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I am seeking a powerful business/public woman who needs to be less in private. Someone who has two sides to her personality. Powerful business woman/student ut when with her master is worthless, there to please and serve. I have trained subs in the past who fit this profile and love knowing how powerful your submissive side can be. I want a local submissive to build a relationship with.. Someone who is comfortable taking direction, pleasing and understands the submissive's role in a Dom/Sub relationship . Dress, access, how you perform will be dictated by me, and pleasure..for both of us....will follow. Yes I am married. My wife is fully aware of this post and my search for a submissive. My wife was severely abused as a child and avoids sex due to the flashbacks. We have agreed that I need someone to fulfill my needs.
If dress/performance is lacking, discipline may be used as a training tool. I am NOT brutal. Brutality equates to abuse and that is never part of the picture. I look forward to hearing from all who would like to serve. Age is irrelevant.
Photo is available on request.
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I find it interesting that submissives post on here, ask to be contacted, are written and never open the mail. It's ok to not be interested, but at least have the courtesy of reading the email, and saying no thank you. Maybe you have 100 posts. I understand, but i find it irritating to spend time writing only to be ignored. Not exactly what a submissive is all about. I will find someone. Of that I'm sure. It's just a matter of finding a submissive who is understanding and knows their role. |
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Ok, I don't get it. Your on this site looking for someone. Someone sends you a message and after a month you don't open, let alone read it. This makes no sense to me. Your looking or your not, If your not, say so in your profile. If age is an issue, say that too. Why waste time. If you are truly submissive, you should be respectful of any Dom who reaches out to you. Not everyone is a match, that's fine by me. But the number of fakes on here who don't even show the respect of reading a message and saying no thank you is irritating at best. |
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I have to admit that I don't understand. Someone has a profile, says they are looking for a Dom/Master/Owner, you write them a nice long polite email and they never open it. If your a true submissive I would expect that courtesy would be key to your background and training. Open it, read it, if your not interested, a polite note saying "no thank you" would be appreciated. To do anything else is just showing disrespect to the person you got mail from. On the other hand, if the email is rude, insulting, disrespectful, feel free to block them, and move on. |
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It's been a while since I posted anything. Dom/65 in Grand Rapids looking for a submissive to train, Age doesn't matter, it's attitude, needs and desire on her part that is. I am confused by why people are on here, you write them, they never read the email. What's the point if your not going to read and communicate with others? Even a polite no thank you says a lot about who you are and your level of seriousness in serving. That said, I look forward to chatting/meeting someone who is serious about being trained as a submissive. |
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It's interesting that so many have profiles yet never read their mail. Why is that, how do you find someone without reading about them? I will never understand that issue. |
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I'm back. My search for a submissive was delayed due to business concerns. I am confused however by the lack of courtesy on collarme. Even if someone isn't interested a polite no thank you is appropriate. To simply ignore someone is rude and any submissive should understand that being rude is not who they are. Unlike brutal, rude Dom's I focus on making my submissive comfortable and in an environment to grow, learn about your submission and learn how to properly serve. I hope, one of these days, some one will be polite enough to write, even a no thank you would be appreciated.
More importantly, if someone is interested in finding a master, write and let's talk. I am looking for local in the Grand Rapids MI area only. I hope to hear from you. |
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Am I missing something? I have gotten a flurry of Viewings from Domme's. I'm a Dom myself, not a switch and my profile is classified as such. I don't understand wasting time on viewing someones profile who isn't remotely in your interest range. Oh well, freedom to surf I guess. |
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No journal entries for a long time. What happened to simple respect? Both on the part of dom's who are rude when a polite no thanks is sent (from reading subs journals) to subs who say they are looking but after a thoughtful response, don't have the courtesy to reply. Even a no thank you is better than being ignored. Maybe this is a statement of society as a whole. What's in it for me, if I don't see it, i ignore it. Oh well. |
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I am so tired of writing long, detailed e-mails to subs in my area see they read them, and didn't have the courtesy to respond. I believe that even a simple, thank you for your interest but I am not interested is not asking to much. I see complaint after complaint from Subs and Slaves indicating they get short e-mails, one liners, no reference to their profile (if there is one) yet, when someone takes the time to read, respond they ignore them. Ok, maybe you do get 100 a day. But for those who are short, ignorant, ignore them. For those of us who take the time to respond with a thoughtful response, a simple thanks but no thanks is all I ask. |
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I wonder what happened to being polite. I have written a couple of subs in my immediate area (no one more than 1 hour away), wrote a long description of myself as a dom, my interests and as my profile states, explained I'm married and in an open marriage. I only asked if they would write and say no thank you if not interested. What's wrong with being polite! Just answer, "thank you for the interest, however I'm not interested" Is that asking too much? |
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I have been training a sub I recently met. Sadly she is a fair distance away, but is struggling to understand her daytime "vanilla" life, power as a business owner/woman when compared with her submissive, hidden inner self.
Through our conversations she has come to understand that someone can possess both dominance and submission. Not as a switch necessarily, but one aspect of life when compared to another. She has learned to serve, honor, respect and I hope to meet one day. I am, however, still looking for someone near me to train and to serve. |
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The search for a sub is a complicated activity. Submission in my mind is a gift. The giving of one to another to control, guide, and use. I read some other profiles and think to myself "these people are just mean not dominant".
I want a sub that can accept my dominance, and through her service, please me. Honor is a two way street, respect is a two way street in a dom/sub relationship. Finding someone is never easy. Life is complicated on both sides of the fence but with dedication, persistance I know I will find a qualified sub to enjoy. |
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| Age: 23 |
| Albany,
New York |
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