BigDaddyA

Fifty Shades of Grey by E. L. James seems to be all the crave.

I know people who are reading it right now and they are amazed. They say ho it is awesome and they love it.

Well let me stop you right there

The WANNABES are coming out of the woodwork. They want to try it. They want to see what it would be like.

This way of life is not for everyone nor is it something to take lightly. You need to stop and think.

You read things in a book and YOUR mind sees it one way. You do not actually see what the author is saying. You cannot see the reality of it. Your mind sees it the way YOU are wired to see it.

A little example for you:

A Vanilla reads the book.They post on a social website: "Where is my Fifty?"

Now what exactly is this Vanilla looking for? Are they looking for the romance, the control, the submission, the pain, ....... you understand what I am saying.

So you introduce your world to theirs and you can see the fear and doubt. You start telling them what all it involves and they look horrified and they try to hide the emotions because they do not understand.

They tell you it is what they want........

Let me stop you again

People like this need to read their little story, roll over in bed, masturbate to their thoughts, and DROP it right there. Keep your wannabe inner deamons to yourself. Do your research, talk to people in the community, and most of all do your research.

Some can handle it. Some have been missing this as part of their life for a long time. But they still do not understand the RULES.

I am BigDaddyA and I approve this message

Let me say this before I get another msg.

By all means explore this if you wish. But PLEASE do it for the right reasons. Make sure this is something you would want for you and not just because you read it in a book.