then threw a black bag over his head. They escorted him down the stairs and to their van. Get in there prisoner they said in a sadistic voice.
They would wear black jumpsuits, ski masks, toe-socks, thongs, no bras, combat boots, and leather driving gloves. A black van would tail me for a few blocks then speed up when nobody is around. The van would pull up beside me and the side door would swing open. The van would stop. Two ski masked women would grab me and force me into the van. The third would close the door. The driver speeds away. The girls work quickly and cuff my hands behind my back and shackle my feet. One puts a gun to my head and says, "Listen carefully, bitch. You have been kidnapped by the Divine Bitches. We are your new Owners. You will obey or die. Do you understand?" She cocks the trigger on her gun. "I said, do you understand?" "Yes," I said. "Good. Gag and bag him." One of the girls pulls out a pair of smelly black pantyhose and double wraps them around my face and mouth. She ties the cleave gag tightly. She pulls a black ski mask over my face and ties another black stocking over my eyes. There's nothing but silence the entire van ride back to their hideout.
Promises
I always keep my promises and you better as well. The only time I would ever break a promise is if something serious came up or I was dead in a ditch. And I would make it up to the person if I could.
~ Black Socks
CS is not a popularity contest
I have much more respect for Collarspacers with a few real friends than ones with hundreds of fake friends. They're not all your friends. Why anybody would want to manage all those people.
~ Black Socks
Passion
"A person without passion is like a vampire without blood."
~ Black Socks
Analog vs digital
Every person is born into an analog life, which is a life without a laptop or desktop PC. Some people learn to deal with technology, especially women. They hate technology because it's complicated, but they tolerate it. This is why many women only have an iPhone: so they can still enjoy the main benefits of tech without all the headaches that come with a laptop or PC. Some people like me are leaders in tech and know just about everything there is. We own super computers that make big bucks. But here's the thing: most of us don't enjoy tech. We feel the same way you do, but we endure because we're great at it, it's our lifeline, and somebody has to do it.
~ Black Socks
Every human mind and body is unique
Every human mind and body is unique. That's what makes life so beautifully or tragically diverse. Each body has a set of customized DNA. No two people are alike. Each one of us looks, thinks, speaks, and acts differently. Each one of us was born into this world with a different skill-set to complete certain jobs. Only this person has been given the tools to perform this task and nobody else. Some people have one talent. Others have two or more. Each one of us have different strengths and weaknesses. Each one of us has problems, whether they're mental, emotional, or physical. Each one of our bodies is different. Some stronger, some weaker. Each one of us will die at a different age, place, and time. All lives matter, no matter what they do for a living. Collaboration is the greatest gift. It's where one mind meets another mind to create something beautiful or solve a problem. Something we could never do alone.
~ Black Socks
The human body is incredibly strong
The human body is incredibly strong. It can repair, grow, divide, and kill cells. And the immune system fights off harmful bacteria; but that doesn't mean you can drink, smoke, do drugs, cut yourself, or do serious harm to it and expect it to just be fine. Your health is the most important thing you'll ever have, and your body is a temple. If you don't take care of it, sooner or later it's going to break down and fail. Avoid the poison, eat right, exercise, and be happy. Your body will thank you for it.
~ Black Socks
I love to wear black thongs, pantyhose, and skirts
I don't even think of these as crossdressing. Straight male strippers wear thongs, they make pantyhose for men, and men wear skirts in Ireland. I love the way the nylon feels against my skin and crotch, and I love to see that big bulge poking out and be made to feel like a total man-whore. I hate wigs, make-up, bras, and nail polish, though.
~ Black Socks
Losing Larissa
Last year I met a woman on CS named Larissa. At first things were rough and she didn't even seem into me, even though she messaged me first. However, things quickly took off. She gave me her number and we instantly hit it off. We spent about 7 hours on the phone that night and 12 the next. We had great phone sex a few times. She loved the movie The Collector's main character and his all-black serial killer uniform and shiny black mask, so she would force me to wear my all-black slave uniform often. She even took toe-sock photos and bought a black ski mask from Walmart just for me and wrote a degrading handwritten sign I asked her to for jerkoff material. It said, "Black Socks is my bitch cash cuck." Even though I never watched her have sex with another man or gave her a penny. LOL She loved calling me her foot faggot. LOL I love bad girls, and did I ever get one in her. She's been to jail 21 times and prison twice! I wouldn't be surprised if her pretty face was on the jail wall hall of shame. LOL She told me she was really bad with relationships but really liked me and wanted to try her best. I'm sensual and she wanted a pain slut on the side, so I gave her permission to see this dude named Rocky to put her cigarettes out on and torture, as long as she didn't have sex with him, but she did have sex with him before going to rehab. I wasn't mad because we never met and she needed to get it out of her system. She told me she had a daughter and was living with her deadbeat boyfriend, TJ. What she didn't tell me was her "boyfriend" was really her husband of 4 years! He was a total loser. He didn't work and was drunk and high all the time. After he learned she was spending all her time talking to me, he got jealous, called me, and questioned me. He threatened me and said, "You're a really cool dude. I'm so glad I called you because me and my cousin were going to come down there to PA and kick your ass." I wanted to snap on him and tell him, "Pussy, I'd break you in half," but I felt sorry for dude and listened to his story. He had nothing but excuses. I couldn't wait to hang up. He actually called me again a few nights later a couple more times just to talk. I took a nap while he yapped. LOL
We loved talking to each other, me and Larissa. She was a beautiful, awesome, and funny Hispanic woman from Ohio. (Many Hispanic women are attracted to geeky white guys like me, though I don't know why.) LOL She was a heavy smoker and drug user and had Hep C. All 3 of these being deal-breakers, I told her that I'd be with her only if she cleaned up her life and successfully completed rehab. Her disease was not contagious as long as we took safety precautions. Before she left for rehab, she spent, like, $300 on her daughter's birthday and took her to Big Boys for salad and spaghetti, which she never ate. LOL She agreed and went to the treatment center. She was fine for about a week. We spoke every other day at 6 PM for ten minutes. She wrote me a couple great handwritten letters and sent them to me in the postal mail. She even drew me a few pictures on gum wrappers and licked one, prison-style. LOL The one reply letter I sent her was sent back to me after she got discharged. One night her boyfriend, TJ, called me and said, "Larissa told me to call you and have you call her. She's upset and demands to speak to only you." I found it odd that she wanted to speak to me instead of her own husband. I didn't think it was important, so I didn't call her back right away. I was doing something and called back 10 minutes later. But by then it was too late, she was upset about something, snapped at staff, and was discharged from rehab. She violated her parole and was sentenced to 4 years in prison. She disappointed not only me, but more importantly, her daughter. Now her little girl won't have a mom for the next 4 years. It's sad. I cried while I read her handwritten letters a few more times. I got another letter from her after she went to prison a couple weeks later telling me how she fucked up and was sure I wouldn't wait for her, but I ripped it up and never spoke to her again. I loved her, but she had too many issues and hung with the wrong crowd, so we'd never work.
~ Black Socks
Don't just trust anyone
Don't just trust anyone in the lifestyle. It could cost you your life.
~ Black Socks
True love is the hardest thing to find
I have incredible success in everything I do except finding true love. That's been the one and only thing I've had nothing but frustration and heartbreak in. It gets to a point where you say enough is enough. This is a complete waste of time and energy. It's always the woman and never me. I know that sounds smug, but it's true. Finding true love is like finding a needle in a haystack. Most people never find it and simply accept loneliness. It's very sad.
~ Black Socks
The dreaded BUT
I think you're wonderful, but... It all sounds great, but... You are so amazing, but...
Here's a suggestion: if someone is such a keeper, unless there's something about them that's truly a hard limit, KEEP them.
~ Black Socks
Selfish female submissives
Many female submissives are selfish and uninformed. BDSM is all about negotiation. You have to be able to give and take. You will never get everything you want, and that's fine. That's life. But what annoys me is when I meet a beautiful submissive woman who really likes me and we have a great connection, but they're unwilling to switch with me. No, it's not that they can't switch. They won't switch because they're selfish and want to be submissive to a man 100% of the time. I'd rather switch with an amazing man or woman and have an incredible romantic relationship with them than be single or with a Dom that's wrong for me. It's also great to have experience on both sides of the slash so you can truly understand and appreciate both roles. Selfish submissive females annoy me. They're difficult to play and live with. They also fail to realize all the wonderful perks they're missing as a part-time Domme.
~ Black Socks
I'll never be a Dom, but I'll switch
Many submissive women write me asking why I can't be a Dom. It's not that I can't. I choose not to. I'm probably the most dominant man you'll ever meet. I am the leader of the pack--the head of the herd--among men, an alpha-submissive male. But, when it comes to women, I love to relinquish all control to a beautiful, intelligent, dominant woman and be her collared pet and beta bedroom bitch. LOL However, being dominant comes naturally to me--and being a submissive, I understand the need to serve a superior woman or man--so if she wants to be my submissive sometimes, I will switch and be her Dom.
~ Black Socks
Time locks
Time locks are great for self-bondage, but make sure the time lock has some sort of safety mechanism in the rare event the device malfunctions. Otherwise, you could be trapped and die.
~ Black Socks
Bondage safety
Bondage is a lot of fun, but you need to be safe. Here's my checklist to stay safe alone or with a partner:
Make sure you know where the keys are BEFORE you play.
Always test handcuffs and ankle cuffs open and close BEFORE using them.
Make sure the handcuffs have a safety-release latch; police-grade do not.
Always use high-quality toys, especially ball gags and strap-ons that are non-toxic and made of medical-grade elite silicone.
Never use any painted gags and only bare steel, as the paint could chip and be swallowed, causing sickness.
Make sure the ball fits comfortably in the submissive's mouth. If the ball hurts their jaw, it's too big and you'll need a smaller size. The balls usually come in small, medium, or large. I take a small.
Make sure the cleave gag is non-toxic, clean, smooth, and doesn't have any tiny particles the submissive could swallow. Nylons make great cleave gags, but paper towels are a no-no.
Do not tie the restraints too tightly, especially if you're by yourself. They should be snug, but not so tight as to where you won't be able to wiggle out.
When tying someone up and leaving them unattended, always make sure to leave the key, or do not over tighten the restraints in case of an emergency escape, such as a fire, earthquake, bathroom break, or unexpected guest. LOL
Never apply duct tape directly to a person's lips or eyes. Always place a cloth or something over the area first and then wrap the duct tape on top of the cloth and around the head. This is to prevent physical injury from the possibility of toxic glue from getting into your mouth or eyes.
Never obstruct nose holes unless the mouth is free to breathe.
Always use a new dildo or gag on each submissive, and always use a separate dildo for the mouth and ass.
Always wash your toys with mild dish detergent and warm water when they get shit, piss, blood, spit, or cum on them.
If using latex, make sure the person is not allergic to it.
Make sure the collar or neck restraint is snug and not so tight as to where it's strangling the submissive.
If using rope, make sure to always make the column first and then tie the knots so there's no chance of the submissive struggling and accidentally making the ropes too tight, causing physical injury.
~ Black Socks
All about rope (shibari) bondage
A big mistake people make with rope bondage is they don't need to learn how to tie rope. You just tie it like your shoelaces. But this is false. You do need to learn, and while rope bondage looks complicated with all the various intricate bondage patterns, there's only a few basic building blocks you need to know:
Always make sure you have a pair of EMT or regular scissors on hand during play; be very careful when using regular scissors. The scissors are used to quickly cut the rope in case of an emergency.
Always use hemp rope for strict bondage and bamboo silk for sensual bondage where the rope will move across the skin. There's many other types of rope, but don't worry about those.
Always find the bite or lark of the rope (the middle of the rope) and place the loop on the point where you want to create a column (a loop). You want to make sure that all the rope is clean and doesn't bunch up with the other strands of rope. Shibari is all about presentation and you want the bottom to feel comfortable.
You always want to place your fingers under the column of rope to create slack between the bottom's bone and the rope and then tie your knots. This is to make sure that when the bottom pulls on the rope, they cannot make the rope too tight by accident and hurt themselves.
~ Black Socks
I live for commitment
Most men fear commitment, but I live for it.
~ Black Socks
Hilarious profile of foreign lesbian butch FinDomme
Here's a hilarious profile of a foreign lesbian butch FinDomme on CS. This woman appears Mexican or Hispanic, has many photos of her rolling in 100 dollar bills, and has a screenshot of a supposed pay pig that P-a-y-P-a-l-e-d her $12,000 and another that shows her bank account with just shy of 1 million dollars. I have a strong suspicion the screenshots are doctored or the money is from drug distribution. I don't know of any submissives who have ever paid that to a FinDomme. She has the worst grammar and writes in street slang. This is a good example of how NOT to write if you want a job. She's so fucking lazy, she can't even spell the whole word "message." LOL
LESBIANN FINDOM LUKN TA RAPE ALL U LITTLE DICC FAGGOTZ IM GREEDY AZ FUC SKI MASKEN UR BANK ACCOUNT I CONTROL UR FUCCN LYFE I WILL NOT MSSG U 1st u MSSG ME
My favorite part was "ski masking your bank account." LOL
~ Black Socks
Kinky sex is funny
Are you like me? Do you laugh at your own kinky sex and the kinky sex of others? If you're not laughing at your sex, you're not having good sex. I love to wear a black ski mask while I serve and have sex, and I love my Domme in one, too. Ski masks are for more than skiing and robbing banks. LOL I can't believe the shit me and other people are into.
The funniest sex I ever read about is from an adult baby on here who is fat, blind, ugly, and retarded that's angry because nobody wants him, but that's not the funny part. The funny part is his dad feels so sorry for him, he wants to hire a hooker to be his Mommy. LMFAO
~ Black Socks
Don't accuse me of cheating or wrongdoing without proof
Don't accuse me of cheating or wrongdoing without proof. I don't care what you think. If you can't prove it, your assumptions are insulting.
~ Black Socks
You're interesting or intriguing is female for "not interested"
You're interesting or intriguing is female for "not interested." I've been told that and a lot more flattering things from many women. Everything from you have the best profile I ever read to your message was the best I ever gotten. They weren't serious and it never went anywhere.
~ Black Socks
When I look into your eyes...
When I look into your eyes, I see a woman who always gets what she wants, and I'm the only man who can give it to her.
~ Black Socks
Her smile
Her smile says I'm a sweet and caring lady by day and a sex-crazed whore by night.
~ Black Socks
Dominants and submissives need each other
A dominant needs a submissive as much as a submissive needs a dominant, and neither is better than the other, just different. There's no shame in being served or serving others.
~ Black Socks
Honorary titles of address must be earned
Honorary titles of address must be earned. I will never call you Mistress, Princess, Goddess, or any equivalent until I am officially yours; and you won't call me Sir, Master, Daddy, or any equivalent until you're officially mine.
~ Black Socks
Kiss your Mistress
My amazing Mistress loves to order me to kiss her luscious lips. "Kiss me, slave. Again. One more time. That's all for now. Good boy." boner LOL
~ Black Socks
Fuck their mind...
"Fuck their mind and their body will follow."
~ Black Socks
Submissive triggers
Every sub or slave has triggers--whether they're words, actions, or objects--that send them into subspace horny and make them want to serve and obey.
~ Black Socks
My definition of a penis
A device implanted on men by women to tease, control, and manipulate him to do whatever she fucking wants. LOL
~ Black Socks
I love goth girls
From their all-black wardrobe to their combat boots to their cute personalities, I love goth girls.
~ Black Socks
Romance and kink
I can't have romance without kink, and I can't have kink without romance.
