Hi, I am a 29 year old submissive man from NY. I guess I am kind of new to this since my only experience was a few years ago when my now ex began dominating me sexually. Before and after that I had always been on the dominate side in all aspects of my life. Since then I can not stop thinking about how much I loved being totally controled by another person. The relationship ranged at times from being told what to do to several types of humiliation. I loved the feeling when I would willingly be put through humiliating acts just to show her what I would do to please her. Though I have always wanted to find another woman who was dominate I seem to attract woman who are more submissive.