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scarsofpassion
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I am married. I am *not* interested in a unicorn. That particular practice is misogynistic, and inconsiderate of the other partner.
sensual top with many years in the lifestyle. I know that there are plenty out there who consider sensualism to be not real dominance, and quite frankly, theyre both boring, and missing out. I used to be more of a sadist, but nowadays, I much prefer to deal with the other end of the sensation spectrum, preferably to the point of overload. I find that repeated, intense stimulation, and climaxes, make for a fun time.
Especially if they can be reached without physical touch. Yes.
Sensualism, to me, means to gain dominance through seduction, rapport, and empathy,.rather than aggression or domineering. It is about convincing a submissive to give herself up, rather than cowing her into submitting. It should be a journey that ends with both parties happy, and a submissive who is confident, both in herself, and in the experience she had.
And of course, communication, communication, communication. That is key to all good relationships, but especially this kind.
So if youre looking for the Marquis De Sade, this probably isnt the stop for you.
Of course, that doesnt stop me from enjoying laying down a good spanking, or engaging in some cropping, or similar occasionally. Tigers dont change their stripes, and Sadism can still be part of a healthy, sensual play relationship. Its all about the dynamic,and consent.
My primary kinks are auralism, and sensualism. Sound, and sensation.
As a person, I pride myself on being a great listener. If you want to talk, Im here to listen. Id like to hear about your day, previous life experience, favorite color, or, if youd like to go deeper, relationship dynamics, duality, self-improvement, or, really, anything that makes for a good, late-night talk. People are interesting to me, especially those of us who choose to walk this path.
I am blunt, and irreverent, but not disrespectful. I do not punch down, and if you are intolerant feel free to GFY.
I also believe that a laugh is the best way to begin a conversation, and the second best way to end one.
If you want to know more, ask. I never really got the hang of the whole profile thing, but Im able to hold up my end of a conversation.
And I dont bite.....until after boundaries are clearly negotiated and established.
Gamer and herbal friendly
Why is that you can drink a drink, but you cant food a food?
-Jaden Smith, I think
Say my name
Heisenberg
Youre god damned right
-Walter White, Breaking Bad
Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls the most massive characters are seared with scars.
-Khalil Gibran
Aut tace aut loquere meliora silencio
-Nassim Nicholas Taleb
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I have changed so much since coming here.
Unfortunately, it is almost impossible to edit profiles, so it's very hard to keep up with listing them.
Once upon a time, I was a monogamous sadist.
I am currently a hypnotist, and poly. My Poly may become a household.. My absolute favorite form of play is restraining a partner, and making them cum until they can't talk anymore. |
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Profile just rebuilt. New pictures incoming soon. |
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| Age: 35 |
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