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Male Dominant, 57, Toronto
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About bigtexan1
*Edit* - I wrote the below intro before fully realizing what I was. No, I simply cannot submit to a woman. Not in that sense of submission at least. I have been looking all along for that Gomez and Morticia type of relationship. A relationship of mutual power exchange. I have realized that even in such a dynamic, ultimately I am the one who decides the rules. That makes me dominant, not submissive, though I find the word cringey, especially considering some of the "men" who apply that label to themselves. I would advise some of you "submissive" women to reassess your true orientation because I can tell you, a lot of you are not submissive. Another reason I am changing my label is because I derive pleasure from being the one who provides pleasure to the woman, and I believe that role is more accurately ascribed to the "dominant", not the "submissive". Incidentally, many "submissives", both male and female, are simply selfish lovers. I will leave my original deion below because it will show you perhaps I am not just a typical one-dimensional "dominant" douche, but one who deeply desires a woman who is every bit as strong and giving as I am.
I'm recognizing my deep-seated need to submit to a superior female. Note the word “superior”. Just as dominant women place no value on a man who indiscriminately throws himself at the feet of any woman, I place little value on fake dominants who, like their male counterparts, put on the “alpha” facade but don’t have the figurative “balls” or brains to back it up. If you have the intelligence and character to back your bossiness, you can have me like putty in your hands. You can treat me in ways that I’d never let a man treat me, and I will shake with adrenaline and burning desire for you, and only you, my undoing, my femme fatale. |
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