~ Black Socks
Are you sure this is what you really want?
Many people I meet have digital fantasies that differ from their real-life sex lives. They will love just the thought of something and make people believe this is what they really want, but the truth is they only want that thing online as a fantasy, not in real life as a reality. Which is fine, as long as you make it clear that something is just fantasy and you'd never want to actually do it in real life. For example, I have a fantasy of being a ski-masked couple's ski-masked foot cuckold, but it's just a fantasy. Something that makes me cum so good. I'm way too dominant and I'd rip dude's head off. LOL When I go into details, a lot of women love my fantasy, but I make it clear to them that we will only role-play it, if anything.
~ Black Socks
We have a responsibility to ourselves and each other
Every one of us has a responsibility to ourselves and each other. When one of us is irresponsible, we all suffer through frustration, injury or death. When you do your job, don't just go to work and collect a paycheck --even if you hate your job--be the best at it you can be because other people depend on you. If everybody were lazy and irresponsible, we would not have all the things we have and everybody would be injured, sick, or dead.
If a chef doesn't thoroughly wash their hands often and maintain a very clean food preparation area, they will get their customers sick or killed.
If a factory worker misses a damaged component during QA that part will be sold to a consumer who experiences stress and frustration after buying it.
If a doctor mis-prescribes the correct medication, their patient could suffer complications or death.
~ Black Socks
For everything good, there's something equally bad
Examples: GOOD: A gun that's used to protect a cop from harm. BAD: A gun that's used by a robber to shoot a cop.
GOOD: A steak knife designed to cut meat. BAD: A crazy person who stabs somebody with a steak knife.
GOOD: A plastic bag designed to carry groceries and protect them from moisture. BAD: A crazy person who puts a plastic bag over a victim's face and suffocates them.
GOOD: A computer used to streamline business productivity. BAD: A computer hacker who installs a keylogger on a victim's computer and steals their personal bank information.
GOOD: Donating money to charity for the underprivileged. BAD: Stealing money from charity that the underprivileged need.
GOOD: Supporting musical artists by paying for their work. BAD: Illegally downloading that music for free.
GOOD: Acid used to manufacture fertilizers to protect crops. BAD: A crazy person who throws acid in a victim's face and disfigures it.
GOOD: A lock used to keep people out. BAD: A lock used to keep people trapped.
GOOD: Medically-prescribed drugs to treat sickness and disease. BAD: A junkie overdosing on preion drugs and dying.
GOOD: Using the telephone to call a friend or family member. BAD: Telemarketers using the telephone to verbally harass households.
As we see, there's good and evil genius. I'll never understand why anybody chooses to use their genius to harm or kill, instead of improve and heal.
~ Black Socks
My 5 dimensions to connection and compatibility
Here's my 5 dimensions to connection and compatibility I use to pick a partner. If even one is missing, keep searching. Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and sexual.
~ Black Socks
Turning female subs into switches
I love when I meet a female sub who swears she's strictly submissive, but once I share my fantasies with her, many times all she wants to do is control me. ;^) I love making female subs love domination.
~ Black Socks
Subs and slaves crave to be captured, collared, and cherished
Submissives and slaves crave to be captured, collared, and cherished, not beg and plead to be owned.
~ Black Socks
The top 6 evil female supervillians I love
1. Maleficent from "Sleeping Beauty" 2. The Evil Queen from "Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs" 3. Catwoman 4. Harley Quinn 5. A beautiful Wicked Witch of the West from "The Wizard of Oz" 6. Black Widow
~ Black Socks
Are you relationship-ready?
Relationship-ready is a term I created. Are you ready for a relationship? If you can answer yes to all 20 of these questions, you are relationship-ready.
1. Are you honest? 2. Are you trustworthy? 3. Are you respectful? 4. Are you loyal? 5. Are you punctual? 6. Are you a great communicator? 7. Do you keep your promises? 8. Do you put others before yourself? 9. Are you a great listener? 10. Are you reliable? 11. Are you happy? 12. Are you able to take care of yourself so you can take care of another? 13. Do you have much commonsense? 14. Are you able to express your true feelings with ease? 15. Are you completely comfortable in your own skin? 16. Are you completely comfortable living or spending time with another? 17. Do you have minimal drama and baggage in your life? 18. Do you understand a relationship is all about sacrifice and compromise? 19. Do you understand the relationship is about both people? 20. Are the terms of the relationship clear and agreed on?
~ Black Socks
Online vs real time
An online-only relationship can be great, but there's no physical interaction, which some people require. Many online relationships are supposed to start online but progress into the real world but stay online indefinitely. A real-time relationship includes physical interaction and there's no hiding. Some people maintain both an online and real-time relationship. As long as the relationship works for you and you're not kidding you or your partner(s), they're both great.
~ Black Socks
Don't be scared of the lifestyle
Some new people to the lifestyle are scared and their vanilla thoughts conflict with their kinky ones. As long as you find somebody trustworthy and can separate fantasy from reality, there's nothing to fear and you're going to have a fun time.
~ Black Socks
The gullible submissive
The gullible submissive is a woman who will trust any Dom with the false promise he will train and teach her, but what happens a lot is the woman will find herself in a dangerous situation, and many times raped or even killed. Do not just fall for any old Dom. I know you're excited and horny, but you have to vet him, and it takes lots of time.
~ Black Socks
Smoking kills people
Smoking kills people. Over 90% of lung cancer is due to smoking. Cigarettes are designed to addict people using nicotine and kill people slowly while turning a big profit. That's why the government won't ban them. They contain approximately 7,000 carcinogen chemicals, including alkaline, ammonia, and arsenic. These ingredients are found in batteries, bleach, and rat poison. When you smoke, you inhale the poison and it slowly and sometimes quickly damages your cells and cancer forms. It's also expensive, turns everything white to beige, makes your clothes stink, and causes smoker's cough. There's not one good thing about cigarettes. Stressed out? Buy a stress ball and squeeze it. And cigars, e-cigs, and all-natural tobacco cigarettes are not completely safe alternatives. If you smoke, quit. If you have family, friends, or pets and you insist on smoking, please light up outside and do not put them at risk of second-hand smoke, which is said to be just as bad as smoking. If you want to kill yourself, that's your right. You don't have the right to kill anybody else. The problem is there's no laws against smoking in many public places and especially the home, so people are vulnerable and can't do much about it, and that's sad for children.
~ Black Socks
Beauty
Beauty comes in all different colors, shapes, and sizes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So next time you look at a couple and say I don't get it, understand all that matters is they make each other happy. Beauty is you. Beauty is me. Beauty can be appearance, intelligence, talent, personality, sense-of-humor. And beauty comes and goes.
~ Black Socks
Random friend requests
Do not send somebody a friend request before getting to know them. You can't be friends with somebody you don't know.
~ Black Socks
Let's be weird together
Being weird is good, but finding a weirdo and being weird together is the best.
~ Black Socks
Laughter is the best medicine
Laughter is the best medicine. When you're stressed, laugh. When you're sad, laugh. When you're bored, laugh. When you're mad, laugh.
~ Black Socks
I'm intense and passionate
I am an extremely intense and passionate lover and person. I come on strong, get stronger, and you'll love ever second of it.
~ Black Socks
Show you're a real person, not just a sex-crazed freak
When you approach somebody in the lifestyle, a common mistake is to open up with sex. Do not do it. Show you're a real person, not just a sex-crazed freak. Be genuine and make sure you have something vanilla to talk about.
~ Black Socks
Don't be afraid to say sorry
Don't be afraid to say sorry, and don't say it unless you mean it. Too many people throw the word around like it's nothing.
~ Black Socks
Don't blame me for the pain other guys put you through
I'm nothing like them. I didn't do it. And it's not fair to me. The only thing we have in common is a penis.
~ Black Socks
A relationship is not all about 1 person
If you actually believe any relationship is all about one person, then love yourself. Both people have needs, wants, goals, and dreams.
~ Black Socks
10 stupid things people say
Here's 10 stupid things people say:
I'll try anything once. Oh, really? Drink this cup of acid.
I'll try anything twice. I want you to jump off this building and do it again when you DON'T get up.
I've seen and done it all. Hmm, not sure how you could when new things come out all the time. Did you just see what I saw? Didn't think so.
Everybody does it. I don't do it.
All humans are created equal. Nope, sorry. We all have different strengths and weaknesses.
Anything is possible. Sorry, no. Humans can't live forever, now or ever.
Money can't buy happiness. This new computer makes me so happy.
You can be anything you want if you put your mind to it. You can't be a singer if you weren't born with a voice. You can take voice lessons, but that doesn't mean you'll be a good singer. It's a gift not everybody has.
Hold on a second. Elapsed time: 15 minutes.
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Fuck that shit. The world would be completely boring and untruthful if everybody said please and thank you.
Time heals all wounds. Tell that to people with life-long PTSD.
No wonder there's so many stupid people in the world. LOL That's just 10 examples. Feel free to add more.
~ Black Socks
Submissives are strong, not weak
Being a submissive or slave means you're incredibly strong, not weak.
~ Black Socks
Men and women are equals
Men and women are equals, but I like to pretend women are superior and rule the world. ;^)
~ Black Socks
I admit...
Every once in a while, I send a random woman a ridiculously funny message and laugh so hard at her response, a little cum comes out. Here's an example:
Good day. My name is Testy Cummings. I hope this message finds you well. I love to set things on fire. If it's not too much trouble, I would absolutely love to burn your house down. Don't worry. We would be standing outside away from the blaze with my arm wrapped around you as we both watch your house turn to ashes. As a thank you, I would fuck you good. It would be at my house, of course, since you no longer have one. ROFLAO
Now, you need to know that if she actually responds, and many do, I will always tell them they've been punked and I'm not really crazy. They will tell me how funny it was and that will be the end of it.
What makes this so funny to me is the content, sure, it's comedy gold, but more than that it's my imagining this woman coming home from a good day, sitting down at the computer, and then BAM, reading the most strange thing she's probably ever. And that makes my sides split.
~ Black Socks
The wimpy Dom
You know that Dom you talk to online that makes you tingle? Yeah, well, he's actually 3'5", 100 lbs, plays with action figures, and has never even had sex. Women submissives, has this happened to you? Did you lose that submissive feeling because his picture made you puke, or find him irresistibly handsome and move in with him the very next day so you could help him retrieve things in high places? LOL
~ Black Socks
The cocky dominant
The cocky dominant is not a real dominant. It's a person with a big ego who stupidly thinks every sub or slave they find attractive wants to submit to them. LOL They say things like, And what makes you think I would own you? I never asked you to own me. Then they either go away crying or get defensive and share a bullshit story of superiority, like Well, my lady, I have 100 beautiful slaves, live in a mansion, and am wealthy beyond your wildest dreams. Which really means this person is alone, lives in an apartment, and collects disability. Even their cat dominates them. LOL
~ Black Socks
When does it become cheating for a mono?
When does it become cheating for a monogamous person? After physical intercourse? After fantasizing about a famous person through mental cheating? After having an erotic role-play with no sexual gratification and thinking of your partner? What's cheating to you? For me, I'd say after physical intercourse because people have uncontrollable thoughts and it's just part of being human.
~ Black Socks
Are you really poly?
I've met many polies, and as a mono, I always wonder if they're really poly. Are they just using multiple partners to try and find connections and everything they need in different people because they haven't found their special person, or are they really poly and truly enjoy multiple partners? And the answer may surprise you. When I ask polies this question, some say I don't know I never thought about it, some say I could be monogamous, and few are positive they're polyamorous. Ask yourself, "Am I really poly?," and see what you really think.
~ Black Socks
Always discuss kinks and sex 1st, not last, when getting to know a person
People should always discuss kinks and sex first--not last--when getting to know each other and trying to start a relationship--especially a D/s one-- because sexual compatibility is critical in any vanilla or kinky relationship and you do not want to speak to someone for a year or three, only to discover both parties are not sexually agreeable and have wasted an inordinate amount of each other's time, when they could've found out they were wrong for each other within the first 10 minutes.
~ Black Socks
If you can't trust anybody...
"If you can't trust anybody, you can't love anybody. Love is all about trust."
~ Black Socks
People look different in different photos
It's funny. You know it's the same person in all the photos, yet they look like different people. LOL
~ Black Socks
Good boy
I love when Mistress calls me a good boy and expresses how much I make her happy.
~ Black Socks
No means no
No means no. It is not a yes that needs convincing.
You're only a whore when it's time for sex. Any other time, you are a beautiful and classy woman that I completely respect.
~ Black Socks
All about my black cat, Puddy
Puddy is my adorable and lovable black cat. This writing is a tribute to him. You will learn all about my Puddy pie, and no, you can't have him. :^P
I have two photos of Puddy on my profile if you want to see what he looks like.
I don't know Puddy's birthday, so I just say it's Halloween. LOL
Puddy was an orphan I adopted. We met under a bush outside my little sister's apartment complex. We met twice there before I adopted him and became his human daddy.
Puddy has a big white heart on his belly that reminds me of a CareCat, like a CareBear. LOL
Puddy does not like strangers knocking on the door or coming inside the house, because he's treated like a king and doesn't want to jeopardize being taken away from his castle. If that should happen, he will run and hide in one of his many usual hiding places, such as the closet in the upstairs hallway.
Puddy loves Frisky's and Fancy Feast but not 9 Lives. That's probably because he's smart and knows he only has one life to live. LOL
Puddy is spoiled rotten and has 2-3 foods at a time and water. He has one wet food and two dry foods. He loves lettuce and people food, like potato chips and meat. He loves to eat from my hand and the smell of people food from the oven. I make him gourmet cat burgers for a treat on wheat crackers. No bun. They contain sugar, and that will kill a cat.
Puddy does the most adorable gallop like a horse when he's happy to see me that I call The Horsey. LOL
Puddy lies in the upstairs backroom on the hardwood floor in 90 degree or hotter weather flattened out, looking like a bear-skin rug. LOL I have no idea why he does not stay cool in front of the AC downstairs on those inferno days.
One time while Puddy was in the backyard playing, I left him unattended and went inside, thinking he'd be fine for a few minutes. But when I returned, he was gone and I panicked. I searched the whole neighborhood and couldn't find him. Later that night, I cried thinking he had been killed or adopted, and I'd never see him again, but the next day, he just waltzed in the basement door like it was nothing. Hey, human daddy, what's up? I'm back from vacation. Miss me? LOL
Puddy HATES other cats. He's super territorial. One time I thought it'd be adorable to get him a black-cat girlfriend. BIG MISTAKE. They hissed and growled at each other. He sniffed her ass. LOL The poor thing was petrified and hid behind the couch most of the night until I let her loose. Let's just say I never saw a cat run so fast down the back alley. LOL
Puddy loves when I come home from the grocery store and I stock up his food and litter. He loves seeing high inventory. He's so happy to see me and know I care so much about him.
Puddy is not neutered, so when my mom comes over to visit, he likes to fuck her right arm. LMAO
Puddy protects the house from mice and loves to catch them and bring them to me as a gift. It's thoughtful, but they may have disease, so I have to throw them out and disinfect the sweeper and dust bin. LOL He loves to feel prideful.
~ Black Socks
Slave to your beauty
I don't have many weaknesses, but beautiful dominant women are one of them. I can't say no to a pretty face and pair of feet. Tie me up, lock my cock up, force me to sniff your stinky black sock-covered feet, order me to cook and clean, verbally humiliate me, take out all your male frustration on me, take full advantage of my small penis, and use me up until there's nothing left.
