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bluelagoon1988
As I am a corporate executive with a job to keep, my kinks are not thrown out there for all to see. As such, I will only share my image with people who contact me with genuine interest. Thanks for your understanding. I am experienced in the art of BDSM and I also have a leather fetish. Im attractive, 42, very intelligent and work out three to four days a week. I love to bring new people down the rabbit hole to wonderland, there is nothing more fun than helping people discover what they have longed for all of their life. Whether you are new to BDSM or experienced, it doesn't really matter, as long as you are serious about exploring your wants and desires. I have no real expectations here, I simply love to meet people that share the same desire to explore "Wonderland". I know what a sub craves. I can be everything from loving to very stern/corporal depending on the mood, our shared desires/fantasies and your limits. I own a mind numbing collection of BDSM accessories for play. I can switch and am willing to switch if my partner prefers to Top, I simply love to explore, the role doesn't really matter in the end. I travel for work often both inside and outside of the US and would love to hear from you wherever you may be. As mentioned, I have a leather fetish, I love to meet people who enjoy wearing designer leather and/or fetish clothing. I am well groomed, clean and drug free. I rarely drink (social occasions) and I don't smoke. I always make an effort to provide an exciting time for my partner and love to help them explore their fantasies. I don't say this to brag but merely to inform, I have an insatiable sex drive. I adhere sharply to limits although I will take my partner right up to them on occasion. I'm not a hardcore dom that is into throwing women around or beating them to a pulp. BDSM is about one person giving the gift of control to another which can only be accomplished through trust and mutual respect. Once I have gained control, my intent is to give my partner exactly what she wants... to be forcefully turned into the slut she has always longed to be but her conscience has never allowed her to be. To discipline her through hair pulling, spanking, paddling, heavy bondage, etc. Then to use her every hole until she truly meets the definition of the word, SLUT. I will provide additional pics when I have discerned that you are for real.
My Ideal Person: I am looking for a partner that wants to explore and experience the alternate universe that BDSM provides. Its sad, I hate to end on a note like this but I have discovered that it must be said. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF ALL YOU WANT IS TO TRY TO GET MONEY OUT OF ME. I have wasted too much of my time talking to women who in the end were just trying to get to my bank account. Believe me, I can smell your type a mile away, you won't succeed.
10/14/2011 3:24:13 PM

I came across a blog post yesterday on one of those "ask" a question websites.  It was written by a married woman who was unhappy as she had discovered that her husband was very kinky (into leather like ME!).  Although it was clear her husband had dropped plenty of hints about his kinks to her prior to their marriage, he wasn't exactly honest and up front about them either.  As I read the responses from people I was mortified.  I couldn't believe how one sided the conversation was.  The post was similar to what I went through with my (failed) marriage... the fear of rejection, the inability to be open and honest, the guilt about being who I am.  I didn't bother posting a response because the question was from 2 years ago with no ongoing discussions.  I couldn't sleep last night I was so upset about it.  I promised myself that I would get online today and re-connect with the community and try to help people who are going through those painful times of self discovery.  I learned a lot from my marriage, about myself and about relationships.  I hope this message touches those of you who know what I'm talking about, I would love to chat.

cathy29
 
 Age: 24
 Dallas, Texas