seems to be an issue sending mail tonight ... its a strange one.

new mobile phone, im a happy camper.

Just saw a profile that shows everything that is wrong with this place and the fact that it has been co opted by people who have no interest in the lifestyle at all and who see it purely as a money making exercise and the winner of the most openly mocking of what the lifestyle is about goes to madamdevelish. Now the .......... i wont call her a Domme because she obviously isnt Dimmdomme perhaps or money grubber for sure but i had to smirk at the following taken from her profile .

Let me be crystal fucking clear from the very start. There is only one thing that I want from you. Your money. There is only one way to get my attention. Your money. There is only one thing that will make me talk to you. Your money. And, let's be honest there is only one thing that gets your little cock hard. The thought of giving your money to me. So, let's just cut to the chase, I dont care if your on your knees, I don't care if you have a fucking dildo up your ass, I don't care if you have 100 pegs for your cock and ball. The only thing I care about is that you have your fucking wallet open so I can fucking empty it.

Ok now I ask , when you see the following and see she isnt real , and can see that she has no desire to actually embrace any aspect of the lifestyle would you really lower yourself?? would you offer submission to someone who doesnt actually want your submission ??? , just a thought .

just saw this on a "dommes" profile .

7/4/2011 5:26:03 PM: Lots of fake subs on here. Expect everything for free! I mean come on.

now this is a self identified "financial domme" now lets look at the statement up there, now this is someone who views the lifestyle in terms of money and is calling subs fake ... irony ???.

now i am curious i thought that the greatest gift a sub can give is themselves, the desire to serve and please, now in terms of lifestyle transactions the symbiotic nature of D/s this is seen as a given.

The idea that because you are young and abusive to people , which is not dominance , its just being a bitch and being ..... a stepford and ticking every cliche from the stupid choppy hairdo to the fakebake etc does not make you anything special , if anything it makes you a drone , im sick of seeing messages in my inbox every day from people who have no interest in the lifestyle but simply feel that by tagging onto the lifestyle they can make a few quid, no matter how you try and frame it financial dommes ( which are very different from pro dommes ) are a cancer on the lifestyle .

interesting night , chickend out of going to the rocky horror show.

a wonderful evening talking to a wonderful, smart but most importantly REAL Domme.

to cut and not to cut my hair short ..

ok boredom has set in, this is not good.

ok im going to post this as it carries on from my previous post , the name has been removed to protect the not so innocent . I recived unsolicted the following .

ok can someone please explain just how financial domination is domination ?, submission is about trust , respect and devotion, how can you trust or respect someone who is only interested in money and not you ?.

ive been out of things for to long, now its time to get back and serve i need it .