~ Black Socks
Slaves are free
"A vanilla person loves their personal freedom, but a slave can only be free if they no longer have their personal freedom."
~ Black Socks
Ghosting
Ghosting is when you start talking to somebody and then just disappear without explanation. It's totally rude and disrespectful. If you aren't really interested, don't say you are. If you're not ready, just say so. Don't waste my time or yours.
~ Black Socks
Racism needs to end
I'm not racist, but racism should've ended a long time ago. The KKK need to remove their masks, shake the Black Panthers' hands, agree to terminate both parties, and end this idiotic violent race war. And certain black people need to stop promoting their culture as a divider with things like Black History Month. No, just History Month, remembering great people; drop the black. When black people do this, they're continuing racism and sending a strong message that they think they're superior. You don't see us white people have White History Month or any other white-only celebration events, so blacks shouldn't, either. It's offensive, especially when many blacks complain about police brutality by white cops. Yes, it's true white people run most things and as a whole, we're the most accomplished race; but there does exist some intelligent and successful black people, like Martin Luther King Jr, Boyz II Men, and Oprah. And there would be more if so many didn't waste their lives on rap and crime. A person should be judged for who they are and what they can do, not their silly skin color. Only a fool thinks in this way.
~ Black Socks
Subs are really the ones in control
When you think of a sub, most people think of somebody who relinquishes control, but it's really the opposite. A sub has 90% control. They decide what's acceptable and what's a hard limit, and they can stop things at anytime with a safe word or object.
~ Black Socks
My 10 favorite wiseman and woman quotes
Here are 10 of my all-time favorite wiseman and woman quotes that I live and die by. I've lived my whole life by these, but they're worded so beautifully, they need to be said again and again.
1. "Commonsense is the most uncommon thing." ~ Black Socks
2. "The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today." - H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
3. "Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated." - Confucius
4. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you're doing the impossible." - Francis of Assisi
5. "The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it." - Hubert H. Humphrey
6. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller
7. "Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment." - Buddha
8. "In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can." - Nikos Kazantzakis
9. "Good, better, best. Never let it rest. 'Til your good is better and your better is best." - St. Jerome
10. "The most important thing is to enjoy your life - to be happy - it's all that matters." - Audrey Hepburn
~ Black Socks
What is love?
"Love is putting somebody before yourself."
~ Black Socks
Life is simple
"Life is simple. It's the people in it who make it difficult."
~ Black Socks
These are a few of my favorite things
These are all for play and nobody actually is held against their will, hurt, or robbed. It's ed porn and we're the actor and actress, so don't be scared. :^)
Black ski masks and leather gloves on me and women. Femdom kidnapping. Male sex slavery. Sniffing girls' stinky sweaty black socks or nylons. Being used as a woman's human footstool. Women who wear black combat boots. Woman domestic and sexual worship. Verbal humiliation: I love to be called foot boy, sock slave, ski mask bitch, etc. Physical bondage: black cleave gags and blindfolds, and collars and leashes. Breaking and entering. Robbery. Play rape. Huntress and hunted; games of predator and prey. Consensual non-consent. Light impact play: hair pulling, collar yanking, spanking, paddling, and flogging. Orgasm control: chastity, key holding, edge play, and orgasm denial. Having me and Mistress dress up all in black. I love looking like a gimp slave.
~ Black Socks
This is how hard it is to find someone in the lifestyle...
It took me approximately 10 months to find my amazing Mistress. I had to message hundreds of women, with maybe just a 3% response rate. All those lonely, boring nights. The watering eyes and sore right hand that felt like it had carpal-tunnel syndrome LOL, determined to find her. Every time I thought I finally found her, she would tell me how wonderful I sound but ghost on me. It didn't make any sense and got very discouraging. I was about to give up for good, but instead I made one final huge inhuman push on Fet...and it worked. :^) I've used this computer mouse for 8 years, and it's continued to work just like the day I bought it. But after making millions of mouse clicks with it on Fet, the left button has finally worn out and often double clicks when I want to single click, or vice versa. It's an easy fix, or I could simply replace the mouse, but that just goes to show you how hard it is to find someone in the lifestyle, especially for a man.
~ Black Socks
The psychology behind my female foot and black sock fetish
Women usually have soft, small and pretty feet.
The feet contain pheromones, which are a sexual secretion that attracts the opposite sex. The most pheromones are found in the feet, but other areas are the genitals and underarms. This is the same reason why many women love to smell a sweaty man or a cat or dog loves to smell stinky shoes or socks. This "stinky" scent is arousing and pleasurable, not disgusting.
The feet are considered the dirtiest part of the body, containing the most toxins, which makes me feel humiliated and like if I'm willing to worship a woman's pretty parts, I need to be willing to worship her dirty ones, too.
I love black socks or nylons on women. Black socks stink more than other colored socks. My favorite are black toe-socks and knee highs, but any black socks or nylons will do as long as they are opaque or not highly sheer. I love toe-socks because they combine both my foot and sock fetish, since toe-socks are in the shape of feet, but what's funny is I find toe shoes creepy. LOL Black is a color that symbolizes power, domination, control, greed, corruption, and darkness. All submissive feelings I love.
They make me feel pathetic in a good way thinking about how I'd much rather be a woman's foot boy and pleasure her feet than have sex because I have a small penis and like to pretend it can't satisfy a woman, so the only place in her life for me is at her stinky black-socked feet.
~ Black Socks
You always have a choice
"You always have a choice. You might not like it, but it's still a choice."
~ Black Socks
Learning to live again
Losing a dominant or submissive you deeply loved is one of the most difficult, stunning, and traumatic things you can experience. You feel lost, confused, pained, and alone. But you lived for yourself before them, and you must live for yourself after them.
~ Black Socks
Before you can have sex...
"Before you can have sex, you must learn how to live without sex."
~ Black Socks
Think with your big head
"Think with your big head and fuck with your little one."
~ Black Socks
You can't make anyone else happy...
You can't make anyone else happy unless you're happy.
~ Black Socks
If you're not happy...
If you're not happy, you're not living.
~ Black Socks
Why I stopped playing videogames
I stopped playing videogames in my mid-20s because they're boring. If you've played one videogame, you've played them all. Oh sure, improved graphics, new titles, concepts, missions, characters, and the like always come out, but the general experience is the same. And videogames are already at the point of uncanny valley, so they won't be looking much realer, just creepy. Plus, I don't have time with work and serving Mistress, and I'd much rather serve Mistress. I used to love EA Sports' NHL series, but it's been garbage since 2009 with recycled legacy features and minor lame updates. I also used to love Tom Clancy's Rainbow Six series, but the last installment, Siege, didn't even have a single-player campaign--just weak situations--and just felt like the series forgot its roots and was something to make money.
~ Black Socks
Honesty
Honesty isn't the best policy. It's the only policy.
~ Black Socks
True woman worship
True woman worship is worshiping your woman's mind, body, soul, knowing everything about her, and doing whatever she wants so she's always happy. Worshiping her feet, mouth, pussy, ass, and breasts.
~ Black Socks
Love her mind...
"Love her mind and her body will come and cum."
~ Black Socks
I'm a sapiosexual and demisexual
I'm a sapiosexual and demisexual, which means I find intelligence and the mind to be the most sexually attractive organ, and I need a romantic and emotional connection with a person to love them.
~ Black Socks
Mr and Mrs Potato Head
Potatoes are my favorite food and American potato salad is my favorite dish, so I came up with this saying. "I'm Mr Potato Head and Mistress is Mrs Potato Head, and we're best SPUDS for life." LOL Mistress and I love potatoes, especially mashed potatoes, but I enjoy all other types of potatoes, too, including French fries and baked potatoes, except sweet potatoes, which is funny because I supposedly loved them as a baby. We really do change with age.
~ Black Socks
When one person does something wrong, we all lose
When one person does something wrong, they don't just lose, we all do. Then the next person does the same thing, and the next, and the next... They think it's just the way things are. It's a chain reaction. That's why the world is a hell hole.
~ Black Socks
I'm a brunette man who loves raven or brunette women
I'm a brunette man who loves raven or brunette women.
~ Black Socks
What my beard says about me
I usually wear a beard. Usually, it's a neat trimmed goatee, in the winter it's a big bushy beard, and sometimes I wear a clean-shaven look. Here's what my beard says about me:
God King Warrior Dominant Aggressive Powerful Prestigious Honorable High social status Rugged Manly Strong Mature Meat eater Sexy Warm I have much more important things to do than shave every day.
~ Black Socks
You can't please everybody
No matter how great something is, you can't please everybody, so don't try. If it pleases a lot of people, it's a success.
~ Black Socks
Moderation is key
Moderation is key. Too much of a good thing is a bad thing, and too much of a bad thing is a terrible thing. It's all about balance and harmony.
~ Black Socks
What wearing glasses says about you
When you wear glasses, people think you're educated, intelligent, nerdy/geeky, trustworthy, and fashionable. I wear glasses and these all apply to me. Six out of ten people wear glasses.
~ Black Socks
Men have it 1000 times harder than women on Fet
Women are flooded with messages--and yes you girls have to deal with a shit storm of creepers--but we men are lucky to receive one unsolicited message a year. Would you believe the only two unsolicited messages I ever received here in my 10 months were from a young pretty chick who complimented my beautiful blue eyes and a guy from Serbia who also shares my mask fetish? LOL I'm not complaining. I have the most amazing Mistress and many great female friends, but I had to bust my ass to find them. You just don't know. And, guys, unless you do the same, the chances of you finding somebody special are next to 0. Women don't even search! So much for gender equality.
~ Black Socks
Ugly dogs
Why do most women love ugly dogs and cuddle with them but hate ugly men and won't even hug them? What's the difference? They're both ugly dogs. LMAO
~ Black Socks
Women should always be in charge of sex and the home
Women were born to have sex. Their beautiful bodies scream sex. They have a machine gun for a pussy compared to us men's penis pistols. LOL Women are the most beautiful, nurturing, delicate, and graceful creatures. A woman should always be in charge of sex and the home, and a man should always be an alpha and her bedroom beta bitch that worships her and makes sure she is happy.
~ Black Socks
I love women who wear black combat boots
I love women who wear black combat boots.
~ Black Socks
The meaning of life
"Life is a beautiful temporary journey full of learning, teaching, growing, emotions, and challenges in a place of 7 billion other good and bad people that coexist and collaborate to make it a better or worse place that fight with each other."
~ Black Socks
Be grateful for what you have
Be grateful for what you have, because it can all be taken away from you.
~ Black Socks
Tomorrow is not guaranteed to anyone
Be grateful for today, as tomorrow is not guaranteed to anyone, just as the next 5 minutes isn't.
~ Black Socks
Slow as a sea turtle
I can't stand people that are as slow as a sea turtle to get simple things done, like make a phone call or write an e-mail. I try and be patient with the understanding that not everybody moves as fast as me, but it's very hard just waiting for them to catch up. I think patience is a virtue, but it's also a crutch. I love the saying "get 'er done."
~ Black Socks
The unhappy liar
A liar is an unhappy person who lives in a fantasy world to try and make themselves feel better.
~ Black Socks
10 tips for good netiqutte
10 tips for good netiquette:
1. Always do what you say you will in a timely manner. 2. Read and respond to your mail in a timely manner. 3. Do not send somebody a friend request before getting to know them. 4. Always leave lots of original, thought-provoking, and funny comments and Loves. 5. Always read a person's profile before messaging them. 6. Do not lead people on. 7. Do not ghost, where you tell them you're interested but then disappear without even an explanation. 8. Do not harass people and ask them why they haven't responded to your message every hour. 9. Use good spelling and grammar. 10. If you fuck up, apologize and mean it.
~ Black Socks
It's the simple things
It's the simple things in life that bring us the most joy. A funny pair of socks, your cat or dog, a good book, a good song, shells and cheese, laughter... You don't need to be rich to live a complete life. Most rich people are under lots of pressure, have no privacy, and are a target for robbery.
~ Black Socks
I love black ski masks
I love black ski masks. I love wearing them, watching women wear them, and having a woman force me to wear them. When I see Mistress in one, she can rob my fucking sperm bank all day. LOL Are you a woman who loves black ski masks, too?
~ Black Socks
I dislike the word sub or submissive
Technically, I am an alpha-submissive male, but I don't like the word sub or submissive. It's not sexy or deep, but I love the term "sex slave" because it makes me feel completely submissive and want to worship a woman on every level.
~ Black Socks
3 things a Domme should never say to a sub or slave
1. I want somebody stupid and worthless I can use and abuse. 2. This is all about me. 3. I want somebody with no limits or rights.
You wanting a sub or slave that's stupid and worthless makes you sound stupid. I don't want to serve a dummy. A sub or slave is a reflection of their Domme. If you want to hurt somebody, seek professional help. Everybody has wants, needs, limits and rights, but it's okay to pretend you don't.
~ Black Socks
I hate atheists
How can you not believe in something you can't prove or disprove? God forbid if you're wrong, I hope you like inferno heat, because I would not want to be you on Judgement Day when you're sent to hell forever.
~ Black Socks
Women NEED men
Many straight women like to pretend they don't need a man. They just want one. Bullshit. Tell that to your sexual primal cravings when you want male attention, authority, obedience, or intercourse. You love to play hard to get, but you're not fooling me. I'm not afraid to say I need a woman. Why should you be afraid to say you need a man? That doesn't make you weak. It makes you human.
~ Black Socks
"Fiercely independent" is female for too busy for a relationship
If a woman says that, dude will be lucky if he gets a phone call once a week.
~ Black Socks
Hairy women
I like hairy women. Women were made with hair, just not as much as men. It's natural and sexy. I also love smooth and shaved women.
~ Black Socks
Slave collars
I love wearing my slave collar, especially when the padlock is on. It makes me horny to feel owned, controlled, loved, and treated like a sex toy and property. Walk me on my leash to remind me I'm your pet, yank it hard to remind me who's in charge, or tie it around my cock as a penis leash and walk me.
~ Black Socks
My all-time favorite video
This woman is inspirational, and if everybody was more like her, this world would be a much better place. This is my all-time favorite video. I have never laughed so hard. The first time I saw it, I was holding my sides from laughing so hard, and no matter how many times I watch it, the video never stops being funny, especially when I watch another reaction video from another person. It's the kind of video that spreads infectious laughter. This is the most brilliant marketing video, and this woman is helping Kohl's and other retailers sell a shit storm of Star Wars The Force Awakens Chewbacca Electronic (talking) Masks. She looks better with the mask on. Joke. LOL But the way her hair flares out from the sides of the mask like wings makes this video even funnier.
I'm referring to consensual rape play. It's always some ugly average guy raping a beautiful young woman, but never a beautiful woman raping a great guy. But why? Men and women have the same thoughts, wants and needs. And while it's true women are overwhelmed with male attention, it's almost always the wrong kind, so women should rape men. We'll thank you for it.
~ Black Socks
There's good rape and bad rape
There's good rape and bad rape. If rape couldn't be good, it wouldn't be such a popular and hot fantasy. If you've been bad raped, then I'm sorry, and I understand your situation and reason for making rape a hard limit.
~ Black Socks
Stress and depression, the silent killers
Stress and depression are almost as bad as drugs, smoking and alcohol. They suck the living life out of a person; cause mental, physical and emotional pain; and put your body at higher risk of sickness and disease, such as cancer. The body can tolerate a great deal of both, but push it too far, and disaster could strike. The body loves to be happy, healthy and peaceful.
~ Black Socks
I'm effeminate
I'm effeminate, because to be with a woman, you must know a woman, which requires a man to be in touch with his womanly side. If having incredible conversation, communication, and sex with my lady makes me gay, then I'm gay.
