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I am a female artist, writer, and musician, living in a rural area. I seek a committed male mate, with possible marriage. I'm turned on by Dominant Men who are also gentle. I'm intelligent, witty, creative, affectionate, and very sexual/sensual. I seek the same in a man. I have fantasies about making love to women as well as men. I pray my new lover/husband can accept my polyamory and bi-sexuality, and that I can accept his. You must be willing and able to relocate to N. Calif if this is to be more than an on-line romance. Also, I've always wanted to dominate a woman, at least on-line. That makes me hot. Of course, it's impossible to sum me up in just a few words. My relationship with God is very important to me, as is writing and blogging. I love rock music, rock stars (I worship them, in fact), and have a very simple lifestyle even as I learn to increase my income so that I can afford a car one day. This is a small town, so I'm hesitant to post a photo of me, especially with a collar on! Whew...
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In my erotic dreams, I think about women. And making love to them. I've had fantasies of dominating a younger woman, one wearing short-shorts and a tank-top. Of course, she has beautiful hair that smells wonderful, and luscious, deep cleavage. Neck scarf legs and belly-button kisses. I'd definitely be the one bending her over the counter or bed, and ass-fucking her with my strap-on dildo, perhaps after a good, hard, bare-butt spanking. Her face wears a look of erotic ecstasy-agony. The light in her eyes could set the curtains on fire. If I really feel steamy, I'd let her boyfriend watch, with a huge boner. And charge them money. You can see the obvious flow of power here. Whew. Needless to say, I've never acted on this one.
Of course, I've had dreams of a luscious lady, perhaps a bit older than me, tying me up and them licking me all over. Yes, she'd squirt her girly-come all over my breasts. And then lick it off. I bet just reading this arouses you. Are you making a tent in your pants? Are you wanking off? Is your cunt wet? I could get paid for writing erotica. It's legal, unlike prostitution. My words can turn people on and inspire men and women alike to make love to themselves.
I like making love to myself. I dream of certain Hollywood luminaries of both sexes. I look at them and wonder, "Is he kinky? Is he bi-sexual? Would he or she find me hot and sexy and worthy of a good fuck?"
Yes. I own a "toy bag". With BDSM as well as vanilla sex toys. I also have a box of vibrators under my bed. And other things very useful for erotic romps in the sack.
In real life, alas, I've been mostly celibate. I pray to God to find real romantic partnership, and not just a fling. My experience shows me that too-quick a hop into bed, leads to quick break-ups. So, I'd better channel my sex fire elsewhere, such as erotic art and making perfect strangers wank off in front of the computer. ;-)
Reader: please note I rarely drop by here, as my current life keeps me busy. Also, I'm choosy about relationships of all kinds. Nobody is my Master or Mistress until I specifically say so. There IS such as thing as BDSM etiquette. "Friends first" is still a very good rule to go by, even in this instant-gratification society. I must protect my heart, my self-resepct, and my body. Plus my reputation. (I live in a rural area). |
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Very busy with school from mid-August 'til mid-December 2009. So, I won't be on-line as much. I'll almost certainly be slower in answering messages of all kinds. Sex and romance may take a back-burner for me while in school. I'm not the first college student to decide to hold off on sexual intimacy and the "f" word while studying... LOL |
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An old colonel once said, "I used to feel it was my duty to hit everybody with the truth! Now, I only tell the truth to those who are ready to hear it." (Or, as Lindathustra says, "Nothing is cheaper than unsolicited advice!")
