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Female Dominant, 25, Lincoln, Illinois
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Male Switch, 38, Lafayette, Louisiana
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About BlackDommeSub
I feel the relationship between the Dominant and the submissive is one form (one style) of an amorous (erotico-sentimental) relationship. Once money, or any type of non-erotico-sentimental interest, enters within this relationship, it transforms it and spoils it completely.
I was born in the Middle East, where I spent my childhood and early youth, afterwhich I transferred to Europe (Italy, then France). That gave me both an Oriental and a Western outlook on life. Emigration is a hard experience, but it is mentally enriching.
Since childhood, I have always been feeling a deeply-rooted, and over-whelming, urge to serve and pleasure my Beloved Lady, and to make Her happy and satisfied; accepting gladly pain and fatigue for me, in exchange of Her erotic pleasure.
Yet, I would not define myself as a slave: I have a rather independent personnality. I am not best described as a submissive, either. I am more of a sensual "bottom".
Still, if I am attracted, seduced, by a Domme, I could go beyond my limits, and accept to be quite submissive, for Her pleasure. For, again, the D/s relationship is, as far as I am concerned, one type of a love relationship.
As far as experience goes, I have had only one Mistress. Our relationship was global, profound, gratifying to both of us, and had a duration of many years. It involved our bodies, minds, emotions and souls. We were intimate friends, intellectual protagonists, lovers, and Top-and-bottom.
I am not ashamed to consider that, overall, I have little experience. I am wishing to learn, and hope to be moulded according to the preferences of my Mistress.
How do I visualize my relationship with my Mistress-to-be? I don't have a special pattern in mind. It depends first on Her desires, then on the result of our interaction. Of course, I am looking for a full relationship: vanilla and D/s. I am mostly attracted to BBW Dommes (specially Ebony Queens), who wish to establish an intellectual relationship with their submissive, as well as the D/s one, and who enjoy ordering Their submissive to regularly and deeply worship Their divine Body and service It. Age and race bear little importance for me, as long as we share compatibility.
I am also seeking here friendship and an exchange of messages, even when they don't necessarely intend to lead to a physical encounter. I welcome every contact and all inquiries, from any one; and I hope for, and expect, them.
Thank you; and good luck for every one in her/his search. |
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In search of where I could fit, on the D/s scene, I took the Sexual Orientation Test, on quizfarm.com , although I consider it as only a vague approximative measure.
Here are my results:
Experimental: 68% ; masochist: 61% ; submissive: 57% ; switch: 50% ; bondage: 36% ; exhibitionist/voyeur: 32% ; degradation: 25% ; dominant: 21% ; vanilla: 21% ; sadist: 21% .
Overall, I was classified as "experimental".
I, personally, read these results as putting me in between a bottom and a submissive, closer to a bottom, though. |
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