~ Black Socks
What's an alpha-submissive male or female?
An alpha-submissive is a dominant, or very dominant person in my case, in the workplace and daily life who loves to relinquish all control because they need a break, totally submit to a worthy dominant, and will do whatever it takes to please them.
~ Black Socks
Mistress wants to worship me, her slave
Mistress secretly worships me and loves and cares about me so much, but she can't actually worship me due to unwritten Mistress-slave rules. LOL
~ Black Socks
I'm the most dominant submissive man
From my personality to my writing, many women consider me the most dominant submissive man.
Here's an example: Black Socks, you are the most brilliant and truest leader I have ever met. I read your profile and many of your journal entries. You don't miss a beat. I find it comical you are a sub that's the most dominant and wonderful man I have ever known of. LOL You're going to make one special lady VERY lucky.
~ Black Socks
The good and bad of CS
The Good
Absolutely free. Clean, relaxed, and minimalistic GUI with just 1 ad per page. Free porn videos. The ability to unsend or edit a message that's already been sent.
The Bad The site has one of the highest downtimes of any website, and when it works, it lags a lot.
7/10 members are fake foreign or domestic scammers or flakes.
Making search terms, such as b-r-e-e-d -- very common FANTASIES -- illegal strings that aren't searchable or allowed in profiles or journals. It's a kinky site!
No profile police to remove the infestation of fake profiles that litter the site daily. No journal loves or comments.
I could keep going, but you get the point, and there's no point in sharing more when most likely nothing will get fixed.
Conclusion I give CS a 4/10. All the site needs is profile policing and it'd be great.
~ Black Socks
Married people who cheat or want somebody else
Pathetic and dishonorable. If you're not sexually compatible with the person, why the fuck did you marry them?
~ Black Socks
I love service more than sex
Is it strange that I love to cook, clean, do laundry, give foot massages, and so much more to my Mistress more than having sexual intercourse? Is it strange I love to stay hard all day for Mistress but only cum after tension has been built up and the perfect moment of sweet release arrives, such as making her so happy, she demands to fuck me?
~ Black Socks
I hate alcoholics
This subject is personal to me, as my mom is a severe alcoholic, so I know the awful things drinking does to the drinker and their friends and family. It kills brain and memory cells; causes irreversible damage to the body and an increase for throat, brain, colon, and liver cancer; gives you split personalities, causing you to act stupid and mean and laugh over anything; and makes you belligerent and violent. It's also an expensive habit and a complete waste of money that could be better spent on things one actually needs.
If you're an alcoholic or know one, get help now. You can reclaim your life. Others have. Being an alcoholic isn't fair to you or your loved ones. Stop the hurt now.
~ Black Socks
Love somebody like you mean it
Don't just say you love somebody. It's not enough. You have to mean it. You show love, but you also need to say it.
~ Black Socks
I love black cleave gags
I love wearing a tight black cleave gag or seeing a woman wear one. It turns me on to squirm and mmmph or see a woman like that.
~ Black Socks
People judge you by your writing
People judge you by your writing, and I'm one of them. You don't need to have perfect English grammar, but if I can't easily comprehend your writing, I won't read it. It's disrespectful to my beautiful blue eyes. It tells me this person is careless and unintelligent. There's no excuse for any native American to have poor English grammar unless they have a disability, in which case they get a pass. And any foreigner also gets a pass. I'm impressed you had the determination to even learn a new language. Excellent grammar is imperative in business. I would never hire somebody with poor grammar for any office job. Trash truck driver, janitor, plumber, or the like, I'd hire as long as they were otherwise qualified.
~ Black Socks
All ski masks are not created equally
I love ski masks and am an expert on them. I was shopping online for ski masks for Mistress and me. An item so simple to find, right? Yeah, cheap China crap. I searched at least 10,000 listings, and only 3 -- yes 3 -- sellers had high-quality ski masks. I can't believe how hard it is to find quality. I purchased one from Dick's Sporting Goods and asked Mistress to do the same, but when mine arrived, it looked nothing like the online sales photo. I was pissed and exercised my free return shipping and told Mistress to do the same when hers arrives. The ski mask was awful. The neck was too short, the acrylic was thinner so it's less warm (defeating the main purpose of a ski mask), it didn't use the correct ribbing, one eye hole drooped down, the nose area wasn't centered so it looked like the mask is slightly crooked, and the fit was poor with 1/4 of the ski mask hanging loosely over my head with nothing but air in the top. LOL
Frustratingly, I called the manufacturer, Reliable of Milwaukee (what a stupid company name), voiced a detailed complaint about this QuietWear ski (plea mask, because I was pleading to send it back LOL), and offered to send their designers a picture of what a real ski mask looks like so they can make one and replace this rag in their product line. The lady said, "No, that's alright. You don't have to do that." LOL And just to fuck with her, I said, "Well, I have to go to the store an purchase a real ski mask now before the bank closes." LOL You know your company sucks when they can't manufacturer a fucking simple ski mask. Funny thing is this is supposed to be a professional manufacturer of hunting gear since 1911 and all their other masks look good, yet they muff the simplest product, a ski mask -- and they've had over 100 years to learn how to make a proper ski mask! LOL What's worst is this ski mask was the most expensive at $12. Anyway, I found 2 real ski masks on eBay. These were the last 2 coincidentally, so I'm sending Mistress the other. I also bought another from an Amazon seller. I will inspect both products and decide which is best for me and to send Mistress so this retarded mistake doesn't happen again.
~ Black Socks
Why I loathe FinDommes
They are nothing but lazy worthless beggars with a self-entitled complex looking for a free ride that demand gifts and money called tributes. They think they're better than others. Most don't even work. They think taking money from stupid guys is a job. LOL While others love to try and sell a psychology story about how their time is money. So is mine and I guarantee it's a lot more valuable than yours, so pay the fuck up. Kink and sex is supposed to be fun and free. You're not special just because you can spread your legs or crack a whip. If a submissive truly enjoys parting with their money, then that FinDomme is excused from this rant. I am directing this at the women who beg for money, like the one who actually said to me, "If you have so much money, why don't you give it all to me?" Honey, if I gave all my money to every random Internet chick, I'd be poor like you. LOL
~ Black Socks
My 20 steps to insane success
These are my personal 20 steps to insane success that have allowed me to achieve an incredible amount of success at just age 32, and I hope they do the same for you:
1. Never accept second place. 2. Always do it bigger and better. 3. Never rest on your laurels. 4. Always respect the competition. 5. Always be honest and punctual. 6. Never let anybody tell you that you can't do it. 7. Plan and execute well. 8. Always speak your mind. 9. Intelligence is the most important thing. 10. Never care what others think. 11. Use your brain and skills to make positive contributions to the world. 12. Treat everyone with respect and kindness who shows it. 13. Always give credit where it's due. 14. Be 100 steps ahead of the competition. 15. Do things for the love, not money. 16. Never fix what's not broken unless you're damn sure it's better. 17. Always be yourself. 18. Family and friends before fans. 19. Failure is never an option. 20. Become a legend, or die trying.
~ Black Socks
How to properly use the block-user feature
A user should not be allowed to block anyone until they have received a minimum of 3 messages from the same user. I have been blocked for sending the most polite original or canned-but-genuine messages, and it's not right. If you're not interested, simply ignore the message(s). The block user link was intended to stop harassment, not be abused for illogical reasons. Furthermore, if CS has a secret blocked-user counter, a person could be unjustifiably deleted from the site just because a bunch of idiots blocked them and the algorithm wasn't smart enough to know said user shouldn't be deleted, because it only knows the number of, not reason for, the blocks.
I sometimes send canned-but-genuine messages to women because I don't have the time or desire to write every woman I message an original piece when most of them don't even respond or check their mail. If a woman proves herself to be worthy of my very valuable time, all of my messages to her will be original. That's my policy.
~ Black Socks
All about black cats
I love black cats. I have owned two since I was 17: Sam (RIP) and Puddy (pics on my profile). So I wrote the most comprehensive list of fun facts about black cats. :^)
A false superstition of bad luck. A hallmark of Halloween. Good luck and revered by many cultures, like Egypt, England, Ireland, and Japan. Black cats can be boys or girls, but more are male than female. Black Cat Appreciation Day is August 17. Black cats are stylish because they go with everything. Black cats are so elegant. They’re always ready for a fancy black-tie affair. LOL Black fur won’t show up on black clothes. Black cats will remind kinky women of me without fur. LOL Black cats look like they're wearing a permanent black ski mask. LOL Carrying a black cat around will make you look slimmer. They look like a mini and domesticated black panther. They're silent black ninjas. They're invisible at night except for maybe their glowing eyes. They're very photogenic. Black coat colors show up in a variety of mixed and p-u-r-e-b-r-e-d cats. The Carolina Panthers use a black panther logo. Black cats are the sweetest and most affectionate in my experience. Some Very Black Cats are not pure black. Black is arguably the most popular solid color for a cat. The Carolina Panthers use a black panther logo. Black cats are the sweetest and most affectionate in my experience. Some Very Black Cats are not pure black. Black is arguably the most popular solid color for a cat. If you're Scottish and a black cat shows up at your home, you may win the jackpot.
During the Middle Ages, Europeans thought they were associated with witchcraft. And the single old women who fed and cared for stray cats were called witches and black cats were their conspirators. This is where their symbolization of bad luck came about. It was emphasized in the United States during the Salem witch trials. This must be where the term "crazy old cat lady" came from. LOL
The sassy-mouthed talking black cat named Salem from the TV show "Sabrina, the Teenage Witch" got his name from the Salem witch trials.
18th-century pirates believed that if a black cat was walking towards you, it's bad luck. If it's walking away, that's good. If the cat walks onto the ship and then back off--get off the ship, it's going to sink on its next voyage. If you can get your black cat to do any of that, that's impressive. :^P
Fishermen and sailors and their wives traditionally believed that having a black cat on board ensured a safe journey home. (Bonus: fewer rats, too!) English sailors believed that keeping their onboard cat happy would ensure good weather at sea, and would watch how the cat groomed himself to foretell the weather. They also kept them in their homes as pets. Black cats became so highly valued that some could not afford them.
In Japan black cats are considered symbols of good luck, especially for single women. Owning a black cat is thought to attract potential suitors.
There are 22 cat b.r.e.e.d.s in the Cat Fanciers' Association directory that list “black” as a coat-color option.
Many black cats have yellow or golden eyes, which is the result of high melanin (the dark pigment that makes the cats black) content in their bodies. Melanism is essentially the opposite of albinism.
The richest cat in the world is a black cat from Italy named Tommaso. His owner left him $13 million when she died, giving Tommaso a place in the Guinness World Records. He was once a stray cat rescued from the streets of Rome. What a lucky guy...cat.
John Lennon once had a black cat named Salt and a white one named Pepper. LOL
The Bombay is a lovable b-r-e-e-d distinguished by its sleek black coat and gorgeous golden eyes. Their nickname is the “parlor panther,” because of their resemblance to the big cat. The Bombay cat is the only recognized black cat b-r-e-e-d.
Pure black cats are very rare. Most have a few white hairs somewhere on their body.
Black cats are better hunters because cats are nocturnal, cats do most of their hunting and exploring at night, and their prey can't see them coming.
Black cats, like black dogs, are some of the least adoptable pets in shelters. Many animal shelters won’t even adopt out black cats in the weeks surrounding Halloween in fear somebody may try to harm them.
King Charles I of England once owned a black cat that he adored and doted on. As legend has it, the day the cat died the king proclaimed, “Alas, my luck has run out.” And sure enough, he was arrested for treason the very next day and eventually beheaded. LOL
Even though many cats appear to be truly black, many cats can appear to be black when their coats are actually many colors. That’s because many black cats are the result of a recessive gene that suppresses their inherited tabby patterns. If the pattern isn’t completely suppressed, faint traces can still show up in certain kinds of lighting.
Many stage actors see it as an auspicious sign whenever a black cat is present. Some actors have even been known to bring black cats backstage with them, hoping their feline good luck charm will ensure a winning performance.
Famous black cats featured in shows and movies include Felix the Cat; Isis (no affiliation with the Iran terrorists LOL), a cat who appeared on an episode of Star Trek; Salem of Sabrina, the Teenage Witch; The Cat of Coraline; Sylvester the Cat of Looney Tunes and Merrie Melodies; and Snowball II of The Simpsons.
~ Black Socks
A relationship is 100/100, not 50/50
A relationship is 100/100, not 50/50. If two people aren't giving it everything they have, it'll become what they had.
~ Black Socks
Men compared to women
Men tall, strong, handsome, rugged, hairy, big hands and feet, Adam's apple, penis
Women short, less strong, pretty, soft, smooth, smell good, small hands and feet, breasts, pussy
And I wouldn't have it any other way. And while there are exceptions, this is the norm.
~ Black Socks
Women lying about or not telling their age, location, or weight is stupid
Seriously, you are who you are. You can't change your age. I understand saying you're from Antarctica for security, but not when you reveal your physical location elsewhere on your profile. LOL And, who cares how much you weigh. If you're overweight, shed those extra pounds. If a man asks you your age or weight, just tell him. If a woman lies to me about her silly age or weight, it makes me wonder what else she's lying about; and if she's not willing to tell me her age or weight, she's difficult and not worth the hassle.
~ Black Socks
I like a woman who smells all natural
I hate air fresheners and perfumes. They irritate my throat. The only thing that should be inhaled is pure air. Women should smell all natural.
~ Black Socks
The dangers of co-dependency
Co-dependency is when you have a loved one and they refuse to listen to good advice and suck the living life out of you. They ask the same questions over and over. They make the same mistakes over and over. They lie to you and think they're getting away with something. They constantly argue with you. They constantly put you down. All they do is talk about death. They always break their promises. They say they understand the problem and will stop, but keep doing it. They just don't care. So why should you? If you have a co-dependent person in your life, cut them out of it. You can't help the helpless. All you're doing is wasting your time trying to do the impossible.
~ Black Socks
There's no such thing as a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle
You can't dominate or be dominated 24/7. People have things to do. You can't think about the lifestyle 24/7. Nothing would get done. We live the lifestyle when we can, and that doesn't make us casuals. It makes us realistic.
~ Black Socks
Life is too short?
Nonsense. If you live right, you will have seen and done so much, made so many contributions, and accomplished so much that when it's finally over, you will die feeling 1,000 years old.
~ Black Socks
Truth
I will always tell the truth. I will always tell you the truth. You may not like it. You may hate me. But I only tell you the truth because I love you.
~ Black Socks
Don't
Don't...
Ask me for the truth if you can't handle it. Tell me you'll call if you won't. Promise to love me the way I deserve if you're incapable. Blame me for others' mistakes. Smile at me if it's phony. Lie to me and try to get away with it. Kiss me without insatiable passion. Break your promises to me. Accuse me of wrongdoing without proof. Bring baggage or drama into my life. Fuck me unless my cock is the only one you crave.
~ Black Socks
I can cum without touching myself
Psycholagny is a rarely used term that means the ability to reach or achieve orgasm without any physical stimulation of the genitalia.
I can cum just thinking about smelling a woman's stinky black socks or a femdom kidnapping fantasy. Does mattress humping count? Look, Mom, no hands. LOL
~ Black Socks
Hating is the hardest thing to do
"Hating is the hardest thing to do." ~ Black Socks
When you love it feels easy, effortless, good, right, kind, and natural; but when you hate it feels hard, strenuous, bad, wrong, mean, and unnatural.
