bindmysoul61

Male Submissive, 40, L, Tennessee

Male Submissive, 43, Tulsa, Oklahoma

Male Submissive, 34

Securely landed in Troy, NY. still need to get settled before I can give anyonethe attention they might deserve. I am NOT lookingfor an owner.I am simply looking for someone to accompany me to munches, play spaces and events.

August 30 is the official moving day. Troy, NY here I come. Home where I belong.

Working towards moving back to the Albany, NY area.

Everything on hold, as a change of location may be imminent.

Sex isn't on the menu. Hell, I'm not sure if I'm even on the menu anyone.

Why would someone be an admirer and stop talking to me?

Am I being unreasonable when I insist on getting to know someone before jumping into bed with them?

Won't have much time to devote to being here. Family medical emergency has cropped up. Thank you for your understanding.

Who knew, dolphins can be poly!

Just a general fyi, sending me a dick pic will NOT impress me.

Why is it o.k. for you to say that you are looking to own a submissive or slave, but it's not o.k. for me to say I'm not looking for an owner? I know myself well enough to know what I do or don't want.

It would be wonderful if collarspace would let me search for dominant men willing to relocate.

It would be wonderful if collarspace would let me search for dominant men willing to relocate.

Sometimes, just when you think your way of thinking may change, something happens to remind you that your original thought process was the right one after all. And you're not sure if you should be happy about it or not.

If you wonder why people have trust issues, when someone says that something will happen and it doesn't, it sets off all kinds of red flags. Now if you think this might possibly refer to you, it probably does,.

Again, for those that don't understand, unless you are dominant and looking to relocate or visit the area, we are not a match. I wish you well in your search.

You talk about honor and honesty and how much integrity you have. Yet when you're no longer interested in someone, you don't even have balls enough to say so. You just leave them hanging. How honorable, and honest is that? Says a lot about your integrity too. Such a very sad impression., but at least I now know the truth.

I find it funny when people are looking for a real time relationship and you invite them to meet and you never hear from them again. Kinda makes me go hmmmmm...

Ok. Just a quick recap. I am not looking for an owner.nor am I going to relocate, anywhere. I am looking for friends to attend munches, play spaces and events with. playtime does not equal, lead to, or mean sex. I am no more going to jump into bed with a stranger than I am going to play with someone I don't know. Just a few more reminders, you are not my owner, which means I choose to do as you ask (NOT orderr), and at my age,62, the term "girl" is hardly appropriate. One more thing, I am a larger woman. And pictures may be found on my original bindmysoul collarspace profile, which I can't access anymore. And on my profile, bindmysoul. I sm the brunette.

I decided to put as much effort into contacting you as you do with me...that's why we don't talk anymore. Saw this on Facebook and it definitely fits here.

Collarspace has a habit of shutting down when I'm in the process of sending a message. Therefore I sometimes send them multiple times. I try to catch it when I can. Sorry if you get duplicate or more messages from me.

Do I need you to complete me? Not at all. Would I like my life to be enhanced with your presence? Very much. I am complete in and of myself. I would like to meet people that will enrich and enhance my life. Is that you?

If we have been conversing and there's been no contact from you in over a week I can only assume that you are no longer interested in developing a friendship and I wish you well in your search.

I want to love to the point of madness

Am I really that out of touch? In the "good old days" when someone wanted to develop a friendship, they actually made an effort to keep in touch. Now a days, not so much.

My phone and collarspace are not getting along lately. I can also be found on . My name there is bindmysoul

My phone and collarspace are not getting along lately. I can also be found on . My name there is bindmysoul

Not sure if collarspace is working for me.

Participation in the community is a must for me. I would call it a deal breaker. I am looking for an intimate relationship which includes sharing the community. It doesn't include ownership at this time. I have been officially single since June. I am a larger woman. My fetlife profile may be found under bindmysoul. That is also my previous collarspace account which for some reason I can't access anymore. Pics can be found there. I am the brunette.

Happy and healthy 2016 everyone

Seasons Beatings everyone!

Accountability = Owning your shit just sayin...

Amazing how people get insulting when you call them out on their shit. The funniest thing is that in order for your insults to be effective i have to actually give a crap about what you think.

Amazing how people get insulting when you call them out on their shit. The funniest thing is that in order for your insults to be effective i have to actually give a crap about what you think.

I am feeling frustrated and confused. To me a large part of the lifestyle has to do with accountability. For example, when someone tells you "we'll talk", for some bizarre reason, I honestly expect us to talk. If someone expresses an interest, I actually expect that they will find time to get in touch, not disappear for days or weeks at a time. Yes I'm older and a large person. That in NO WAY equates with desperate. So if you think that I'm going to accept this type of treatment, think again. I value myself munch tpp much to put up with your bullshit.

I don't know why, but for some reason today i feel like saying "either put up or shut up". Not referring to anyone, just the way I feel.

Do people really expect someone to give out their phone number on demand? Unbelievable.

Reinventing the wheel is not something I do well. In fact when asked info that I have already given elsewhere, it ticks me off. Maybe it's me, but if someone wants to know something badly enough, they should make the effort to find out for themselves and not wait to be spoon fed like a child. I resent the apparent lack of respect for my time. Additionally, in my opinion, you look lazy and rather dumb. Personally, a lazy person doesn't interest me. If I take the time to provide information, the least you can do is read it. This may be harsh, but it's the way I feel about it. Of course, as always, your mileage may vary. Please enjoy your day.

The picture is old, but I mostly haven't changed, other than a weight loss of about 100 pounds. Am still a large woman with more to lose.

Hmmm, where to start. .. I've been avoiding another relationship for the past 4 months or so. So, where does that leave me? I think I may be ready to step it up a notch. Does that mean I'm ready for another owner? Not quite yet. But i am ready for an intimate relationship. What that means exactly is up for negotiation. I am still very open to play partners.

For a, variety of reasons, I am not looking to relocate.

Just fyi if you're expecting sex as part of our play (IF we play), please don't waste your time. It's NOT going to happen.

Please don't be offended when i deny your chat request. I only have access to the internet via my cell phone and chat doesn't work for me.

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