I am a submissive gentleman who is currently looking for a dominant woman to serve. How do I know that I am submissive? Basically because this is my natural personality in my daily life. I am usually happy to go with the flow of things.
Some time ago whilst talking to a lady on a chat line who simply asked the question completely out of the blue “Do you want to be my slave?” Some time later I asked why she had asked that question when none of discussions had been to do with either sex of BDSM. She replied that she was experienced enough to know just by talking to me. There then followed a sub/dom relationship for about a year but alas only over the telephone and by post as well. This was in the early days when the internet wasn't available to most. I was very sad when this relationship ended due to her meeting someone.
I can confirm that I do live alone. I used to live in Europe but when my marriage was doomed to failure I returned to the UK. I therefore have few friends as yet so private contact with me at home is not a problem.
I don't have any real time experience so now I am looking to explore and learn. Can you help by introducing me to the various aspects of practical Bdsm and at the same time get your own satisfaction. Would you enjoy nurturing someone to be totally submissive?
Although this profile suggests that my best way of service is through personal service I am also looking to expand my experience in ALL the activities associated with BDSM. I am aware of what is mean't by submissive and have been appalled at the submissive profiles I have read on this site most of which are what many dommes describe as topping from the bottom. One I read recently said, “Submissive looking for a dominant lady who would enjoy sitting on my face and forcing me to give her oral sex.” If this isn't topping from the bottom I don't know what is.
What then can I offer a Domme??
Well in order to prevent topping from the bottom I can give a list of what I think I can do for any Domme. You can then decide those things, IF ANY, that you would wish to develop into your requirements:
I believe I would be useful to a Domme in personal service:
I am a qualified Masseur and can produce a diploma as proof. So this coupled with perhaps assisted bathing, hairwashing, drying and of course a relaxing massage may be of interested. The Massage could incorporate erotic massaging as well as oral sex if required. I regret I have had no training in manicure so cannot offer this unless you train me.
Willing service and eagerness to please are what I offer...a slave who is service-oriented, who feels incomplete and unfulfilled without a Mistress to watch over him, to obey and adore, and serve at her feet.
MY VISION
I would like to think that whoever I meet and subsequently belong to will be the most important person or thing in my life. I will learn to love her, adore her and truly worship her. Everything about her will be of concern to me. Her happiness, her mood, her emotions. Even those tiny hairs on her knee will be of concern to me.
MY PERSONALITY
I have an easy going, sensitive, placid, submissive nature. I am a fun guy and sometimes don't know when to stop with the jokes and fun making. I'm sure you will find a way of doing that if it gets too much.
If YOU are looking to meet a truly, submissive and usually obedient guy, the please do get in touch. I am happy to have contact with anyone to discuss my expertise activities but also to discuss YOUR requirements so that you will recieve the satisfaction a dominant woman deserves. This way you will get to know me a little and you can put forward any ideas that you would want to share with me.
I am happy to recieve contact from any dominant wherever you may live on the understanding that once things seem to be progressing I am happy to relocate to be near you or even consider a 24/7. I am open to any form of relationship including email, telephone and personal meetings. Do not delay but contact today.
I would also delight in just befriending any dominant woman without play. If you are a dominant woman who feel that you would like the support (Not Financial) and friendship of a submissive man then please free to contact me but please do state that it is only friendship that you are seeking.