Lonely and miserable people
"People are a product of their own loneliness and misery."
~ Black Socks
Many people are lazy
Many people are lazy and I see it in everything they do. They greatly lack intelligence, efficiency, passion, and effort. They think love will just come to them. Sure, for a few lucky ones, it will, but you will probably have to bust your ass. I did for 15 years and billions of mouse clicks before finding my Mistress M. I was burnt out and about to give up. I gave it one more push bigger than ever, and it was a smash success. :^) If you don't search, you'll never know what's here, and if you don't make first contact, you'll never know what could be. It also makes Fet's member directories almost pointless, as only 2% of the members even use them to search for who they're looking for, and women almost never search. A guy like me only received one message from a woman who contacted me first in my 9 months on Fet to tell me what beautiful blue eyes and a wonderful profile I have. I have always had to make first contact. Yes, women get overwhelmed with male attention, but it's almost always the wrong kind of attention, so, ladies, start searching for quality, not quantity.
~ Black Socks
What blue eyes mean
Most desired and attractive eye color for mating. More competitive. Physically attractive. Very calm and peaceful personality. Knowledgeable. Egotistical. Come from the same ancestor. Extreme tolerance for pain and can withstand discomfort for long hours. Kind. Love to have long-lasting, full-commitment, no-bullshit relationships. Very energetic. Inherent desire to make other people happy and go the extra mile to do it. Very keen observers. Extroverts. Always happy-go-lucky. Assertive. Inquisitive. Cautious nature. Make you think of “eternal youth.” Great inner strength and physical strength.
People often don’t see the real you and judge you negatively before they get the chance to know you and may see you as untrustworthy.
INACCURICIES Less agreeable; I am very empathetic and generous. Perceived as timid or unassertive; I'm very outgoing and assertive.
More likely to be alcoholics; I hardly drink and that'll never change, especially after seeing my mom and what it's done to her.
QUESTIONABLE CLAIMS More sensitive to the sun's UV rays. Increased risk for melanoma of the uvea, which is the middle layer of the eye. More likely to have age-related macular degeneration (loss of eye sight).
Less likely to have vitiligo, a skin condition that results in the loss of brown pigment from certain areas of the skin and leaves white blotches across some parts of the body.
CONCLUSION I would say these findings are 80% accurate to me.
~ Black Socks
My only regret
My only regret is not meeting my Mistress 15 years ago. She is my everything.
~ Black Socks
Time
"Time is something precious we can never get back, so spend it wisely."
~ Black Socks
Donald Trump could be the next Ronald Reagan
Ever since Donald Trump started to run for president, I have supported him and been saying he will be our next president. Ever since the presidential election started, I have said it's going to be a battle between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton. What makes me even more confident Donald will win this thing is Hillary Hospitalized Clinton's LMAO fall down. Just like Bernie, Hillary is weak, and we could never allow either of them to be our Commander in Chief. It's a sign of weakness to the enemy. Donald is a business genius and family man who always speaks his mind. He's a leader and visionary with deep passion. He's also funny, and that's something we need in a president that never happens. And best of all, he's not a politician or even a Republican. He's just sick and tired of America always losing. His idea to build a wall to protect our boarder is the most original and intelligent one from a president I know of. Donald has blown the lid off the corruption in Washington. He's awesome and has the potential to be the next Hollywood-like Ronald Reagan, who was one of the greatest US presidents like Abraham Lincoln. He will be the greatest jobs-creation president ever. He has all the right ideas, including creating and keeping jobs in America to building up our military so our troops have all modern equipment. Just review his policies on his website and see for yourself.
Donald is great except for two big things: 1. He's a hypocrite with no filter and poor temperament: He always talks about how stupid our leaders and negotiators are, which is true, but then he does something stupid himself every other day, like make an impersonation of a retarded reporter, or arrange a meeting with the President of Mexico and then lie and say he didn't mention the wall during their time together, when the Mexican president has said numerous times it was discussed and Mexico will not pay for that fucking wall. LOL And if Mexico does not pay for that fucking wall, Donald's presidency will be a total failure. Donald is a shrewd negotiator, and I don't doubt he will make Mexico pay for the wall. I love when he talks tough and says things like if our major corporations wanna move to Mexico, we will charge them a tax of 35% per unit to sell it across the boarder. LOL I love it. America is looking better already. LOL
2. He doesn't stick to his guns and changes course whenever he feels he has to please more people to win. Fuck that shit. Say what you mean and do what you say. Ignore the fools.
I don't think his networth is what he says, I think he's a great marketer, and I think that he has things to hide, like his tax returns; but no matter what he has said or done, he's 1000% better than Hillary, and that's why I vote for Donald Trump as our next president and Mike Pence as our next vice president, and you should, too. Mike Pence, his VP, is the best man for the job. He's the exact opposite of Donald. He's honest and humble with plenty of political experience. He's the perfect VP pick. He did an incredible job as Governor of Indiana, and I know he'll do the same thing for America.
I can't believe even 10 people could be stupid enough to vote for Hillary. Bernie Bedtime Sanders LMAO is an old man ready for a retirement home, not presidential material. The rest of the candidates were and are nobodies and complete jokes. And who the fuck cares about the Green Tea Party's Jill Stein, who has a warrant out for her arrest for graffitiing a pipeline in North Dakota, or the Libertarian Party's Gary Johnson, who didn't even know what Aleppo was when asked during the interview. LOL Why are these losers even running? The choice for our next president should be a no-brainer: Donald Trump.
This will be the simplest but most controversial election. Johnny Depp said that this will be the last presidential election. I don't know about that, but it's an interesting thought. I guess what he meant by that statement was Donald will be such a great president, the country will never trust anybody after his leadership, and that's how I feel. Hillary Crooked Clinton and her husband, Bill, are the most corrupt politicians in Washington's history. If you don't know, they use their positions of power and abuse them. They have had many people murdered and use their Clinton Foundation as a funnel to send billions of dollars to their personal bank accounts, while only giving 1% to their charity. They are two-faced and not to be trusted. They tell the gullible fools what they want to hear, all while doing the opposite behind their backs. They do favors for our foreign enemies for big payoffs and say they were paid for speeches. Hillary has also put our national security at great risk by running a personal server in her basement that stored multiple thousands of private e-mails and contained sensitive data that was hacked. She since deleted 30,000-plus of those e-mails to destroy the evidence that she's committing crimes against this country. And the FBI just turns a blind eye with all this indisputable evidence against her. Absolutely pathetic. I have been ashamed to be an American for 26 years. There is no justice or intelligence in politics. It's nothing but a bunch of boring, stupid, old people that are called Congress and the Senate that incessantly argue and get nothing accomplished. Both her and her husband should be spending the rest of their lives in prison wearing black and white stripes, and it's an embarrassment to our Founding Fathers that Hillary is even allowed to run for President of the United States. This election will be rigged by Clinton and her cronies. They never play by the rules. Bernie should've been the Democratic nominee, but the DNC rigged the polls and was caught and exposed for it.
This mess all started 23 years ago with Bill Clinton and Al Gore. In addition to all the corruption the Clintons caused, Bill and Al sold us out for personal gain. They even shared our top-secret nuclear weapons blueprints with the Chinese generals for lots of money, eliminating our edge in war. They are traders and a disgrace to our country. George H. W. Bush and his son were absolute disasters. They are fully responsible for our 22-trillion-dollar debt and reduced AA credit score. I was the first one to oppose the Iraq War as soon as George Bush announced it. I knew what would happen: millions of soldiers' lives lost and trillions of dollars wasted on fighting camel humpers who eat rice out of a rusty bowl. I voted for Obama because I knew while he would be a mediocre president, he was much better than McCain or Romney. Our country is on the path to becoming the new South Africa. We can't afford another corrupt politician that steals our money, lies to us, and asks for our support. Make America great again and vote for Donald Trump this November. I wonder if there's any correlation between Agenda 21 and the death of America for the last 23 years.
~ Black Socks
We must end ISIS
Obama isn't a president. He's a pussy-dent. LOL These cancer cells must come to an end. We will commence Armageddon, and together with all our allies' armies, bomb these spawns of Satan and take them out. We will exercise ground, air, and sea forces if needed. And if they're stupid enough to try and rebuild in later years, we'll bomb those bitches again. They have no respect or compassion for human life and deserve to die for the greater good of the world. They are the only people I wish death on. They are miserable human waste who take innocent lives. Nobody messes with the US and gets away with it. We have the world's best military, and we're going to use them well for once in a long time.
~ Black Socks
We don't give a fuck
Mistress and I are a power couple. We're goth Domme and goth slave. We are obsessed with each other. We wear all black, get kinky, fuck good, and live an incredible life together every day as black ski masked bitches. She's the Queen bitch and I'm her slave prince bitch. We don't give a fuck what any busters have to say.
~ Black Socks
Black socks or nylons and sandals are sexy
Women who wear black socks or nylons and sandals are sexy:
Black socks and sandals. Black toe-socks and sandals or flip-flops. Black tabi socks and sandals or flip-flops. Black 5-toe pantyhose and sandals or flip-flops. Black pantyhose and sandals. Black stockings and sandals. Black liners, aka footie peds, and sandals. Black tights and sandals.
~ Black Socks
D/s is 90% mental and 10% physical
"D/s is 90% mental and 10% physical."
~ Black Socks
Prove it
Talk is cheap. Actions are deep. Anybody can say they are anything or can do anything, but few can actually prove it.
~ Black Socks
The great pretender
Many people in the lifestyle are pretenders. They talk a good game, but when it's game time, they're no-shows.
~ Black Socks
The beach of life
"Life is a beach and each one of us is just a speck of sand on it."
~ Black Socks
Waiting for someone better
Many people in the lifestyle use others until somebody better comes along. They would rather have anybody than nobody. They waste not only your time but theirs. Only a fool knows how to lose a good thing.
~ Black Socks
Me and mine, you and yours, them and theirs
Life is about me and mine, you and yours, and them and theirs. It is not just about me and mine. The day everyone finally learns this -- and that day will never come -- is the day the world becomes a wonderful place.
~ Black Socks
Hologram vs human
Each one of us has created the perfect person in our head, from their eye color to their personality. The problem is this person isn't a person. It's a hologram that doesn't exist. We use our hologram and compare it to everybody we meet, and if that person doesn't match up, we don't give them a chance. We will never be with our hologram, and the person we do end up with will look, sound, and act totally different from our hologram. So train your brain to understand that, or you could miss the one.
~ Black Socks
Some things are better left unknown
Each one of us was born into this world to die with an invisible biological timer that can't be defused. Would you really want to know the exact date and time you were going to die? I know I wouldn't.
~ Black Socks
Friend collectors have no friends
I am referring to individuals, not businesses, that have 500-plus "friends." Who has got that kind of time? People with no friends that are trying to win a self-imagined popularity contest.
~ Black Socks
When you feel like giving up
"When you feel like giving up, go harder than ever until you have no more left to give."
~ Black Socks
How to cope with the loss of a loved one
Pretend they're on an extended, temporary vacation and you'll see them again someday.
~ Black Socks
Politically correct?
More like politically corrupt
~ Black Socks
Why we die
No matter how smart, funny, good looking, talented, or rich you are, we all suffer the same fate: death. Death is God's way of recycling the population. If people didn't die, the planet would be overcrowded and there wouldn't be enough resources to sustain life.
~ Black Socks
Why we don't know everything or have all the right answers
God is perfect. We are imperfect. If we knew everything and had all the right answers, life would be boring. If God could speak to us and give us all the right answers, life would be boring. There'd be no effort, victory, or defeat. God gave us the brains to figure things out for ourselves, and each one of our brains and bodies was designed using unique DNA to create different things or solve different problems in the world to make it a better place for every man, woman, and child. Only God knows our true calling. Some people figure it out. Some people don't.
~ Black Socks
Past, present, and future
"Remember the past, focus on the present, and plan for the future."
~ Black Socks
The only thing that can stop us is us
"The only thing that can stop us is us."
~ Black Socks
My Mistress
My Mistress:
Beautiful. Sexy. Intelligent. Wise. Honest. Loyal. Trustworthy. Well cultured. Knowledgeable on many subjects. Beautiful blue eyes. Beautiful mind, face, body, pussy, ass, breasts, and feet. Straight-edge like me: no smoking, heavy drinking, or taking drugs. Dominant. Kinky. Possessive. Controlling. Strict. Born in? Responsible but knows how to have lots of fun. Loving. Caring. Protective. Sweet. Generous. Compassionate. Careful. Reasonable. Understanding. Great conversationalist. Funny. Facts about her. Hates political correctness like me. More like corruptness to us. Loves all my fetishes. Her sexy dominant voice. Her sexy laugh.
How she loves to teasingly edge my cock and then tell me to go to sleep without cumming.
How she wants my voice to be the last thing she hears before bed. Aww! How hot she thinks my ski mask fetish is. How badly she wants to kidnap me and keep me held captive for life. The way she fills in all my peaks and valleys, and I do the same for her. How much I love it when she calls me dirty names, like bitch. Well prepared. Deep thinker.
How we're 100% monogamous to each other, not monogamish, poly, or any other pathetic spin on true love.
Extremely opinionated and always speaks her mind like me. She's the perfect balance between cruel and kind.
How she tells me we'll talk for a few minutes on the phone, but it ends up being hours. LOL
How we think so much alike, we can finish each other's sentences. She bought black OTK toe-socks just for me.
When she tells me how much I make her smile on the phone and how I make the perfect black-socks-slave bitch. LOL
How much she loves my black-socks-slave bitch uniform. Loves receiving handwritten letters from me and sending them back. She will be sending me a stuffed animal with her scent on it. She will be sending me her well-worn, stinky black socks and panties to worship. Hates stupid people, transgenders, and queers, like me. She owns me, mind, body, soul, and cock.
Wears all different shades of eyeshadow and lipstick under her black ski mask and takes sexy pics to tease the fuck out of me. LOL
How Mistress always reads all the updates to this journal entry and how happy they make her. :^)
The way she is so appreciative of all I do for her. When she says sassy things, like "You just don't know, honey." LOL
How she's so protective and possessive of me and orders me to do things, like remove my face, body, and dick pics from Fet because she doesn't want any other woman looking at her shit, me.
Does yoga and stays in great shape. Thinks obese people are gross like me unless they have a condition. She has a bitchin' personality.
She hates to eat out like me because most places are unsanitary, so I will prepare all our meals so neither of us runs the risk of contracting food poisoning.
How she plays with herself knowing she's got me, the ultimate score, and I'm all hers for life. ;^)
She bought a black ski mask to wear just for me. Aww. When we play sexy games of huntress and hunted. She loves what kind of food?
I love how she worships me, but says she can't worship me because it goes against Mistress-slave rules. LOL
She's a survivalist, and she'll need to be if she's gonna put up with me. LOL Likes spiritual and emotional intelligence like me. Enjoys putting me in sensory deprivation and humiliating me. Is a brunette or ravenette. (She's so pretty with black hair.) :^) Is an INTJ and INTP according to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator test. Marches to the beat of her own drum like me. Loves philosophy like me. Is an Independent in politics like me. Is self-sufficient like me. Believes in sustainable living like me. Loves psychology like me.
Mistress and I are each other's twin flames, and only together we burn so brightly. What we see reflecting back is without limitations. A mirror image of who we are. Her in me and I in her.
I love her so much. I can't stop talking to her or thinking about her. All I want to do is please her and make her smile. I can't find a single thing wrong with her. We agree on 99% of everything. I'm so lucky and fortunate to be her black-socks-slave bitch, as she calls me.
