I am kind. I am polite, I am gracious, I can be harsh, I can by snide, I can be absolutely wonderful. I can be what you want, or nothing of what you want. It is how we react to each other, and that is what makes the difference.

In the past, I have thought of myself as one who tops from the bottom. I’m only working off past experience here and trying to place a label on myself that others would understand. I now think that this label is up for debate. I want exactly what I want, the way I want it. I don’t think this is topping from the bottom any longer as I have always been a dominant personality. I think that if you have more knowledge than I do on something, I’m willing to learn about it, but this does not make me less dominant, it only means that I have good judgment.

At this point in time, I am on a learning curve, even though I have past experience. Not in who I am, only the label of what that is.