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Male Dominant, 36, Vacaville, California
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About BlackMarx
I am not searching for random encounters or one-timers. I am also not a fan of attention whores. I like to have fun while maintaining some sense of responsibility and self-control. Basically, I am a picky bastard...
Although I am an Alpha Male/Dominant personality, I choose to be less concerned about levels of submission. The best description of the kind of woman I am seeking is a "bottom with submissive tendencies"; someone that likes to give someone else control of her body/pleasure/activities ONLY in private spaces. I don't want to micromanage your life or take responsibility for your happiness and well-being beyond our intimate time together. I am VERY interested in creating a friendship, built from the ground up, that can support adventures into our collective fetishes and kinks. Something that will last a lifetime.
I am also interested in couples that are active in or considering a cuckolding situation. I have more than my fair share of experience operating as a Bull within that dynamic. I offer my expertise, advice and my services, if you desire them. |
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Right out of the gate, we all started somewhere. No matter your journey or identity, you began as 'nothing' and earned a level of understanding which hopefully resulted in some sort of self-awareness and respect. That knowledge of self didn't happen overnight. So it shouldn't be out of the question for anyone to take some time to get to know other people before demanding prioritization or special consideration when they meet new people.
I'm not talking about the basic "golden rule" sort of respect that everyone deserves; that is a given fact in all interactions, especially in the BDSM world. I am specifically talking about making demands or having expectations outside of the ordinary first steps of getting to know one another. You can't reasonably expect someone to cater to your ideas of interaction immediately and without reservation. You feel each other out and give room for growth.
Then again, if you feel you are so far apart from the very beginning, you shouldn't be dealing with that person at all. Right?
As always- my motto is "Get in where you FIT in, or get the hell out!" |
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