Welcome to my corner of the wild side.
What I'm looking for is this:

I want to take what I have learned in books and workshops and use it. I have been studying for a while now. I'm very picky about my partner and how it is going to work.
See, as I was studying, I found out that there are all kinds of different Doms. So I’m not going to fit in a box that people would want me to fit into.

I want to try everything out on myself first before I do it to my sub. I want to learn how it feels. E.g. fire play

I don't want to be in a 24/7 Dom role. I want to be vanilla sometimes. I mean vanilla is great too.

I want my sub to have a brain so we can work together on what we both want, and to see us both grown and learn.

My ideal sub would be one that is looking for more than just being a sub. He would want a relationship too. He would have passion and drive to learn about his love, his lust, and his fears. I want him to be a switch sometimes.

If I take on more subs after I find him, it would be for something similar to just a play party.
No fluids exchange

I want to be a switch sometimes when I want to lose my mind and have some fun. I would love to see my sub take over once in a while.

There has to be trust and honesty and a click.
I'm not looking for older men I’m not looking to be someone's sub so you can break me.

This is where I am in life. I love to go to the play parties and one day I will play.
Let’s hope it is with you....

Black