~ Black Socks
Kink vs fetish
A kink is something you like and a fetish is something you need.
~ Black Socks
D/s is not sex
D/s does not have to include sex. Sometimes it's just kink without sex. Some people don't even want sex, just kink.
~ Black Socks
When man is hungry and horny
When man is hungry, he eats food. When man is horny, he eats woman.
~ Black Socks
Rules for contacting me, or me contacting you:
1. Read my full profile and I will read yours.
2. Have a video greeting showing your face, or a photo showing your face and holding up a handwritten sign with your exact CS username.
3. Make sure your profile and message are short and to the point, and do not contain numerous spelling and grammar errors.
4. Understand a dominant needs a submissive as much as a submissive needs a dominant, and neither is better than the other, just different.
5. Understand there's no such thing as a worthless sub or slave with no rights or limits.
6. Understand you're not better than me, and I'm more than good enough for you. And the relationship is not just about what you want and need.
7. Understand I'm a sapiosexual and demisexual. The more intelligent you are, the more I'll want to submit to you...and you'll want me to submit to you.
8. Understand I will not call you Mistress, Princess, Goddess, or any other power title of address until I am officially yours, and you won't call me Sir or anything similar until you're officially mine. These titles must be earned.
9. Understand I am a ruthless negotiator and will make sure the terms of any arrangement are in both of our best interests before making a commitment. It's not "topping from the bottom." It's making a smart decision. And I will get to know you as a person, which includes talking to you like one.
10. Understand the five pillars to a successful D/s relationship are honesty, loyalty, trust, respect, and great communication.
~ Black Socks
CS success
So far I have won the CS Best Message Ever, Best Comment Ever, Best Profile Ever, and Most Interesting Man Award. I don't know where I'm going to keep all these accolades. ;^)
~ Black Socks
Fan mail
One of my female admirers wrote me this message. I corrected it for grammar. This woman definitely knows how to read people.
I understood what you were referring to. Your contradictions are the alpha male vs the slave (obviously). You are definitely a control freak (nothing wrong with that. I'm in control, just not at that level). You are an intense person, yet you can manage to be submissive. It's crazy how you are submissive yet you micromanage every single detail in your life, and you want to tell the Domme what to do while remaining submissive. With your intelligence, it's all fascinating. There's so much, and not just about your submissiveness. It's just the qualities that you possess are polar opposites. Your profile describes you pretty well. The way you perceive and approach things is pretty incredible. And yes, you are very right: you sound like someone I would desire. I don't see a problem with you not being a switch, though.
You may have heard that nobody in BDSM judges and ridicules other people, or you may have heard a person say they are not judgmental. It's not true. Everybody judges. If we didn't judge, we wouldn't make the choices we do every day, for better or worse. When you comment on a journal entry, you're judging. When you don't find somebody physically attractive, you're judging. When you don't respond to somebody's message, you're judging. You judge. I judge. Everybody judges.
~ Black Socks
Living straightedge
I have never done, and will never do, any hard drugs or drinking. I only date straightedge women who know how to run their lives and have fun without them. Hard drugs, like meth or cigarettes, are designed with all kinds of poisonous ingredients to addict users and rake in big profits, while killing those dumb enough to take them slowly. Weed is much safer than cigarettes and other hard drugs, but not completely so. The mellow feeling one experiences from smoking weed is actually killing their brain and memory cells and impairing their cognitive functions! The only people who should smoke weed are dying patients that need a way to cope with their pain. Alcohol in moderation is good for you. Your body is a temple, and your health is the most important thing you'll ever have. Once it's gone, you're dead. That's why it makes no sense why millions of people harm theirs every day, when there are dying people that would give anything to be in good health. If you're guilty of committing any of these foolish acts, do you and your loved ones a big favor: stop before your addiction stops you. And if you smoke and have family members or animals, always smoke outside, as second-hand smoke is very bad for their health.
~ Black Socks
Fun facts about toe-socks
They're also called 5-toe socks, glove socks, or feet gloves.
They differ from tabi, or Ninja Turtle, shoes in that they have 5 toes, not a big toe and a compartment for your 4 other toes.
Some have rubberized grippers on the soles to improve traction for yoga or exercise.
They can be worn with sandals or flip-flops.
They keep the spots between the toes warmer.
By 2004, toe-socks were available in plain colors and being adopted as normal footwear.
The original concept of toe-socks may be attributed to Ethel Russell (also known as Ethel Wynhym) of Pennsylvania. On June 14, 1969, she filed a copyright with the United States Copyright Office for two drawings of footwear which she termed "mitten toe socks" and "glove socks."
They have even been worn in outer space by astronaut Sandra Magnus on the International Space Station during the STS-135 mission in 2011.
Variants have also evolved to include compression socks and other specialty performance models for professional sports as well as uses which require high durability. In sports, athletic versions of toe-socks may be useful to triathletes who suffer from frequent inter-digital friction blisters.
They're the predecessor of 5-toe pantyhose.
~ Black Socks
The meaning of masks, and why I love them
Here's a thorough list of deive words when I think of "mask":
I love wearing black masks and women who do, too, because:
They're humiliating on me and that turns my submissive side on. They make me feel like a faceless piece of fuck meat and servitude.
They're mysterious and there's nothing sexier than seeing my piercing blue eyes; or a woman's beautiful cat-shaped eyes, luscious lipsticked lips, and sadistic smile peeking out of the mask holes.
I love kissing, licking, sucking, and sniffing feet, toes, pussy, ass, and breasts through the mouth hole.
They keep a woman or man's physical beauty a secret that only their man or woman has the honor of seeing.
They're concealing, which allows one to act anyway or say anything they wish without facial recognition, embarrassment, or consequences.
My favorite mask is the black ski mask. Others include sock, nylon, latex, spandex, leather, and Halloween masks. I love the look and feel of masks. I love restrictive deprivation masks that take away my sight, speech, and hearing with zippers and padlocks. I love being a mysteriously-masked man and love seeing mysteriously-masked women. And when I watch a woman in a black ski mask, I feel like she's a bad girl and want to submit to her and be her slave.
~ Black Socks
My definition of a mask, hood, and balaclava
Many people don't know the differences between a mask, balaclava, and hood, and use them incorrectly, so here's my definitions of all three as they relate to masking:
A mask is an object that covers the face or face and head. It exposes the eyes, but may not expose the nose or mouth.
A balaclava is an object that covers the face and head. It exposes the eyes, but may not expose the nose or mouth.
A hood is an object that covers the face and head. If you can't see through it, it's a hood.
~ Black Socks
Pet names
A pet name is a special name that should perfectly capture the essence of a sub or slave. It's a fun and frustrating think-tank session. The perfect pet name usually comes at the most unexpected time. Some of my pet names have been Blackie, ToeToe, Sniffy, Nero, Fifi, and Hotter Than Hell. LOL
~ Black Socks
IQ, commonsense, and EQ
Few people have high IQ, commonsense, or EQ. And even fewer people have all 3. I'm proud to say I in fact have all 3 and want a woman who does, too.
~ Black Socks
Commonsense is uncommon
"Commonsense is the most uncommon thing." ~ Black Socks
20 things I need in a woman
1. Is externally beautiful. 2. Is internally beautiful. 3. Is highly intelligent. 4. Has much commonsense. 5. Is brutally honest. 6. Is completely faithful. 7. Is very dominant in the bedroom. 8. Has the ability to separate fantasy from reality. 9. Has cute feet and toes. 10. Wears a lot of black. 11. Loves to have a wonderful submissive man take care of her every need. 12. Does what she says when she says she'll do it. 13. Loves animals. 14. Shares most of my kinks. 15. Is funny. 16. Is a great conversationalist. 17. Can teach me new things. 18. Is monogamous. 19. Is artistically and sexually creative. 20. Is passionate about life and work.
BONUS. Loves toe-socks and has a little computer knowledge.
~ Black Socks
If you are my Mistress, I promise to...
Forever be faithful to you and not so much as flirt with another woman. I have never cheated and I never will. I am 100% monogamous and always will be.
Love you in mind, heart, body, and soul, and take the best care of all those parts.
Protect you from insult and danger.
Use my superpowers to help you achieve all your goals and dreams.
Make you laugh every day at my crazy comments and antics.
Love you with everything I am -- and that's an awful lot -- for all my days.
This excerpt explains me and what I seek perfectly:
About my other half and I I am married to the love of my life. We are very much monogamous and are not seeking anything or anyone outside the union of our vows to each other. (Sorry poly majority and swingers galore!)
My husband is the most incredible soul I have ever met in my entire life and the feeling is mutual. In fact, we believe we are each other's twin flames. Our love and connection is incredibly intense and so deep that I find it difficult to put into words. It's as if our souls melt into each other. When we look into each other's eyes, it's like looking through windows. What we see reflecting back is without limitations. A mirror image of who we are. Him in me. I in him.
In closing...there really isn't much more to say. I am not an open book anymore in the kinky aspects of this site. Any and all of that belongs to Him. It is now His path to discover.
And I am beyond excited and blessed to be His and His journey!
~ Black Socks
Fair compensation for a 24/7 live-in slave
A Mistress should always provide fair compensation to a 24/7 live-in slave, including playtime, meals, medical, clothes, shelter, other basic necessities, and treats for good behavior. If she is unwilling to do this, it means she doesn't value her slave, who is supposed to be her most important piece of property. Now, when I say a live-in slave, I mean a slave that performs complete domestic servitude around the clock, which is a full-time job and requires hard manual labor, despite what some Dommes say.
~ Black Socks
Bad girls
I love bad girls, whether it's a female kidnapper dressed all in black, the wicked witch, Maleficent, a leather-clad biker babe, or somebody else. Beautiful babes that have serious attitude, never accept no for an answer, and live to dominate bitch boys like me. There's only a few good girls I love, and Wonder Woman is number one on that list, but I want her to be evil to me.
~ Black Socks
10 things you never knew about me
1. I hump my bed and love it. LOL I can cum without touching myself. I don't use my hand to masturbate. I place a black stocking over my cock and double a rubber band around the base. The rubber band gets tighter around my cock as it gets hard; kind of like a soft cock cage. My cock turns numb and it's much harder to cum. When I cum, my cock shoots a load into the stocking with such force, the stocking flies off. I call it a cocket ship that blasts off to the speed of cum. LOL
2. I think women with black hair and blue eyes are so sexy.
3. I'm OCD and a perfectionist. All of my personal possessions are in mint condition and I arrange everything by name, color, date, size, or some other variable.
4. My favorite sex color is black, but my favorite vanilla color is midnight blue. It's like navy but darker.
5. I was born with webbed fingers and have a scar on my fingers and in the crease of my right thigh from the surgery.
6. I am completely loyal to my loved ones: I have never cheated and never will.
7. If you cross me, I will get you back 100 times worse.
8. I play to win and often do.
9. I have an obsession with American potato salad: I buy a pound bi-weekly at the grocery store.
10. My mind runs 100 times faster than an ordinary person's. This is great because it allows me to get much more done in the same amount of time, but bad because it can physically wear me down if I don't control it.
~ Black Socks
Good pervert vs bad pervert
A bad pervert is somebody who uses people for sex whenever and however they can get it. They don't care about anybody else but themselves and do not want any emotional attachment. They have nothing to offer a person and are completely pathetic.
A good pervert - which is what I am - shares many of the same deep dark desires as a bad pervert; but a good pervert has a huge heart, a moral compass, a great sense-of-humor, tons of amazing qualities, and wants it all: romance, kink, and phenomenal sex. For everything bad in this world, there's something good.
~ Black Socks
I'm a Capricorn and what it means
This definition of the Capricorn describes me 90%. The 10% that doesn't apply to me is in bold.
Capricorn, the tenth sign of the zodiac, is all about hard work. Those born under this sign are more than happy to put in a full day at the office, realizing that it will likely take a lot of those days to get to the top. That's no problem, since Capricorns are both ambitious and determined: they will get there. Life is one big project for these folks, and they adapt to this by adopting a businesslike approach to most everything they do. Capricorns are practical as well, taking things one step at a time and being as realistic and pragmatic as possible. The Capricorn-born are extremely dedicated to their goals, almost to the point of stubbornness. Those victories sure smell sweet, though, and that thought alone will keep Capricorns going.
The Goat symbolizes Capricorns, and an apt mascot it is. Goats love to climb to the top of the mountain, where the air is clear and fresh. In much the same way, Capricorns want to get to the top of their chosen field so that they can reap the benefits of success; namely fame, prestige and money. Getting to the top isn't always a walk in the park, however, so it's likely that Goats will ruffle a few feathers along the way. These folks can indeed be domineering, even egotistical, on their route to the top. They'll tell you it's part of being a leader with bright new ideas (in keeping with the Cardinal Quality assigned to this sign).
Capricorns are industrious, efficient, organized and won't make a lot of waves. They are scrupulous with details and adopt a rather conventional posture in business and in life. These folks feel best playing it safe, since this is a fail-safe way to get to the top -- eventually.
Thankfully, Capricorns are patient, too, and are happy to wait for their ship to come in. The flip side to this staid behavior is that Goats can become quite unforgiving of those who aren't as diligent or ambitious as they are. Capricorns need to remember that they do need allies along the way, ambitious or otherwise. In any case, once Capricorns receive the recognition and social status they so fervently crave, it's likely that all will be forgiven.
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn. In ancient Roman mythology, Saturn was the father of many of the gods. Consider him top dog, if you will, and then you'll see a parallel to Capricorns. Those born under this sign also want to be the top dog, and they're smart enough to know that the title won't simply be handed to them. Caps are happy to work for it, and luckily they possess enough discipline and sense of responsibility to get them there. Capricorns tend to be mature and are amply blessed with common sense, two more qualities which help their success-driven endeavors.
With any kind of luck (make that considerable work), Caps will find themselves on that top step, but they should also remember those who have helped them on their quest. They are traditional (but not quite the button-down stiffs some would suggest) and somewhat inhibited, prompting others to wonder if they can ever enjoy success and its rarefied air. Rest assured, these folks will be smiling inside.
The element associated with Capricorn is Earth. No big surprise there! Caps are down-to-earth in the sense that they're not interested in wild ideas or round-the-world dreams. They would much rather stay put and get to work. Remember, these are the business-people of the zodiac, so in their sensible and economical way, they'll get up every morning and see to it that their job is done to the highest degree of quality possible. While Caps can occasionally get a bit materialistic and greedy (they just want a reward for all their hard work), they are far too dignified and practical to get carried away. Plus, they love tradition and reserve, and want to appear polite and friendly.
A Capricorn at rest (yes, there is such a thing) enjoys leisurely sports, like golf and croquet -- so long as they have a chance to win! Playing with a crew is also nice, since it brings to mind their beloved workplace. Team colors for a Capricorn are likely to be earthy brown and khaki, much like the classic, relaxed slacks they like to wear. Sporty Caps also need to watch their teeth and knees, and they shouldn't be too daring, lest they break some bones. When it comes to love, Capricorns are ever devoted and never emotive.
The great strengths of the Capricorn-born are their willingness to work hard and their determination to succeed. Their ambition is boundless, yet they are cautious, responsible and always play fair. That's why their successes are all the more sweet.
~ Black Socks
What my first name means
The definition of my first name is "ruler of the people." No, I'm not a tyrant. That's what it really means. It's Old Norse (viking) origin. I love my name. :^) Well, my birth name, but I love Black Socks, too.
~ Black Socks
Hilarious toe-sock marketing speak
EPT™ (Enhanced Proprioception Technology) is TOETOE's unique design and manufacturing process which ensures all our socks maximise the benefits of toe separation, benefits not seen in conventional socks.
