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	About biyaomafan Imagination outweighs knowledge in life. Repressed artisan in search of a partner(s) to explore and experience the top/bottom dynamic of BDSM. So many delicious combinations to employ, fetish fashion, restraint, role-play, and far to few worthy submissives to use. Pure bdsm is an art. Established acceptable societal behaviors and conventions constrain the vanilla choices we are allowed to make. Move towards the edge! Designer clothes and coffee will always be with us, as will the bevy of available metrosexual boys. Exploring and revealing your fetish persona with/to a real man who enjoys his edges and relishes his masculinity, is for the truly imaginative risk taker.

Surfing the profiles I see the search for satisfaction & belonging continues. Some genuine quests while others are posing. I know it is slow going, yet I urge us all to keep sharing. Are we kinky & open to the power of suggestion? Or are we closed off and selfish, only interested in the things we think we like or let happen. Imagination & creativity keep us young. If we know exactly what we want, does that not eventually get boring?

Sampling many delicious pictures and posts! I compliment where I can and comment when I am intrigued. We do all belong here. This is our group our tribe, if you will. Remember your profile is a gateway to knowing, learning, and growing. If you elect not to share, how will you grow? Be good, yet do not always behave! -Simon

Of fantasy and need? Why are so many of us here? Pictures, text, and dreams unfulfilled! There are few quick fixes in the BDSM world, professionals aside of course. A scene takes time to create. It takes allure. Everyone wants to be coaxed, wanted, and desired. Are we all willing to put in the time required to find what we seek? Take the first step and drop someone a note today. A little compliment, a little tease, but more importantly try to get have a bit of fun! Play safe...

Is "vanilla" a way of life or a mind set? One can be vanilla, but dream, imagine, and wonder down some rather interesting mental pathways. I know scores of vanilla people. They are good and solid individuals, albeit a bit limiting at times. Those who cross over into their dreams and enact creativity breach the vanilla world. And who can stay outside the breach forever?

New year, new desires! We so want to be on the naughty list, but how many of us truly are? We are here on collarme.com attempting to escape our vanilla life, even if only for a few minutes. A provocative picture, a few insightful words, or just a little exercise for your imagination, it's great!

I encourage everyone this year to push yourself a little farther. Get out your fetish persona and put it on. Incorporate a little fetish play into vanilla life, be it a leather belt, a nice pair of boots, or a little public spanking play. It's such a rush.

Too bold, then compliment someone on a picture or take the time the time and honestly fill out your profile. Write something edgy in your journal that you want, but are hesitant, to do.

We are a community and do something to build a little trust. Cold emails asking to meet up are so vanilla. Where's the mystique, the imagination, and the creativity?

More on fetish personas later!

Why is the edge so fleeting and elusive at times? We want it, but often hesitate to committing, even if for the moment. Is anticipation of the danger sufficient to satiate kinksters to allow them to pull back? Yet we are continuously drawn and lured to the edge and even beyond. How do we find it? The limitless versions of the edge add to its elusiveness. For any edge, yours, mine, ours, it takes time! Time to find that motivation driving a particular itch that needs to be scratched. Time to find the right chemistry and trust between players. And time to stage the scene. Invest in the edge kinsters. You will not regret it. The one and done session while immensely pleasurable is no match for chemistry between two individuals. Be good, but not too good. -Sir Simon PS -Beyond is for another day!

Temporarily relocating my life and fetish persona to South East Asia for now. I hope the online community here is playful and inquisitive? As I scan through the inactive listings I do stop to wonder about the dreams of motivations of those individuals behind the profiles? Were they just bored by vanilla life and wants a bit of thrill? Post a profile, nip off a few emails, and fad into the cyber void? I wish them the best and hope they found what they were looking for. As for myself... Well more about vanilla life in my next post. -Sir Simon

So many daily log ins, but how many players? Passing interest and cool factor no doubt factor into most individuals postings here on the boards in China. The QQ links are most interesting, I hope to research one at some point. No doubt the mistresses are real, but what of their creativity and depth? I want to believe that the community is out there and is supportive, so I will for now.

Interesting people abound here @ collarme.com, but most fickle in whom they communicate with. A gated community within a gated community? As if they all are just waiting for the connection they are seeking to magically happen. To make life or even this lifestyle to work, one must own it!

Interesting! More and more individuals are becoming collarme.com aware here in the dalu. And some delicious photos with some very nice fashion! Do subs/tops actually write to each other? I do wonder how they are fairing with their profiles? Or is just existing virtually the first (and possibly last for some) step in the lifestyle? Hey, I'm here! Notice me! How does a "scene" grow up out of nothing here in a place that so closely watches its own. Until the next post, behave, for the most part, but remember to have fun! -Sir Simon

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