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I have a vision of me starting a romantic relationship with another woman. I'd definitely be the dominant lady, although I'd love to submit to a woman, too. That said, I'm going to have to come up with some Standards. #1. Friends First. Relationships are about much more than sex. Including kinky ones, as well as lesbian or bi-poly relationships. The usual rules of Clear and Respectful Communication apply regardless of number, gender, or sex toys and costumes of all participants. Yes, there is an emerging Dominant Woman inside of me. That said, I am finally gaining the wisdom that real-world relationships happen in Community. Maybe I should have all prospective lovers of mine meet my community of friends first, BEFORE I go to bed with them. That will scare the living Jesus out of any users, abusers, or hard-core addicts. I may be hormone-addled, but I guarantee you my friends won't be. Perhaps sex happens in community, also. I need more community, perhaps far more than I need a lover. Sex is a need of mine. Just because I haven't had any in ages, doesn't make that need vanish! Sex of any flavor only has meaning in a context of love, respect, and community. The pryet)!
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I've had fantasies of dominating women erotically. I'm a woman, myself. I've been practicing worshipping her yoni and breasts with my mouth and fingers. I suspect I may be good with a whip. I woke up in orgasm the other night after dreaming I wielded a whip in a roomful of people. Wow! There is a dominant side of me, that obviously is hidden. In my fantasies, I've used rough language, bent women over, used a strap-on cock, gently squeezed their breasts, quickly removed their clothes, and "took her pearl-diving". Too bad I can't get away with this behavior in public, in real life. I live in an area where there are no "play parties", dungeons, not even a hooker. I'm lucky enough to have run into a few other gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, and trans-genders. I've had it with the shame of living with a celibacy I don't really want but seem very much stuck in. Real sluts just don't like whiners who complain about not getting laid. Just my experience on-line. I'm grateful for the Internet and all those sexy, hot naked men and women doing sex acts (the tasteful variety) or appearing deliciously naked. On the other hand, please spare me the "cock shots". Sir, they are called "private parts" for a reason! Thank God I'm very sexual and have a pornographic imagination. I'm also an expert "dirty talker". I bet I can make your panties wet or your erection poke up those tighty-whities! Thank you Jesus for porn, erotic stories, and real sex. OH, yes. OH, baby. I love making love. The raunchy fucking. The sexy costumes and role plays. Thank God for sex and sexuality--my favorite pain-killer, subject in the school of life, AND favorite method of enlightening people. Even though it's all in my mind at this time. Mostly. Thank God for masturbation. What a release. John Mayor is so sexy. Mariah Carey is so daring in her "Touch My Body" video. Geeky-looking guy experiences his Mariah Carey "wet dream". Thank God for those boner videos. And Mrs. Farting Preacher. Now you know what kinds of low-brow YouTube entertainment grab me. ha ha...
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Hiatus: My heart tells me I've found my true love. I believe in keeping it simple. Therefore, I'm taking a hiatus of undefined length. The details are strictly my/our business. I thank you all for your notes and attention. It's been wonderful.
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Whoever founded www.collarme.com, I owe you a BIG heart-felt thank you! Wish I knew whom to email. I especially love your "who's looking at me" feature, plus all those hunks and babes, and all those scantily clad photos (sure wish I had the courage to post sexier ones of me.... give me time!) I love how you can message anybody, or send videos and audios. And wow, the free chat rooms and forums! All of this is for FREE. What a freaking huge GIFT! I send my thanks to the Founders and Tech People of collarme.com **kisses and hot, kinky, lusty hugs (spanks and thanks and tit presses and sweet sweet sexy bad ass kitten girl lust)
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A woman has the right to fully express her sexuality, with other consenting adults, in healthy and happy ways. How I would love to exercise that right! Thanks to Dr. Christiane Northrup for alerting me to the fact that (peri_menopause can change your sexual orientation. I guess it's safe to be honest about that here.... I self-identify as bi-sexual and polyamorous. And also Kink-Curious. I've experienced enough erotic encounters with women and also Dominant men and one woman to know that I want much, much more. My sexuailty has always been centered in the Spirit Realms in the past. Long story, there. I have the feeling that as I get older, my sexuality and my life will be much more earthy, physical, and grounded in "reality".... whatever that is. LOL. Reality is my body experiencing all kinds of pleasurable sensations, even as the pictures and sounds unreel in my mind, which is like a vast movie theater or a universe unto itself. So many advantages to growing older. I feel sexier and more confident. I've been celibate for most of my life. I've had dreams of HIM, that special man whom I will meet, fall in love with, and marry. I also have my Internal Lover. Daddy.... are you there? I have many rock star crushes, and I fantasize about women, famous and not. I've seen some real babes. Mmmmm.... drool... sigh. Time for bed. :-) |
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I am a believer in Some Basic Manners, myself.