Separating the toes has been shown to improve proprioception - the body's sense of spatial awareness, balance and posture. In conventional socks the toes tend to move as one unit, when separated by EPT™ they move independently increasing sensory feedback and blood circulation which has many "knock-on" effects.
The improved blood circulation through the foot created by EPT™ assists in maintaining the foot at the correct temperature, cool in the summer warm in the winter.
EPT™ creates individual toe pockets which produce a micro-environment where the wicking action of the yarns used moves moisture away from the skin. This minimises the build-up of bacterial and fungal infections protecting against conditions such as Athlete's Foot , and eliminating embarrassing foot odour.
EPT™ creates a weave pattern designed to support the structure of the foot and improve its biomechanical function. It also ensures the fabric moulds to the exact shape of the foot for a perfect fit. The individual toe pockets ensure the toes are always separated by fabric so there is no skin on skin friction, virtually eliminating the chance of blisters forming between the toes.
What is Proprioception?
Proprioception is the sense of the relative position of neighbouring parts of the body and the strength of effort being employed in maintaining balance and smooth movement, as an example it is what enables us to walk in complete darkness without losing balance.
Proprioception is occasionally impaired spontaneously, especially when one is tired – such as a Runner, Golfer, Cyclist or Tennis Player reaching the end of their competition. Wearing TOETOE Socks can help reduce the loss of balance and body co-ordination associated with loss of proprioception, enhancing performance.
However, this is not only for elite athletes, anything that involves moving our arms or legs in a precise way without looking at them relies on proprioception – walking, driving and even simply standing.
Because it is the part of the body most commonly in contact with the ground the foot contains a higher density of proprioceptive nerve endings than any other part of the body. EPT™ maximises the feedback from these nerves to ensure the best possible balance and movement.
LMFAO They're just cotton socks, not a new scientific breakthrough.
~ Black Socks
We are all interconnected in the world
We are all interconnected in the world and so should treat each other with honesty, respect, and kindness.
~ Black Socks
Some sex toys are dangerous
Most people don't realize this, but some sex toys are dangerous for you, like plastic ball-gags and dildos. You need to understand the risks of different materials before putting them into your mouth. Duct tape should never be applied directly to the lips or over the eyes, as some contain toxic chemicals in the glue, and there's no way of knowing which brands or models are toxic and non-toxic. So if you love duct tape, always put a cloth over the mouth or eyes and then apply the duct tape over the area. I think tying a person up with duct tape is a waste of tape and money. Just use reusable rope or something similar.
~ Black Socks
Why I hate anal
Anything where poop comes from is not sexy; it's sick. It's also a good way to catch a disease. I don't care how well you wash or wipe your ass. It's still covered in harmful bacteria. I don't mind anal using a dental dam as a protective barrier, as many women love anal, and I don't mind getting pegged as long as that dildo stays out of my mouth.
~ Black Socks
Some fantasies need to stay fantasies
Most kinky people don't understand the consequences of their actions and always think with their dick or pussy. That can get you a disease or even killed. Some fantasies should always stay fantasies for health reasons, like cuckolding and gang-banging. Are they hot topics? I think so. Are they dangerous? Very.
~ Black Socks
Drugs kill people
Drugs are made to kill people slowly and rake in big bucks. They cause loss of brain cells and memory, weakening of the immune system and other critical organs and intestines, many forms of cancer, cut years off one's life, and lead to premature death. Drinking alcohol in moderation is actually good for one. Smoking or shooting up any drug ever, even weed, is never okay. Many people have the false belief that weed is safe. It's not. That's why everybody who smokes it is slow and forgetful. If you or a loved one smoke cigarettes, weed, e-cigarettes, or inject any other drug into your body, please stop killing yourself now. Did you know we could decrease lung cancer by up to 80% if everybody followed this simple rule?
~ Black Socks
Midnight the Chronic Masturbating Black Cat
My mother has the cutest, most lovable, young black cat named Midnight. He's un-neutered, humps her right arm about 20 times a day, and cums on her, while she sits in the chair or on the couch. LMFAO He's a PURRvert that follows her around the house everywhere she goes. All he does is eat and fuck my mom. She places an old shirt on her right arm and uses it as a condom, while he sucks on the cuff of her shirt. He's a shirt sucker. LOL He cuckolds my dad, forcing him to watch him have sex with my mom or cuddle with her, while he sits in his La-Z-Boy and watches. LOL I constantly tease him about it every time I visit saying, "Don't be mad at me because you lost your wife to a cat." LOL
She tried to get Midnight a girlfriend a couple years ago by taking in a stray female black cat, but Midnight wasn't having any of that. They faced off and he scared the hairballs out of her, as they growled and hissed at each other. He sniffed her ass, and I thought they were finally starting to bond. But when she attempted to eat his food, he went ballistic and tried to kill her! Let's just say, I never seen a cat run so fast out the basement door and down the back alley. I guess he's a confirmed bachelor. LMFAO
~ Black Socks
To save a man's life but sabotage it, or suppress the truth and let him suffer?
Today I had to make a very tough decision. There's this black male slave on Fet. He has no life and his FetLife profile has more Groups and Fetishes than a phone book has numbers! So many, that his profile takes 2 minutes to load on my blazingly-fast Internet connection! He has fantasies about being kidnapped and beaten by beautiful, young, petite or muscular Asian people and transported to Asia, as long as they're willing to pay for all his travel expenses, accommodations, and pay him a generous salary. LOL (Sounds to me like this guy just wants a free vacation to Asia.) His dream is to sell customized undies to every woman in the world so they can advertise his ugly face on their ass. LMFAO The guy has clearly never had sex in his life. He's super fucking annoying how his profile avatar is in more places on the site than anybody else's. Normally, I'd just ignore it, but after you see the same ugly face a million times, it grows on you, so I read his profile and looked at his photos, and I have never laughed so hard in my life. The guy is a complete cum clown, and at first he was nothing but a joke to me. He looks like a member of Howard Stern's Wack Pack. However, after I dug up all the dirt on this special seed, I learned he has almost all the same professions as I do except for singing. This pissed me off because he's a cock-star at his job while I'm a rockstar. He even also wears glasses. (What is he, my evil black twin?) My work is beautiful and his looks like crusty cum stains. He's an embarrassment to my industry and BDSM. If I shared everything I knew about him, you'd piss your pants in laughter. The guy made me feel bad about myself. So I was going to create a "fan" club for him so millions of people could laugh at the guy. It's totally fucking creepy and made me feel like Mario vs Wario; me being the lovable little mustached man in red with blue eyes, of course.
My original plan was to make the "fan" club, get him fired at work, and make him delete his Fet profile because he sucks at his job and not even a blind woman would date him, so he's just wasting his time. However, after seeing the guy in videos, I thought he might be mentally retarded and collecting disability. He's very soft spoken and slow. At first, this made me mad because we're very professionally similar. It made me feel bad about who I am, even though I am nothing like this guy. And then I had a change of heart. I felt sorry for him and was going to call the dogs off. But then it occurred to me, while I would never want to out anybody for their kinks and attempt to get them fired, this guy was special, and he probably doesn't even realize how dangerous and damaging what he wants would be to his health and how his family and friends would feel. So because of that, I made the decision to scrap the "fan" club but call the church where he's been working for the last 16 years. I shared his secret sex life with a leader of the church by phone, and he was mortified by what he heard. That certainly didn't sound like the guy he knew. What made me lock in and tell the church are the copies of cover letters I discovered that he sent to recruiters in Japan and Taiwan; both Asian-centric countries. That means he was serious about turning his fantasy into a reality, and I felt it was my moral duty knowing what I knew about him to spill the beans. One part of me knows I did the right thing because I told influential people who can talk to him and put him back on the right path to enlightenment before he potentially does something he'll live to regret, but another part feels like a rat bastard because I know this will cost him, not only his job, but his "nice slow friendly guy" image within the church community. If this was any other jerk face, I'd be laughing so hard, I'd cum. But this is a sad soul, and I just want him to forget kink and make the best of his life.
~ Black Socks
The man who took too long to cum during phone sex
That man is me, and I've lost countless women because I take hours to cum during phone sex. But no woman wants to feel like a sexual failure, so they will try until they succeed...even if it takes 5 hours, or the relationship is headed for Doomsville. Yeah, I could cum much faster, but where's the fun in that? I always get a laugh when a woman tells me she's exhausted the next day because she spent too much time with me on the phone. LOL Then I'll say something totally smart-assed for grins and giggles, like "You need to get eight hours of Black Socks and four hours of sleep every night." I'm not only a dreamy sex slave, I'm also a good comedian. That's my time. LMFAO
~ Black Socks
The bitch with the plan that backfired
I was talking to this chick from Washington for about a week. Everything was going good, but then when it came time to have phone sex, she would weasel her way out, not once or twice, but every time we were to have it. The closest thing we ever came to cumming together was erotic talk, but she was so paranoid that didn't last very long before she would want to talk about boring things again. Finally, I figured out that she was a game player and this relationship was about to burn out. So I decided at that point to fuck with her and tell her everything I could to make her think I was a crazy. I told her I was a secret agent who worked for the government and had security clearances. I told her Homeland Security gave me a special phone to communicate with my CIA contacts. LMFAO I just lied, lied, lied to her. And I loved every minute of it. I had that poor Patricia so confused.
But this is where things get hilarious. Just when I thought I ditched the bitch after a week or so, a woman I had been messaging with for months here on Fet informed me the bitch sent her two long e-mails warning her about me and containing all kinds of lies. So did the chick listen to the bitch and avoid me? Nope. She gave me her number and the first thing she said to me was, "God, you have a sexy voice, too." So we wound up speaking on the phone for over 5 hours last night and having great phone sex as she told me how she was going to wear a black ski mask, tie me up, and r*pe my twinkie and ass repeatedly every night until I cry as she steals my innocence. And now she is my current Master, who is deeply and madly in passionate love with me. So thanks, PM the bitch, for everything. I called the bitch tonight and shared the wonderful news with her in a voicemail. I told her I wanted to punch her in the face, but now I want to kiss her...on the cheek. LOL I even sang her a song to show my appreciation. (She always wouldn't allow me to sing, so this was extremely funny.) The thing is I can sing like an angel, and now the bitch probably wants me even more. Mindfucked!
~ Black Socks
What's a collar?
A slave collar is a symbol of ownership and pride. It's the equivalent of a wedding ring. As a submissive, you need to work hard to earn your collar of consideration (sometimes and usually for online ownership) and physical collar.
~ Black Socks
10 signs you're a good submissive
1. You always do what your dominant tells you to unless it violates a hard limit. 2. You do not "top from the bottom." 3. You have normal conversations with your dominant to show them you're not just using them for sex. 4. You try hard to satisfy and learn to anticipate your dominant's every need. 5. You're not afraid to tell your dominant no when they cross the line. 6. You're a good communicator. 7. You always trust your dominant. 8. You have hobbies other than BDSM. 9. You constantly think of ways to improve as a submissive for your dominant. 10. You exceed your dominant's expectations.
~ Black Socks
What's inside my toychest...
1x black 3-hole spandex hood 2x black acrylic hunter ski masks 1x black Mardi Gras mask 1x black thermal shirt and pants 1x black Zentai suit 2x pair of black spandex wrist-length gloves 1x pair of black wool wrist-length gloves 1x pair of black mid-calve toe-socks 1x pair of black knee high toe-socks 1x pair of black regular OTK socks 1x pair of black metal handcuffs with safety latch 2x pair of black neoprene handcuffs or foot cuffs 1x black leather collar with front D-ring 1x black leather leash 1x black scarf 1x black bandanna Plenty of black opaque stockings 1x black ball-gag 1x black bit gag 1x black blindfold 1x black under-the-mattress restraint system 1x black cock stocking LOL
As you can see, I love the color black.
~ Black Socks
How I discovered my female foot and black sock fetish
It was in high school Spanish class and I was 16 or 17. That's the only class I slept in. LOL I'm American and don't fucking care to speak Spanish. I will never go to Spain. It's pointless. Anyway, there was this cute chick with pretty feet named Danielle. She was a tomboy and played softball and soccer for the school team. She would wear adidas slides all the time, and I would put my head down on my desk in Spanish class and stare at her pretty bare feet. Sometimes she would wear socks with her slides. I would fantasize about smelling her socks and feet. When I was home, for some reason dressing all in black excited me, so I would wear either my all-black Grim Reaper Halloween costume LOL, or black sweatshirt, pajama pants, regular socks, gloves, and a pair of black pantyhose over my face that I stole from my mom. LOL (I didn't have a black ski mask growing up, just red. LOL) I would fantasize about Danielle kidnapping me with her girlfriends and forcing me to sniff all their stinky black socks after school, while I was tied up and gagged. When she was done using me to clean their socks, she'd store me in her bedroom closet bound and gagged so her parents couldn't see or hear me. And from there my foot and black sock fetish got stronger with each passing year, and that's how I became the stinky-black-sock-sniffing slave I am today. :^)
~ Black Socks
My first cum
My first cum was when I was 16, wasn't interested in sex, and hardly knew anything about sex. I rubbed my twinkie on my mattress and this clear, thick, sticky substance shot out of my cock and onto the crotch area of my tighty whities. I thought I hurt myself and had to be rushed to the hospital. LOL
~ Black Socks
The 21-year-old Dom that wanted to submit to me
Last year, a 21-year-old Dom on CS told me that I was so wise and dominant, that he wanted to submit to me so I could take him under my wing and teach him all my ways. Thanks, but no thanks. I'm not interested in being a boy stranger's father. LOL
~ Black Socks
I don't need guy friends to be happy
Why doesn't any woman understand that I don't need guy friends to be happy? All I want is my Domme and to spend all my time with her. Isn't that just about every woman's dream: to love a completely loyal and devoted wonderful man? So then why do all the women lose interest in me after I tell them that?
~ Black Socks
I hate the stupid
What's a stupid person?
Somebody of low intelligence. Somebody who does drugs, smokes, cuts, or anything else unhealthy. Somebody who makes the same mistakes over and over and over. Somebody who doesn't make positive contributions to our world. Somebody who is self-centered and thinks the world revolves around them. Somebody who lies, cheats, steals, or kills. Somebody who doesn't laugh, smile, or cry. Somebody who always says "everybody" or "nobody." Somebody who sucks at their job. Somebody who is late. Somebody who is lazy. Somebody who is slow to get things done. Somebody who does things that hurt other people and just doesn't care. Somebody who sends generic copy-and-paste messages, like "Hi." Somebody who worries about the unchangeable past, doesn't focus on the relevant present, and cares too much about the future. Somebody who doesn't understand that change starts with you. Somebody who doesn't understand that it takes strength in numbers to make change. Somebody who doesn't take responsibility for their mistakes. Somebody who scams. Somebody who puts other people down because they can't get up. Somebody who mistreats their things. Somebody who asks the same dumb questions repeatedly. Somebody who is inefficient and unorganized. Somebody who has an ego but no talent. Somebody who wastes the most precious gift of all: time; theirs and others. Somebody who doesn't strive to be better than they were yesterday. Somebody who doesn't give 100% in everything they do. Somebody who likes to see others in pain. Somebody who doesn't help those in need.
Are you a stupid person? Then stay the hell away from me!
