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blackbeard519

Not a player, what you see if what you get....
To me, Dominance is about responsibility. It is about more than sex, more than pain, it is about love.  To love someone enough that you are willing to take responsibility for them. To mold them, guide them, and yes, even use them.

I don't believe in the term "To be truly dominant...", nor the term "To be truly submissive".

I think its a thing of chemistry, of passion.

I'm versatile within the lifestyle as it is more about the power exchange for me.  For example, while I enjoy floggers, and clamps and bondage and things of that ilk, the biggest turn on for me, is that I have the power to use them.

I'm seeking someone compatible, someone intelligent, someone who likes to laugh, likes to play.

I can be something of a "Daddy Dom", and would seriously like to explore that facet.

I am single with no attachments outside of my 2 cats and dog.  I am professionally employed with a good and stable job.

The mind is the most important sex organ for me.

I'm on the larger side, so if that's an issue for you, that's okay, but lets not waste each other's time.

Oh, I no longer have a beard, just a goatee. I'm going to have new pictures done up professionally.