#1. I don't care how weird your sexual tastes are. Have some class in approaching me.... even though I label myself Submissive or Switch.
#2. In other words, nobody is my Master or Mistress until we come to a mutual agreement. This means getting to know each other first. You know, a nice chat at the very least. Maybe a "real life" meeting.
#3. Be gentle with me. I'm a beginner, but I have self-respect and I know what I want, or am willing to "research" to find out! ;-)
#4. A BDSM "scene" is Sacred Space. I may let my Master or Mistress do things with me and to me in sacred space, that I'd NEVER consider doing in public or at any other time. I have ideas of what I want and what turns me on. Hint: I worship Shiva and Jimmy Page AND I'd love Mistress Midori to come to me in my dreams. Cowboys are starting to look mighty good to me. Rock Stars--God's orgasm, can't live without them. Rock Stars make my panties moist and steamy....
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Let me explain that first entry about "manners" and "boundaries". So, I found this sexy male domme with a full head of grey hair and blue eyes... gorgeous, yes? He's got a Buddhist-sounding moniker.... well, when I finally got up the guts to send him my photo (g-rated), he called me a VERY rude name... "lil **** is cute!" I haven't established a relationship with him nor given him the OK to use bad words in a scene. I think it's only OK to use swear words *inside a scene*, which for me, a BDSM scene is "sacred space", and should be respected, and contained. I mean, nobody makes love in public in America, right? Making love is sacred, and I for one wouldn't want spectators! I don't know about you.... some get off at the thought of "getting caught"... I don't! But I caught a couple in the woods once.... phew, that was arousing! Mmmm... I think they got their rocks off of me catching them. Diffrent strokes for different folks.... OH, and I was a member of the Society of Janus in SF for a year.... THAT was an education in itself... ;-)
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I am realizing, that I'm curious about Dominant lesbian or bi-sexual women. Maybe it would be fun to have a "Mommy" as well as a "Daddy". Maybe even a nice, big, curvy African-American? I love big breasts. And nice, curvy butts. I am a beginner in BDSM, and certainly a newbie in lesbian love making, but am curious to taste much, much more! Of course, I just get all wet and excited at the thought of playing with "Daddy". One who will spank me, tie me up, kiss and lick and love me every way possible...
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Hello, I am new here. First off, let me say something about Manners. NO one who is truly suitable to be a serious candidate for Love or Dominance is ever allowed to approach me in a rude way! While I do enjoy "hot talk" and even a few vulgar words, there IS such as thing as "boundaries". Or establishing trust. We used to call them "politeness" or "good manners". Let me warn you right now, if you come at me or other self-respecting people in a rude way (calling somebody vulgar names before they've invited you to your First Scene), you run a high risk of being put on IGNORE, or at the very least, thought of as a rude ignoramus. Maybe I should put up a note, FRIENDS FIRST. I'm new here, so I'm just getting my feet wet. No disrespect meant, but I see people here, both Doms and Subs, whom I consider seriously "boundary-impaired". I mean, who the HELL has "no limits"? I know there are other Submissive Females out there besides me, who have enough self-respect to avoid badly mannered Doms or Subs of any stripe like, um, doggie-doo. That said, with this sort of lifestyle, it's best to watch my step. Look out for doogie doo, as it were. Yes, needless to say, I'm careful. And I should be. Maybe the Dream Dom is just that, a dream. Maybe he should be a fantasy, and nothing more. Like all those "Daddy/Little Girl" roleplay fantasies I've gotten all excited over....
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