~ Black Socks
37 cat facts
They never smile. They don't have lips. They have no eyebrows and are bald above their eyes. Their whiskers are used to sense things close to their face or communicate. They eat dinner every meal. They are as serious as a Royal Guard and never laugh. Their bodies have a built-in air conditioner and heater. When their tail wags fast, they are aggravated or angry. When their tail wags slowly or they brush against things, they are content or happy. Most kittens have blue eyes that change to yellow when they get older. They do not like being made a fool. They can jump incredibly high or far and land with precision balance. They are the only creature who can kill house mice easily. They have sonar hearing. They see in color but have a hard time separating red from pink. They don't fart. They don't burp. They can walk around naked outside without getting arrested for indecent exposure. The term "cat-burglar" means quiet as a cat, not mouse. Cats curve their tails around their bodies so humans don't step on them. They purr when they're super happy, or cat horny. LOL Their fangs remind me of Count Von Count's from Sesame Street. LOL In Russia all cats are viewed as lucky. All kittens have blue eyes. Cats can go into stealth mode and stalk you without you ever knowing it. They will be FURever grateful for your love. LOL All cats have unique faces and personalities. Lots of sports teams have a cat as their mascot. They rub their bodies against your legs and faces against the sides of doors. They have 30 adult and 26 baby teeth and 2 fangs. They are FANGtastic. LOL Cats are plain PAWsome. LOL Cats are PURRfect. LOL Cats don't know they're cats or what color they are. LOL Cats dream.
Cats speak Catish, their very own language of meows that mean different things only they can understand.
If you're German, if a cat crosses your path from right to left, that's bad; left to right is good.
People eat cats in China. However, in northern China eating cat is considered unacceptable. It is estimated that around 4 million cats are eaten in China each year, and that number is rising. (This makes me mad.)
~ Black Socks
I'm a sassy sub
I'm a whole lot of sass with a touch of class. I love to be defiant in a playful manner towards my Domme and "top from the bottom." It turns me on when she verbally humiliates me, pulls my hair or leash, beats me, and puts me in my place.
~ Black Socks
The "Black Socks" song
This is my version of the new-and-improved kinky version of the original "Black Socks" song. ROTFLAO
Black socks, they never get dirty The longer you wear them, the stronger they get Sometimes, I think I should wash them But something inside me says no no, not yet Not yet, not yet, not yet, not yet, not yet
Black socks, you are my bitch You'll do what I say, 'cause you are my pet Now relax, and take a deep whiff They are so stinky and all that you'll get You'll get, you'll get, you'll get, you'll get, you'll get
Black socks, you make me so horny Just look at my pussy, it's soak and wet Oh look, your tiny dick Now get to work and lick all that sweat That sweat, that sweat, that sweat, that sweat, that sweat
~ Black Socks
I'm too dominant to be submissive?
I always thought being a man who knows exactly what he wants was a sexy quality. Well, apparently here it's considered "topping from the bottom." According to many Dommes, I am too cocky and demanding to be a sub. I apologize for being too intelligent for you.
~ Black Socks
Mom, don't look under my bed!
If you read my journal entry "Our son is a freak," this one will be doubly funny. About 6 months after that incident, my mom was lying in my bed looking at one of her many wig catalogs. (Really, Mom, you need a fucking wig when you have a full head of natural hair? LOL) Anyway, I knew I had that same red ski mask and a pair of toy handcuffs under my bed, but I didn't actually think she'd look under my bed and discover them! So I sat down on the toilet to take a shit, and all of a sudden...I heard a loud scream coming from my bedroom. I jumped off the crapper and rushed into my room to investigate, thinking Mom was in trouble, only to see the red ski mask and toy handcuffs resting on the bed. She was petrified. LOL She asked me what these were for? So I told her they were part of my Halloween costume. Which is true, as it's Halloween every day in my house. LMAO
~ Black Socks
My sad 32nd birthday
So how was my 32nd birthday? I was sick in bed with a runny nose, my parents forgot to wish me a happy birthday, and some crazy lady from Ohio prank called my house in the evening impersonating a detective Sorenstrom badge number 6450 and threatening to throw me in prison for the rest of my life on bogus charges if I didn't pay $316 to pay her daddy back for a plane ticket because some little girl (her) was so crazy about me, she stole her daddy's credit card to buy a plane ticket to come see me. (You're never too young to love good ol' Black Socks.)
I played along and wasted 2 hours of this sucker's time throwing an award-winning acting job. I was so scared, shaky, and nervous. I even threw some fake tears in there to really sell it. LOL I actually ran the bogus badge number while on the phone with the scammer by calling the Columbus, Ohio police station. The scammer instructed me to send the money by going to Walmart and using Money Gram. (No real detective asks you to send them money.) She instructed me to add the test question "What's your favorite food? Answer: pizza." on the form. I screwed with her and said, "But my favorite food is potatoes." LOL She got annoyed and told me I only had 2 hours to send the money, or a warrant would be out for my arrest. I asked her if the warranty was good for 90 days. LOL I promised her it'd be done before then. She called me back in about 2 hours, and that's when I exposed her. She even tried to use different voices of the little girl's dad and the police station secretary to try and make me believe I was dealing with a real police station (I give her an "A" for effort, or asshole). Sorry, miss fake detective. No money for you, but I have a lovely Progresso soup can for you, because you sure as hell didn't make any progress here today. LOL
~ Black Socks
Why I love chastity
1. I love the thought of a beautiful woman owning my cock, keeping it under lock and key, and having her keep the key on a necklace around her neck or ankle.
2. It prevents me from cheating--not that I ever would--when my Domme is not around, like out of town on business for a few days.
3. It prevents me from cumming without her permission.
4. It's an effective way to deny or ruin my orgasms and keep me obedient.
5. It turns me on being in public either alone or with my Domme doing vanilla things while feeling my cock cage on because it's a reminder that I'm owned.
6. It gives a woman complete control of my orgasms.
7. It makes concentrating on non-sexual stuff easier.
8. It's fun when she verbally humiliates me or sticks her stinky black socks or nylons in front of my face and I try not to get hard so my cock doesn't get sore from pushing up against the cock cage. LOL
~ Black Socks
You never know who's kinky
You never know who's kinky. When I look at people in public, I wonder if they're kinky or completely vanilla. I wish I had a kink detector that allowed me to point it at any normal-looking person and know if they had any kinks, and if so, what those kinks were. LOL
~ Black Socks
Your submissive equal
You are my Mistress and I am your slave. You are my Domme and I am your sub. You are my Goddess and I am your God. You are my Princess and I am your Prince. You are my Queen and I am your King. You are my Madam and I am your Sir. You are my Lady and I am your Lord. You are my Empress and I am your Emperor. You are my Countess and I am your Count. You are my Governess and I am your Governor. You are my Duchess and I am your Duke.
And even though we're equals, I choose to serve you as your sub because that's what makes me most happy.
~ Black Socks
I'm a monogamous man
I'm a monogamous man. Always have been, always will be. If one woman is not enough for me, then I'm with the wrong woman.
~ Black Socks
Strip down or suit up?
Most Dommes require a sub or slave serve naked to strip them of their identity, while other Dommes require a sub or slave wear a hood or full uniform, such as a rubberdoll.
I wear a full uniform when I serve. I feel covering myself up completely strips my identity, while getting naked flaunts it. Just creative differences with the same intent.
~ Black Socks
Aftercare is not an afterthought
Aftercare is a necessary step in play that most Dommes skip or know nothing about. While a sub plays, they're in what's called subspace, and when the scene is finished, they enter subdrop, which can last up to a week. If a Domme fails to provide aftercare, their sub can get stuck in subspace and become permanently mentally and emotionally damaged. Aftercare is simply a Domme caring for their sub. She can get him a cup of water, give him a hug, or get him a pillow. Whatever you know your sub needs to feel loved.
~ Black Socks
Alpha-male subs are more dominant than Doms
An alpha male sub like me is very dominant in the boardroom and daily life, but completely submissive to women in the home and bedroom. Any coward can hit a woman or call Her dirty names, but only a real man can submit to his woman and give Her full control without losing his manhood.
~ Black Socks
Why over 5 million people have a foot fetish
Over 5 million people have a foot fetish because the feet contain pheromones, which are a sexual secretion that attracts the opposite sex. The most pheromones are found in the feet, but other areas are the genitals and underarms. This is the same reason why many women love to smell a sweaty man or a cat or dog (different species) loves to smell stinky shoes or socks.
~ Black Socks
BDSM and D/s is a business
In business, we write and sign contracts to make our expectations and commitments clear. BDSM and D/s should not be different. A dominant and submissive need to sit down and negotiate their fetishes and hard limits, and carefully plan their relationship together so both parties know their parts to avoid a fallout.
Understand I am a ruthless negotiator and will make sure the terms of any arrangement are in both of our best interests before making a commitment. It's not "topping from the bottom." It's making a smart decision.
~ Black Socks
Sub or slave?
I see these two terms incorrectly used all the time, so I wanted to quickly explain the difference.
slave: A mindless drone that has no rights or limits and does whatever their Master or Mistress tells them. They give their superiors' full control of their lives.
sub: A person who enjoys being told what to do, usually for sexual pleasure, but maintains all their rights and limits as agreed upon with their Master or Mistress. Most subs are dominant outside of sex.
The terms can be used interchangeably, but only after you understand the difference, because it's a lot more humiliating to be called a "slave" than a "sub."
You have moderate preference of Introversion over Extraversion You have moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing You have marginal or no preference of Feeling over Thinking You have moderate preference of Judging over Perceiving
~ Black Socks
Loser submissive
The typical loser male submissive has nothing going for himself and nothing to offer a Domme. He lives in his parent's basement and plays WoW all day while eating Cheesy Poofs and comes here to harass women looking for free spank material to jerk off his pathetic little dicklet with no real intention of, or knowledge to, serving a woman.
~ Black Socks
Real men have big brains, not penises
A real man is measured by his brain power, not penis size. God gave me a lot more between my ears than he did most men and less between my legs than some men. That's just his way of preventing me from achieving total male domination, which lets Dommes keep their jobs. LOL
~ Black Socks
Poly want an STD?
A part of me loves the fantasy of being polyamorous and having sex with thousands of beautiful women over my lifetime -- it's the perfect image for a guy like me -- but the reality is with every additional partner, comes an increased risk for an STI or STD, and that's not a risk I'm willing to take. Sure, I could require each partner get tested and share their test results with me, but very few would. One partner is not enough for poly people. They need to be good people jugglers. That requires a lot of time and temperament. There's also an increased risk of hurting one partner or them hurting you.
But with monogamy, none of that is a problem, and that's why I'm monogamous. I just have to get my woman and me tested and share our test results with each other, making an STI or STD impossible to miss. I get to develop that special 5-dimensional connection I require in a lover. I have to focus my time and attention only on Her and Hers on me, allowing us to always give our best to each other. She would be my everything and I would be Hers. There's low risk of hurting each other. And, there's just something incredibly sexy about one woman knowing my brightest and darkest depths and me knowing Hers, and sharing an unbreakable bond and having us go against the world.
Open relationships are just stupid. They come with all the risks of a polyamorous one, and you're telling your partner "You're not enough for me." Just stay single and play the field.
~ Black Socks
My Black Ski-Masked Bitch Uniform
What's included? Black, acrylic, 3-hole ski mask worn to conceal my identity and humiliate me as a faceless piece of servitude and fuck meat.
Black cotton thong to make me feel like a man-whore. Black, cotton, thermal, pajama pants with open-fly cutout for easy cock access. Black, cotton, thermal, long-sleeve shirt; optional. Black cotton toe-socks. Black leather slave collar with padlock and leash as a symbol of her ownership. Black cotton, wool, or spandex fingered or fingerless gloves; optional.
What is it? The core of my submissive being. A unique-looking, low-maintenance, all-black slave uniform required to be worn daily for imprisonment in shame and oppression that makes identification as a slave simple and escape difficult.
The slave uniform limits the risks of having concealed objects. The only time I am allowed to remove my slave uniform is for a vanilla event, when I bathe and groom, or when I wash it. The slave is kept shoeless and wears black toe-socks as a form of humiliation and to make identification as a slave simple and escape difficult. Being barefoot has served as an indicator for a slave's loss of freedom in large parts of history, which is an effect also used to further emphasize the owner's command and authority over the slave. The color black symbolizes darkness, corruption, shame, and loss of freedom.
Why do I wear it? Mistress is the magician and I am her assistant. Every magician has assistants behind the scenes that are dressed completely in black so they're invisible to the audience. Without the assistants, the magician is nothing and there's no magic show. I am a black shadow whose identity has been stripped. An oppressed object, a tool that works silently, efficiently and quickly for her amusement and comfort. My slave uniform is a constant form of mind control, mental humiliation, physical humiliation, reminding me of my place at Mistress's pretty feet, personal anonymity, keeping all the focus on her beauty, and keeping me hard for her amusement and pleasure. And the more humiliated I feel, the more submissive and docile I act.
~ Black Socks
Fetishes and normalcy
We all have fetishes, and anybody who says they're "normal" or doesn't have any fetishes is an idiot and a liar. There is no such thing as a normal human being.
~ Black Socks
Our son is a freak
When I was 17, I skipped school and my parents went to the grocery store. I looked out the living room window to make sure my dad's car was gone and they left. Once his car was gone, I ran to my bedroom to get kinky. I tied myself to my bed spread-eagle with black socks LOL and stockings, gagged myself with a pair of stockings, and slipped my red ski mask over my face backwards. (I didn't own a black slave hood back then.) Well, little did I know, my mom would forget her purse and they'd come home about 10 minutes later. They checked on me. I moved my heavy clothes dresser in front of my bedroom door to barricade it just in case. I'm glad I did. It bought me some time, but it wasn't enough. I tried frantically to untie myself, but I wasn't fast enough. My mom and dad caught me tied to my bed, gagged, with the red ski mask backwards over my face. They had this "our son is a freak" look on their faces. All I could think to say was "I'm trying to commit suicide." ROTFLAO I was embarrassed to cross their paths for 2 weeks after the raid.
So remember, kinksters who live with Mom and Dad, if you're going to play bondage games, make sure you have a good lock on your door. LOL
~ Black Socks
25 signs you're an awful Domme
1. You accuse your sub of "topping from the bottom" every time they make a request. 2. You can't have a normal conversation. 3. You believe women are better than men. 4. You can't take care of yourself, so you can't take care of others. 5. You're a sadist who loves to see people hurt. 6. You're financially dependent on your submissive. 7. You have little to no experience but pretend you do. 8. You believe a D/s relationship is entirely about you. 9. You want an FLR with vanilla aspects, but remind your sub of their place during those times. (How is your sub supposed to know when to act like a man or woman?) 10. You don't respect your sub's hard limits and try to push them. (They're hard limits for a good reason.) 11. You believe a submissive is not a human being with needs, wants and goals. 12. You demand your submissive not ask questions. 13. You just want a mindless drone without a personality to control. 14. You don't follow SSC principles. 15. You constantly beg for money and/or gifts. 16. You don't care about your submissive's fetishes and kinks. 17. You can't be loving and compassionate. 18. You believe submissives are disposable. 19. You only care about yourself. 20. You do an act of retard on your submissive that's dangerous to their health. 21. You micromanage your sub and prevent them from being who they are and reaching their full potential. 22. You don't practice aftercare. 23. You mistake submissiveness for weakness. 24. You don't do what you say. 25. You're a poor communicator.
~ Black Socks
Most kinky people have a mental disorder
A long time ago, they did a study and found most people who are kinky have a mental disorder. Now, they did another recent study and found kinky people do not have a mental disorder. No, you had it right the first time. Scientists, just read the CS profiles, like Mr Crumpets, who's an expert in playing with and eating poop. LMFAO
