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Male Submissive, 47, Watertown, Connecticut
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Male Submissive, 32, Grand Rapids, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 49, Bolton
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About BigAl56
I'm pretty much a shoot-from-the-hip, no bullshit sort of person. I say what I mean, and mean what I say...and follow through on my commitments.
Yes, there's no photo at the moment, but that's a professional matter. Unfortunately, I'm fairly well known in my local community, and the vanilla world in which I make my living frowns on activities such as those on this site enjoy. I make a decent living and have no desire to risk potential career ruin; hence, no photo. Perhaps later, or in the event a connection is made, a photo could be provided.
I'm a life-long dominant, both in my business and social lives (which I tend to keep as separate as possible), and a widower, having lost the love of my life several years ago to the Big C. She was my high school sweetheart and a life-long submissive.
Home is a quiet, comfortable place in the Colorado mountains, where I can watch deer, elk and the occasional brown bear or bighorn sheep from my back deck while relaxing with my morning coffee without the intrusion of noisy neighbors or highway traffic...far enough from anyone to be considered secluded, yet less than an hour's drive from "civilization." I fish but don't hunt; ski Nordic but not downhill; write but don't publish; sing but not well (dogs tend to cover their ears around my singing). I have a dry sense of humor, though at the moment, am in a rather melancholy mood, as you might be able to discern.
I am a quiet man, often found spending my evenings listening to music, watching a movie, or reading a good book; I enjoy many types of literature, but historical novels in particular. My taste is music also runs the gamut from classical to hard rock, though I generally don't care for rap or hip-hop. I also enjoy a fine cigar (never in the house, though) and mellow, aged Scotch whiskey. The two do seem to just go well together, don't they? In the warmer weather - and sometimes in the autumn and early spring - I'll sit by my outdoor fireplace, just having a drink, a cigar, and listening to the sounds of nature.
If safety, security and this sort of live appeals to you, please feel free follow up with message. Age, ethnicity and appearance aren't all that important; a truly submissive attitude and a strong desire to serve are all that are required.
I expect to go into semi-active retirement soon (I doubt I'll ever be fully retired), andseeking someone to share my time with. Someone who is willing to put her own desires and needs aside for me. Ideally, someone who can cook (though I'm willing to teach the right person), and who is attentive to the small details. Someone who knows what a truly clean home means, and who understands how important it is to be an attractive, attentive companion. Someone who can converse intelligently, yet instinctively knows when I don't want to be disturbed. Someone who can anticipate my needs and understands that there's more to submission than sex.
Now, while this may sound like a life of drudgery and housework, I assure you, it is not. I travel extensively, and expect the woman I find to be the perfect travel companion. While I don't fly first class often, I avoid crowded commuter flights and actually prefer more sedate modes of transportation. I may fly to a destination, but once there, use the more colorful, local means of getting around. A desire for excitement is necessary, though I'm not one of those extreme "Let's backpack our way through Peru"or go bungee-jumping off a cliff in the Amazon types. |
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